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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Vinshu(f): 8:10pm On Apr 19, 2016
solidman59:
Are you sure you ain't cheating? Try telling your husband about how you accept gifts na. My dear, quote me anywhere, there's always something about anything you can't tell someone.

@embolden

That is a very silly question.

Besides, my husband knows I accept gifts. In fact, he always wants to take take the big part of it especially if it's money. Not all men are insecure. I
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Vinshu(f): 8:11pm On Apr 19, 2016
henryhemon:


How do we know you don't sleep around? Your husband sha.

If I do, I need no one's approval or endorsement. As no one can do anything to me If I do. So save your thoughts to yourself.
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by mymoneygrows(f): 8:11pm On Apr 19, 2016
Lordabas:
Nonsense and ingredient!

If you make good use of yor God given prick and rise to the occasion when it matterz drilling her to high heavens. There is no way on earth your wife won't be loyal to yor prick!

Its not about prick my dear. if u lyk have a superman prick and achieve a superman feat every tym u hav sex, a woman dat will cheat will cheat and for other women, gud sex without care from u is rubbish, so dey will seek care outside.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by jesussaves22: 8:12pm On Apr 19, 2016
Suigeneris93:
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No need for that because men are polygamous in nature if I lie ask David and Solomon or you ask Chris okotie and oyakhilome etc.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by wristbangle: 8:13pm On Apr 19, 2016
mukhcech:


nah husband be that. Abeg u don get ur next post title. I mean what kind of husband is that. A weak one I must say. Nice writeup, more matured than tosyn2much 10-10 things. Alhamdulillah, my wife no mark anything for that ur checklist. Em blessed.

On the contrary brother, I respect tosyne2much's article which holds cogent information for every form of relationship. His article to me is always matured and superb.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by realmindz: 8:13pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:
I receive calls very often even more than my hubby. Yet, I ain't sleeping around

And I accept gifts from people either material or financial from both male and female yet, I ain't sleeping around.

Somethings are to be kept secret.

People can posses traits but ain't who you think they are.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by KingAdeOluomo1(m): 8:13pm On Apr 19, 2016
Cc: HateU2
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Vinshu(f): 8:13pm On Apr 19, 2016
Innomach:

Men can toast you even when they know your husband and children. Never be too sure of yourself. And don't think you can handle everything. A guy out there could be smarter than you think. The best thing is to try and keep away as much as you can and don't take everything for granted thinking that you are in control.

I am in control of my life and decision. No matter what man may give to me or say to me, it remains my decision whether or not to go on with him or remain loyal to my partner. So I am in control sir

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by KingAdeOluomo1(m): 8:15pm On Apr 19, 2016
[quote author=realmindz post=44854455][/quote]lols cheesy
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Aarenasbaba(m): 8:16pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:
I receive calls very often even more than my hubby. Yet, I ain't sleeping around

And I accept gifts from people either material or financial from both male and female yet, I ain't sleeping around.

Somethings are to be kept secret.

People can posses traits but ain't who you think they are.
Maybe very soon sha
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by realmindz: 8:17pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:


He is aware. Because I share them with him. As I am aware of any gift he receives, so is he aware about any gift I receive.

He is not so insecure to be concerned about whom I'm receiving gifts from because the person giving me the gift knows that there are no strings. I don't pretend to be single outside. Everyone around me knows I'm married. So whoever is giving me a gift especially men, and expecting something in return is in for a shocker.
lazy husband meets a covetous woman is equals to what? chai, typical example of wen a man who has no shame meets a greedy woman..nice combo
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Vinshu(f): 8:17pm On Apr 19, 2016
Aarenasbaba:

Maybe very soon sha

Maybe.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by goingape: 8:19pm On Apr 19, 2016
wristbangle:
I have come te realise no matter how hard you try to please some ladies, nothing can ever stop them from cheating on you. It will be better if a guy can identify these bad traits as well as how best to deal with such ladies whether to terminate the relationship abruptly or cope with it.

I will be opening our eyes with this write-up so that we will be familiar to these habits

1. She becomes your enemy when you are broke

Life is not a bed of roses, therefore, everyday cannot be lived like a christmas day but some ladies don't even care. All they want is money coming out of your pocket each time they are in need, and failure to do so makes her becomes your enemy. If a lady starts nagging and threatening to dump you because you didn't fulfil your monetary promise, just know that there's probability that she will be cheating on you in marriage in a bid to get that which she desires.

