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Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by fiftynaira(m): 2:18pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
"One can't keep a chicken as pet" 3 Likes |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by nezer83: 2:19pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by jydolele(m): 2:19pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
PinkBarbie:you are part of the people they are warning in this post...you will end up spreading your legs for your "bestie" and end up regretting your stuborness..always thinking you are so smart.. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Nobody: 2:29pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
ireneony: Sweet fvck,i see ya. |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by toluine56(m): 2:36pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
Laveda:Hi laveda, can you drive? |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by omoikea(m): 2:38pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
the "friends with benefits" part is what I love most about this write up |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by ireneony(f): 2:42pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
nezer83:your cup of tea ![]() |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Laveda(f): 2:43pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
toluine56:Nope, why ask? ![]() |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Nobody: 2:45pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
And yet another bf and gf topic again, but this one is interesting. My gf has a male bestie, but he is gay. Am I safe? |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by SlimShaddy10(m): 2:48pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
0ubenji: |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by kunleben47(m): 2:49pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
To me it's okay for anyone to do what's comfortable for him or her. It's a matter of choice! 1 Like |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by prinzfavian(m): 2:52pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
Wahalaboy: Laff iyaf kill me o. . . Bro OP still refers to you, it stands for Original Poster. So either they say wahalaboy or OP, as long as it is related to this thread. They are still referring to you. *continues laffin ..... 1 Like |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Nobody: 2:56pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
What will you say about myself and my female bestie, We have been like this since 2009 till 2016 except on Nov 2011 when we had a misunderstanding, but she came back and apologized and we been rocking. Finished talking with her some minutes ago, before opening this thread, and she was complaining that I have stopped calling her often as I always do. No matter, the negative aspects of it male bestie still rocks the female so much. I am enjoying every part of it. |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Wahalaboy(m): 2:57pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
SlimShaddy10: That link copied from me. Here's the original link from my Facebook post, where the link copied from. https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=872632006119523&id=100001181960187&refid=17&_ft_=top_level_post_id.872632006119523%3Atl_objid.872632006119523%3Athid.100001181960187%3A306061129499414%3A2%3A1420099200%3A1451635199%3A4602917117226916723 So yes, I wrote this post and that link copied from me. Check the date of the posts. Thanks. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by prinzfavian(m): 2:58pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
Wahalaboy: Nor vex na, things are done in a certain way here. U cnt get every of ur topics pushed to the front page either written by you or not but to be on a safer side, after each post u can shout "lalasticlala" like 3times or even once. I can assure u of a front page appearance within the next thirty minutes of doing so. But seriously, ure funny o Lol. 1 Like |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by ojuu4u(m): 2:59pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
[quote author=PinkBarbie post=45113687]So? What am I supposed to do? Stop talking to my male bestie like you called it who we prolly met before we started dating? Why should I when you might even dump my ass tomorrow? ![]() Only when I'm married will I reduce communication with any male friend who's not my husband. Or when the relationship is very close to the altar. ANYTIN U CANOT STOP B4 MARIAGE, U CANT STOP THEM AFTER MARIAGE. if u cant stop having as ur best friend luk inward Ma. Sometin is wrong wt u. I pray u wl nt regret ds dangerious habit. |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Wahalaboy(m): 3:00pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
prinzfavian: Lmao chairman no mind me and my wahala o |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Coldfeets: 3:02pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
0ubenji: Ha ha ha... Of course, I know it won't prove anything to you!!! You see yo'r life? Obviously, you wanted to shame him by telling the world he's a copycat. But you failed. And having realized that, now you're trying to back out to save your own face. Just look at the way you're trying to turn your argument now and telling him his own proof as the original writer doesn't prove anything to you. Ha ha ha But since you decided to take it upon yourself to publicly shame him. I think it will also be a nice suggestion if you publicly tender him your apology right away. Abeg carry go wahalaboy. No mind all diz people who are always ready to put someone down!!! Nothing do you, guy! 13 Likes |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Nobody: 3:03pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
johnydon22:Lol |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Acidosis(m): 3:06pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
I don't take any of those craps. The moment I find out you've got some emotional bestie craps or some uncountable male friends somewhere, I CALL IT QUIT. I don't like competition in business, relationship and every aspect of my life. I came to the world to enjoy life, not to compete with anyone. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Wahalaboy(m): 3:06pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
Coldfeets: Thank you baba! Abeg how dem dey mention person for this land? 1 Like |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Odunharry(m): 3:06pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
4C2215131:aptly written.. My thoughts exactly... Many women are emotionally greedy and trust me this set of women will curse and even fight other ladies they see talking with their guy .. The issue of bestie is just rubbish..it's hard for a guy and girl to be so close without anyone falling in love 1 Like |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by chubbyswit(m): 3:08pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
0ubenji:d op just disgraced your claims of him plagiarizing. Lolz take heart bro 5 Likes |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Coldfeets: 3:10pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
To mention person for this land, you can either quote the person's post Or... You can simply type his/her name in your own post. Wahalaboy: |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by drewxx88(m): 3:25pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
ireneony:he didn't write relate more with he wrote having a male bestie ,the question should be do you have one and can you really say none of the above points apply to you and the male bestie ![]() |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by jeffizy(m): 3:25pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
0ubenji:Well, he got it coming. They just never learn. 1 Like |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by anochuko01(m): 3:34pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
Doxie69:I like this tour story...I'm actually locked down with a girl as a bestie of sorts. I wanna ask, didn't you ever have feelings for her? is either of you in a thriving relationship? |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by Wahalaboy(m): 3:36pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
Llubazz: No. |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by openmine(m): 3:38pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
I totally agree wit d OP....cos it happened 2 me once... My ex had a guy whom she tagged her Bestie(den we were still in a relationship)...she always had Dis pleasant voice and smile whenever dere was a fone convo wit him...wen I asked,she just said d guy was a very close friend whom she knew b4 she met me.. ..few months after we broke up,she started displaying d bestie's pic on whatsapp and bbm as her bf..... same person she once called a Bestie is now her boyfriend... Lol 3 Likes |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by anochuko01(m): 3:41pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
4C2215131: brother, it must have taken you lots of years of experience to say these perfect words. I agree totally with everything you wrote, including your commas and full stops! 1 Like |
Re: Why Having Male Besties Will Affect Your Relationship Negatively by toriola108(m): 3:41pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
True talk oooo.......It really affecting me this days
Tripping for my bestie gosh help me oooh 1 Like |
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