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Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by onstelly(f): 4:32am On May 01, 2016 |
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Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by londoner: 5:09am On May 01, 2016 |
Op Yoruba custom as you put it should first teach males how to be companions and NOT burdens, faithful and NOT adulterous, more humble and NOT flashy. He should have a father's rights but he should also embrace the responsibility. 2 Likes |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by Seventeen(f): 6:04am On May 01, 2016 |
scully95:custody? Person wey never fit take care of himself. Pikin dey take care of pikin? Ok oo, they should give him custody while Tiwa still buys pampers and milk. no go find work, be looking for bridge to jump over from. 1 Like |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by Safemode(m): 6:44am On May 01, 2016 |
delishpot:I m a Yoruba man. I agree with your points but the issue of Tiwa & Tee Billz can't be easily concluded that one of them is with more fault. If Tee Billz also come out again with his own defensive reply to Tiwa's interview. he may get back the public sympathy again. Remember he appeared like the victim when the news about his suicide attempt came out. 1 Like |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by mikolo80: 6:46am On May 01, 2016 |
delishpot:by choosing husband with sense and not looking for ready-made husband |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by Nobody: 7:23am On May 01, 2016 |
onstelly: lol. Maybe it's a small issue where he comes from na. |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by cococandy(f): 7:41am On May 01, 2016 |
What a load of stupid bullock. So someone will suffer to bring a child into this world and you have the guts to open your mouth and tell her that she has no right over the child? How did the people who concocted such traditions even feel when carrying out such unfairness? Mtchew. I can't imagine what I'll do to someone who tells me I don't have a right over my own child that I bore from my womb. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by cococandy(f): 7:54am On May 01, 2016 |
What a fat lie. You think you're talking to children. No one sells their business in downtown LA to step into unknown waters. He mst have followed tiwa because he saw more promise in her talent than whatever it was he was doing in LA. If he was such a big shot in LA, he wouldn't have needed to sell his business and move back home. His big boyism would have been enough to propel tiwa into the American industry. We have Nigerian artists here who are doing well. Keep thinking you're talking to ignorant people. scully95: 1 Like |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by cococandy(f): 7:59am On May 01, 2016 |
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Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by Nobody: 8:14am On May 01, 2016 |
scully95:ABEG WIT ALL RESPECT TIWA MUST CARRY DAT INNOCENT BOI BECAUSE DAT MR TJ WEY B SAY HE DON DEY UNDER DRUG WEED COCAINE PLUS. OTHER NOSENSE HARD DRUG NA HIM ONE BRING UP A MALE CHILD I LAUGH IN OSUN PERSON WEY B SAY ALL D 3 kids he got before sefhe no fit raise dem u con dey tell us one story abeg d best part of it d KID IS STILL VERY YOUNG HE SHOULD B AT D SAFER SIDE MAKE HIM PAPA CARRY AM MAKE HE GO TRANSFER ALL DAT NOSENSE LIFE STYLE FOR D BOY BODY ABI PUT UR SEF IN DAT KIND OF SHOE IF NA U WILL U LEAVE UR UR ONLY CHILD FOR DAT KIND OF MAN HABA 1 Like |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by Nobody: 8:18am On May 01, 2016 |
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Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by MadCow1: 9:10am On May 01, 2016 |
delishpot: I believe they got married at the registry which therefore puts the jurisdiction of her marriage under federal law.. This guy should park well.. |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by MadCow1: 9:15am On May 01, 2016 |
scully95: Wait o.. Shey Na the same Teebillz for L.A that was running credit card fraud abi Na another one? ![]() ![]() Please park well with this your fuckacious lies.. No be only you sabi Teebillz from ehn time for LA. And when next you want to lie, remember that Tiwa was already a musician long before she met Teebillz. Teebillz only helped "manage" her career in the Nigerian music market. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by coachwilcox(m): 9:23am On May 01, 2016 |