2. She flirts with several guys

A flirt will always be a flirt anytime any day. Don't ever think marriage can change a lady that flirts except God delivers her from the act. Some of them flirt with several guys and will deem it right saying she only flirts with them and doesn't allow them get under her skirt. A lady with this ideology will no doubt be promiscuous when married.

3. She is not sexually satisfied with you

Just when you're bleeping a lady and she reading a newspaper or picks her phone and start replying her mentions on nairaland :O , just know that you never find wife at all oooo.. To worsen the case, if the guy's joystick is as small as that of Tosyne2much and inexperienced in several sex positions like Lalasticlala, she will definitely go to Kinglekan to satisfy herself. Such a lady is very risky to marry.

4. She accepts ridiculous money and gifts from guys

I don't know why some ladies have no standard that they can beg for ridiculous things from guys.. This habit only portrays how cheap these categories of ladies are, and I can't but pity any guy that falls in their trap. Even if a dude that marries them is as righteous as Jesus Christ they will still cheat on him.

5. She receives calls every now and then

When you're with a lady and her phone keeps ringing every 5mins it's better you have a heart to heart talk with her otherwise, you might end up with a miserable marriage life.. That is the way it will it will continue when married. That was the reason why Toyin Aimakhu's husband dumped her when he could no longer cope with such habit.

6. She is too secretive

When a lady is unnecessarily being secretive with a questionable character, then something is up her sleeves. It will be a big risk to marry such a lady otherwise you may have yourself to blame.

7. Her yansh no dey sit down for one place grin

Just when a lady is always found everywhere, bro you need to think twice before making that lifetime choice. She no dey use ear hear club house, pepper soup joint, birthday party and the likes.

8. She's very happy to have various toasters

Guys, when a lady is very elated and prides herself based on the number of chairmen stalking her, then there's high tendency for her to cheat in marriage.. When issues arise some of them will even be threatening you with break up and that they are only managing you cos they've got better guys toasting them.
black women MENTALITY.
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Vinshu(f): 8:19pm On Apr 19, 2016
realmindz:

lazy husband meets a covetous woman is equals ti what? chai, typical example of wen a man who has no shame meets a greedy woman..nice combo

Well, he is happy. I am happy. Our son is happy.

We, are family. That's what matters. So call him shameless. His wife and son loves him still. smiley

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by wristbangle: 8:20pm On Apr 19, 2016
Affable0709:
Truth is, almost every girl does at least one of these things, are we saying they are all likely to cheat?
Other things i can think of:
*when the hubby is far away; lets say he is a traveller, soldier or something that keeps you away from her for some time, yes! She is likely to cheat.

*she is more likely to cheat when he is 'careless' in all aspect.

*when she has a higher sex drive. She's more likely to ring her ex.

Sometimes idleness drives someone to cheat especially for a lady whose husband is not always around due to the listed occupation in your comment
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by elitejosef: 8:21pm On Apr 19, 2016
That her yansh own en....... Na true ooooo. It disgust me like seriously
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by goingape: 8:21pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:
I receive calls very often even more than my hubby. Yet, I ain't sleeping around

And I accept gifts from people either material or financial from both male and female yet, I ain't sleeping around.

Somethings are to be kept secret.

People can posses traits but ain't who you think they are.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by mymoneygrows(f): 8:22pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:


@embolden

That is a very silly question.

Besides, my husband knows I accept gifts. In fact, he always wants to take take the big part of it especially if it's money. Not all men are insecure. I

Not all men are insecure and not all men think through their anus. Species of men like that are extinct. I have one of them and im so proud of him. The secret to that kind of relationship is trust and communication.
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by realmindz: 8:23pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:


Well, he is happy. I am happy. Our son is happy.

We, are family. That's what matters. So call him shameless. His wife and son loves him still. smiley
you don't know watz pathetic about ur situation, I feel very sorry for u cus u don't even know u are having a problem. feel very sorry woman, very sorry. may God not let me lead this type of life as a husband and father..zero honour, dignity and pride.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by goingape: 8:24pm On Apr 19, 2016
mrtantalizers:
But seriously, is it only ladies that sleep around? What about guys or men too. In fact men are worse than ladies but y is it that we ignore the men and criticise d ladies. Every man deserves d kind of woman he gets.
shut up.
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Vinshu(f): 8:25pm On Apr 19, 2016
realmindz:

you don't know watz pathetic about ur situation, I feel very sorry for u cus u don't even know u are having a problem. feel very sorry woman, very sorry. mat God not let me lead this type of life as a husband and father..zero honour, dignity and pride.

