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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by 3kay945(m): 9:33pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:
I receive calls very often even more than my hubby. Yet, I ain't sleeping around

And I accept gifts from people either material or financial from both male and female yet, I ain't sleeping around.

Somethings are to be kept secret.

People can posses traits but ain't who you think they are.

I hear you. undecided
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Maximus85(m): 9:36pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:
I receive calls very often even more than my hubby. Yet, I ain't sleeping around

And I accept gifts from people either material or financial from both male and female yet, I ain't sleeping around.

Somethings are to be kept secret.

People can posses traits but ain't who you think they are.

Maybe your husband no send you. And I doubt if you're really married.
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by theEYe21(f): 9:41pm On Apr 19, 2016
It's only a guy that is jealous and pained that will produce such a trend.
wristbangle:
I have come te realise no matter how hard you try to please some ladies, nothing can ever stop them from cheating on you. It will be better if a guy can identify these bad traits as well as how best to deal with such ladies whether to terminate the relationship abruptly or cope with it.

I will be opening our eyes with this write-up so that we will be familiar to these habits

1. She becomes your enemy when you are broke

Life is not a bed of roses, therefore, everyday cannot be lived like a christmas day but some ladies don't even care. All they want is money coming out of your pocket each time they are in need, and failure to do so makes her becomes your enemy. If a lady starts nagging and threatening to dump you because you didn't fulfil your monetary promise, just know that there's probability that she will be cheating on you in marriage in a bid to get that which she desires.

2. She flirts with several guys

A flirt will always be a flirt anytime any day. Don't ever think marriage can change a lady that flirts except God delivers her from the act. Some of them flirt with several guys and will deem it right saying she only flirts with them and doesn't allow them get under her skirt. A lady with this ideology will no doubt be promiscuous when married.

3. She is not sexually satisfied with you

Just when you're bleeping a lady and she reading a newspaper or picks her phone and start replying her mentions on nairaland :O , just know that you never find wife at all oooo.. To worsen the case, if the guy's joystick is as small as that of Tosyne2much and inexperienced in several sex positions like Lalasticlala, she will definitely go to Kinglekan to satisfy herself. Such a lady is very risky to marry.

4. She accepts ridiculous money and gifts from guys

I don't know why some ladies have no standard that they can beg for ridiculous things from guys.. This habit only portrays how cheap these categories of ladies are, and I can't but pity any guy that falls in their trap. Even if a dude that marries them is as righteous as Jesus Christ they will still cheat on him.

5. She receives calls every now and then

When you're with a lady and her phone keeps ringing every 5mins it's better you have a heart to heart talk with her otherwise, you might end up with a miserable marriage life.. That is the way it will it will continue when married. That was the reason why Toyin Aimakhu's husband dumped her when he could no longer cope with such habit.

6. She is too secretive

When a lady is unnecessarily being secretive with a questionable character, then something is up her sleeves. It will be a big risk to marry such a lady otherwise you may have yourself to blame.

7. Her yansh no dey sit down for one place grin

Just when a lady is always found everywhere, bro you need to think twice before making that lifetime choice. She no dey use ear hear club house, pepper soup joint, birthday party and the likes.

8. She's very happy to have various toasters

Guys, when a lady is very elated and prides herself based on the number of chairmen stalking her, then there's high tendency for her to cheat in marriage.. When issues arise some of them will even be threatening you with break up and that they are only managing you cos they've got better guys toasting them.
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Histrings08(m): 9:44pm On Apr 19, 2016
dollyjoy:
@no6 though,i am naturally secretive not cause i have things up my sleeve but just love doing things my own way cool
stay single or try celibacy.. Pfft
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by jemype(m): 9:50pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:
I receive calls very often even more than my hubby. Yet, I ain't sleeping around

And I accept gifts from people either material or financial from both male and female yet, I ain't sleeping around.

Somethings are to be kept secret.

People can posses traits but ain't who you think they are.
if u enjoy dose gifts and calls a lot to even reiterate it then why not stay with those peeps dat supply dem cuz when u and ur guy quarell u will later holla at those suitors to find solace. 2 cents tho
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Histrings08(m): 9:51pm On Apr 19, 2016
Lordabas:
Nonsense!

If you make good use of yor God given prick and rise to the occasion when it matterz drilling her to high heavens. There is no way on earth your wife won't be loyal to you!
... Yinmu,.... Even if u knack am tull u draw ur last breath she'll still wants more 3hrs later
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by benji93: 10:00pm On Apr 19, 2016
wristbangle:
I have come te realise no matter how hard you try to please some ladies, nothing can ever stop them from cheating on you. It will be better if a guy can identify these bad traits as well as how best to deal with such ladies whether to terminate the relationship abruptly or cope with it.

