Here's my philosophy: Even if I have Billions and Billions of Naira, I won't date any girl not willing to make sacrifices.

For example: We go on a date maybe 3 times a month, from January to September I've been footing the bills, never for once did you even offer to pay the bills even though you are earning good income. My dear girl, October is the month you get sacked!

For example: Every month from January to September I give you 200k for upkeep even though you have a job, in October I had a problem with my bank and asked you to loan me 200k for emergency spending, you don't seem to have any money; my girl you've just been sacked!

Conclusion: Any girl worth her weight in gold would not depend on a guy to survive. A guy can foot your bills, care for every expenses but if all you offer is sex, sooner or later he'll realize that you are easily replaceable and nothing but a liability!

What if you marry a rich guy and then he becomes broke later, what do you do?

Caringguy:
Op you're damn right..., i remember way back in 2013 when i was one of the broke nigga's in my area.... I really suffer in the hands of the beautiful girls that i encounter then... Well it's a long story sha, but thank God i con later break rules to be were i am today got my first car @23.....shey na me con dey suffer dem girls now? oya shoki









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If you went in harm robbery and yahoo yahoo to impress girls. Don't think you're successful.

Tbells91:



Truthfully, these things you listed here happen and it can be frustrating at times! But there are some things you as a lady dating a broke guy should know and do.
First, you knew he is broke before going into a relationship with him cz you saw something other than money.. Why not focus on that and find other means to get money, you can start a business or just manage your allowance from your parents to maintain yourself. (you don't have to share that with if you're not cool with it)

The issue of buying things for your friends to impress them is so unnecessary, is it to get their approval to date you or what? I guess you're just trying to boost your own ego. Know his capability at that time you're asking him to buy things and still insisting shows you're not considerate and that will definitely cause fight cz he'll feel bitter about his status and it's a damage to his self-esteem and ego and you're not helping matters.
What I do in situations like that is, whenever I have money, I'll buy things for my friends, what I know they'll appreciate, and tell them it's from my boyfriend. I'll tell him he's owing me and trust me, I always know how to get it back.

Another thing is a guy wey stingy as e broke go stingy if he get money! By stingy, I mean not sharing the little he has AT ALL.. Always saying he has plans!

If a guy is not lazy and things ain't just working yet, it's better. But if you're dating a student who is not working, my dear, na to just enjoy any other thing he has to offer or join the next train.
All in all, A woman has got to be independent too! Work for yourself, spend money and live your financial life like you don't have a boyfriend, that way you won't think of his brokeness cz you're paying your own bills yourself!

Shout out to all the ladies dating broke guys! It's not easy mehn!

You are very lucky that i am married.

If not i would have seized you and would have paid your bride price this very hour!( regardless whether you are married or not)

What a damsel with a beautiful mind! (yes i say this without even knowing you)

cssRhythm:
haaa, please, why the insult? I'm sure I can always share my opinion and it doesn't have to correlate with yours.

Are you a female?

Don't spend money on biitches ,never have ,never will.
Kerosene users date Kerosene users and so on. So I really do not understand this karosin yarn from the OP

rubbish..... meaningless...... mtccchhhheeeeewwwwwwww...........

cssRhythm:
haaa, please, why the insult? I'm sure I can always share my opinion and it doesn't have to correlate with yours.

Just because your post is meaningless. Wouldn't be surprised if you come here to complain that a chick milked you? Do you really have milk? Obviously not.

ebubey:



Source: http://www.kamdora.com/2016/04/24/dating-a-broke-guy-my-experience-is-it-worth-it/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=post&utm_campaign=broke