I have read all the posts here and I can say I am indeed saddened by the responses of this young generation including some of mine. Especially the female folk and some kitten whipped males. They have been so brainwashed by western media and feminist ideals that they have abandoned everything African and adopted the white mans culture as their way of life all thanks to movies, novels, music, talk shows and the likes. There's a good reason China and Russia censor everything coming from the West. This is to forestall brainwashing and eroding of their own culture which is what is happening to stupid Africans post colonization. Go to the Middle East and see if they've not held on to their culture and values to produce strong family ties and homes. The West calls it oppression and defines theirs as liberation. Yet what have they to show for it? Highest divorce rates in the world, emasculation of men, single parent homes, pornography, $exu@l perversion, increase in paedophiles, drug abuse, teenage pregnancy etc All the OP said was in Yoruba tradition under which the two were married, this is what obtains. People have been ranting about what the culture takes away and all that. I can bet my left ear the bulk of the feminazi and their apologists as well as the woman wrapper men are from the south east where there is no respect for elders and their culture is built along the tracks of money. Make no mistake. I do not condone oppressive cultural tenets that seek to take away the basic human rights of the individual. However, there's a thin line between defining what is oppressive and what is a hierarchical arrangement in a system as well as provisions, roles and rights. What an American woman calls oppressive by their culture is normal to a Yoruba woman. Else, when you go to the Middle East where women aren't even allowed to drive, cannot go out alone and don't even vote, then you'd know true oppression of women. Talk less of Chinese, Japanese, Italian, Syrian etc culture. Our Nigerian women have been so brainwashed into thinking every aspect of the culture our forefathers built before Beyoncé was even born to sing "single ladies" is suddenly oppressive. Culture that kept the home and marriages intact. Marriages where they did not even court before ending up together yet stayed for 70 to 80 years and the man loved out grannies to death. Ask these blindly led feminist girls to pay for your date at an expensive restaurant as they do in American culture and they will shower you with abuse. As the late Awo said, I'm a Yoruba man first before a Nigerian. I add, before a citizen of the global village. I rest my case. |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by delishpot: 9:25am On May 01, 2016 |
Safemode: I feel you. |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by coachwilcox(m): 9:37am On May 01, 2016 |
cap28: It's very sad that a man becomes a loser as soon as he cannot provide for his family again. When he was sacrificing his career and resources and time to jump start her career, he was not a loser. This is the real reason many men don't support or involve themselves in their wife/gf dreams. Chai |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by DrMuzungu(m): 9:40am On May 01, 2016 |
To me, a husband or a partner who is capable, but refuses to provide for his family and rather depends on the wife to do so, is the worst piece of garbage that can exist. Add to that a drugs addiction and you get what? You get one useless dude named Tee Billz. I don't think I am disrespectful person, but anyone suggesting a child would be better with such "man" is a bit... insane. 1 Like |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by coachwilcox(m): 9:44am On May 01, 2016 |
AnonMan16: Basically, by your unintelligent statement, modernity means abandoning your culture for American, European culture ![]() An African youth will wear head warmer in the hot sun. An African executive will wear suit and tie in the blazing sun. Forgetting that the European who introduced did so because their weather is extremely cold. Meanwhile an Arab executive will don all white because of his weather. Chai!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by LordReed(m): 9:49am On May 01, 2016 |
@scully95 Question: Which one of Teebillz first 3 children is living with him? 2 Likes |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by coachwilcox(m): 9:50am On May 01, 2016 |
adorable29: If you call a man defending his culture as hogwash then you clearly need to sit down, think and ask yourself. Am I an Ibo or wherever you're from first or a westerner? And by that I mean (American, European). I'm sure you actually have an identity crisis. He never said women are incapable of raising kids alone. (What if the father passed away). He said that the kid needs his father and Tiwa should not be the one to define where the kid should be as well as if she will let him have access. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by shaybebaby(f): 9:52am On May 01, 2016 |
cococandy:Coco, this one needs no riposte. It's for whoever that holds such a belief to try taking the child, then they will know the definition of craze woman. People underestimate the lengths a mother can go to protect her child/children. Lioness sef will look like a kitten compared to the craze unleashed. |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by cap28: 10:18am On May 01, 2016 |
