Ok
So I av dis sweet boyfriend anyone can ever tink of having
Buh d p is hez always over protective of his fone
I managed to get his password and everything
Nd dis nyt while goin tru d fone I saw d most hrtbrkin stuff dere
Not only does my bf has anoda gf he loves her more dan me from the chat and everything.
It's hrtbrking
Av nt told im
Wat do u suggest I do?

Are you still asking? Ok, ask him about it and hear him out first...whatever he says, you should know what to do from there

bardella1:
Ok
So I av dis sweet boyfriend anyone can ever tink of having
Buh d p is hez always over protective of his fone
I managed to get his password and everything
Nd dis nyt while goin tru d fone I saw d most hrtbrkin stuff dere
Not only does my bf has anoda gf he loves her more dan me from the chat and everything.
It's hrtbrking
Av nt told im
Wat do u suggest I do?

Pm me let's cheat on him back!!!

Lwkm

gamaliel121:




Pm me let's cheat on him back!!!

dis a crios issue pls

falconey:
Lwkm

nt funny

bardella1:
nt funny

Yeah sorry. Listen to the first male poster that may just be the solution.

So you know his post made me laugh not yours.

1. Never go through a guy's phone if you know you can not handle whatever u find.

2. Communication counts. Talk to him about any insecurities.

3. If u feel u can't handle the competition, step out of the relationship. Do not waste your time and hurt yourself.

bardella1:
dis a crios issue pls

Ok...listen..

Just talk to him, tell him what u saw..hear what he gat to say..
He may give u excuses, may tell u not to take those things serious...buh...

Don't let love fuckkk up ur reasoning

gamaliel121:



Ok...listen..


Just talk to him, tell him what u saw..hear what he gat to say..

He may give u excuses, may tell u not to take those things serious...buh...


Don't let love fuckkk up ur reasoning

tnx

It's funny how we ladies commit ourselves lovingly to boyfriends when we are just fooling ourselves...



Well i"d say first of all, it's wrong for partners to make it a point of duty to snoop on each other's phones.. if anyone has got doubts, then they should learn to communicate effectively.





Op.. I guess you'v gotten what you wanted, now u can complete the task finally by opting out of the relationship. "Dumping" is a very harsh word.

Twaci:
1. Never go through a guy's phone if you know you can not handle whatever u find.

2. Communication counts. Talk to him about any insecurities.

3. If u feel u can't handle the competition, step out of the relationship. Do not waste your time and hurt yourself.

Your number 3 is just plain absurd... so you would leave a guy that loves you all because of perceived competition?.... seriously?

VoteDemiladgold:
It's funny how we ladies commit ourselves lovingly to boyfriends when we are just fooling ourselves...



Well i"d say first of all, it's wrong for partners to make it a point of duty to snoop on each other's phones.. if anyone has got doubts, then they should learn to communicate effectively.





Op.. I guess you'v gotten what you wanted, now u can complete the task finally by opting out of the relationship. "Dumping" is a very harsh word.

don't get?

bardella1:
tnx

I know the kind of advice you would love to read, but I'm going to give the opposite cause thats the truth!
He is not your husband right?, he is your BOYFRIEND! Thank God.
If a man can have a secrets relationship with another woman apart from the other, is called (womanising/doubledating). And thats pure CHEATING. AND HE WILL DEFINATELY DO SO TO HIS FUTURE WIFE.
My advice to you is to protect yourself from further harm and QUIT the relationship, I know that's not gonna be easy but that's the right thing to do. ( Do what you want, and damn the consequences)

OP have u heard of this chinese curse "May you find what you are looking for". dont snoop around ur patner's phone.
moving on, you have to confront him about to knw ur stance (real chick or side boo).

bardella1:
don't get?

which part?

free d nigga jare...just 1 and u r panicking... I bet u, urself no holy.. it's just that u caught him 1st..2 ask 4 advise no de tire owna!!!4giv him... cos u can't even leave him

rule no 1 never go tru ur partner's phone

DANO1011:
I know the kind of advice you would love to read, but I'm going to give the opposite cause thats the truth!
He is not your husband right?, he is your BOYFRIEND! Thank God.
If a man can have a secrets relationship with another woman apart from the other, is called (womanising/doubledating). And thats pure CHEATING. AND HE WILL DEFINATELY DO SO TO HIS FUTURE WIFE.
My advice to you is to protect yourself from further harm and QUIT the relationship, I know that's not gonna be easy but that's the right thing to do. ( Do what you want, and damn the consequences)

Please go to the nearest bar and collect one cold chilled Malt am coming to pay, of all d comment I hav being reading ur wise words forced me to comment, mumu people tell her to communicate with him, wat does she want to communicate wen u hav seen d obvious dere. If u knw u can't leave him den stay and don't complain.

