Lol......

Bros abeg to settle matter which tribe is that? I mean the local language she uses... That will go a long way in helping

Stay in your room to avoid further embarrassment

zanebaddo:
This Is getting on my nerves and I don't want to fall out with anyone on matters I consider silly.

Recently moved to a new city to stay with a relative of mine. He's married but hardly stays around. He travels across States so he is always away most of the time leaving me with his wife and children at home. His wife's niece and elder sister also stay with us .

I wouldn't know why these ladies prefer bathing outside most of the time when we have two nice bathrooms in the house. There are no tenants just us. My relative owns the house. They do it in the night(the generator is always on with the lights on as well) and early in the morning. The other day the wife nearly brought down the roof because I came out in the morning to ask her some questions without having the idea they were bathing as usual, she barked!!! I was so ashamed, how was I supposed to know? I swallowed the insults she ran on me in her local language which I don't understand. it didn't stop there.

On another occasion I was coming back from somewhere around 8pm, knocked on the gate, they told me to wait outside that they just started bathing. Geez! ! Again? I didn't say anything I moved away and returned much later.

Yet again last night after dinner, had wanted to see her so I asked one the children where there mother was and she said outside. And I asked doing what? she said nothing. So I walked past the little girl, opened the door, lo and behold there she was undressing to bath, she saw me and started muttering some words again in her local disgusting language. I became furious but didn't utter a word I just banged the door and moved back to my room.


What nonsense!! I just can't understand why they can't adjust themselves to the reality that they now have a new person staying with them. I can't come out early in the morning (6am) and I can't come out in the night.


What Ya all have to say? KashyBaby, jadekitana etc.

Lol....how many times she shud bath?


This is only gonna work if u adjust the timing with her sensational bathing session...if every time like this, then u shud tell ur relative what's the real deal...otherwise, it will juz waste ur time waiting for her to finish her bathe before u can go out or come in the house..

KashyBaby:






Lol....how many times she shud bath?


This is only gonna work if u adjust the timing with her sensational bathing session...if every time like this, then u shud tell ur relative what's the real deal...otherwise, it will juz waste ur time waiting for her to finish her bathe before u can go out or come in the house..

my dear it's embarrassing, I even put up this thread to ask if bathing outside has some level of health benefits

Aristotle96:
Bros abeg to settle matter which tribe is that? I mean the local language she uses... That will go a long way in helping

edo

zanebaddo:
edo

hmm bros abeg I no follow again sev this one pass me




Unfollowimg the thread ASaaap

I sometimes bath outside but that was when I was 5years old

zanebaddo:
my dear it's embarrassing, I even put up this thread to ask if bathing outside has some level of health benefits

Lol....well may there's benefits on it...

Op. start planning your movement to someplace else

zanebaddo:
edo

which of the ethnic group? Edo is a state.

Maybe the heat is too much

ireneony:
which of the ethnic group? Edo is a state.

Maybe the heat is too much

I don't know her ethnic group..... did you say heat? The generator is always on, OK if you must stay outside why don't you and your sisters bath inside and come out to cool off

Just adjust your time with theirs. You're living as a guest sort of (the ladies inclusive) so I suggest you use wisdom and don't fuss and fight over this issue. You just might overstay your welcome if things get to a head courtesy of your impatience. Moreso, be careful it's two against one here. The public is predisposed to believing a lady when it comes to cases of sexual molestation which you could be accused of innocently if you do gra gra.

Be wise.

zanebaddo:
edo

Ah! I thought as much. Fetish people.

Bros you have not gotten an abode yet,start finding a new place ASAP. please dont ask me why else you ill'd land me trouble......Yours sincerely!

Their bathroom is stinking and unkept. The reason why she baths outside.

zanebaddo:
I don't know her ethnic group..... did you say heat? The generator is always on, OK if you must stay outside why don't you and your sisters bath inside and come out to cool off

That's women for you, they can make marriage to be scary and full of nightmares...

Their greatest achievement is to find a man and once that is done...O boy come and see the most foolish part of their lives...

Especially all those Edo ashis...

Mcheew...I dislike them

Adjust yourself

But what kinda bush people are those? They probably grew up bathing outside and couldn't get over the habit. I see no reason why they have 2 bathrooms and yet bath outside, that's some ancient mentality! But u gotta work with their timing to avoid issues, most times when u notice they ain't inside avoid going outside for a while. It's all about timing cos it's their house, you really can't bend their silly rule, just endure

zanebaddo:
This Is getting on my nerves and I don't want to fall out with anyone on matters I consider silly.

Recently moved to a new city to stay with a relative of mine. He's married but hardly stays around. He travels across States so he is always away most of the time leaving me with his wife and children at home. His wife's niece and elder sister also stay with us .

I wouldn't know why these ladies prefer bathing outside most of the time when we have two nice bathrooms in the house. There are no tenants just us. My relative owns the house. They do it in the night(the generator is always on with the lights on as well) and early in the morning. The other day the wife nearly brought down the roof because I came out in the morning to ask her some questions without having the idea they were bathing as usual, she barked!!! I was so ashamed, how was I supposed to know? I swallowed the insults she ran on me in her local language which I don't understand. it didn't stop there.

On another occasion I was coming back from somewhere around 8pm, knocked on the gate, they told me to wait outside that they just started bathing. Geez! ! Again? I didn't say anything I moved away and returned much later.

Yet again last night after dinner, had wanted to see her so I asked one of the children where their mother was and she said outside. And I asked doing what? she said nothing. So I walked past the little girl, opened the door, lo and behold there she was undressing to bath, she saw me and started muttering some words again in her local disgusting language. I became furious but didn't utter a word I just banged the door and moved back to my room.


What nonsense!! I just can't understand why they can't adjust themselves to the reality that they now have a new person staying with them. I can't come out early in the morning (6am) and I can't come out in the night.


What Ya all have to say? KashyBaby, jadekitana etc.

maybe it's a kind of ritual they do in their family, like a spiritual cleansing or something...

hustle and get a place of your own as soon as you can.

I see nothing bad in what they are doing. The only thing they ought to do, is to let you the period in the morning and night they will bath outside. You as well fix your schedule so you won't be bumping into them anymore. Lastly, bathing outside in the morning and evening gives a very nice and touchy feeling to the body. Those cold breeze blowing through their body could be what's keeping her from thinking about the absence of her husband. If you have experienced such before you will love bathing outside and come to appreciate nature the more.

Hmm. Funny situation

Get your own apartment

guy just stay outside(where they bath) from say 7pm to 10pm they can't do that in your present. NB. only if u av tym

you don't have a problem.. i wish i had a relative who i can stay with.. because here, there are little opportunities for graduates or I.T. Students.. Just bear with them, get what you came for, and zoom off....

mumumugu:
Get your own apartment

you think it's easy?

mumumugu:
Get your own apartment

you are funny

babs01:
guy just stay outside(where they bath) from say 7pm to 10pm they can't do that in your present. NB. only if u av tym

the woman will ask me to go inside, I don't stay outside with them anymore to avoid the embarrassment