coachwilcox:this man was a loser from the get go . He used her as a come up ie he only married her so she could serve as a meal ticket. Didn't you hear that he steals from her ? What sort of man steals from his wife? He snorts coke, cheats with multiple se.x partners and refuses to provide for his kid. Is that a man or a loser? I keep telling women marriage is not a do or die affair there is no shame in being single or a single mum if these are the type of men on offer. |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by adorable29(f): 10:30am On May 01, 2016 |
coachwilcox: Oh puhlease, save your sentimental blackmail for the birds? Do you think you are talking to kids? So when someone wether male or female decides to be on the side of REASONING, TRUTH, HUMANITY, FAIRNESS, SECURITY OF LIFE OF A BABY, he or she is pussy wiped and a feminist. Really, really? So that means you who has decided to turn a blind eye to the common sense that THE WELLBEING OF THE INNOCENT BABY SUPERCEDES WHAT ANY CULTURE WETHER IGBO YORUBA HAUSA HAS TO SAY ABOUT is what? An egoistic misogynist? See ehn my issue wasnt about him defending our culture and am 100percent sure those against him dony have an issue with that too. It is him using the excuse of culture to destroy the child's destiny by insisting that Jamil ought to be with his womanizing, drunkard, cocaine sniffing, irresponsible dad who takes people's money in millions in form of debt, yet wont buy pampers but instead spend it on edible caterers. .... if you are too blinded by a patriarchial mindset to understand this simple truth, then I cant help you. BTW, if Tiwa had Teebills traits ie if reverse was the case, no one would have suggested the baby remains with a cocaine sniffing irresponsible Tiwa. Grow up. 1 Like |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by Hitunnu(f): 10:39am On May 01, 2016 |
Bullshit |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by OdenKelechi(m): 10:51am On May 01, 2016 |
This is such BULLSHIT......did he carry d baby for 9 months? His own was jst to kpekus.....so he shuld get anoda lady and kpekus if he wants another child....and be happy she didn't deny him total access to d kid |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by cap28: 11:04am On May 01, 2016 |
DrMuzungu: exactly. This man uses women for his his own objectives . He knows nigerian women are so desperate to get married and will do anything to stay married. I'm sure his baby mamas in the US have some interesting stories to tell about this loser. While tiwa was suffering a miscarriage in Jamaica he was in bed with one of his many hookers. She sent him pics of herself with blood spattered all over the floor but he never rang or texted her back what a husband! |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by delishpot: 11:05am On May 01, 2016 |
gemale: Like I stated, that is the way they tie a wife down. He will ask her to endure for the child's sake. That was where culture kept wives. Ask many men here how their dads treated their moms and ask why she did not leave the marriage. You will see that it was the culture. To me the culture should be tweaked to make both men and women responsible. Not to allow a group choose to abuse and demoralize the other because they know custom is on their side t(Note I did not say they all do o) If a man knows that the woman is allowed and even encouraged to leave his home and he will be shammed for his nasty attitude in his marriage. And if the woman knows that she can not leave her home on some shitty flimsy excuse without getting a lashback. Both of them will work on keeping their home happy. Many of us can testify about how our mothers sat there and took it all because she could not leave without her kids. Is that what we want our daughters to endure in the name of culture? Culture shouldn't be one sided. Culture should protect every citizen. |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by Nobody: 11:11am On May 01, 2016 |
coachwilcox: the late awo saw the culture you are celebrating first hand. his father died when he was young, and the fathers brothers simply split the fathers possessions amongst themselves. awo's mother got nothing. one of the brothers wanted to inherit awo's mum too. that was where she said no maybe i you saw the demerits of this 'culture' first hand instead of empty fantasies about older times then you are going on about china, where they have only stopped making it a crime to have more than one child. |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by Nobody: 11:21am On May 01, 2016 |
coachwilcox: apare us the empty culture noise and go to the village square. is posting in a forum on the internet with an anonymous name part of 'african culture'? i hope you are working in the farm - that was what our forefathers did. 'culture' cannot be static because the world is constantly changing. the culture you are celebrating so much also mislabelled kids with sickle cell as abiku. whenever they had attacked the parents believed their friends on the spirit world were calling them it usually when its time to chance women or children that people remember culture thats when some old security guard in a company somewhere refuses to open the boot of a younger person's car [his job] that when a ne'er do well suddenly expects his wife carrying the whole family to be at his beck and call. you want culture, you either go to the village , or you ensure your shiiit is together 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by Bookiemart01(f): 2:02pm On May 01, 2016 |
