There is this girl I am dating,we met not quite long and we are into a relationship but the problem I have with her is she's not caring;if I don't call her such that she missed the call she won't flash me let alone calling me and if I don't tell her to text me she won't text me, in short I can count the number of times she had called and texted me and I'm head over heels in love,I once thought I should reduce the number of messages I send to her and the number of calls but I don't know if it will make her change and she claimed she loves me please, what can I do?How do I handle her?

Mugu 1

Be a man, not a toddler.

Kookny:
Be a man, not a toddler.

What do you think I should do Bro?

You re simply not her priority....


Find solace somewhere else

Walk away and stop wasting your precious time with wrong person. She either not interested in you or you are forcing to be.

The truth is either you are not the kinda man she wants or She's got someone better than you

Don't over worry yourself because of woman


*think am*

Just like one girl I asked out for Two years...same attitude with your girl... Then I normally felt bad until she told my friend that "I love her" Buh she doesn't love me... that I'm too soft and fragile...
I just think the statement.... I relaxed and I stopped loving her...

So I'm saying leave her, dump her sorry ass before it's too late for you to handle

WAY TOO MANY GIRLS FOR YOU TO CHOOSE FROM

Pascaal:
What do you think I should do Bro?

I'm not a relationship expert. But I've got some ideas.

Pascaal:
There is this girl I am dating,we met not quite long and we are into a relationship

If I may ask, how long have you been in this "relationship"? Who defines this "relationship"? How did you meet? (Match making?)

but the problem I have with her is she's not caring;if I don't call her such that she missed the call she won't flash me let alone calling me and if I don't tell her to text me she won't text me, in short I can count the number of times she had called and texted me and I'm head over heels in love,I once thought I should reduce the number of messages I send to her and the number of calls but I don't know if it will make her change and she claimed she loves me

I see desperation, conspicuous. Hope this is not your first time of dating a girl!

Bro, see, as a man, try to always keep your cool. Never appear to be weak or soft. Disguise your deepest intentions, control your emotions. You never use words to tell à girl you love that you love her, at least not at the initial stage.

When you fail to be tough, as a man, your vulnerable points become exposed. The girl begins to see you as the one who needs " her" whereas the reverse should be the scenario. She starts seeing you as a weakling who, perhaps, can't do without her. She withdraws, as you appear as a pest. Nonetheless, she reserves you and your affection as a potential substitute, definitely she has to keep playing the game, telling you she loves you.

Boss, be a man! You should be wiser. Let her want you, make her need you! If you can't do this, then call it quit, you can't keep begging...

I met her not quite long,less than a month Bro. I don't understand how to make her want me,I'm sorry if It's sounds childish n weak....... I'm a novice

Dan42:
Walk away and stop wasting your precious time with wrong person. She either not interested in you or you are forcing to be.

Word!

Ur a learner' she's plying wit ur emotions

Pascaal:
There is this girl I am dating,we met not quite long and we are into a relationship but the problem I have with her is she's not caring;if I don't call her such that she missed the call she won't flash me let alone calling me and if I don't tell her to text me she won't text me, in short I can count the number of times she had called and texted me and I'm head over heels in love,I once thought I should reduce the number of messages I send to her and the number of calls but I don't know if it will make her change and she claimed she loves me please, what can I do?How do I handle her?

Women are like shadows ,the more you move closer the more they move away,but when you move away from them ,they will draw closer to you

let her know u ain't happy wit d stunt she's pulling u d man u gas b able 2 control Ur lady unless u an assistant bf

Pascaal:
I met her not quite long,less than a month Bro. I don't understand how to make her want me,I'm sorry if It's sounds childish n weak....... I'm a novice

It's okay bro. You'll pass, soon.

Bro,from experience,you are in a competition wit some other,and it seem u're losing...what does she like to do for u or want u to do 4 her at d slightest opportunity?

Do the later you have suggested...reduce the calls and texes, her reaction will tell if she loves you...