You just spilled total trash. Your kind will expect your brother who can't afford to recharge his phone to have a gf. Girls are always setting standard for guys that non of her brothers have every reached , not because they want the best for the bf but because they are after their own comfort which they can't get on their own . In a relationship you see girls wanting their bf to have a car just as if the ladies are scared of going in to a car shop to buy a car . I dated a girl back then , whenever we are going out she will be complaining that she's tired of using public transport , but her father has never bought a car , her three elder brothers who are much older than me and her married have never bought a car , and I'm doing very much better than her brother who's about my age . The question is , if she can understand the financial difficulties that can't make her brothers provide the necessary comfort for their wives whom they already committed to why cant she understand ours that's still on the preliminary stage ? And as for a man being successful and his name being heard than that of his wife . It's still same with a successful lady. Forget the fact that Mrs Folorunsho (Richest Nigerian woman) is still answering the name of her husband , What do you know about her husband ? Nothing . She's still the famous one cos of the money . Ladies should learn to earn . I've dated a girl that earn money and it's much more easier and less stressful . They take care of little challanges on their own. How can a girl be asking her bf for 200 card ? If she can't get that for herself what then can she do for herself ? Most Nigerian girls are so last to the bone that even after graduation they wont even type their own CV . You will see a girl months after graduation she still doesn't have her CV ready . They just want to be on BBM daily and beg money for everything . SPECIAL S/O TO THE GIRLS THAT PUT THEMSELVES TO WORK

Ok... So first, you claim ti see a future in him, but you are ashamed of him. You claimed that the primary motive of a relationship should be "LOVE", but you are concerned with whether or not he impresses YOUR FRIENDS? Excuse me? Has it ever occurred to you that most of the "rich guys" you are actually crying about spend their parents money? Do you think long term or short term? How rich do you think those "rich boys" will be in 10 years time?

The most important value of a man is his future. How bright they are.. . There are a lot of guys who are rich dummies. meaning they got a lot in their pockets now but are likely to end up middle class in future. You are short sighted and all that matters to you is the glamour that comes with a relationship. You think with your belly and that's why you are exactly the type of chic to avoid.

My dad was broke when he married my mum. Looking at my family now you wouldn't believe there was ever a time my dad was ever broke. I'm so glad she didn't think like you. Because if she did she would have gotten married to a "rich young man" in 1990 who wouldn't have been a wealthy as my 2016 dad.

And what about you? Don't you have money? You don't have the right to want a rich boyfriend if you are broke yourself. Pressuring your boyfriend for money and show off when all you bring to the relationship is Kitty-Cat and hungry friends. Only a broke girl places so much value on money. Lack of money doesn't make you broke. A shallow mind does.

Bye.

ebubey:



Source: http://www.kamdora.com/2016/04/24/dating-a-broke-guy-my-experience-is-it-worth-it/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=post&utm_campaign=broke

LAZY girl,go nd work, stop depending on guys, useless olosho

cherryice:
Sm rich men r stingier dan broke dudes.. All dt matters is that, no matter hw little he's got hes able to give you

I couldn't but agree with this comment 100 percent, Lovely!! even though u offended me in the past

"I love my baby very much but as little as N100 can
cause a misunderstanding between us."

Is that you at your profile? If yes! It means you didn't give us the full gist

Who is taking care of that look and skin?

Or you're one of them that keeps one husband material and flirt with many rich guys?

Caringguy:
Op you're damn right..., i remember way back in 2013 when i was one of the broke nigga's in my area.... I really suffer in the hands of the beautiful girls that i encounter then... Well it's a long story sha, but thank God i con later break rules to be were i am today got my first car @23.....shey na me con dey suffer dem girls now? oya shoki









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#Trendmimzy

It pain me the way some ladies reason nowaday, atime i feel like crying yet they wouldnt learn. The truth is, majority of them cant boldly come out to tell us that their dad was rich when they married, that is majority reason why love cant/couldnt be strong as experienced by our parents.

Wahalaboy:
Ok... So first, you claim ti see a future in him, but you are ashamed of him. You claimed that the primary motive of a relationship should be "LOVE", but you are concerned with whether or not he impresses YOUR FRIENDS? Excuse me? Has it ever occurred to you that most of the "rich guys" you are actually crying about spend their parents money? Do you think long term or short term? How rich do you think those "rich boys" will be in 10 years time?