Yes I am a lady. The post is a MUMU POST because the guy committed a fallacy of hasty generalization. He said every woman is after a rich guy. Has he met every woman? He asked that every wife who does not pay part of bills should be divorced, is that what his BIBLE/QURAN told him? Does he not know some men HATE it when their wives foot bills? There are lots of REAL MEN outside there who do not need a woman's money because they understand what it means to me a father and husband. BTW, Teebliz has never been rich, he did not just go broke. Tiwa married him knowing he was a broke dude. Ourchoice and yourself should not expect her to stay with a guy who is hell bent on squandering her wealth on other woman, hard drugs, debt and other vices. Take it or leave it, there are A LOT OF MARRIED WOMEN who take care of the house with their money. adepeter26: |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by sameolg616(m): 2:07pm On May 01, 2016 |
the quest for material things is the reason why some cant marry,wont marry and would never be married.. read through the lines,money,money is the only root cause of the problem.. in tiwas case,they are both guilty....for the guy,she is right,he is living a fake lifestyle is struggling to keep up with...(well that s the same poise that attracted her to him)..most of these celebrities paint a false image to the public...its the same reason wizkid was angry at linda for exposing him he got kicked out of his house as earlier believed he bought a house.. for tiwa,its just natural the evil spirit money gets women higher than men but she does quite love him enough to even cover his bills but she may have also neglected some of her marital duties.. as for the management saga,i dont see anything wrong with him continuing to be her manager since he was there from the state(that was what really devastated him)..if she really wanted to solve the issue of him syphoning money to his account,she would have instead of making excuses but i guess his lifestyle must have scared her.. whether he comes home 2am or not,he still deserves to be fed...just make it available even if ur fast asleep...tiwa is a celebrity so pls ask her when she normally gets home too especially after show to show.....i guess they could use a house maid.. besides,tiwa cannot claim she doesnt know of his lifestyle before marriage..they were both in it..she only hoped it would change.his frustration of her locking him out of the tiwa brand even made matters worse s what was she expecting? if teebillz was the star and tiwa was the one not remitting the extra cash,nobody would complain and it would seem rather normal.. besides,his lifestyle and ego,he has other children too he has to father...since tiwa married him then they have become her responsibility to to a "minimum" else they would be her problem later.. that video wasnt neccessary and in fact it dint only inform the public of the problems she had to endure,it kinda damaged her personality too...many of us are reasonable to read between the lines and even know what could have been and never said. i tink they would be back together in the future but he needs some time to repair himself and be clean for her to accept him again.. no marriage is a bed roses so i wonder why many psych themselves it would be a smooth ride..i even doubt if people understand the meaning of for better or for worse cuz its a convenience marriage nowadays... i wish them both good luck....pls tiwa follow ur heart and doo the right thing....all the people around u are just 3parties and wont be there for long....there is still hope for teebillz,brother pls chill out on ur lifestyle and help her atleast manage the available resources..this is one reason most gals dont really open up to their man on their incomes or try to be in a relationship with an upcoming guy....ur act discourages them |
Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by Bookiemart01(f): 2:13pm On May 01, 2016 |
Abi ooo my .The post is a MUMU POST because the guy committed a fallacy of hasty generalization. He said every woman is after a rich guy. Has he met every woman? He asked that every wife who does not pay part of bills should be divorced, is that what his BIBLE/QURAN told him? Does he not know some men HATE it when their wives foot bills? There are lots of REAL MEN outside there who do not need a woman's money because they understand what it means to me a father and husband. BTW, Teebliz has never been rich, he did not just go broke. Tiwa married him knowing he was a broke dude. Ourchoice should not expect her to stay with a guy who is hell bent on squandering her wealth on other woman, hard drugs, debt and other vices. There are A LOT OF MARRIED WOMEN who take care of the house with their money. octopusfreaky: |
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