Mtweeee , u already knw wat to do still yet u came on nairaland to ask foolish question. Mtweeee stay ooooo

So ur relationship was going on jeje, and u went and look for something that will scatter it abi?...thank God u found it.

If u still need my epp I will be under this udara tree observing.

VoteDemiladgold:
It's funny how we ladies commit ourselves lovingly to boyfriends when we are just fooling ourselves...



Well i"d say first of all, it's wrong for partners to make it a point of duty to snoop on each other's phones.. if anyone has got doubts, then they should learn to communicate effectively.





Op.. I guess you'v gotten what you wanted, now u can complete the task finally by opting out of the relationship. "Dumping" is a very harsh word.

wicked

Even as a guy it's wrong going through your girlfriend's phone because there's is high probability of finding what may hurt you not to talk of a guy's phone...what you don't know won't hurt you

DANO1011:
I know the kind of advice you would love to read, but I'm going to give the opposite cause thats the truth!
He is not your husband right?, he is your BOYFRIEND! Thank God.
If a man can have a secrets relationship with another woman apart from the other, is called (womanising/doubledating). And thats pure CHEATING. AND HE WILL DEFINATELY DO SO TO HIS FUTURE WIFE.
My advice to you is to protect yourself from further harm and QUIT the relationship, I know that's not gonna be easy but that's the right thing to do. ( Do what you want, and damn the consequences)

tnx

Thank God you found out you are the side chick. When are you planning to move on

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Please go to the nearest bar and collect one cold chilled Malt am coming to pay, of all d comment I hav being reading ur wise words forced me to comment, mumu people tell her to communicate with him, wat does she want to communicate wen u hav seen d obvious dere. If u knw u can't leave him den stay and don't complain.

Mtweeee , u already knw wat to do still yet u came on nairaland to ask foolish question. Mtweeee stay ooooo[/quotetnx]

lol.. When we tell people to check their partners Fone if they want to, many people are screaming of privacy.. im sure if you have done this earlier, you will save yourself Alot of stress and sacrifice you have made to make the relationship work.

I'm happy you know the truth now...Best thing to do is to move on with your life and please don't do what many girls are doing.. don't go back and beg him to accept you back.




naijaboiy1 Cm see

Odunharry:
lol.. When we tell people to check their partners Fone if they want to, many people are screaming of privacy.. im sure if you have done this earlier, you will save yourself Alot of stress and sacrifice you have made to make the relationship work.

I'm happy you know the truth now...Best thing to do is to move on with your life and please don't do what many girls are doing.. don't go back and beg him to accept you back.




naijaboiy1

tnx

Ok yu all tnx for ur comments
For the bashing and advice.
Leaving him is not the p here.
I once say sumtin lik dis on his fone bfr sumtimes last year nd he gave me some kinda silly excuses lik she is his ex( dat was a diff girl tho)
Wen sumtin feels too good to be true it probably isn't true.
The guy is sweet and all..i can even say hez d one dat has shown me d most love in my life apart from my parents.
U can c how hard it's going to be buh am going to do wats right for me.

Yes dear do what is right for you save yourself. You will be fine.

bardella1:
Ok yu all tnx for ur comments
For the bashing and advice.
Leaving him is not the p here.
I once say sumtin lik dis on his fone bfr sumtimes last year nd he gave me some kinda silly excuses lik she is his ex( dat was a diff girl tho)
Wen sumtin feels too good to be true it probably isn't true.
The guy is sweet and all..i can even say hez d one dat has shown me d most love in my life apart from my parents.
U can c how hard it's going to be buh am going to do wats right for me.

I thank God I'm a man, I can't imagine myself in this crap in the name of love. After all is not even marriage self!

why not tell it to his face that he s cheating on you..now that you have an evidence
abi shame dey catch you ni
tell him and let him know you can't continue with him any more

If na woman behave like this now
una go don dey see for hia ''these hoes aren't loyal"

layla129:
Are you still asking? Ok, ask him about it and hear him out first...whatever he says, you should know what to do from there

hehehehehe if he convinces er dat d gal is jxt a frnd nko? op y r u askin sef,d ansa is very simple