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When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by marvelck: 9:08am On Apr 22, 2016
Imagine, a month or weeks after your wedding, you're been stressed and worked up by the incessant calls and disturbances your wife receives daily from her ex boyfriends and toasters. Who simply wont accept the fact that she's married and taken. A lot of men are in such situation with their wives. Especially if you are married to a lady who doesn't know the difference between being married and being single. Some married ladies still carry or exhibit their single lifestyles. Like, meeting up or going out on 'harmless (according to her) dates with their ex boyfriends, new male friends or toasters. Or by spending lot of time on the phone daily with their ex or male friends, even in the presence of their husband (some ladies have no respect for marriage at all). This is one of the reasons a lot of marriages are breaking up these days. Whether harmless or not, no husband or wife will be happy seeing his/her partner spending more time with the opposite sex. Once you are married as a lady, you need to draw the line between your marriage/home, and your past. Focus on your husband and on your marriage, for your own good. Let the past be in the past!

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Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by Ahmed0336(m): 9:09am On Apr 22, 2016
Simple as ABC change her sim shikenan!!!
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by Nobody: 9:12am On Apr 22, 2016
Yeah, and its sad and disappointing.

the best way to stop them is by 'do me, I do' so dat they'll feel the pain, and when they complain, talk to them and tell them to stop doing it.
its much easier for them to stop when they feel the pain they cause their spouses.
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by Hadez(f): 9:14am On Apr 22, 2016
It is not always on the ladies. OK let's say 4 out of 10 ladies are guilty of this but the men are all guilty of still hanging out with their ex girlfriends and call it harmless dates
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by Hadez(f): 9:15am On Apr 22, 2016
EroticAngelina:
Yeah, and its sad and disappointing.

the best way to stop them is by 'do me, I do' so dat they'll feel the pain, and when they complain, talk to them and tell them to stop doing it.
its much easier for them to stop when they feel the pain they cause their spouses.

You mean the best way to solve this is by putting your marriage in the line? Payback?shocked
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by 100Cents: 9:17am On Apr 22, 2016
It is like playing with a serpent and say it wont bite you.

The person's head needs psychiatric evaluation..
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by AyamBlaze: 9:18am On Apr 22, 2016
EroticAngelina:
Yeah, and its sad and disappointing.

the best way to stop them is by 'do me, I do' so dat they'll feel the pain, and when they complain, talk to them and tell them to stop doing it.
its much easier for them to stop when they feel the pain they cause their spouses.
Two wrongs don't make a right, no matter the situation!
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by Nobody: 9:20am On Apr 22, 2016
Op is damn right.

But what i seem not to understand is that, some commenters dont read in-between the lines of a thread.

Some Exes sha.
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by IamLEGEND1: 9:20am On Apr 22, 2016
Hadez:
It is not always on the ladies. OK let's say 4 out of 10 ladies are guilty of this but the men are all guilty of still hanging out with their ex girlfriends and call it harmless dates
when u go ever get sense na?

everything na 'men are worse' with you.... try reason for once with ur brain abeg and stop forming pseudo feminist.

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Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by 100Cents: 9:20am On Apr 22, 2016
Hadez:
It is not always on the ladies. OK let's say 4 out of 10 ladies are guilty of this but the men are all guilty of still hanging out with their ex girlfriends and call it harmless dates

Mtscheew.

It is laziness worrying your type. Once you get free recharge card, you start flashing everything that wears trouser..

A newly married man who is struggling with the Nigerian economy does not have time mingling with waste pipes.

Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by Nobody: 9:21am On Apr 22, 2016
Hadez:


You mean the best way to solve this is by putting your marriage in the line? Payback?shocked

its not necessarily payback.

it's just giving the spouse a taste of their own medicine.
let them just feel the hurting they made u feel. cos some stubborn spouses need extreme measures bfor they correct their ways.
this can only be done after talking and trying to stop the wife/husband's wrong ways to no avail.
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by Nobody: 9:22am On Apr 22, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
when u go ever get sense na?

everything na 'men are worse' with you.... try reason for once with ur brain abeg and stop forming pseudo feminist.
Hahaha. Egbon ooo.

Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by Nobody: 9:24am On Apr 22, 2016
AyamBlaze:
Two wrongs don't make a right, no matter the situation!

then be ready to watch another man take ur wife away from u.
I know its not right, buh if u don't wanna loose her, u should be ready to take drastic ways.
if you've tried every other thing, and they don't work, I'd suggest u try this. kapish
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by Hadez(f): 9:25am On Apr 22, 2016
EroticAngelina:

its not necessarily payback.
it's just giving the spouse a taste of their own medicine.
let them just feel the hurting they made u feel. cos some stubborn spouses need extreme measures bfor they correct their ways.
this can only be done after talking and trying to stop the wife/husband's wrong ways to no avail.

OK, I suppose the motive of doing it only when all other alternatives have been tried.
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by Hadez(f): 9:26am On Apr 22, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
when u go ever get sense na?

everything na 'men are worse' with you.... try reason for once with ur brain abeg and stop forming pseudo feminist.

Mtchewww. you are not worth it boy
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by Nobody: 9:27am On Apr 22, 2016
Hadez:


OK, I suppose the motive of doing it only when all other alternatives have been tried.

yeah.
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by IamLEGEND1: 9:51am On Apr 22, 2016
Hadez:

Mtchewww. you are not worth it boy
and what's an old woman like you doing here? the OP never mentioned men in his write up, he focused on women....but u had to drag men into it so u can paint women as angels coz men are so evil.

Learn to analyse things objectively,daz all I'm saying....
#Nonsense

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Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by IamLEGEND1: 10:01am On Apr 22, 2016
adepeter26:
Hahaha. Egbon ooo.
the thing just tire me oh.
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by Hadez(f): 10:09am On Apr 22, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
and what's an old woman like you doing here? the OP never mentioned men in his write up, he focused on women....but u had to drag men into it so u can paint women as angels coz men are so evil.

Learn to analyse things objectively,daz all I'm saying....
#Nonsense


Ok have fun with a like a just gave youbsmiley
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by IamLEGEND1: 10:20am On Apr 22, 2016
Hadez:
Ok have fun with a like a just gave youbsmiley
#SMH
bye,Sarah.
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by Nobody: 11:20am On Apr 22, 2016
social media like Facebook contributes greatly to this trend.

I'm sure the advent of Facebook has caused more marriage breakups in the history of mankind than any other factor, except impotency ofcourse.
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by 0955eb027(m): 12:05pm On Apr 22, 2016
Sad, but True. One of those reasons marriage is not meant for me.
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by samsam2019: 12:44pm On Apr 22, 2016
Dem never born woman wey go try am with me
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by ITbomb(m): 1:09pm On Apr 22, 2016
That is the reason for courtship, to make the transition and make final evaluation of what you will be facing in marriage, if you had seen this and ignore, you are on your own
Re: When Your Wife's Ex Boyfriends Wont Let Her Rest by AyamBlaze: 8:11am On Apr 23, 2016
EroticAngelina:


then be ready to watch another man take ur wife away from u.
I know its not right, buh if u don't wanna loose her, u should be ready to take drastic ways.
if you've tried every other thing, and they don't work, I'd suggest u try this. kapish
Why not just save yourself the stress and file for a divorce. That would be a much better option

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