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His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Latika1510: 1:30am On Apr 26, 2016
I got pregnant for my boyfriend
but his mother and himself wants me to be more patient and wait until he is financially stronger until we tell the dad otherwise he will disown my boyfriend. In the meantime they promised they will help me however they can.

Long story short I agreed but he has been neglecting me and the child while I am been the best mother I could be , should I stop this circus and tell his father so he can face his responsibility?
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Nobody: 1:41am On Apr 26, 2016
He is a dead beat father to ur child and nothing can change that..if the only last sort is to tell his father, then do it so he cud support ur child financially and plz get out of his league..u don't need more mess in ur life, u have that angel that will keep u on ur lane & give him a bright future...

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Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Latika1510: 1:46am On Apr 26, 2016
KashyBaby:
He is a dead beat father to ur child and nothing can change that..if the only last sort is to tell his father, then do it so he cud support ur child financially and plz get out of his league..u don't need more mess in ur life, u have that angel that will keep u on ur lane & give him a bright future...


Thank you I am afraid it is the last resort also.
I put my shame and pain aside and try to protect him and did the best for our baby.
He pays me back by being a dead beat.
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Tapout(m): 2:25am On Apr 26, 2016
Latika1510:
I got pregnant for my boyfriend
but his mother and himself wants me to be more patient and wait until he is financially stronger until we tell the dad otherwise he will disown my boyfriend. In the meantime they promised they will help me however they can.

Long story short I agreed but he has been neglecting me and the child while I am been the best mother I could be , should I stop this circus and tell his father so he can face his responsibility?

Hot gist..... #troll
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by hkidola00(m): 2:51am On Apr 26, 2016
KashyBaby:
He is a dead beat father to ur child and nothing can change that..if the only last sort is to tell his father, then do it so he cud support ur child financially and plz get out of his league..u don't need more mess in ur life, u have that angel that will keep u on ur lane & give him a bright future...
wao kashybaby, so u gat good advice, i never knew, tot u just about fuckingg fuckkingg and more sex positions grin
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Nobody: 3:10am On Apr 26, 2016
hkidola00:
wao kashybaby, so u gat good advice, i never knew, tot u just about fuckingg fuckkingg and more sex positions grin



Lol...who doesn't want sex abi? tongue
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Shawlambivert(m): 3:15am On Apr 26, 2016
It's a difficult one o. Do you people have a relationship so?. I'm not sure from your write up. Well... don't relent in your effort of being the best mother. And do what you think is needful. We really dunno him and the circumstances between you two.
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Latika1510: 3:36am On Apr 26, 2016
Shawlambivert:
It's a difficult one o. Do you people have a relationship so?. I'm not sure from your write up. Well... don't relent in your effort of being the best mother. And do what you think is needful. We really dunno him and the circumstances between you two.

We were in a relationship but we broke up because I think he was just making empty promises to me. I wanted us to build a real future and he was not clear with his intentions. Instead of being hurt further down the road I decided to end. Now he has become a complete deadbeat
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by faithugo64(f): 3:51am On Apr 26, 2016
op you knew he was not financially stable and you were doing it with him without protection,pray to God because you are in for a long thing


ladies learn from this

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Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Latika1510: 4:23am On Apr 26, 2016
faithugo64:
op you knew he was not financially stable and you were doing it with him without protection,pray to God because you are in for a long thing


ladies learn from this
There is always room to grow isnt there?
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by faithugo64(f): 4:26am On Apr 26, 2016
Latika1510:
There is always room to grow isnt there?
sure
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Nobody: 7:49am On Apr 26, 2016
faithugo64:
op you knew he was not financially stable and you were doing it with him without protection,pray to God because you are in for a long thing


ladies learn from this
Please, tell her. I can supply you handkerchiefs, Op. Did he tell you the-next-best-thing is a baby? I'm sure he didn't but in una usual way of 'tying a bloke down; you did your best by perfecting it. Ngwanu, who's complaining now? Biko, brace yourself and be the mother you aspire to be.
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by stinggy(m): 7:58am On Apr 26, 2016
chimkaire:
Please, tell her. I can supply you handkerchiefs, Op. Did he tell you the-next-best-thing is a baby? I'm sure he didn't but in una usual way of 'tying a bloke down; you did your best by perfecting it. Ngwanu, who's complaining now? Biko, brace yourself and be the mother you aspire to be.
lol..... Wicked being, you just reminded me of that 'our colleague' issue grin

