The friend of my friend is sick and dying according to my friend, with nobody to help him out. He has attempted taking his life on several occasion. My friend came to me for help, I asked some questions concerning the family of the guy which she wouldn't tell me. She will always get upset when I ask her, the reason nobody from the guy's immediate family will want to bring money for his treatment. The guy was a Corp member serving somewhere in Edo state before his service was terminated, as it stands now he will repeat the one year service again. I have suggested some ideas to my friend like the guy selling one of their lands in the villa to get money for his treatment,she will always say no to it. We talked again few days back, she asked for my help which I told her,i can't help her out. I need to know some thing about the guy and their family which the answers isn't forth coming. We always quarrel about it.

Even if, we find someone to help him ,the person will still ask same questions I have been asking without getting an answer. She's been a long time friend to me. If someone here has been in such a situation maybe you can help me with few ideas to go about this please. Each day that passes his health is getting worse. My friend even cries over the phone sometimes when she calls that he is dying. I once told her to let go of the guy before this illness arised she refused. Is also affecting her academically.

This is wat happens when ppl try to cover up a lie.

Me kunma am confuse

urgh...cud it be HIV/AIDS?
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see...I don tire joor..contact JERRY SPRINGER

Firstly, do you know the guy in question. Like have you meet him before?
Secondly, what type of sickness is the guy suffering from.

if u can help, help the guy for humanity sake, not until u know his background, when u pay ur tithe in church, do u ask questions on what the church does with the money?

I do not know the guy in person. I am not asking about the background. What am asking my friend is the reason why the guy's parent do not want to help him out. Before helping someone you still need to know how he relates with his immediate family. Also,based on things my friend has told me about the guy is good to know the type of person you helping.

The sickness he is suffering from, my friend has declined to tell me. Everything is done in secrecy that's the way I can put it.

the girl na wayo girl,she need the money for something personal, but she wants to manipulate you on giving her the money,,she might not come clean,so if you want to help her,just help her because you have extra,but don't help her because someone is sick,,,ie, it could be the guy he hopes to marry someday,needs the money for his bizzz

achinaboy:
the girl na wayo girl,she need the money for something personal, but she wants to manipulate you on giving her the money,,she might not come clean,so if you want to help her,just help her because you have extra,but don't help her because someone is sick,,,ie, it could be the guy he hopes to marry someday,needs the money for his bizzz

You still not far from the truth shaa, nice opinion compared to what others above have written.

It could be HIV


#JustAsumming

I gave my friend the suggestion that since she can't help him out, She can as well meet the reverend father of the Catholic church where she worship in or maybe tell the guy to sell one of their lands in the villa and raise money for his treatment. But I will be surprised that my friend, will only say, are you going to help him or not. Why she keeps avoiding my opinion is what confuses me the more. If she can't name the sickness which myself doubt is even a sickness I do not think she is been truthful to me. My mind tells me there's more to it.

something is seriously wrong somewhere!!! u av asked salient questions, that any1 that seriously needs help will speedily answer.. and in some cases, some will even tell you everything even b4 u asking. tell her u just wanna c d guy and will ask no further questions.. take it up from there.

GoldenJAT make I dey follow u 4 back dis morning, e be lyk say na u I see 4 my dream.

optional1:
GoldenJAT make I dey follow u 4 back dis morning, e be lyk say na u I see 4 my dream.

you sure so? make e no b a case of mistaken identity o!

GoldenJAT:
you sure so? make e no b a case of mistaken identity o!

Egbon mi, Am 100% sure, my dreams no dy lie

*blows cheeks*

optional1:




Egbon mi, Am 100% sure, my dreams no dy lie

ummmm!!!time shall tell... until then, hwas ur nite?

GoldenJAT:
ummmm!!!time shall tell... until then, hwas ur nite?

my nite was splendid after witness u in my dream. Nd urs?


E ka ru

optional1:


my nite was splendid after witness u in my dream. Nd urs?


E ka ru

it was pretty cool.. except 4 occasional turning cos of heat. and u can c sum1 u don't know or av seen in ur dream?

GoldenJAT:
it was pretty cool.. except 4 occasional turning cos of heat. and u can c sum1 u don't know or av seen in ur dream?

Me dream nd as I wake up I jst see shining face. Dat means is u I saw

Doxie69:
The friend of my friend is sick and dying according to my friend, with nobody to help him out. He has attempted taking his life on several occasion. My friend came to me for help, I asked some questions concerning the family of the guy which she wouldn't tell me. She will always get upset when I ask her, the reason nobody from the guy's immediate family will want to bring m mooney for his treatment. The guy was a Corp member serving somewhere in Edo state before his service was terminated, as it stands now he will repeat the one year service again. I have suggested some ideas to my friend like the guy selling one of their lands in the villa to get money for his treatment,she will always say no to it. We talked again few days back, she asked for my help which I told her,i can't help her out. I need to know some thing about the guy and their family which the answers isn't forth coming. We always quarrel about it.

Even if, we find someone to help him ,the person will still ask same questions I have been asking without getting an answer. She's been a long time friend to me. If someone here has been in such a situation maybe you can help me with few ideas to go about this please. Each day that passes his health is getting worse. My friend even cries over the phone sometimes when she calls that he is dying. I once told her to let go of the guy before this illness arised she refused. Is also affecting her academically.

Since she has decided to bear the secret alone which by the way I suspect may be something heinous in respect to both parties hence the family taking a hands off stance in regard to the issue, she should be woman enough to watch him deteriorate health wise ultimately holding his hands when he finally expires.

Stay your hand and don't go blind into a battle before you go carry another man curse for your head. If in the magnanimity of your heart you still insist on helping, both parties must come clean.

Remember, to be forewarned is to be forearmed.