The truth is painful but must be spoken nonetheless. I've heard some complaints from some friends plus some of my past experiences. Ladies, if you don't have plans for a guy stop the following:

1. Stop calling him "sweet names" like dearie, sweetheart, honey, love etc.

We know you're a "lovie duvie" but biko, control it enh...don't give him false hope. Let friends be friends NOT lovers. Unless you want to switch over, then you open up.


2. Stop visiting him on skimpy clothes and buttoned shirts, especially when you're 'courageous'.

You visit a guy whose ear NL has filled with topics like 'How ladies behave when they want to get laid". If you don't have plans for him, quit sending those signals. Remember: To every sequence, there is a consequence.


3. Stop getting jealous when you see him with other girls

You don't want to marry him, yet you get jealous when he's making headway, relationship-wise. You're not his mother, biko. Friends sef have limits.

4. Stop discussing your past relationships with him- it's not his business.

This thing you are saying is communicating something different to his mind. You want to talk with someone, you have besties right? False hope everywhere! Now, what do you want him to do? Leave his girl and come solve your relationship problems?


5. Stop visiting him at odd or questionable hours

This is one major way smart and decent girls nicely wipe the thought away from the mind of numerous suitors. If you don't want intimacy, don't visit him at all sef. Not like all guys are like that, but MOST girls are like that. A girl visits you and choose to be a good boy, then she hates you. The next point expatiate more...


6. Don't suggest sleeping in his house or vice versa because something might happen.

This offers a protective measure. Don't get me wrong: if there's an understanding, it's okay. More often than not, in a corrupt world of ours, no one can be trusted in a cold bed. You can trust him but can you trust his "down there". If you don't want "harassment", avoid stuff like this.

7. Don't "miss" him.

Ever woke up in the morning and you see a text message in your phone by "just a friend' saying 'I miss you'. That stirs up questions as much as it does hormones. It's risky.

JUST ADDED:

8. Stop 'breasting' him

You don't have plans for him and you'll be staining his white clean shirt with your b**bs. C'mon! That's unfair! Some will just come with their coconut and rest on your body as if your skin cells are dead and gone. Let's change in 2016.

Abeg enh, let's know the ladies that are still single and available. Don't colour-blind us. If you are in love, show it and don't act funny when we reciprocate. Relationship leads to marriage when both parties are honest to themselves. Its childish and evil to start acting innocent after you have caused him to sin at heart. I honestly believe, a few guys won't easily swallow this bitter pill as they'll seek ways to avenge.

You can share your experiences too.

Goodnight.

abi ooo



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Those who do these aren't ladies, they are girls. No matter their age I see them as girls

Lmao @point 1

Well said bro, you deserve a standing ovation for schooling these numbskulls.. sorry..i mean ladies

tintedniggz:
Lmao @point 1

And they're very quick to start calling you sweet names enh...

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vizkiz:
another female bashing thread. Mehn, this trend don dey tire me oh... If we bash all the women for nairaland finish, how many wan remain

Pretend like you understand English. Can you state the line that's actually doing so?

If the guy finds out by body language that the girl is not interested in him, He should move on.
"There is Someone For Everyone"

Ladies and their wahala sha...

emusmith:
And they're very quick to start calling you sweet names enh...

I don hear "sweets" taya

Nice One Emusmith.

Great points.

Lemme add mine.

1.Stop Asking For Money:Ladies requested too much of money from the guy.At the end of the day when the guy is not capable of handling the request again, they dump him just like a "Chicken Bone".

2.Ladies should stop going to his house everyday just to watch Telemundo.

3.Ladies should stop asking for a kiss, hug or sex from a guy they don't have plans for.

4.Ladies should stop acting like his girlfriend.The guy might believe you're his girlfriend which might reduces his chance of chasing another lady.

5.They should stop jealousy when he's talking to another bae.

Just my opinions.

8. Stop 'breasting' him
You don't have plans for him and you'll be staining his white clean shirt with your b**bs. C'mon! That's unfair! Some will just come with their coconut and rest on your body as if yout skin cells are sea and gone. Let's change in 2016.

I dislike dis one Ehn

And the moment the Knight rises... they are quick to tag him with bad names.

A guy will always know wen a boobs touch him even if he is sleeping not to talk of resting it on him.

Biko ladies don't punish the guy.

Let the bashing begin

Adaure4ever:
If the guy finds out by body language that the girl is not interested in him, He should move on.
"There is Someone For Everyone"

you have got IT again

3,4,8

She likes doing it...especially 3...
Upon she said no to me o...

Still dunno why shes doing those tho...
Even with a rich boyfriend

Those are signs that yuaf been friendzoned and she is really enjoying it.

tintedniggz:

I don hear "sweets" taya

haha, my ear don full of sweets and honey... Some even say, 'handsome'...in my mind, I'm like, 'you are a superstar'

Adaure4ever:
If the guy finds out by body language that the girl is not interested in him, He should move on.
"There is Someone For Everyone"

Body Language? All this thread is about is her sending the wrong signal na

tintedniggz:
I don hear "sweets" taya

Sotey diabetes go begin catch you

DanceVille:
Nice One Emusmith.

Great points.

Lemme add mine.

1.Stop Asking For Money:Ladies requested too much of money from the guy.At the end of the day when the guy is not capable of handling the request again, they dump him just like a "Chicken Bone".

2.Ladies should stop going to his house everyday just to watch Telemundo.

3.Ladies should stop asking for a kiss, hug or sex from a guy they don't have plans for.

4.Ladies should stop acting like his girlfriend.The guy might believe you're his girlfriend which might reduces his chance of chasing another lady.

5.They should stop jealousy when he's talking to another bae.

Just my opinions.

Thanks bro. Your points are always like arrows!

Angelberry:
Let the bashing begin

Is this really a bashing thread dearie?

1 & 7 ... I'll live to forget it surely ... Didn't know how it all started but it just pushed me into it

Let kip playing the game...survival of the fittest..#GuyzPlayTheBallLadiesKipCatching!!

DharmyYinks:

I dislike dis one Ehn

And the moment the Knight rises... they are quick to tag him with bad names.

A guy will always know wen a boobs touch him even if he is sleeping not to talk of resting it on him.

Biko ladies don't punish the guy.

hahahaha

Stanleywaxy:
Sotey diabetes go begin catch you

Lol type 1 diabetes

I love this very funny, i have a lady friend that does all these.

thou i approached her a year ago , she turned me down but she is doing all the aforelisted

emusmith:
haha, my ear don full of sweets and honey... Some even say, 'handsome'...in my mind, I'm like, 'you are a superstar'

Handsome don full basket for my side oh

tintedniggz:

Handsome don full basket for my side oh

Haha, small small chicks wey never reach sef wan to form wife material

falconey:
I love this very funny, i have a lady friend that does all these.

thou i approached her a year ago , she turned me down but she is doing all the aforelisted

Wow! It's hard to believe though, all of these?