I will be opening our eyes with this write-up so that we will be familiar to these habits

1. She becomes your enemy when you are broke

Life is not a bed of roses, therefore, everyday cannot be lived like a christmas day but some ladies don't even care. All they want is money coming out of your pocket each time they are in need, and failure to do so makes her becomes your enemy. If a lady starts nagging and threatening to dump you because you didn't fulfil your monetary promise, just know that there's probability that she will be cheating on you in marriage in a bid to get that which she desires.
It is so dis-heartening that you missed the most important point, 'a woman whose man has a high tendency to cheat, also has a high tendency to cheat'' a story about an unrighteous tendecy without considering a co-human influence is a story for the gods, tell them if they can hear you.

2. She flirts with several guys

A flirt will always be a flirt anytime any day. Don't ever think marriage can change a lady that flirts except God delivers her from the act. Some of them flirt with several guys and will deem it right saying she only flirts with them and doesn't allow them get under her skirt. A lady with this ideology will no doubt be promiscuous when married.

3. She is not sexually satisfied with you

Just when you're bleeping a lady and she reading a newspaper or picks her phone and start replying her mentions on nairaland :O , just know that you never find wife at all oooo.. To worsen the case, if the guy's joystick is as small as that of Tosyne2much and inexperienced in several sex positions like Lalasticlala, she will definitely go to Kinglekan to satisfy herself. Such a lady is very risky to marry.

4. She accepts ridiculous money and gifts from guys

I don't know why some ladies have no standard that they can beg for ridiculous things from guys.. This habit only portrays how cheap these categories of ladies are, and I can't but pity any guy that falls in their trap. Even if a dude that marries them is as righteous as Jesus Christ they will still cheat on him.

5. She receives calls every now and then

When you're with a lady and her phone keeps ringing every 5mins it's better you have a heart to heart talk with her otherwise, you might end up with a miserable marriage life.. That is the way it will it will continue when married. That was the reason why Toyin Aimakhu's husband dumped her when he could no longer cope with such habit.

6. She is too secretive

When a lady is unnecessarily being secretive with a questionable character, then something is up her sleeves. It will be a big risk to marry such a lady otherwise you may have yourself to blame.

7. Her yansh no dey sit down for one place grin

Just when a lady is always found everywhere, bro you need to think twice before making that lifetime choice. She no dey use ear hear club house, pepper soup joint, birthday party and the likes.

8. She's very happy to have various toasters

Guys, when a lady is very elated and prides herself based on the number of chairmen stalking her, then there's high tendency for her to cheat in marriage.. When issues arise some of them will even be threatening you with break up and that they are only managing you cos they've got better guys toasting them.
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Okuda(m): 10:00pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:
I receive calls very often even more than my hubby. Yet, I ain't sleeping around

And I accept gifts from people either material or financial from both male and female yet, I ain't sleeping around.

Somethings are to be kept secret.

People can posses traits but ain't who you think they are.
blind bat! The op said some ladies..read first before comenting..dont rush to b ftc..no b world cup
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 10:01pm On Apr 19, 2016
slyIsaac:
Wristbangle n tosyne. 2much I greet una o.....
Baba I throway salute oooo cool
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by professore(m): 10:04pm On Apr 19, 2016
You really tried
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by thelastmediator: 10:06pm On Apr 19, 2016
Spot on!
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by IAMMRTWHYTE(m): 10:08pm On Apr 19, 2016
It's true. I once had a girlfriend who was like that. And she was dating me and another guy at d sane time.
Girls are just too fool of cheating traits. It is in their blood.
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Suspect33(m): 10:15pm On Apr 19, 2016
tosyne2much:
I kuku dey on my own when oga Wristbangle start Aluta

*Make I add my own join then*

9. They want gender equality

Just when a lady wants to rub shoulders with her husband and bashes anyone who stands against this; she wants the senate to formulate a law that will favour gold diggers whereby, they will marry a man today, break up with him and file a court case against him demanding for half of what the gentleman has laboured for .. These categories of ladies will be definitely be sleeping around when married cheesy


10. They will fault the write-up


Another sign to know that a lady will be sleeping around in married is that, she will look for a way fault as well as contradict the write-up just to justify her act. The troll above me is a perfect example cheesy



Make I just dey observe sha cool
if such law is carried out ehh, forget abt marriage in Nigeria
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by wikkileaks: 10:19pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:
I receive calls very often even more than my hubby. Yet, I ain't sleeping around

And I accept gifts from people either material or financial from both male and female yet, I ain't sleeping around.

Somethings are to be kept secret.

People can posses traits but ain't who you think they are.
EVIDENCE?
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Nobody: 10:24pm On Apr 19, 2016
Women are faithless creatures
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by poseidon12: 10:25pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:


He is aware. Because I share them with him. As I am aware of any gift he receives, so is he aware about any gift I receive.

