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Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Agu87(m): 9:26am On Apr 28, 2016 |
ireneony:do u bleep all of dem ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Nobody: 9:31am On Apr 28, 2016 |
My question to people who practise this is - whom are u closer to -ur spouse or opposite gender bestie? is it your bestie u discuss with issues u can't discuss with your spouse? . When ur having problems in ur home, do u report that to ur bestie? Cos ko ye emi O. |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by ireneony(f): 9:31am On Apr 28, 2016 |
Agu87:nope! 1 Like |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by firstking01(m): 9:36am On Apr 28, 2016 |
Nice work...we still have people on nairaland who think. |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by octopusfreaky(f): 9:37am On Apr 28, 2016 |
i find it difficult to relate wt females,,i can count d no of female friends i have ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by naijaboiy: 9:38am On Apr 28, 2016 |
Nice thread. Well as a guy I wouldn't give room for my girlfriend to have any bestie of any sort. First of all I would try my best to be everything the so called bestie would want to be. I would be her shoulder to cry on and at the same time the dick to ride on. Nevertheless I would still watch out for those stubborn guys who are always relentless in being a girl's bestie by all means. I'll warn her about them and make sure she knows my stand. The problem is that these girls never hear. They will keep telling you that they can control it and that nothing will happen. Don't believe that shït because these girls are as weak as anything weak when it comes to emotions. Be the bestie she never had and if she still misbehaves to be keeping male besties outside then you may have to walk away since she's not ready. As for the female bestie for girls, that one can be handled. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by naijaboiy: 9:39am On Apr 28, 2016 |
enieme:Asin ehn! |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Nobody: 9:40am On Apr 28, 2016 |
So? What am I supposed to do? Stop talking to my male bestie like you called it who we prolly met before we started dating? Why should I when you might even dump my ass tomorrow? ![]() Only when I'm married will I reduce communication with any male friend who's not my husband. Or when the relationship is very close to the altar. 1 Like |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Agu87(m): 9:46am On Apr 28, 2016 |
ireneony:how many do u bleep ![]() |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by naijaboiy: 9:47am On Apr 28, 2016 |
PinkBarbie:Don't forget your boyfriend would also have had series of female friends before you guys met, but how will you feel if he decides not to confide in you but rather tells his old friends things that he's meant to tell you? There are many other reasons why he's your boyfriend not just to spend money on you and take you out. If your bestie is doing the work of companionship which your boyfriend is naturally supposed to do then it's better you date your bestie. Besides, a guy who is in a relationship will not have the time to be a bestie to anothe female who is in a relationship. The both of you will clearly have different lives. Only single guys suck up to girls and claim besties. Having a male Bestie while still in a supposed serious relationship just cannot work. No matter the angle you look at it from, you'd still get the same result. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by ireneony(f): 9:48am On Apr 28, 2016 |
Agu87:none ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Nobody: 9:48am On Apr 28, 2016 |
naijaboiy:Stoll waiting for them to come explain |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Agu87(m): 9:58am On Apr 28, 2016 |
ireneony:ok...u rmbr me ![]() |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by ireneony(f): 9:59am On Apr 28, 2016 |
Agu87:hmmm ok! |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by naijaboiy: 10:17am On Apr 28, 2016 |
Oliviaarims I think you should see this. 1 Like |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Bawsse(m): 10:23am On Apr 28, 2016 |
"and I don't wife em, if a nigga is her best friend....." - Kendrick Lamarr |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Wahalaboy(m): 10:26am On Apr 28, 2016 |
TheSonOfMark: Lol Mark I got 5000+ followers on Facebook. Limiting my privacy to only friends shuts out my followers (who are even more in number than my friends) from my posts. Considering the fact that the followers contribute about 45% of people that read and respond to my posts. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Nobody: 10:26am On Apr 28, 2016 |
naijaboiy:Well, of course I'll feel bad about it but for some people, they don't necessarily confide in their besties when their bf is there. Except on some very few occasions. Most times, we just enjoy talking/chatting with them because we've come a long way and built some level of friendship. Besides, a guy who is in a relationship will not have the time to be a bestie to anothe female who is in a relationship. The both of you will clearly have different lives. Only single guys suck up to girls and claim besties.This is not true. I've seen many. Having a male Bestie while still in a supposed serious relationship just cannot work. No matter the angle you look at it from, you'd still get the same result.[/b]All things been equal, it can. ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Agu87(m): 10:27am On Apr 28, 2016 |
ireneony:it was a question jor |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by KingRex1(m): 10:28am On Apr 28, 2016 |
naijaboiy:Yeah man. u said it all 1 Like |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Ifakiland(m): 11:23am On Apr 28, 2016 |
Wahalaboy:very false my bro, wen a gal starts calling a guy bestie, it means she sees him as a non-sexual organism. Unless d guy rapes her, notin sexual can happen btw dem. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Ifakiland(m): 11:32am On Apr 28, 2016 |
if my gf shuld av a male bestie, I won't be moved cos I know only jew guys accept such post from gals, am also not scared of my gf males frnds before we met, if she wanted to date dem she would av...the male frnds am always scared of are the ones she meets while we still dating, esp dos ones dat always form I can do better dan ur bf. best male frnds aint d threat, the threats are d friendly guys she meets at weddings, school, church, etc while dating u. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Nobody: 11:50am On Apr 28, 2016 |
Nice write up op |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Nobody: 12:14pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
0ubenji: He simply wants to impart a larger "audience." 1 Like |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Nobody: 12:18pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
Wahalaboy: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Nobody: 12:22pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
Wahalaboy: Vindicated. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Wahalaboy(m): 12:26pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: Thank you very much jor. 1 Like |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Nobody: 12:31pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
naijaboiy: Lol. I don't have any male bestie, joor. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Nobody: 12:34pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
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Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by dungburu: 12:38pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
Ifakiland:I urge uncle seun to create an unlike button to dislike some illogical statements with no clues and commonsense. The op has given u reasons that could make u fall prey and u are here stating impossibilities. |
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