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Do All Men Change In Marriage? by Godmother(f): 6:13pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
I noticed that a lot of men change after the wedding is concluded and marriage begins. They become a little withdrawn, very authoritative, and sometimes slightly selfish. Only what they want will happen in the home. There's very little time to show affection to their woman as they claim they now have other pressing needs like putting food on the table. Its well. I stand to be corrected if I'm wrong though. 1 Like |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by Nobody: 6:14pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
Not all 1 Like |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by Dyt(f): 6:35pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
Some are just that way Some been that way but the lady might decide to ignore And some are just some Its both ways sha The men will say I have you now, you can't do nothing The women will say I am your wife already so ![]() ![]() Btw Mr Godmother changed? 1 Like |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by tranxo(m): 6:38pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
Godmother: Hmmmm. Personal experience? 1 Like |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by Godmother(f): 6:50pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
Dyt: Lolz, he hasn't changed o. A friend came over to visit today and was complaining bitterly of her hubby. have also had some other friends drop the same complaint. |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by Godmother(f): 6:51pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
tranxo: Nope |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by Adesiji77: 7:58pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
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Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by Godmother(f): 8:21pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by nnamdibig(m): 8:27pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
Not all but everybody changes after marriage both men & women and most times the change is always for the worse. That's why couples have challenges in early years of marriage cos they will start seeing things they were not seeing during courtship. It's not only men but both men & women. 4 Likes |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by crackhaus: 8:54pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
Godmother:Na so... It's your friend's hubby that changed, as well as some other friends of yours who complained the same way. Your own husband that did not change in/after marriage is not enough to tell you that not all men change abi, you still had to ask the question. Oya clap for yourself... ![]() ![]() 12 Likes |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by greatgod2012(f): 9:08pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
Not all men o. But the truth is that if any man or any woman changes after tying the knot, it simply implies that the individual involved has only been pretending to be loving before the marriage is conducted. 2 Likes |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by byvan03: 10:10pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
It's not true at all, most ladies fall for the fake care and a few gifts only to turn around in marriage and think the man changed. He is being his true self now. Some men became the best versions of themselves in marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by raumdeuter: 10:20pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
People spend all the time being fake while dating they now think they changed in marriage 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by oloyede252(m): 10:38pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
crackhaus:its never abt them always their friends,sister etc. 3 Likes |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by Nosu(m): 11:02am On Apr 26, 2016 |
yes, Men change after wedding as well as the women, that is the reality. You can't tell me that you are still the same person you were when you were in secondary school/university, some things must have certainly changed. The truth remains that people don't like change and they resist it because they don't want to face reality. After wedding the man and the woman suddenly take up different roles and more responsibilities than they were before the wedding. After wedding, the man; 1. He becomes more logical( calculative): He is now more logical, He will not buy at impulse like he used to do before wedding. He now asked why(most of the time) before he attends to your requests. 2. The man becomes more quiet : as a result of number 1 and also because the wife can not manage or handle some information 3. He is more authoritative (controlling): You can't blame him, he is the head and if things go wrong due to his negligence even his wife will call him a fool 4. The calls reduces and the attention might also reduces: they are more concern about providing for the physical need of the family etc someone should please help me with a list for the women folks. however, I know that the change for women is more obvious when they are pregnant. 5 Likes |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by tranxo(m): 1:09pm On Apr 26, 2016 |
Godmother: Hmmmm. So how exactly did you 'notice' this? |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by Godmother(f): 8:42am On May 04, 2016 |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by Nobody: 2:39pm On May 04, 2016 |
“Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed.” Albert Einstein ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by TV01(m): 3:17pm On May 04, 2016 |
It will read better as "marriage changes all men". Either way, women should choose a man whom marriage will change for the better. TV ...note, not necessarily character or conduct, but other attributes! |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by Kimoni: 3:48pm On May 04, 2016 |
crackhaus: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() OP, even if you say your husband has changed and it's for reasons like pressure of putting food on the table as you highlighted, nothing to be ashamed of in that pls. It's expected that some dynamics will change as a man's family increases and expenses grow, it's also expected that some things will change about the woman as her body goes through the rigors of multiple pregnancies and childbirths. Moods will change, bodies will change. Many women will swear their children have taught them to be more patient. These are just examples and there are many more...these changes are expected and every family will experience it in some way. It's how both parties handle it that makes the difference. 1 Like |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by Kimoni: 4:09pm On May 04, 2016 |
Nosu: Exactly! nothing abnormal in all the changes the OP highlighted. Guess part of the problem is also "expectations in marriage". People need to manage their expectation and face realities. Chicken republic may not be everyday again naa ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by crackhaus: 6:41pm On May 04, 2016 |
Kimoni: ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by diva90: 6:13am On May 05, 2016 |
Yes they do! They all do unfortunately 1 Like |
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