The most important value of a man is his future. How bright they are.. . There are a lot of guys who are rich dummies. meaning they got a lot in their pockets now but are likely to end up middle class in future. You are short sighted and all that matters to you is the glamour that comes with a relationship. You think with your belly and that's why you are exactly the type of chic to avoid.

My dad was broke when he married my mum. Looking at my family now you wouldn't believe there was ever a time my dad was ever broke. I'm so glad she didn't think like you. Because if she did she would have gotten married to a "rich young man" in 1990 who wouldn't have been a wealthy as my 2016 dad.

And what about you? Don't you have money? You don't have the right to want a rich boyfriend if you are broke yourself. Pressuring your boyfriend for money and show off when all you bring to the relationship is pussy and hungry friends. Only a broke girl places so much value on money. Lack of money doesn't make you broke. A shallow mind does.

Bye.

cherryice:
Sm rich men r stingier dan broke dudes.. All dt matters is that, no matter hw little he's got hes able to give you

spot on!

It's one thing to be broke and it's another to be stingy. OP it seems your boyfriend is very stingy.

I once dated a lady when I was very broke but that doesn't stop me from assisting her on Rare occasion and also present something tangible as bday gift even though I can't afford expensive things. The only painful aspect is that now when my financial status improved to some extent, we couldn't tie the knot due to tribalism from her parents.

wristbangle:


I couldn't but agree with this comment 100 percent, Lovely!! even though u offended me in the past

dude I dnt rembr offending u.. I dnt even remember d past

ebubey:



Source: http://www.kamdora.com/2016/04/24/dating-a-broke-guy-my-experience-is-it-worth-it/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=post&utm_campaign=broke

Well, Op, as long as you ain't broke. That's cool.

N1one:


Hey, how have you been?

im ok

bibiking7:



Funny thing is, she is right in some aspects. Just as guys like to show off with thier beautiful babe. Girls like to show off with thier well paid n good looking guy. She can't sell his hard work to her friends. You can't introduce an ugly lass to my hommies. They will phuck you up. Buttttttt. I have noticed that the only girls that have these financial complains are broke girls. So its not good. Just as ugly should not marry ugly, broke should avoid broke. The writer looks like she is looking for a moral justification to free the guy. Leave us out of it.
Go and make your own money.

GBAM !!.!

cherryice:
dude I dnt rembr offending u.. I dnt even remember d past

Okay. I only aired my opinion. I hold no grudges against u.

I have been reading through romance section since the past two years, this is the most sensible respond i have ever read























u have my like and share

Tbells91:



Truthfully, these things you listed here happen and it can be frustrating at times! But there are some things you as a lady dating a broke guy should know and do.
First, you knew he is broke before going into a relationship with him cz you saw something other than money.. Why not focus on that and find other means to get money, you can start a business or just manage your allowance from your parents to maintain yourself. (you don't have to share that with if you're not cool with it)

The issue of buying things for your friends to impress them is so unnecessary, is it to get their approval to date you or what? I guess you're just trying to boost your own ego. Know his capability at that time you're asking him to buy things and still insisting shows you're not considerate and that will definitely cause fight cz he'll feel bitter about his status and it's a damage to his self-esteem and ego and you're not helping matters.
What I do in situations like that is, whenever I have money, I'll buy things for my friends, what I know they'll appreciate, and tell them it's from my boyfriend. I'll tell him he's owing me and trust me, I always know how to get it back.

Another thing is a guy wey stingy as e broke go stingy if he get money! By stingy, I mean not sharing the little he has AT ALL.. Always saying he has plans!

If a guy is not lazy and things ain't just working yet, it's better. But if you're dating a student who is not working, my dear, na to just enjoy any other thing he has to offer or join the next train.
All in all, A woman has got to be independent too! Work for yourself, spend money and live your financial life like you don't have a boyfriend, that way you won't think of his brokeness cz you're paying your own bills yourself!

Shout out to all the ladies dating broke guys! It's not easy mehn!

