Over the course your dating career (LOL).. Everyone meets different kind of people we learn to share so many different emotions with.

Eventually these relationships usually come to a End either by mutual consent or in a very dirty breakup..

This topic is my way of advicing the general nairaland community on the type of Ex's you should never get back with.

1. The Cheating Ex.
Cheating is usually the major cause for a spilt in a relationship ( both women and Men cheat). In my "opinion" there is no excuse a cheating (Concious) partner can give that is acceptable, this is because the said partner valued the 10mins-1hr Romp on the Bed to our relationship in general. If you are a keen observer you will notice most ( not all ) Ex's who are forgive for cheating will fall back into the same mess again, as the saying goes history always repeats it's self. P.s. Concious Cheating is Premeditated by both Men and Women.

2. The Hot tempered Ex.
People with hot temper are very difficult to handle in a normal setting, even more so, in a relationship. This type of people can do and say anything at the slightest provocation (be it intentional or unintentional). A good case study is the one of the Lady who bashed the mirror or her BF's G-wagon, insulted his family and threaten to poison him all based on a false accusation.. So people will say its because of Love. But who love don epp..??!

3. The Controlling Ex.
Any normal human being values his or her freedom more than anything.. You think its a lie...?!! Try being in a relationship with a Controlling partner. It is never advisable for someone to get back with an Ex who Controls everything about you, from who you see to who you talk to, what you do or when you are to do something. In my "opinion no sane person should go into such a relationship, because it as turned from being a relationship to a salve - Master association.

4. The Disrespectful Ex.
In my opinion everyone deserves Respect, especially in a relationship. The man has to respect his woman and woman her man. In a situation were you are considering getting back together with your Ex who was disrespectful to you, just take 2mins to think and remember all the disrespect dished your way. If that doesn't change your mind then take another 10mins and think again.

5. The Abusive Ex.
Its a pity in the modern world a lot of women are abused physically and verbally and they still opt to remain in such a relationship. Its common sense to known anybody that hurts you does not Love you. You can't convice anybody that the "black eye" and broken Nose is a sign of Love. Anybody (male or female) who had the chance to come out of an abusive relationship, please do not go back to such an Ex.. Your life literally depends on it.

6. Feel free to add yours..

There are different types of Ex's that we shouldn't get back with, but I think these are the major categories to never give a second thought to.

P.s. Its important to state that "change is the only constant thing in Life". So its very possible for an Ex to change for his/her ways.

Cc Lalasticlala

The all way round lazy ex

POSTER BELOW ME THO......HAS THIS BIG HEAD I CANT COMPARE OR EXPLAIN

The stingy ex

Nkor emeyun edi mme nkpo ex emi,

mkpo efud ami isi ikakka mbufo?

osedvgirl:
The all way round lazy ex

Hehehehe nobody will want to get back with the kinda person you described ther

Wilson125:
Nkor emeyun edi mme nkpo ex emi,

mkpo efud ami isi ikakka mbufo?

Bros..!! I no understand Oooo


Bt lemme jst laff

(Hope no be insult sha )

VoteDemiladgold:
The stingy ex

In the current Naija which babe will enter a relationship with a stingy Nigga...

Almost impossible

Oga shey u go bribes us make we vote 4 your person....

MrDojo:


Bros..!! I no understand Oooo


Bt lemme jst laff

(Hope no be insult sha )

nah.. ah no dey insult..

FlawlessRebirth2:
POSTER BELOW ME THO......HAS THIS BIG HEAD I CANT COMPARE OR EXPLAIN

LOL

U wan find trouble for ma thread abi

Wilson125:
nah.. ah no dey insult..

Hehehehe.. Watin d@ stuff con mean..?!

the spend anything to look rich without kobo in account EX

MrDojo:


In the current Naija which babe will enter a relationship with a stingy Nigga...

Almost impossible

Oga shey u go bribes us make we vote 4 your person....

dat is it. Bribery.. i'm not a fan of bribery, but what I can assure you is that if you get your goons to support dat awesome lady in my profile pic, you"l have my total and undivided friendship. I'm her campaign manager.


Networking pays, money may satisfy but for a short while, but friendship lasts forever...


What do u say, my good friend?

VoteDemiladgold:
dat is it. Bribery.. i'm not a fan of bribery, but what I can assure you is that if you get your goons to support dat awesome lady in my profile pic, you"l have my total and undivided friendship. I'm her campaign manager.


Networking pays, money may satisfy but for a short while, but friendship lasts forever...


What do u say, my good friend?

My oga we go think abt am....hehehehe

rhozaay:
the spend anything to look rich without kobo in account EX

Na the same thing as a broke azz Ex na
who go wan get back with dem b4

FlawlessRebirth2:
POSTER BELOW ME THO......HAS THIS BIG HEAD I CANT COMPARE OR EXPLAIN

Bett why your own head come be like ostrich

MrDojo:


My oga we go think abt am....hehehehe

lol thanks bro.. dnt worry, i'll thank my campaign team in a very very special way. Trust me.

MrDojo:


Na the same thing as a broke azz Ex na
who go wan get back with dem b4

there is difference between being broke and spending anything that comes your way just to look rich abi?

VoteDemiladgold:
lol thanks bro.. dnt worry, i'll thank my campaign team in a very very special way. Trust me.

hehehehe interesting...

rhozaay:


there is difference between being broke and spending anything that comes your way just to look rich abi?

My guy na the same thing Oooo....even if u dey collect N500K a month u no save shishi omo u be broke azz Oooo + Mumu ontop

My guy who u dey support for Ms Nairaland na..

Lalasticala your attention is needed here Oooo

Op. Wat about a nymph maniac ex?

Luckymay:
Op. Wat about a nymph maniac ex?

Hehehehe trust me in dis Naija so many guyz would remain with a Nymph dan break up with her bt d same cannot be said abt ladies.....

Hehehehehe

MrDojo:


Hehehehe trust me in dis Naija so many guyz would remain with a Nymph dan break up with her bt d same cannot be said abt ladies.....

Hehehehehe

It's a no no for me.. Wouldn't want someone disturbing me after the day's stress. Lol.

MrDojo:


My guy na the same thing Oooo....even if u dey collect N500K a month u no save shishi omo u be broke azz Oooo + Mumu ontop

My guy who u dey support for Ms Nairaland na..

I no get candidate o

Wilson125:
Nkor emeyun edi mme nkpo ex emi,
mkpo efud ami isi ikakka mbufo?

eyen eka, se mmo eyun emade edi odò.

MrDojo:


Hehehehe trust me in dis Naija so many guyz would remain with a Nymph dan break up with her bt d same cannot be said abt ladies.....

Hehehehehe

Lol. It's a no no for me. Wouldn't want someone disturbing me after the day's stress.

Luckymay:

Lol. It's a no no for me. Wouldn't want someone disturbing me after the day's stress.

I understand....


Its a yes yes For guys tho

if YOU broke up with them, then there is a reason someone became an ex...therefore they shouldnt be taken back.

MrDojo:

LOL
U wan find trouble for ma thread abi

.kikikiki

alhajisindodo:
then what kind of ex are u supposed to get back with ?