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No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by osile2012: 11:56am On May 03, 2016
[size=18pt]Its good to abstain from sex before marriage especially if you know u will end up with the person. Most times its the ladies that say the no sex before marriage thing.You hardly hear a guy tell a girl no sex before marriage grin grin grin grin

Look at this situation .

A guy dated a girl from the age of 25 to 28 (3years). The girl said no sex before marriage and he agreed. They now got married and after the first month of marriage, the lady wants to take in . The guy said he is not ready to have a child for atleast 2 years. He told her he wants to just have sex for complete 2 years before they have a child.

The next thing trouble starts. The girl said she is loosing eggs, That people that people are already expecting them to have a child the same year since they got married in january . That people even get pregnant before the get married and now they are married he said he does not want a child.

If he wants sex they could still be having it while she is pregnant. This has become a serious problem in the family. The girl has already reported and would deny the man sex sometimes.

Please is this not selfish of the girl ? Its easy for her to say no sex for 3 years but cant go a year without pregnancy after marriage. Is marriage all about children ? Is it the lady that decides when to have children ?

Who is to blame in this situation ? Whose side are u on ?


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Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by halfricanadian(f): 12:07pm On May 03, 2016
A funny scenerio cheesy make she kuku adopt nd d child bears her name nd she cares for d child d most importantly is she carries a baby
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by Nobody: 12:53pm On May 03, 2016
Interesting topic, well in my opinion I think the lady & the guy should have talked about this issue before they tied the knot. Right now it's more like too late to argue about this kind of issue best thing to do will be to come to a compromise cos fighting & arguing ain't going to solve anything.

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Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by possibilita(m): 12:54pm On May 03, 2016
In my opinion the girl is an idiot.




Why not agree and make sure she f*cks the guy raw until she gets preg.

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Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by mekaboy(m): 1:00pm On May 03, 2016
possibilita:
In my opinion the girl is an idiot.





Why not agree and make sure she f*cks the guy raw until she gets preg.

And the guys tells her she either aborts or divorce. So ladies don't know it's a sacrifice that guys make when they accept no sex before marriage, especially when the guy is active?


You will tell the guy to be patient after all you are all his when u get married. Now u want to get pregnant immediately and loose the figures u promised him to wait for.

She should have allowed the guy to be tasting after he engaged her. By now this won't be a problem.

Besides the guy carry full tank, it will take 2 yrs for him to offload. lol
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by possibilita(m): 1:06pm On May 03, 2016
mekaboy:


And the guys tells her she either aborts or divorce. So ladies don't know it's a sacrifice that guys make when they accept no sex before marriage, especially when the guy is active?


You will tell the guy to be patient after all you are all his when u get married. Now u want to get pregnant immediately and loose the figures u promised him to wait for.

She should have allowed the guy to be tasting after he engaged her. By now this won't be a problem.

Besides the guy carry full tank, it will take 2 yrs for him to offload. lol
so if she gets preg u think they guys parents will agree divorce? Even the guy may end up changing his mind.
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by mekaboy(m): 1:08pm On May 03, 2016
possibilita:
so if she gets preg u think they guys parents will agree divorce? Even the guy may end up changing his mind.

Is it the parents that is marrying the girl or the guy?
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by achinaboy(m): 2:05pm On May 03, 2016
No sex b4 marriage, i always find this to be a stupid thing, but if really she is a virgin, ok i can understand,,but what if you wait all these long months or years, and u finally gets married and then you found out that the man ejaculates b4 penetration, or the lady in question cannot handle the ssexual pain for somereason? then you start to bother each other with unneccesary prayers and visting one juju man or the other,,please open your open your eyes, know whom you wants to get married to ssexually, if you like, if not,keep deceiving yourself
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by possibilita(m): 2:58pm On May 03, 2016
mekaboy:


Is it the parents that is marrying the girl or the guy?
no but they can influence their son to reconsider
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by mekaboy(m): 3:16pm On May 03, 2016
possibilita:
no but they can influence their son to reconsider

