1.You love size and appearance not the girl herself.
So if you're already married to her will you still be asking this?
So you wan make person advise you to break the fat ladie's heart abi?

Guy you no see me oo

Ditch her joor


She neva born dey fat... Ditched her... Past tense

I dont lik orobo at all.... Dey all hav bad eating habit chum chum chum

But wen u ditch her and she becomes hot no desire her again..... Cos ur ditchin her might be the ginga she needs hehe

AfroKnight:
Break up. You can't stand a fat woman. And bro, she is not ready to change her diet for you so you'd better look elsewhere.

If you manage her, o boy, you go cheat. Better now than later.

The guy in question is already a pathetic cheater... So it doesn't matter whether the lady is cool or not, cheating is in his gene already.

See you! so after everything you want to keep Faith and marry Hope you are very wicked you better look for Miracle

Team thick black bold beautiful big women here... they rock ..if they got the right curves though #BBBBW

U don't know the value of what you have, until you loose it

Davindal:
Hey guys! I'll keep it snappy here.

There is this girl in my life, she will be 21 this coming October and she loves me a lot. In fact, she is my chosen one among my girlfriends.

I was the guy that deflowered her. I have dated her 4 years now. When we started, she was so pretty, radiant and elegant, all these qualities laced with good manners - despite her beauty, great intelligence and culinary skills. Considering all this qualities, I decided to promise her marriage for I truly love her; knowing full well that her type is rare. After the promise of marriage, I realized that our love for each other grew a step further.

Furthermore, before now; she was my exclusive reserve for matrimony(marriage), such that I don't see any succedaneum(substitute) to her - even though I do date several other ladies - but I have no meaningful plan for them except this gal.

Unfortunately, this my gal has decide to let loose her body, she doesn't watch over her weight, such that she is no longer as curvy, elegant and 8-figured as she used to be, though she is tall - a few inches or 2 inches to 6ft. In fact, she is now as fat as whatever description you may be cogitating within your mind. That fatness is gradually eating up her killer curves, I have sat her down severally to talk through this issue severally; I reminded her that as a medical student(4LV med.& surg.), she should be in a better position to know any means possible to apply in order to loose weight. She insisted that she has been trying her best to shed down but to no avail, and was even crying.

Please guys! What do I do now? I hate plus size ladies aka OROGBO, and can never marry one. Should I completely ditch her for good, even though I still love her deeply? I need an advice.

Mtchew...Children on the net.

@OP shaking my head so that's your criteria for marriage, in this day and age of rude gals and dramatic behaviour you just happened to find a good Babe but because of weight, even after marriage you too will put on weight. Anyway it's obvious you are not ready for marriage.

Davindal:
I hate plus size ladies aka OROGBO, and can never marry one. Should I completely ditch her for good, even though I still love her deeply? I need an advice.

What advice after answering yourself above? Do that which u like man so u don't blame anyone tomorrow for making u do otherwise

hmm

First of all, you don't know the meaning of love !

You want to marry her cos she is curvy , smh,

Suppose u marry a lepa that turns orobo after marriage , would u divorce her .
Op is still a child

Rexhenrex:
am sorry but it seems you replaced your brain with beef shawamar..

because with this you just posted it can be deduced that you are after her body, if not her physical appearance won't stop you in as much as it quite matters it shouldn't be the reason you won't marry her na...u ma check am na bro. as long as she has manners, and brains I will say stick with her...you both can go for road works together and hit the gym it would help that am sure of...

#don't let her slip away from you...you never know the value of what you have till u loose it!

O boy forget this thing you are saying. Physical appearance (body) is also part of what attracts people to each other. So nothing like saying he is after her body.

[quote author=Oliviaarims post=44960484] men can be funny at times, you are now asking this question when you have already deflowered her.dont you think of that before.ask yourself if you are to be in her shoe.
All you need to do if you truly love her is to help her reduce in size encourage her to do exercise.but if not then you did not love her at all

Ohram-slim-diet-coffee. Google it, it works. Thank me later. Loosing weight naturally is not as easy as it sounds.

Davindal:
Did you say that I'm after her body? If you were in my shoes, would you go into marriage with somebody having the prospects and potentials of becoming the next YOKOZINA, particularly when she gives birth to baby? If you don't know what to comment...you had better keep mute.

