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| Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Davindal(m): 7:45am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Hey guys! I'll keep it snappy here. There is this girl in my life, she will be 21 this coming October and she loves me a lot. In fact, she is my chosen one among my girlfriends. I was the guy that deflowered her. I have dated her 4 years now. When we started, she was so pretty, radiant and elegant, all these qualities laced with good manners - despite her beauty, great intelligence and culinary skills. Considering all this qualities, I decided to promise her marriage for I truly love her; knowing full well that her type is rare. After the promise of marriage, I realized that our love for each other grew a step further. Furthermore, before now; she was my exclusive reserve for matrimony(marriage), such that I don't see any succedaneum(substitute) to her - even though I do date several other ladies - but I have no meaningful plan for them except this gal. Unfortunately, this my gal has decide to let loose her body, she doesn't watch over her weight, such that she is no longer as curvy, elegant and 8-figured as she used to be, though she is tall - a few inches or 2 inches to 6ft. In fact, she is now as fat as whatever description you may be cogitating within your mind. That fatness is gradually eating up her killer curves, I have sat her down severally to talk through this issue severally; I reminded her that as a medical student(4LV med.& surg.), she should be in a better position to know any means possible to apply in order to loose weight. She insisted that she has been trying her best to shed down but to no avail, and was even crying. Please guys! What do I do now? I hate plus size ladies aka OROGBO, and can never marry one. Should I completely ditch her for good, even though I still love her deeply? I need an advice. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Nobody: 8:03am On Apr 23, 2016 |
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| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Rexhenrex(m): 8:08am On Apr 23, 2016 |
am sorry but it seems you replaced your brain with beef shawamar.. because with this you just posted it can be deduced that you are after her body, if not her physical appearance won't stop you in as much as it quite matters it shouldn't be the reason you won't marry her na...u ma check am na bro. as long as she has manners, and brains I will say stick with her...you both can go for road works together and hit the gym it would help that am sure of... #don't let her slip away from you...you never know the value of what you have till u loose it! 270 Likes 16 Shares |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by obiorathesubtle: 8:10am On Apr 23, 2016 |
ditch her... Else, I'll make you disappear, and if any member of your family so much as lifts a finger.. They'll all disappear one by one.. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Donpizzle(m): 8:15am On Apr 23, 2016 |
obiorathesubtle:da FCK with ur post.....dude u ain't communicating. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by obiorathesubtle: 8:18am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Donpizzle:address me with respect!! 5 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by otunbacarter(m): 8:24am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Ask lepqcious bose 4 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Coolgent(m): 8:26am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Bros kindly send me her number cos i have been lookin for a gal with her exact description. 126 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by layla129(f): 8:28am On Apr 23, 2016 |
obiorathesubtle: You know the Op or what  1 Like |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by IamLEGEND1: 8:30am On Apr 23, 2016 |
dump her overinflated àss. Don't let anyone convince you otherwise. the heart wants what the heart wants,do not compromise. Do you copy,modafucka? I repeat: DO NOT COMPROMISE! 28 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by obiorathesubtle: 8:34am On Apr 23, 2016 |
layla129:is that you?? I'm a sucker for those kinda lips.. |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by layla129(f): 8:37am On Apr 23, 2016 |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by obiorathesubtle: 8:41am On Apr 23, 2016 |
layla129:yea.. Perfect skin colour too.. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Davindal(m): 8:47am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Rexhenrex:Did you say that I'm after her body? If you were in my shoes, would you go into marriage with somebody having the prospects and potentials of becoming the next YOKOZINA, particularly when she gives birth to baby? If you don't know what to comment...you had better keep mute. 13 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Rexhenrex(m): 8:52am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Davindal:its simple break-up then...mtcheeew 24 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Rexhenrex(m): 9:01am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Lmao...u don craze o  IamLEGEND1: 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by eyinjuege: 9:13am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Please, let her go NOW. You obviously cannot cope with her size. If you truly love her, the best thing you can do for her is to break up with her and free her. She'll get over the initial heartbreak, and also move on with her life with someone who likes orobo. 16 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by halfricanadian(f): 9:30am On Apr 23, 2016 |
No you cant 15 Likes 3 Shares
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| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Eveezy(m): 9:39am On Apr 23, 2016 |
layla129:Are those eyes real? cos if dey are, den damn! babe u gorgeous 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Enockia(m): 9:41am On Apr 23, 2016 |
take it slow brother |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by layla129(f): 9:43am On Apr 23, 2016 |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by layla129(f): 9:44am On Apr 23, 2016 |
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| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Nobody: 9:50am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Lmfao! You don enter one chance. Better fukc your standards and marry your thing like that so that she won't end up summarizing curses and spells on your destiny. I mean , 4 years no be beans oh and you've even PROMISED her marriage sef . haaa, she's your Mommas corpse, you just gotta bury her! 10 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by SweetSureboy(m): 9:52am On Apr 23, 2016 |
I can't see true love in what u just narrated. You only prefer her to your myriad of gf's because of physical attributes and her culinary skills as you mentioned. You are only trying to have fun. You do not love her, so let her go. In fact, she should let u go. 29 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by 4C2215131: 9:53am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Davindal: Your options: 1. Stay with her while encouraging and assisting her to lose weight. This should be the preferred route if she is truly cooperative. Notice I used the word 'truly'. It must really be her desire and not just to make you happy as she may in the long run get fed up of the whole process while blackmailing you emotionally with statements like "it you really love me, you'll accept me as I am..." 2. If she is averse to working on her weight and considering you are not attracted to plus size ladies then, let her go. Being with her won't help y'all as every time you're together, you resent her and she in turn pick up the vibes and detest you in turn for spurning her courtesy of her weight. In her fat lined mind she's thinking; "true beauty is on the inside and not outside..." So to preserve any chance or y'all remaining friends, you've to let her go in this scenario. I cannot in good conscience be so self effacing as to advice you to be with a fat lady even though you think you love her. You loved a version or her that is fast disappearing. Good luck! I know how difficult it is to come by a man or woman that you just know is meant for you but then God or whatever seems to always find a way to include a 'BUT' in the equation. In your case, all of a sudden she loves the extra ration for others the perfect guy may be poor in sex matters even impotent. Sigh... 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by KimBerlyie: 9:54am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Rexhenrex: Gbam!!  5 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Marlvin(m): 10:01am On Apr 23, 2016 |
No man, you don't have to walk out on her now cos she's grown fat. instead, enroll her in weekend exercise classes , she should go on a road walk/jogging in the morning. eat less carbohydrates, more of fruits and vegetables; and of cos stay off fatty foods GROOM HER; SHE FEELS HELPLESS N NEEDS HELP. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Rexhenrex(m): 10:03am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Lol...i see you! KimBerlyie: |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by polariss(m): 10:04am On Apr 23, 2016 |
IamLEGEND1:finally Your penis is nameless |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by IamLEGEND1: 10:18am On Apr 23, 2016 |
polariss:lol! bruh,We doing it for the greater good.
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| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by IamLEGEND1: 10:27am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Rexhenrex: Rex. nobody go dey to help him marriage when him begin dey cheat on her after she don drop like 2 shidren.... she go don turn to puff puff by then.4 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Rexhenrex(m): 10:31am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Padi check am na e no easy to find girl wey get manners and brain and na better profession she the go for sef.what if him marry the wrong person with th right shape? IamLEGEND1: 6 Likes 1 Share |
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