Birds of the same feather ........

ireneony:
my sister what are u still do in in the relationship

My sister run like usain bolt!

cherryice:
im ok

alright dear. please support ivyy for miss nl 2016. thank you

Godsgal:
i wud av been disappointd if i didn't see a comment lyk dis. But thanks for not disappointing.
Its a pity & a shame as well when ladies unveil the bitter truth dat wil spur u guys 2 strive a lil' harder and be financialy fit so u'll be able to maintain that spark in ur r/ship & marital life, u misinterpret it & conclude she's a golddigger. I weep 4 guys like u.

What are you saying? Life is never an easy ride,if not you would have been self enriched to cater for yourself. Imagine a girl asking for #500 from her BF,what nonsense,if she feels #500 is a little money,while is she not having it?. A girl that begs for #500 is as broke as a broken bottle

Certifiedboss:


You just spilled total trash. Your kind will expect your brother who can't afford to recharge his phone to have a gf. Girls are always setting standard for guys that non of her brothers have every reached , not because they want the best for the bf but because they are after their own comfort which they can't get on their own . In a relationship you see girls wanting their bf to have a car just as if the ladies are scared of going in to a car shop to buy a car . I dated a girl back then , whenever we are going out she will be complaining that she's tired of using public transport , but her father has never bought a car , her three elder brothers who are much older than me and her married have never bought a car , and I'm doing very much better than her brother who's about my age . The question is , if she can understand the financial difficulties that can't make her brothers provide the necessary comfort for their wives whom they already committed to why cant she understand ours that's still on the preliminary stage ? And as for a man being successful and his name being heard than that of his wife . It's still same with a successful lady. Forget the fact that Mrs Folorunsho (Richest Nigerian woman) is still answering the name of her husband , What do you know about her husband ? Nothing . She's still the famous one cos of the money . Ladies should learn to earn . I've dated a girl that earn money and it's much more easier and less stressful . They take care of little challanges on their own. How can a girl be asking her bf for 200 card ? If she can't get that for herself what then can she do for herself ? Most Nigerian girls are so last to the bone that even after graduation they wont even type their own CV . You will see a girl months after graduation she still doesn't have her CV ready . They just want to be on BBM daily and beg money for everything . SPECIAL S/O TO THE GIRLS THAT PUT THEMSELVES TO WORK

Lol. My guy chill jare. I no know how rich the op be or her parents. It's only when you are making your money that you can complain of not wanting broke guys. I don't know why guys are dissipating their energy to explain things to her. .

I am neither disappointed nor angered by this thread but i think ladies are so wired to be dependents or better put, to look up to someone. This whole mindset started since when they were kids. Daddy always buy them stuffs and in most cases except for some homes, they are always the pet of the family. These same children grow up with that demandingness in their head and before you know it, they hide under the general believe of 'you are the man; you're the head of the house.' My dear, there's nothing bad in being proud of your man oooo but come to thing of it, was Aliko Dangote Rich from birth ? If Mama Peace had been like most of the ladies we have in this generation, she definitely would not be referred to as the former First lady. Truly your write-up is aimed at awakening the sleeping giant(s) but i think the approach or maybe some choice of word makes it wrong(personal Opinion, though). If you know the road to Riches and Upliftment, why not take the lead and ask him to follow......It's more competitive now and i can bet you know too.

Its ironic how women fight and support equality in every area of lives but not in the volume of the pocket.

Darling, the reality of real life is not your bf/hubby impressing your friends o.

The reality of life is much more than "My friends are going out but we are staying in His hot room".

Shalom!!

klassykute:
u comment is the most reasonable comment here today if i was single i would love to date u .. but since not possible .. i wanna b ur friend please ..

bro !!!!! Really

#TrendMIMZY

Caringguy:
Op you're damn right..., i remember way back in 2013 when i was one of the broke nigga's in my area.... I really suffer in the hands of the beautiful girls that i encounter then... Well it's a long story sha, but thank God i con later break rules to be were i am today got my first car @23.....shey na me con dey suffer dem girls now? oya shoki









Please don't forget to vote Mimzy for MissNL2016