nitwitfabian:


You are sTill afraid. Infact, the mentality is wht ur scared of. What you all dnt know is that if u give this gender equality thingy to dem, they will beg you to come and take it back because 90 percent of african women arent fashioned to be in control. They enjoy being kept.

wristbangle:


That has been the assumption of Nigeria women whenever we oppose the gender equality thing. You keep saying I am afraid and your assertion is based on my comment. If you have any other thing to say, just say it. Your comment is contrary to the reality on ground. You know Africa women especially Nigerians are bossy. Good day!

Chukzyfcb:

You see....exactly what I'm saying. This is how you go about generalizing and then compiling it into a list of dos and donts. You just concluded I attack tosyne2much with no proof. I'm frustrated @ your writeups!
How would a sane man, have all these qualities in a woman he has regarded as his fiancee? Before a man has placed a woman for possible marriage rites, over 90% of what you wrote there would be non-existent. Come up with something meaningful that people could relate with, and you'll be applauded. Even the likes you'v gathered speaks volumes. It shows it lacks substance, those characteristics you wrote there are behaviours peculiar to mere boyfriend/girlfriend ish........don't be jealous/mad. I prefer tosyne2much writeups to urs. His is much more reasonable and can easily relate to than urs.

Chukzyfcb:

You see....exactly what I'm saying. This is how you go about generalizing and then compiling it into a list of dos and donts. You just concluded I attack tosyne2much with no proof. I'm frustrated @ your writeups!
How would a sane man, have all these qualities in a woman he has regarded as his fiancee? Before a man has placed a woman for possible marriage rites, over 90% of what you wrote there would be non-existent. Come up with something meaningful that people could relate with, and you'll be applauded. Even the likes you'v gathered speaks volumes. It shows it lacks substance, those characteristics you wrote there are behaviours peculiar to mere boyfriend/girlfriend ish........don't be jealous/mad. I prefer tosyne2much writeups to urs. His is much more reasonable and can easily relate to than urs.

MarieSucre:


What does gender equality have to do with being unfaithful?
How does holding a contrary opinion to this post make someone an adulterous woman?

Even with the gender inequality we still have men who are flagrantly promiscuous under the guise of "Men are naturally polygamous" and "I am an African man". And y'all don't say peep.

Ooooh!! Okay oooo

nefertitiram:


Next time just say thank you.

If you weren't constantly showing your ignorance, I would have been nicer.

Even the bible states "study to show thyself approved"

Research more before you write in a public forum, so that you expose the limit of your mental capacity.

FYI it's not gender equality that will make a woman divorce her husband and get half of his entire estate, a simple court marriage gives her that entitlement. But you wouldn't know. Your ignorance will not let you

Sacluxpaint:


You are not the 1st to try this, very soon you might wanna collect a lil peck, a lil smooch and before you know it.. when you meet a charmer, you will know how far.

Vinshu:


He is aware. Because I share them with him. As I am aware of any gift he receives, so is he aware about any gift I receive.

He is not so insecure to be concerned about whom I'm receiving gifts from because the person giving me the gift knows that there are no strings. I don't pretend to be single outside. Everyone around me knows I'm married. So whoever is giving me a gift especially men, and expecting something in return is in for a shocker.

Suigeneris93:
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kristen12:
Jeez!! You're such a baby. SMH

mrtantalizers:
But seriously, is it only ladies that sleep around? What about guys or men too. In fact men are worse than ladies but y is it that we ignore the men and criticise d ladies. Every man deserves d kind of woman he gets.

prinsam30:
what if she exhibit all these characteristics you just laid down and yet she's not sleeping around, what can we call that

vivalavida:
My immediate ex gurlfriend has all the above listed characteristics.

I dont regret leaving her

mukhcech:

nah husband be that. Abeg u don get ur next post title. I mean what kind of husband is that. A weak one I must say. Nice writeup, more matured than tosyn2much 10-10 things. Alhamdulillah, my wife no mark anything for that ur checklist. Em blessed.

dotmanz:


If all these are true and he never complained, then something is really wrong somewhere. Either from ur end or his own part. So many factors makes men fold arm to circumstances and a lot of time, their silence can be dangerous than reaction. I have friends who adopt such policy of, 'if u talk now, na another thing she go turn am to, I no get time..' Just watch out..

Vinshu:


If I do, I need no one's approval or endorsement. As no one can do anything to me If I do. So save your thoughts to yourself.

oshaosha2014:
You talk as if we are toddlers here. Expose your sister, galfriend or wife to those characteristics and let's see the end result.

prinsam30:


I only made an observation, I never imposed it on anybody not even you, so why the headache.

pls try to be observant, not every comment u waste ur time quoting, be warned

oshaosha2014:
No vex. Let's move on.

prinsam30:

thanks and God bless you

oshaosha2014:


AS NO ONE CAN DO ANYTHING TO ME IF I DO.

This one go do, over do, e go even did. Na their mindset be this.

judondasylva:
very true that's my current girlfriend. am calling it quit with her today I need true love

judondasylva:
very true that's my current girlfriend. am calling it quit with her today I need true love

MzPecs:
What on earth is a responsible guy doing with a lady with such traits?

wristbangle:


If you are a lady, that means the mentioned habits portrays you.

wristbangle:


If you are a lady, that means the mentioned habits portrays you.

herbie27:
So what?, are you the person i quoted?.