petkoffdrake2:


Stop looking at me with dat ur sexy eye... Am not d op.. Look at d op while talking

lolzzzz you just cracked my ribs. who is looking at you? from where, when and how? me I no be winch o.

sirhot:
I'm total jor... Tall, handsome, rich , intelligent, smart etc etc

Real nigga,ma nigga hit the nail on the head

DipoDee:


You know people come online to live their dreams, the poor claim to be billionaires, the plain claim to be pretty and the slow claim to be sharp...it's all good as long as the lies give them joy.
But then, people like Sirhot who bring life issues here and begin to mix issues like weight with talks of love, I don't just gerrit. A grown man should know better. You love people for who they are and who you know they can become. You don't begin to attach love with wealth, colour, class, beauty or whatnots.
Love is completely unmindful of physical attributes. Which is why a man can still love his woman after she gets completely burnt and disfigured in a fire accident....why the guy with no limbs is married and happy..

Not these bullshit about loving someone and forcing them to lose weight...too many what-ifs.

This girl can still blow up, then what?
Even very slim girls tend to blow up when they age, so why don't people just STFU and stop saying they are in love when they know nothing about love.

right in the hole!!!! Now here is one intellectual piece of truth,people living fake lives as though it alleviates their miseries,what more can i say?you v said it all brother,a smart brilliant mind doesnt blow his trumpet,the world does and he sits back and watch,thumbs up bro,you just made my day:true.

sirhot:
I'm total jor... Tall, handsome, rich , intelligent, smart etc etc

Is dat all that makes u total?? And wat are the etc etc

Estharfabian:
Some men Love 'em big...some love 'em small...its your preference. Ain't Your fault.


However, please don't lead her on. Coz U Obviously do not LOVE her..All You care about is her body. that isn't Love...



go look for a skinny lady to mess with.
LEAVE HER ALONE!!!!

I disagree to some extent tho....

The fact that he's worried about her size shows no signs of Negativity.. If he doesnt Love nor care about her, he won't be planning of a future with her...

Thing is: She needs to work-out alot and be serious with it(not stop half-way) and prolly continue after Marriage.. No man wants his wife to be outta shape or Unattractive after Marriage...

sirhot:
yes, she's beautiful dear, she's losing weight and her beauty and shape is coming out! I'm just worried if she'll continue to be discipline.

Okay.... Continue to Encourage her.... With you by her side she will do better.....You might be surprised by her body shape in the next few years....

She is definitely going to get fatter and fatter.

sirhot:
Hmmm... Should I say I've fallen or I fell but then I have this friend I'm getting used to but she has a tendency of becoming very fat! I like her personality, her drive, her intelligence but her size worries me.

Her sisters are all fat and when I noticed this i started talking to her about reducing her weight which she has agreed and is currently working on it! I don't like fat girls but iI'm worried she might not be able to reduce much since it's somehow genetic. She was already getting big but has started reducing. But I'm still worried especially after child birth, she might explode!

Should I overlook this for the other good qualities of hers? Why can't i have everything in one package? Advice please.

BlackMaria:

Send me her details via pm. I love fat ladies with all the qualities,u mentioned above.
I will be so grateful.

My kind of guy

tohphunmie,
I said grow some flesh, not grow fat oh. A word is enough to the wise :p

Bamz:

My kind of guy

Broda,i troway salute.

Bamz:

My kind of guy

Broda,i troway salute.

sirhot:
Hmmm... Should I say I've fallen or I fell but then I have this friend I'm getting used to but she has a tendency of becoming very fat! I like her personality, her drive, her intelligence but her size worries me.

Her sisters are all fat and when I noticed this i started talking to her about reducing her weight which she has agreed and is currently working on it! I don't like fat girls but iI'm worried she might not be able to reduce much since it's somehow genetic. She was already getting big but has started reducing. But I'm still worried especially after child birth, she might explode!

Should I overlook this for the other good qualities of hers? Why can't i have everything in one package? Advice please.

....OP, forget about her size. Try to make sure that her konji junction is extra thick. This will make her to be able to withstand extreme fire from ur pipe...
..Good luck and happy firings....
....

She is fat and will get fatter. It is not genetic. but it will happen. accept it and decide what to do next.

Bro theres no perfect person,just let her go if u dont want to live d rest of ur life in regret tho

sirhot:
There's no slim girl, they all get fat after child birth, the size is not what matters

Why are you contradicting yourself? You are very confused youngman.

iamrealdeji:
Real nigga,ma nigga hit the nail on the head

yo... Mehn.. What's up?

missyQween:




Okay.... Continue to Encourage her.... With you by her side she will do better.....You might be surprised by her body shape in the next few years....

Thanks dear...

sirhot:
Hmmm... Should I say I've fallen or I fell but then I have this friend I'm getting used to but she has a tendency of becoming very fat! I like her personality, her drive, her intelligence but her size worries me.