Well, my situation may be pathetic and you may feel sorry for me, but like I said, I'm happy. What could be more than happiness? So yeah I want to remain pathetic as you say.

Go live your own life. Make yourself happy boy.
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by goingape: 8:28pm On Apr 19, 2016
vivalavida:
My immediate ex gurlfriend has all the above listed characteristics.

I dont regret leaving her
you dodge a bullet from a crazy biitch
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Chukzyfcb(m): 8:28pm On Apr 19, 2016
wristbangle:


Actually Mr "know it all", your comment lacks common sense and it will be better if you take kindergarten lesson before its too late for you.

Also if I am correct, you and cohorts always attack tosyne2much whenever he drops article that pitch your veins.

It even seems from your comment, you are more frustrated than a hopeless man.
You see....exactly what I'm saying. This is how you go about generalizing and then compiling it into a list of dos and donts. You just concluded I attack tosyne2much with no proof. I'm frustrated @ your writeups!
How would a sane man, have all these qualities in a woman he has regarded as his fiancee? Before a man has placed a woman for possible marriage rites, over 90% of what you wrote there would be non-existent. Come up with something meaningful that people could relate with, and you'll be applauded. Even the likes you'v gathered speaks volumes. It shows it lacks substance, those characteristics you wrote there are behaviours peculiar to mere boyfriend/girlfriend ish........don't be jealous/mad. I prefer tosyne2much writeups to urs. His is much more reasonable and can easily relate to than urs.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by stallion2: 8:30pm On Apr 19, 2016
dollyjoy:
@no6 though,i am naturally secretive not cause i have things up my sleeve but just love doing things my own way cool
its ur secretivenes that is up ur sleeves ok ok
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by wristbangle: 8:30pm On Apr 19, 2016
Julietcutie:
true...but not all

Dear, can u point out the one that is not true in the listed habits?
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by HajimeSaito(m): 8:33pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:
I receive calls very often even more than my hubby. Yet, I ain't sleeping around

And I accept gifts from people either material or financial from both male and female yet, I ain't sleeping around.

Somethings are to be kept secret.

People can posses traits but ain't who you think they are.

Are you actually from Lithuania? I hear Lithuania is the only country in Europe where Paganism is the majority religion.
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by wristbangle: 8:34pm On Apr 19, 2016
Chukzyfcb:

I prefer tosyne2much writeups to urs. His is much more reasonable and can easily relate to than urs.

gringrin

Tosyne2much, come see wetin this guy dey yan here. Lol how can I have a beef with someone who is like a brother to me off-line! If you prefer his article, it's your choice na. cheesy

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by usmanjay(m): 8:35pm On Apr 19, 2016
AirSultan:
These are just on-the surface traits now.. What about she will have her phone, the gallery of the phone, the phonebook, and all on passwords, she will have numerous uncles too.
i swear I will shatter the phone unless she is not my wife how dare her ?
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Nobody: 8:36pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:
I receive calls very often even more than my hubby. Yet, I ain't sleeping around

And I accept gifts from people either material or financial from both male and female yet, I ain't sleeping around.

Somethings are to be kept secret.

People can posses traits but ain't who you think they are.

not bad, but nothing is free even in Freetown, people don't give things away just for nothing,, just know that a day will come when someone might want something back.... whether sincere or not your already tied to that person, and you must give something back, who knows what it might be.....
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Vinshu(f): 8:36pm On Apr 19, 2016
HajimeSaito:


Are you actually from Lithuania? I hear Lithuania is the only country in Europe where Paganism is the majority religion.

What has religion or where i come from have to do with any of this? Don't derail a thread.
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Nobody: 8:37pm On Apr 19, 2016
One good thing about Nairaland is that it's a faceless forum because I can't see the reason why a married woman that has respect her marriage will come out in the public and be saying most things I've just read here now.. Marriage is sacred and we should learn to respect that.. Let your family affair remain within the tentacles of your home.. I've spoken my mind..

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