Ladies consider wrong and inappropriate things before saying "YES! I DO" to a man.

Ladies do think that what they viewed or seen in him shows is a potential husband material which those considerations of theirs are so wrong.

Well, saying yes to a man it takes a lots of consideration from different angles buh some ladies say "I WILL" to him because of those wrong things which will be highlighted below.

7 Wrong Things Ladies Consider Before Marrying A Guy

1. Physical Appearance

This is a trend among ladies nowadays.Being handsome doesn't mean is good at a relationship.He might even use his handsomeness to trick you into a relationship.
Ladies, you must know that "Interior" is different from "Exterior" though they both had "rior" at the end.Don't say "Yes, I do" to a guy because of his physical appearance.

- Family's Background

There was a sister that I know that said NO to a brother because of his family.And the brother has gotten married to a "Pretty Lady", and the sister hasn't gotten engage talkless of getting married.Ladies, a guy's family background doesn't mean you shouldn't marry him.If he's parent is poor doesn't mean poor will you be when you both married.Stop, saying NO to a guy's proposal because of his family's background before you marry him.

- His Profession

Ladies do say, except he's a Civil Engineer or an Accountant and so on like that, I won't marry anyone.WHY? Would told you that even if you marry a guy with a good professional skills, there's a guaranty for him to get a high paid job.Is there anything wrong marrying a "Cobbler, Carpenter or Fashion designer? Lemme tell you a Learning skill is acquiring money than those who went to institution for those gigantic courses.

-Qualification/ Certificate

Viewing a guy's qualification before saying "Yes" is totally wrong.Have seen where a "Master" holder hasn't gotten any job till today while an "HND" holder has acquired an awesome paid job.Having a "Master or Phd" doesn't mean he's a husband material..That's a Fact!

-Flashy Car

Wow! The guy drives a black flashy car...Before he says "Will You Marry Me"? You have already said "Yes! I will" because he drives a flashy car.Who knows maybe he's only impressing you with that? Because he knows Ladies fall in love with guys that possessed a car.

- Is He Rich Or Not

I can tell you that most Rich guys don't have time for you when both of you are married.You will always be nagged by him.They do travel a lot, today from Lagos to Dubai, tomorrow from Dubai to Qatar..He might even be cheating on you unconsciously.

Last buh not the least.

-Accepting Him Because Of Money Buh Not For Love

Money is just like "Nigeria's Economy".Money might be today and gone tomorrow.Many Ladies do accept a guy's proposal because of his money rather than love.Riches that might vanish tomorrow.Vanity Upon Vanity, all is Vanity.

I drop my pen at this juncture.

NB
This is not a bashing thread.Just wanna warn and advice ladies that are already considering saying "YES" to a guy's proposal because of these, that they should avert from it and think more carefully.
Divorce is REAL.

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DanceVille

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- Family's Background

His Profession

- Is He Rich Or Not


I don't think these 3 are that bad.


Danceville good write up buh the timing is bad, most people's attention is being diverted to man city vs madrid match going on right now.

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Op, I wanted to support you because I hate dem ladies...

But truth be told.......

All the above mentioned are not wrong at all..

people marry for different reasons and as long as it makes her happy, she should go for it...


meanwhile...

Vote Optional for Miss nairaLand... (Ada Igbo)

But most ladies know these. They just don't want to live with d reality. Let any lady marry whoever she deems fit. For every choice, there are always consequences which might be good or bad.

Are you serious, mate? What do you reckon they consider before marrying a man? Let's start from there before addressing what you listed here.

Always trying hard to make no sense. Shebi is fp u want? mtchw

ronald4lif:
Are you serious, mate? What do you reckon they consider before marrying a man? Let's start from there before addressing what you listed here.

Bro! That's why I said considering a man's proposal takes a lot of time.

Are you suggesting a lady should consider physical appearance(handsomeness) to accept a man's proposal? Love and trust is the main purpose of saying Yes to a guy's proposal.

falconey:


- Family's Background

His Profession

- Is He Rich Or Not


I don't think these 3 are that bad.


Danceville good write up buh the timing is bad, most people's attention is being diverted to man city vs madrid match going on right now.

Don't even know a match is going on bro.

Stupedinluv:
Always trying hard to make no sense. Shebi is fp u want? mtchw

I'm sure you must be guilty of all, that's why you're acting like this.

I even consider more

BiafraBushBoy:
Op, I wanted to support you because I hate dem ladies...

But truth be told.......

All the above mentioned are not wrong at all..

people marry for different reasons and as long as it makes her happy, she should go for it...


meanwhile...

Vote Optional for Miss nairaLand... (Ada Igbo)

Those were just my opinions bro.

Thanks for that.

DanceVille:
Bro! That's why I said considering a man's proposal takes a lot of time.

Are you suggesting a lady should consider physical appearance(handsomeness) to accept a man's proposal? Love and trust is the main purpose of saying Yes to a guy's proposal.

Do you consider a lady's pulchitrudes, ass, boobs etc before dating and marrying them? Are you as an individual attracted to ladies who aren't attractive and appeals to your sultriness? The answer to this is obvious coz I'm near certain that you don't just date any lady without weighing her beauty and charm. Thus, ladies too reserve the right, among other things to consider a man's looks too.

Forget love thing, that's too cliche. Love won't pay the bills and provide the necessary comfort and responsibility that comes with marriage. A lady also reserve the absolute right to evaluate a man's income, resources and ability to provide for her and her unborn kids before saying yes.

Either Rich or poor, do well to marry who you love and who loves you. And about family background, hmm, am not saying do a background check if the guy is from a rich or humble background o. Family background in marriage is a serious ball game. No jokes. This is Africa we know what background means sha.

ronald4lif:


Do you consider a lady's pulchitrudes, ass, boobs etc before dating and marrying them? Are you as an individual attracted to ladies who aren't attractive and appeals to your sultriness? The answer to this is obvious coz I'm near certain that you don't just date any lady without weighing her beauty and charm. Thus, ladies too reserve the right, among other things to consider a man's looks too.

Forget love thing, that's too cliche. Love won't pay the bills and provide the necessary comfort and responsibility that comes with marriage. A lady also reserve the absolute right to evaluate a man's income, resources and ability to provide for her and her unborn kids before saying yes.

Bro! You're not getting what am really passing across.

Some ladies overdo these things, yea! A lady must evaluate a man's income buh not marry him because of his income.

Well, that's your own opinion.
We both have a different views sir.

mrtantalizers:
But most ladies know these. They just don't want to live with d reality. Let any lady marry whoever she deems fit. For every choice, there are always consequences which might be good or bad.

I support you on that.
For every choices, there's always a consequences.

ogorwyne:
Either Rich or poor, do well to marry who you love and who loves you. And about family background, hmm, am not saying do a background check if the guy is from a rich or humble background o. Family background in marriage is a serious ball game. No jokes. This is Africa we know what background means sha.

Hilarious at the bolded words.

True even though i dont care bout the other points but PHYSICAL APPEARANCE is a must for me because i no fyn

Suigeneris93:


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Counter thread? Hmm! Can't wait to see that.

rIaYoll:
True even though i dont care bout the other points but PHYSICAL APPEARANCE is a must for me because i no fyn

That doesn't matter.

U no fyn? Lol!

Stupedinluv:
Always trying hard to make no sense. Shebi is fp u want? mtchw

Lol..U seem to av had a bad day

0ubenji:
Lol..U seem to av had a bad day

That's what I think so.

IamLEGEND1:
I think there is a bit of repetition of points but excellent write-up all round.

+ #SaiMimzyForMissNL

Thanks bro.