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Nairalanders Help by softcara: 12:14pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
Hi nairalanders, Please my friend is in a serious mess right now, a 20 year girl needs help and is so frustrated that she feels like dying....recently her dad has throw her out of the of house, this problem has been going on since we were kids till the frustration led her to run away from home. Now she's back home and still dey keep frustrating her life. since childhood till now....marks on her skin cn testify the level of maltreatment...the dad is frustrated because he wanted to have a male child but instead gav birth to my frnd and since birth she has been going through series of pain...her mum tho not in support of this have asked her to live the house before the aggression takes her to her grave, she have adviced her to sort for where to stay....nairaland pls....any lady staying in surulere or its environ that can accommodate this gurl jst for a few time till she can gather up an tak care of her accommodatn, pls I beg in goes name, I don't want her wandering abt the street the second time....i have some cash abt 20k and dat is because I am selling my fone to get this 20k for her if she needs to pay dis money for the period of time for her so u cn assist her please...she needs a jobs and a place to sleep....i beg u guys....i dont want dis gurl on the street again before she join sex workers and jeopardize her life completely...please...any evidence needed I will provide...if u need to see the mum...or sth...jst how u cn help...tank u God bless.... |
Re: Nairalanders Help by donbenedict(m): 12:20pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
Eya. Please concerned Nigerians, kindly assist the op if you'v got a spare room for her friend. |
Re: Nairalanders Help by donbenedict(m): 12:23pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
But I still don't get it? Why will both parents wish to send their only daughter away from home? There is more to this that u ain't telling u op.. |
Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 12:36pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
donbenedict: She's not the only child, dey already had 2 girls @ her birth d expected a boy...he did everythn but she came out as a girl....since den d anger has existed |
Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 12:37pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
Nairalanders plssssss |
Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 12:39pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
My email ladycara24@yahoomail.com |
Re: Nairalanders Help by donbenedict(m): 12:39pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
softcara:so why didn't he send both girls away! why her?? I'm still not getting things clearly.. and why would a mother accept to send her child who she took a lot of pains to carry for nine months?? These are the questions people will ask and unless you convince them, I don't think anyone will help. 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 12:55pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
donbenedict: The other 2 are grown ups and hav left to sort out tinz for demselves....she is 20...years still young....her mum cnt do anythng....she cnt leave her husband and she advise she lives because it's killing the lady...she has attempted poison on several occassions....I would have love her to explain in details...but her fone cnt browse...but from all I know since we were young...dis girl has been suffering....u could meet her physically and see tinz yesterday |
Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 12:59pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
donbenedict: Do u think lalasticlala will want to move this fp? |
Re: Nairalanders Help by donbenedict(m): 1:06pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
softcara:sent mail |
Re: Nairalanders Help by donbenedict(m): 1:09pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
softcara:I don't think this mail is functioning. Pm me |
Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 1:17pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
donbenedict: Sooorry...its ladycara24@yahoo.com...pm u already |
Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 1:22pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
Nairaland abeg mk una , me put mouth nah |
Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 1:22pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
Nairaland abeg mk una help me put mouth nah |
Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 1:40pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
Lalasticlala can u help.... |
Re: Nairalanders Help by ClassCaptain(m): 1:56pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
1) are the parent christian or musloms ? Has any plan been made to contact their church or mosque concerning the matter and to raise help for the girl 2) is the girl schooling ,,,, 3) are the two older siblings aware of this situation. If yes, are they working and how av they been able to intervene in the issue... |
Re: Nairalanders Help by MRBrownJ: 2:00pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
softcara: so the father wants her out, the mother too... and even her own 2 sisters dont want to help her with a place to stay?! these are the people that should be met before taking on this gal, so that all the facts are on the table. |
Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 3:55pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
MRBrownJ: The dad is frustrating her, her mum wants her to get a place to stay...her sisters are also squating with other pple...everybody sort themselves out. Do u understand |
Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 3:58pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
ClassCaptain: 1)Christians....not church fanatics... 2)no done with secondary school 3)ye but dey cn help, dey are also hustling for demselves...Its a "to each his own" tin |
Re: Nairalanders Help by MRBrownJ: 4:20pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
softcara: pls stop beating around the bushes and speak concretely about the issues... - what are these "frustrations" you are talking about? - if these frustrations were "that" bad, to the point that she decided to leave, then why did she go back there? - or better yet, why did this "supposedly" evil dad accepted her back? - since this lady is broke, how will she feed herself, transport or care for her daily needs while squatting? - what are her life plans apart from squatting at other people's place? - all the other GROWN UP children of the family are squatting with other people!?!?!?!?!? |
Re: Nairalanders Help by layla129(f): 4:29pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
MRBrownJ: Easy now. I think only the victim alone can answer all these questions you're asking 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders Help by MRBrownJ: 4:38pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
layla129: the victim is the OP's friend "since they were young" yet doesnt know the details?! he/she is even willing to put up money for her, therefore he should know and give people all the important details, or ask her these questions since she has no access to NL. the whole story makes no damn sense. is the father violent or they just want her to leave? and why only in Surulere, couldnt Ijebu Ode be a safe place for her too?! who asks for help but dictate where that help should come from? |
Re: Nairalanders Help by layla129(f): 4:54pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
MRBrownJ: The Op can't answer you the way her friend will. So, i feel you should contact the Op to get to her if you want to help. Plus, they are young. Probably they want an area they are familiar with...but in this case, their choice doesn't matter. They have to make the available desirable 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders Help by thywobab(m): 5:00pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
What happened to the mother's family,don't they have extended family?? Why put up with a totally stranger.there's more to this jawe 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders Help by smileysmiley(f): 5:05pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
Op your story get k leg... Why can't you accommodate her? What about extended families of the girl in question? Her papa no get family? Her mama nko? 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders Help by Sunkyphil(m): 5:06pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
there must b something behind it because her parents can't just abandon her like dat 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 7:42pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
layla129: God bless u...I dont even know Wat to say again....i feel dey cn contact the lady and ask all dis questns cos I don't knw wat else to type..honestly....am jst trying to help so she doesn't end up in d street again. Pple who contact could tell the weight of wat is go on....i cant ans all nairalands questns.... 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 7:46pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
smileysmiley: Abt accommodate her....am still under my parent....if I cn this post won't exist in first place.. Her extended family have never met any. The little I know are all in the village. Her mum cnt do anythng to help. She has under her husband |
Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 7:48pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
Sunkyphil: U think so? |
Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 7:49pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
Sunkyphil: U think so?....pls read the post again |
Re: Nairalanders Help by tee59(f): 8:18pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
There is more to ds issue on ground. How are u sure d father is d real biological father of d girl? Did d father treated d other siblings ds way? Evn d mother couldt do anything. Dis tin is common among d igbos. Cus dey belv, d female children hav no inheritance in d family, dat s y they prefer male children. Why wil parents nt want to see thei kids again? 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders Help by Sunkyphil(m): 8:54pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
softcara:yes cos even if her parents rejects her wat of oda family members |
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