Her sisters are all fat and when I noticed this i started talking to her about reducing her weight which she has agreed and is currently working on it! I don't like fat girls but iI'm worried she might not be able to reduce much since it's somehow genetic. She was already getting big but has started reducing. But I'm still worried especially after child birth, she might explode!

Should I overlook this for the other good qualities of hers? Why can't i have everything in one package? Advice please.

You had better leave that girl alone, someone out there will love her unconditionally. This is how it starts then 3 years down the line we start hearing all sort of rubbish about having a fat girl.

U cannot eat your cake and have it.im sure ure not perfect either,just don't enter d kitchen if u can't stand the heat.

You see eh, you're my brother. Giving the signs you have seen yourself, its best you leave the girl. But before you do, please send me her number. Because I wonder why you could be so daft to be asking this silly question on nairaland when her heart is what matters and not her size. I mean no insult, I'm just pissed.

marlvis:
guy if ya into the bae stop wasting her time




wat those her weight got to do with d love u feel for her

you right dear.

Bamz:


My kind of guy

tohphunmie,
I said grow some flesh, not grow fat oh. A word is enough to the wise :p

okay sir...lol

My guy, you might even get a slim gurl to marry, after her first child birth She may explodes beyond control. So let love lead U and not size.

sirhot:
I'm total jor... Tall, handsome, rich , intelligent, smart etc etc

arrogant vain superficial and unserious. Still think u are the total package?

obizzy:
it has everything to do with it miss.

Op clearly stated that he likes all of the babe- her demeanour and all. So its not a case of lust.
We cant get the full package,i know but op sees her condition as something that can be changed for the better. Staying fat isnt healthy,regardless of if it runs in the family or nah. I particularly dont like fat girls but if i see one who is sweet and caring,being a workout freak i could change her to one sexy woman. That way she'll feel more comfortable and confident about her body. I'l love her even more. Every1 will be happy. Ce fini.

just stick with ur bony girls biko before u ruin someone's self esteem in ur bid to change her. Change ko Sai baba ni!

sirhot:
Thanks dear...

Uwlc

sirhot:
Thanks dear...

Uwlc

jojosweet:
just stick with ur bony girls biko before u ruin someone's self esteem in ur bid to change her. Change ko Sai baba ni!

who is this fat,bag of filth quoting me? Away! Go back into your shell! You're taking too much space. Your comment is making my phone hang sef. Be gone!!!

Some post self....He don't love her cos he doesn't like her chbby shape huh?.........Bros If U don't like the body,nothing is wrong if you worry about it....................Just make her love fitness and do it steady......#Lucks

Estharfabian:
Some men Love 'em big...some love 'em small...its your preference. Ain't Your fault.


However, please don't lead her on. Coz U Obviously do not LOVE her..All You care about is her body. that isn't Love...



go look for a skinny lady to mess with.
LEAVE HER ALONE!!!!

Some ladies are funny! Am sure the OP knows what he wants, and really likes the lady (can't say love) and here you are talking like he wants a one-night stand!

OP, I feel you should tell her your feelings and stop the relationship. I understand your feelings about her and am sure that she is a good woman but seriously if you can't stand fat women, then forget about the relationship, so that you won't have issues in the future.

diamond88:


Fat lady are down to heart, caring and can be trusted so much. They don't have tendency to cheat unlike slim one. Open u can't have it all. U have to choose one. For me I go for anyone. If u a fat lady am ready

na u worse pass op

sirhot:
Hmmm... Should I say I've fallen or I fell but then I have this friend I'm getting used to but she has a tendency of becoming very fat! I like her personality, her drive, her intelligence but her size worries me.

Her sisters are all fat and when I noticed this i started talking to her about reducing her weight which she has agreed and is currently working on it! I don't like fat girls but iI'm worried she might not be able to reduce much since it's somehow genetic. She was already getting big but has started reducing. But I'm still worried especially after child birth, she might explode!

Should I overlook this for the other good qualities of hers? Why can't i have everything in one package? Advice please.

hmm my dear pls leave her alone, u don't love her @ all, let her meet som1 who will love her d way she is

Estharfabian:
Some men Love 'em big...some love 'em small...its your preference. Ain't Your fault.


However, please don't lead her on. Coz U Obviously do not LOVE her..All You care about is her body. that isn't Love...



go look for a skinny lady to mess with.
LEAVE HER ALONE!!!!

you too LEAVE THEM ALONE!!

Why would you be giving that kind of advice with all the commitments and togethernes they both had. Leaving her now would mean breaking her heart. And you know ladies that finds it hard to move on after they got their heart always resort to excessive eating due to the trauma; adding more and more weight compared to that of an eleph...

I guess youl'd be more happy when it happens?

sirhot:
I'm total jor... Tall, handsome, rich , intelligent, smart etc etc

Some girls love short guys, some don't like guys who are too smart.

So you see