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Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Nobody: 8:02am On Apr 26, 2016
KashyBaby:
He is a dead beat father to ur child and nothing can change that..if the only last sort is to tell his father, then do it so he cud support ur child financially and plz get out of his league..u don't need more mess in ur life, u have that angel that will keep u on ur lane & give him a bright future...
Hehe...was he ready to be a 'Dad' talk more of a 'dead-beat one' undecided
You dunno Naija men don code? Most girls here use 'married' as a means cheesy
They ask the 'poor' guy for money for Onion(s) and Maggi to cook. Ana'm anu! He be slave naa
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Nobody: 8:07am On Apr 26, 2016
stinggy:

lol..... Wicked being, you just reminded me of that 'our colleague' issue grin
lipsrsealed make I show you the 'list' lipsrsealed
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by stinggy(m): 8:16am On Apr 26, 2016
Latika1510:

There is always room to grow isnt there?
Of course there is, especially when the lady works or at least engage herself in a business, not the parasitic relationship you painted up there (no offence meant).
You probably offered nothing more than warming his bed and of course as things went on, he saw you as a liability than an asset you're meant to be.

My advice: Judging from your posts, you must have a certificate. Dust yourself up, engage in something profitable, it's never too late.
If you can tell the dad too, better. That will ensure he takes some financial responsibilities on the baby till you can stand for yourself.

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Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by stinggy(m): 8:33am On Apr 26, 2016
chimkaire:
lipsrsealed make I show you the 'list' lipsrsealed
smh...oya now
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Latika1510: 8:35am On Apr 26, 2016
chimkaire:
Please, tell her. I can supply you handkerchiefs, Op. Did he tell you the-next-best-thing is a baby? I'm sure he didn't but in una usual way of 'tying a bloke down; you did your best by perfecting it. Ngwanu, who's complaining now? Biko, brace yourself and be the mother you aspire to be.

People like you always defend deadbeats.
We had actually discussed marriage and kids after graduating. It happened earlier.
He should happy I am clean and instead of an incurable std i gave him a healthy baby.
It takes 2 to tango.
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Nobody: 8:57am On Apr 26, 2016
stinggy:

smh...oya now
... grin. I dey kwum lipsrsealed cheesy
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Nobody: 9:05am On Apr 26, 2016
Latika1510:


People like you always defend deadbeats.
We had actually discussed marriage and kids after graduating. It happened earlier.
He should happy I am clean and instead of an incurable std i gave him a healthy baby.
It takes 2 to tango.
Why won't I defend deadbeats? Must your 'roll-in-the-sack' end in being parents

I got brothers sad
You can't 'keep a man but a man that wants to be kept' undecided
Stop embarrassing the entire 'woman-race' grin
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Latika1510: 3:04am On May 05, 2016
stinggy:

Of course there is, especially when the lady works or at least engage herself in a business, not the parasitic relationship you painted up there (no offence meant).
You probably offered nothing more than warming his bed and of course as things went on, he saw you as a liability than an asset you're meant to be.

My advice: Judging from your posts, you must have a certificate. Dust yourself up, engage in something profitable, it's never too late.
If you can tell the dad too, better. That will ensure he takes some financial responsibilities on the baby till you can stand for yourself.

Yes i am not waiting around I have accomplished a lot of things in the meantime and I am EXTREMeLy proud of myself for that.
And yes I will contact the dad.
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Latika1510: 3:07am On May 05, 2016
Shawlambivert:
It's a difficult one o. Do you people have a relationship so?. I'm not sure from your write up. Well... don't relent in your effort of being the best mother. And do what you think is needful. We really dunno him and the circumstances between you two.

We are trying to be friends now we speak on a daily basis. But he sees me doing well, our child is beautiful , smart, happy spirit, travels alot with me and recieves plenty of love and I guess he feels she is doing just fine so let me not put any pressure on myself.

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Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by Shawlambivert(m): 7:39am On May 05, 2016
Cool. This is so pleasing to the ears. Just keep this up. It's so much more important raising a lovely kid than worrying about a man. All the best for the future I wish for you.
Latika1510:


We are trying to be friends now we speak on a daily basis. But he sees me doing well, our child is beautiful , smart, happy spirit, travels alot with me and recieves plenty of love and I guess he feels she is doing just fine so let me not put any pressure on myself.
Re: His Father Will Disown Him If Her Finds Out About My Pregnancy by MasterBaiter: 7:48am On May 05, 2016
I don't know how I can help your situation

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