He is not so insecure to be concerned about whom I'm receiving gifts from because the person giving me the gift knows that there are no strings. I don't pretend to be single outside. Everyone around me knows I'm married. So whoever is giving me a gift especially men, and expecting something in return is in for a shocker.

Nigerian men giving you, a lady, gifts with no strings? Yeah right. You may naively be thinking there are no strings but demands will definitely come eventually.
I'm surprised your husband is ok with that.
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Nobody: 10:33pm On Apr 19, 2016
KingAdeOluomo1:
Cc: Ha.teU2
sad sad
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by wristbangle: 10:35pm On Apr 19, 2016
AyamBlaze:
Then ur loving husband takes d money and gifts u received to other married women outside.. Then they in turn share it with their husbands who then bring these gifts and money back to u. Like that, like that, and the cycle continues..

This one na Nitrogen cycl abi wetin? Hahahaha grin
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by wristbangle: 10:37pm On Apr 19, 2016
professore:
You really tried

God bless u brother
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by wristbangle: 10:39pm On Apr 19, 2016
theEYe21:
It's only a guy that is jealous and pained that will produce such a trend.

If you are a lady, that means the mentioned habits portrays you.
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by professore(m): 10:46pm On Apr 19, 2016
wristbangle:


God bless u brother
And u too.
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Miner13: 10:52pm On Apr 19, 2016
tosyne2much:
I kuku dey on my own when oga Wristbangle start Aluta cheesy

Aluta CONTINUA !!!

* Oyah make I add my own join then*

9. She wants gender equality

She wants to rub shoulders with her husband and therefore bashes anyone who holds contrary opinion to this equality they have been fighting for; she wants the senate to formulate laws that will favour gold diggers whereby, they will marry a man today, break up with him tomorrow without a cause, and file a court case against him demanding for half of what the gentleman has laboured for.. These categories of ladies like to reap where they did not sow and may definitely be sleeping around when married cheesy


10. They will fault the write-up


Another sign to know that a lady will be sleeping around in marriage is that, she will look for a way fault this write-up as well as making contradictions just to justify her act. If a lady condemn number 1 to 8 then she will definitely be a perfect description of the OP... The troll above me is a perfect example cheesy



*My mouth no go kill me sha cheesy *

You called Vinshu troll
Hmmmm
Mouth *enu*
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 10:55pm On Apr 19, 2016
Krisan234:
I go beat beat her comot my house.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 10:55pm On Apr 19, 2016
Krisan234:
I go beat beat her comot my house.
hahaha cheesy Bros take am easy nah cheesy
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Julietcutie(f): 10:56pm On Apr 19, 2016
wristbangle:

Dear, can u point out the one that is not true in the listed habits?
number 1 & 6 it's not always true...
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 11:00pm On Apr 19, 2016
jesussaves22:
No need for that because men are polygamous in nature if I lie ask David and Solomon or you ask Chris okotie and oyakhilome etc.
Na God go forgive u oooo cheesy
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Boboye4slim(m): 11:01pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:


He is aware. Because I share them with him. As I am aware of any gift he receives, so is he aware about any gift I receive.

He is not so insecure to be concerned about whom I'm receiving gifts from because the person giving me the gift knows that there are no strings. I don't pretend to be single outside. Everyone around me knows I'm married. So whoever is giving me a gift especially men, and expecting something in return is in for a shocker.
aunty stop lying joor.... Who you dey mumu for hia he's in a for a shocker indeed!! It's either you've gone omotola jolaade on your husband or he's a natural mumu if he can't ask you about these cheerful givers because he doesn't wanna be tagged insecure. And I personally think you're a proud woman. And all proud women definitely sleeps around. You do too.
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Nobody: 11:09pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:
I receive calls very often even more than my hubby. Yet, I ain't sleeping around

And I accept gifts from people either material or financial from both male and female yet, I ain't sleeping around.

Somethings are to be kept secret.

People can posses traits but ain't who you think they are.

You are still in d crawling stage of urs. u will start sleeping around soon
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 11:09pm On Apr 19, 2016
Suspect33:
if such law is carried out ehh, forget abt marriage in Nigeria
I swear guys own don finish me that oooo cheesy
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 11:10pm On Apr 19, 2016
Miner13:


You called Vinshu troll
Hmmmm
Mouth *enu*
Shey that moniker no remember troll for your face ni bro? cheesy
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Nobody: 11:18pm On Apr 19, 2016
Vinshu:
I receive calls very often even more than my hubby. Yet, I ain't sleeping around

And I accept gifts from people either material or financial from both male and female yet, I ain't sleeping around.

Somethings are to be kept secret.

People can posses traits but ain't who you think they are.

Na who we go ask?
Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Nobody: 11:40pm On Apr 19, 2016
Suigeneris93:
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