I thought u're seeking for advice?why would u den be angry? Bro, u're alreading cheating on her that's why u're not seeing her inner beauty anymore. And I promise u, u'll regrate wen u would have lost her. If u don't like her anymore, let her go don't keep her or waste her time. Wana remind u, if u know u'll be angry at people, don't seek for their advice again

Earngee:
Bros,lemme tell u sumtin
Every woman has tendency of adding weight after child's birth.except rare cases,where d so called slim gals grows fat n vice -versa.
Nothing is nt achievable dear,my sister lost much weight before wedding cos her husby stood by her n now she has a boy(2yrs) now and still maintains her weight, cos her husby don't like fat gals
Above all, u love her she loves you. Help her shred d unwanted fat,and maintain her weight.

She was willing and didn't wanna lose her man. Maybe it would have been different if they weren't married. Op, what has she done that didn't work? A dude created a thread yesterday showing how much weight he lost in few months even though hin head still big .
If you truly love her, hit the gym together. It'll be fun

Are you a born again child of God ?

If yes, follow what the spirit of God in you is telling you.

My mariage is 13years now and the love between myself and my wife keep on glowing everyday.

I thank God that I followed my heart even when the whole family was against me.

No matter any present challenge

Follow the spirit of God in you.

That's one of the benefit of being a child of God. God bless you.

And if you are really serious, i don't expect you to be having other girls.

It is not good for you.

She's good but you are not ready for marriage

Davindal:
Hey guys! I'll keep it snappy here.

There is this girl in my life, she will be 21 this coming October and she loves me a lot. In fact, she is my chosen one among my girlfriends.

I was the guy that deflowered her. I have dated her 4 years now. When we started, she was so pretty, radiant and elegant, all these qualities laced with good manners - despite her beauty, great intelligence and culinary skills. Considering all this qualities, I decided to promise her marriage for I truly love her; knowing full well that her type is rare. After the promise of marriage, I realized that our love for each other grew a step further.

Furthermore, before now; she was my exclusive reserve for matrimony(marriage), such that I don't see any succedaneum(substitute) to her - even though I do date several other ladies - but I have no meaningful plan for them except this gal.

Unfortunately, this my gal has decide to let loose her body, she doesn't watch over her weight, such that she is no longer as curvy, elegant and 8-figured as she used to be, though she is tall - a few inches or 2 inches to 6ft. In fact, she is now as fat as whatever description you may be cogitating within your mind. That fatness is gradually eating up her killer curves, I have sat her down severally to talk through this issue severally; I reminded her that as a medical student(4LV med.& surg.), she should be in a better position to know any means possible to apply in order to loose weight. She insisted that she has been trying her best to shed down but to no avail, and was even crying.

Please guys! What do I do now? I hate plus size ladies aka OROGBO, and can never marry one. Should I completely ditch her for good, even though I still love her deeply? I need an advice.

My FrIeNd.. GOD is WaTcHiNg u In 3D.......

Man, consider carefully what you are about to do. The consequences may turn out to be more fatal and you may live the rest of your life in regrets. Size of a man or woman is never a condition for marriage. The only condition is good character, love for one another and understanding.
Thank you.

Fat can be reduce via some health or diet means , so if u can help her in one way or de other it'll make de process to be a fast one, and also I'll like you to watch one of de numerous Korea film title OH MY VENUS......

Davindal, ignore these people jojoor.

I think you need to tell her that you are reconsidering your relationship because of her weight. Tell her that although you love her, you do not find her sexually attractive and sex is too important in a relationship to compromise without a very good reason.

layla129:


I wish...they are contacts

They suit you.

U must marry her cos you started giving her fatness more over u knew b4s now. Love doesnt count.

Her plus size weight is juz a revelation that u love her coz of the curves... Curves will disappear, Beauty fades, black hair will become white... Gym will be cool but she will still grow more bigger

This Guy needs to be flogged with koboko.

Shuuu?!!! Then you don't love her. That's her real nature coming to reality now, she go kill herself? You've promised her remember, stick to it.

IamLEGEND1:
dump her overinflated àss.

Don't let anyone convince you otherwise. the heart wants what the heart wants,do not compromise.

Do you copy,modafucka? I repeat: DO NOT COMPROMISE!

Some peeps be talking without even bothering to read d gist, dude his heart wants her, her weight is the problem here. And u dnt av to insult the girl, jeez u dnt even know her. Frustrated peeps everywhere

Davindal:
Hey guys! I'll keep it snappy here.

There is this girl in my life, she will be 21 this coming October and she loves me a lot. In fact, she is my chosen one among my girlfriends.