Note, if she complains, know that she loves you, if she doesn't, pls flee.

1) She might not love u or she's not fallenyet

2) There are some gals like dat that even when they love u, they're just always pissed off by excessive calls and messages but d general belief is all girls like to be called and messaged to show u care. To some rockyminded girls, its d opposite. I've dated such a gal b4

Pascaal:
There is this girl I am dating,we met not quite long and we are into a relationship but the problem I have with her is she's not caring;if I don't call her such that she missed the call she won't flash me let alone calling me and if I don't tell her to text me she won't text me, in short I can count the number of times she had called and texted me and I'm head over heels in love,I once thought I should reduce the number of messages I send to her and the number of calls but I don't know if it will make her change and she claimed she loves me please, what can I do?How do I handle her?

invest in yourself,forget her and just enjoy yourself remember we go die one day so stop wasting ur time on a girl who obviously doesn't give a sht about u when there are fine girls everywhere

I think u r in a relationship wit urself...it should b a 2way thing nd nt just 1 person doing everything

Pascaal:
There is this girl I am dating,we met not quite long and we are into a relationship but the problem I have with her is she's not caring;if I don't call her such that she missed the call she won't flash me let alone calling me and if I don't tell her to text me she won't text me, in short I can count the number of times she had called and texted me and I'm head over heels in love,I once thought I should reduce the number of messages I send to her and the number of calls but I don't know if it will make her change and she claimed she loves me please, what can I do?How do I handle her?

My brother, it is not about the number of times she has called or texted you!!! Love is not measured that way!!!
Not everyone enjoys calling or texting!!! Would you rather have a girl who calls you everyday but is a "runs"girl?

Moreover, love is expressed in different ways. Some ladies love with their hearts showing little in their acts!!!

However, if you think calling or texting you will reassure you of her love, talk to her about it!!!

Moreover, apart from the "calling and texting", in what other ways is she not caring towards you?

hifaif1:


My brother, it is not about the number of times she has called or texted you!!! Love is not measured that way!!!
Not everyone enjoys calling or texting!!! Would you rather have a girl who calls you everyday but is a "runs"girl?

Moreover, love is expressed in different ways. Some ladies love with their hearts showing little in their acts!!!

However, if you think calling or texting you will reassure you of her love, talk to her about it!!!

Moreover, apart from the "calling and texting", in what other ways is she not caring towards you?

Those are the two I noticed for now,she doesn't call on her own will if I don't tell her to text me she won't, she said she's not used to texting.

Nawa o, this kind guys still dey?
@op your case is strong o, take heart, she sees you as a baby and you keep proving you're one to her, grow up.

@_op, try and ignore her for a week, if she flashes you, don't call back.if she is really into u, she will get worried.NB- even if u love a girl so much, there should be limit in both calls and SMS.

O. P are u guys in distant relationship brouhaha?

wizaro:
O. P are u guys in distant relationship brouhaha?

Not really, Just left her for Akure some days ago.

Pascaal:
What do you think I should do Bro?

Kill yourself, which kind question is that? Somebody is treating you like trash you are here claiming love who tell you that love is one sided.
I know you never kiss let alone the ultimate.
Brace yourself up and dump her rightaway.

Ucheosefoh:
Kill yourself, which kind question is that? Somebody is treating you like trash you are here claiming love who tell you that love is one sided.
I know you never kiss let alone the ultimate.
Brace yourself up and dump her rightaway.

I have kissed and touch the "touchables" yet she's still cold..... I'm damn tired.

Pascaal:
I have kissed and touch the "touchables" yet she's still cold..... I'm damn tired.

take a look at the mirror whoever you see there ask that person if this is what he wants, the answer will go a long way in solving your problem.

Ucheosefoh:
take a look at the mirror whoever you see there ask that person if this is what he wants, the answer will go a long way in solving your problem.

Ain't after the kisses, i really love the girl but if the solution is dumping her I think I will v to do that though It's hard for me to do.