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Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by Samhyme: 1:36pm On Apr 15, 2016
Please Advice “I’m 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?” While growing up I felt so different and did things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my class mates in sec school would say I have a unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about myself especially the ability to control how I feel generally. I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist certain temptations was because I had self control. Growing up in a Christian home their are things we don’t ask mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller scrotum but I didn’t feel something was wrong with me. All these years I never understood I had a real problem. Am all grown now but I can’t keep a relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke about how unlucky I was with finding a good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs without sex. It wasn’t a problem for me I don’t know what sex feels like but it was to her and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I don’t and she began to wonder if I was a man.
First time we tried s*x I couldn’t get er3cted, I felt it was anxiety and she was supportive. Second and third was worse but we kept trying. She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because I am not okay. S*x ended up being an issue and we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last girl said it to my face “YOU ARE IMPOTENT” And that was when it occurred to me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and after the blood test it was confirmed I had low T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn’t believe I had a problem like this until I did a sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further test showed I had Hypogondasim, it’s yet unknown if it’s secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that road where u look back and ask life What did I do to deserve this? How do I convince a girl to even accept to marry me? Is their really a God? Why am I a man if God won’t give me what I need to become a man. Every solution I have heard so for is impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my joystick to stay up before s*x? Alpha blockers like viagra has no effect on me at all. Apart from s*xual performance secience is yet to understand male fertility and alot of things will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it’s so simple as doctor’s will easily say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child some never have a child and just adopt. Why are their so many drugs and injections if one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my life, I see no point making all these money and sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.
Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by Nobody: 1:39pm On Apr 15, 2016
Mmmm...I bet this is not ur story OP? cool

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Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by Samhyme: 1:41pm On Apr 15, 2016
I'm not the one o....it is for another brother who need your advice pls.
Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by Nobody: 1:44pm On Apr 15, 2016
Samhyme:
I'm not the one o....it is for another brother who need your advice pls.

Tell him to go for deliverance at Mountain of Fire
Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by Nobody: 1:46pm On Apr 15, 2016
Samhyme:
I'm not the one o....it is for another brother who need your advice pls.



Ooohh...I see.. cool juz tell ur bruh I'm here grin... ryt here on ur thread waiting & tell him that killing himself is not the answer to his problem... angry

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Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by ify2nyce(f): 1:47pm On Apr 15, 2016
copy and paste







old goat
Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by Nobody: 1:47pm On Apr 15, 2016
BreadandBeans:


Tell him to go for deliverance at Mountain of Fire



Mmm...so u go to tabernacle of mountain of fire? grin
Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by xxxangel(m): 1:52pm On Apr 15, 2016
Eleyi dikwa serious..... Marry a woman who already have kids from her previous to avoid pressure... my opinion though
Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by Nobody: 1:56pm On Apr 15, 2016
KashyBaby:




Mmm...so u go to tabernacle of mountain of fire? grin

Lol,, nope.. I was only giving the OP a suggestion

And besides, I haven't heard of tabernacle of mountain of fire before o.. The one I know is Mountain of fire and miracle ministry
Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by Nobody: 1:59pm On Apr 15, 2016
BreadandBeans:


Lol,, nope.. I was only giving the OP a suggestion

And besides, I haven't heard of tabernacle of mountain of fire before o.. The one I know is Mountain of fire and miracle ministry




Hahahhahahaa...ooh sorry, maybe thats the one.. tongue my bad,I murdered it..

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Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by MrCork: 2:11pm On Apr 15, 2016
Samhyme:
Please Advice “I’m 24 And
Impotent, Is There Really God?”
While growing up I felt so different and did
things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my
class mates in sec school would say I have a
unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about
myself especially the ability to control how I
feel generally.
I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls
easily throw themselves at, again I felt my
ability to resist certain temptations was
because I had self control. Growing up in a
Christian home their are things we don’t ask
mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice
I had a smaller scrotum but I didn’t feel
something was wrong with me. All these years I
never understood I had a real problem.
Am all grown now but I can’t keep a
relationship!! My siblings will always crack a
joke about how unlucky I was with finding a
good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very
loving and caring young girl. We started off for
2yrs without sex. It wasn’t a problem for me I
don’t know what sex feels like but it was to her
and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose
her if I don’t and she began to wonder if I was a
man.

First time we tried s*x I couldn’t get er3cted, I
felt it was anxiety and she was supportive.
Second and third was worse but we kept trying.
She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because
I am not okay. S*x ended up being an issue and
we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last
girl said it to my face “YOU ARE
IMPOTENT” And that was when it occurred to
me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and
after the blood test it was confirmed I had low
T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn’t
believe I had a problem like this until I did a
sperm analysis.
I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further
test showed I had Hypogondasim, it’s yet
unknown if it’s secondary or primary
Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that
road where u look back and ask life
What did I do to deserve this?
How do I convince a girl to even accept to
marry me?
Is their really a God?
Why am I a man if God won’t give me what I
need to become a man.
Every solution I have heard so for is impractical,
expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting
testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make
love to your wife? Or injecting my joystick to
stay up before s*x? Alpha blockers like viagra
has no effect on me at all.
Apart from s*xual performance secience is yet
to understand male fertility and alot of things
will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it’s
so simple as doctor’s will easily say why are
their cases of 25yrs without a child some never
have a child and just adopt.
Why are their so many drugs and injections if
one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my
life, I see no point making all these money and
sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.



....bro i can recomend 3 chicks on nairaland: ...Hateu2, Onstelly or Refiner.......Truss me....yor **kondo** will standddup!! wink
Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by vicechancellor(m): 2:17pm On Apr 15, 2016
MrCork:




....bro i can recomend 3 chicks on nairaland: ...Hateu2, Onstelly or Refiner.......Truss me....yor **kondo** will standddup!! wink
so you sef dey eye refiner?
Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by MrCork: 2:26pm On Apr 15, 2016
vicechancellor:
so you sef dey eye refiner?


...correction...Refiner is one of my babes! angry
Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by Nobody: 2:26pm On Apr 15, 2016
Samhyme:
I'm not the one o....it is for another brother who need your advice pls.
This topic made front page on monday
Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by Nobody: 2:32pm On Apr 15, 2016
MrCork:




....bro i can recomend 3 chicks on nairaland: ...Ha.teu2, Onst.elly or Refin.er.......Truss me....yor **kondo** will standddup!! wink
Are u sure you are okaay at all undecided
I mean ur head

Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by MrCork: 2:38pm On Apr 15, 2016
HateU2:
Are u sure you are okaay at all undecided
I mean ur head


..but why are u vex?...are u not strong enough to make Samhyme *kndo* standddup? embarassed
Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by izonlucky01(m): 2:40pm On Apr 15, 2016
If that your friend is in PH tell him to inbox me. Once he sees my pastor his problem will be over cool
Re: Please Advice ''i'm 24 And Impotent, Is There Really God?" by kemiwealth: 3:16pm On Apr 15, 2016
This is sooo pathetic.... u can't kip this to ur self, u hv to tell ur mum in order to help u find solution to ur prob.......u nid to take medical and spiritual steps ......there is nothing prayer cannot doooo............it is wellllllll

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