Eddygourdo:
To some people , I come off as a misogynist and to others as a gentleman. Attempts to educate via observation and feedback is often misconstrued as an attack by me.

Men tell lies , women are repressive, women can cheat for africa, men cheated their way to existence. If adam and eve existed today, they would have accused each other of cheating with the serpent. This has brought about offensive threads like a lot of mine, many others and most recently the one on front page , by the likely lesbians hate2u and naughtynaughty.

Anyway nobody is an island of knowlegde and as a gender group. We all are open to learning and improving to be better mates to our partners.

Men say they want real ladies as partners and denigrate every lady that falls short, women say they want gentlemen and denigrate men who fall short of the standard.

As our faces differ, so does our perception and definition of our very own lady and gentleman.

What defines your own perfect lady and ur own perfect gentleman.

I already have my perfect lady , though she fails sometimes, but she gives me the primary thing I desire in life. "She gives me peace of mind". we knows am the head and she is the neck. I say wat happens and she uses her womaness to change all I have said to suit her . I used to think my word was yes and amen , till I realised the fraud. She never fights, bellitles , challanges me to get her way just as the neck never has to turn the head violently to get its way.

Above everything my perfect lady and I both realise we are human and have decided before hand to forgive all transgressions that will occasion from our occasional deviation from perfection.

I forgave her last week for the excessive onion in my food and she forgave my bad sexual prowess I put up in the night as vengeance for not eating well.

Do share your own perculiar gentleman and lady traits that works for ur personality

Acidosis:
Did you read the thread where the OP said being too nice to a lady will never make her love you?

So my idea of being a gentleman: 'don't be nice to ladies'

damseyl:
What defines a real gentleman; Wisdom
And a perfect lady? Knowledge

wordbank:

It's either you're self contradictory or your subconscious is unaware of itself.

Secondly go for medical treatment and stop blaming onions for shining your eyes or pepper for not gingering your appendage for poor sexual performance

TheFirstLady:
First Things first...a man that keep his word! that connotes discipline... that will be a man i can respect

Eddygourdo:
if one uses keeping words to filter men, you will know a good man amongst the rest in the shortest possible time. E no easy to keep words, that's why I preach, if you can keep to to it , then shut the hell up

TheFirstLady:
true that... that is the yardstick for measuring Who is a real man or Flash in the pan... i immediately loose interest if a man falls below this standard

Eddygourdo:
its veryy difficult for a pretender to keep up with all his words, anyway since u will be crossing out a lot u meet, you should meet a whole lot so by the time you cross out 90percent as frauds. You could have a 10percent to apply another yardstick to. Eg does he have six packs

TheFirstLady:
hahahaha...i do pyscho-analysis to some extent... you can read a person to a large extent behind the facade ...sometimes checkout Body Language, Things left unsaid,things said-read between the lines...touch on the Person's vibe-try to Touch the person's spirit... voila! There you have it... Throw in keeping his words, you just know already

Eddygourdo:
ha and truly there was no mention of six packs. Who says there isn't a living God.

Note to all those pregnant men who may or may not be taller than either aki or pawpaw. We have a lady here that would consider you so far you don't have a lying tongue.

# just kidding. But good choices u gat. It will work for u dear

TheFirstLady:
lmao...indeed There is a living GOD! societal Standards don't trump my personal Standards and choices...i guess.. theres more i look out for and Trust me, a large percentage of 9j men fall below par...maybe its just societal Standards and how they view Nigerian women

Oliviaarims:
My definition of a gentleman is on who knows to respect a woman. He doesn't toy with her emotions to suit his selfish desires.

TheFirstLady:
hmmm hmm... you go gurl... #RespectAWoman

Oliviaarims:
My definition of a gentleman is one who knows to respect a woman and does right by her. He doesn't toy with her emotions to suit his selfish desires.

Eddygourdo:
ha don't tell me you are part of the team foreign men crew?

Oliviaarims:


Very crucial.

TheFirstLady:
i pretty much am open minded... i currently am seeing a foreign guy... its been Great so far without the attendant drama of dating a 9j guy...this is my second time Dating a foreigner...i wish i could get that one 9j guy that fits the bill...do i have to lower my Standards because i must date or eventually marry a 9j guy? look around you, imagine what it is like to be a 9ja woman... abegi, wherever one Finds love bo

Eddygourdo:
To some people , I come off as a misogynist and to others as a gentleman. Attempts to educate via observation and feedback is often misconstrued as an attack by me.

Men tell lies , women are repressive, women can cheat for africa, men cheated their way to existence. If adam and eve existed today, they would have accused each other of cheating with the serpent. This has brought about offensive threads like a lot of mine, many others and most recently the one on front page , by the likely lesbians hate2u and naughtynaughty.

Anyway nobody is an island of knowlegde and as a gender group. We all are open to learning and improving to be better mates to our partners.

Men say they want real ladies as partners and denigrate every lady that falls short, women say they want gentlemen and denigrate men who fall short of the standard.

As our faces differ, so does our perception and definition of our very own lady and gentleman.

What defines your own perfect lady and ur own perfect gentleman.

I already have my perfect lady , though she fails sometimes, but she gives me the primary thing I desire in life. "She gives me peace of mind". we knows am the head and she is the neck. I say wat happens and she uses her womaness to change all I have said to suit her . I used to think my word was yes and amen , till I realised the fraud. She never fights, bellitles , challanges me to get her way just as the neck never has to turn the head violently to get its way.

Above everything my perfect lady and I both realise we are human and have decided before hand to forgive all transgressions that will occasion from our occasional deviation from perfection.

I forgave her last week for the excessive onion in my food and she forgave my bad sexual prowess I put up in the night as vengeance for not eating well.

Do share your own perculiar gentleman and lady traits that works for ur personality

Eddygourdo:
hahaahhahah. Anyway it isn't easy but exceptions abound. We have a lot of ego down here and still pretty much traditional. If such isn't ur turn on. There are lots of evolved naija guys. Especially those who are exposed. Infact have noticed some on this forum.

Upbringing affects idealogy. But as two faces of children of same parents aren't the same. Thus plenty men here could fit ur bill. Once I see one on the street who does. I will tell him to chyke you at once.

lemolise:


Eddy, they'll soon come for you A friend once told me "It's all just a fumble in the dark while hoping not to bump into something & get badly hurt" Honesty and loyalty are the most important to me.

TheFirstLady:
the Traditional part i understand... i very much Am African and understand our value and traditions... the ego part is not a special reserve of Nigerian men - a man is a man...

HateU2:
Op, I don't lyk bashing peeps really but u dont have to call me a lez simply bcox of my opionon. If u check my siggy nd Dp, u will knw dat I love d!ck. I'm not a lez, u gerrit

HateU2:
Op, I don't lyk bashing peeps really but u dont have to call me a lez simply bcox of my opionon. If u check my siggy nd Dp, u will knw dat I love d!ck. I'm not a lez, u gerrit