I was the guy that deflowered her. I have dated her 4 years now. When we started, she was so pretty, radiant and elegant, all these qualities laced with good manners - despite her beauty, great intelligence and culinary skills. Considering all this qualities, I decided to promise her marriage for I truly love her; knowing full well that her type is rare. After the promise of marriage, I realized that our love for each other grew a step further.

Furthermore, before now; she was my exclusive reserve for matrimony(marriage), such that I don't see any succedaneum(substitute) to her - even though I do date several other ladies - but I have no meaningful plan for them except this gal.

Unfortunately, this my gal has decide to let loose her body, she doesn't watch over her weight, such that she is no longer as curvy, elegant and 8-figured as she used to be, though she is tall - a few inches or 2 inches to 6ft. In fact, she is now as fat as whatever description you may be cogitating within your mind. That fatness is gradually eating up her killer curves, I have sat her down severally to talk through this issue severally; I reminded her that as a medical student(4LV med.& surg.), she should be in a better position to know any means possible to apply in order to loose weight. She insisted that she has been trying her best to shed down but to no avail, and was even crying.

Please guys! What do I do now? I hate plus size ladies aka OROGBO, and can never marry one. Should I completely ditch her for good, even though I still love her deeply? I need an advice.

Something is doing you... Maybe some people from your village are calling ur name or something...

I think it's high time seun osewa should start a psychology section in nairaland or employ a couple of psychiatrists to evaluate some kind people..

I mean..

Cos i don't understand why some guys go just dey reason like maggot...

Rexhenrex:
am sorry but it seems you replaced your brain with beef shawamar..

because with this you just posted it can be deduced that you are after her body, if not her physical appearance won't stop you in as much as it quite matters it shouldn't be the reason you won't marry her na...u ma check am na bro. as long as she has manners, and brains I will say stick with her...you both can go for road works together and hit the gym it would help that am sure of...

#don't let her slip away from you...you never know the value of what you have till u loose it!

You can't just dabble into the conclusion that he only loves her physical body. Love alone is not enough in marriage ; there has to be qualities you know you can live with, and when you spot those you know you can't cope with better opt out as a broken heart is better than a broken home. So you want him to marry and abandon his plus size wife at home and go out to fornicate with so called "curvy" ones? Courtship is there for you to identify whether you can or cannot live with each other.

That is why sex is dangerous in a relationship before marriage. If there hadn't been sex, parting ways wouldn't be mountain task as no one will feel used and dumped.
Though I am not advocating that he leaves her being that she's well mannered. I don't like plus sizes as well, but I'd rather marry an orobo that will give me peace for the rest of my days than Agbani that'll cook high BP for me daily.

Davindal:
Hey guys! I'll keep it snappy here.

There is this girl in my life, she will be 21 this coming October and she loves me a lot. In fact, she is my chosen one among my girlfriends.

I was the guy that deflowered her. I have dated her 4 years now. When we started, she was so pretty, radiant and elegant, all these qualities laced with good manners - despite her beauty, great intelligence and culinary skills. Considering all this qualities, I decided to promise her marriage for I truly love her; knowing full well that her type is rare. After the promise of marriage, I realized that our love for each other grew a step further.

Furthermore, before now; she was my exclusive reserve for matrimony(marriage), such that I don't see any succedaneum(substitute) to her - even though I do date several other ladies - but I have no meaningful plan for them except this gal.

Unfortunately, this my gal has decide to let loose her body, she doesn't watch over her weight, such that she is no longer as curvy, elegant and 8-figured as she used to be, though she is tall - a few inches or 2 inches to 6ft. In fact, she is now as fat as whatever description you may be cogitating within your mind. That fatness is gradually eating up her killer curves, I have sat her down severally to talk through this issue severally; I reminded her that as a medical student(4LV med.& surg.), she should be in a better position to know any means possible to apply in order to loose weight. She insisted that she has been trying her best to shed down but to no avail, and was even crying.

Please guys! What do I do now? I hate plus size ladies aka OROGBO, and can never marry one. Should I completely ditch her for good, even though I still love her deeply? I need an advice.

Sometimes we don't know what we really want....I prefer Orobo to high bp and migraine inducing women....


BTW, skipping rope is #500

#blessmatau
#Thegodsarewise

Dating someone for d appearance is d worst thing u can do....all does things dey fade....ma dear u loved her curves n now she's fat u kinda wanna run Na...make she born first she wld blow ....4 yrs ago she was skinny now she's fat...she's growing oooo uncle so if u are not ready to c how squeezed her face wld look @50 den don't bother wasting ur time oooo....