The guy accepted her terms of no sex before marriage, she should obey his.
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by SUPERPACK: 3:46pm On May 03, 2016
achinaboy:
No sex b4 marriage, i always find this to be a stupid thing, but if really she is a virgin, ok i can understand,,but what if you wait all these long months or years, and u finally gets married and then you found out that the man ejaculates b4 penetration, or the lady in question cannot handle the ssexual pain for somereason? then you start to bother each other with unneccesary prayers and visting one juju man or the other,,please open your open your eyes, know whom you wants to get married to ssexually, if you like, if not,keep deceiving yourself
i hope u knw that all it takes for a man to be impotent is just a severe injury to the brain, dick or heart. U cant cheat nature, bt nature have a way of cheating man.
.
Even pornstars end up being impotent unexpectedly.
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by possibilita(m): 4:34pm On May 03, 2016
mekaboy:


The guy accepted her terms of no sex before marriage, she should obey his.
sex b4 marriage isn't right so I can proudly tell u she made d right deal coz if she had slept with the guy he wud hav dumped her be4 the end of that year.
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by 211Observer(m): 5:01pm On May 03, 2016
osile2012:
[size=18pt]Its good to abstain from sex before marriage especially if you know u will end up with the person. Most times its the ladies that say the no sex before marriage thing.You hardly hear a guy tell a girl no sex before marriage grin grin grin grin

Look at this situation .

A guy dated a girl from the age of 25 to 28 (3years). The girl said no sex before marriage and he agreed. They now got married and after the first month of marriage, the lady wants to take in . The guy said he is not ready to have a child for atleast 2 years. He told her he wants to just have sex for complete 2 years before they have a child.

The next thing trouble starts. The girl said she is loosing eggs, That people that people are already expecting them to have a child the same year since they got married in january . That people even get pregnant before the get married and now they are married he said he does not want a child.

If he wants sex they could still be having it while she is pregnant. This has become a serious problem in the family. The girl has already reported and would deny the man sex sometimes.

Please is this not selfish of the girl ? Its easy for her to say no sex for 3 years but cant go a year without pregnancy after marriage. Is marriage all about children ? Is it the lady that decides when to have children ?

Who is to blame in this situation ? Whose side are u on ?
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Op, stop using red colour to write is not good for readers eyes len. In most cases it create headache. dont use red and white background or yellow and white background, use colour green or blue if u think colours illustrate ur peice better. colour blue nd green calm the brain while reading
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by achinaboy(m): 5:37pm On May 03, 2016
SUPERPACK:
i hope u knw that all it takes for a man to be impotent is just a severe injury to the brain, dick or heart. U cant cheat nature, bt nature have a way of cheating man.
.
Even pornstars end up being impotent unexpectedly.
well ciga smoking is dangerous to health,does it means that flying aeroplane is safer than smoking?
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by SUPERPACK: 5:47pm On May 03, 2016
achinaboy:

well ciga smoking is dangerous to health,does it means that flying aeroplane is safer than smoking?
yes flying aeroplane is safer than smoking, considering the amount of death recorded by both over a year period.
http://www.injury.findlaw.com/product-liability/tobacco-smoking-injury-dangers.html
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by Nobody: 6:18pm On May 03, 2016
Ladies and selfishnesss.

Smh.

Some have had sex with you, agreed on marriage, and all of a sudden she doesnt wanna have sex again yet she wants you to bear all her finances..

Trying to figure how they reason is impossible.
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by MhizVee(f): 6:26pm On May 03, 2016
mekaboy:


And the guys tells her she either aborts or divorce. So ladies don't know it's a sacrifice that guys make when they accept no sex before marriage, especially when the guy is active?


You will tell the guy to be patient after all you are all his when u get married. Now u want to get pregnant immediately and loose the figures u promised him to wait for.

She should have allowed the guy to be tasting after he engaged her. By now this won't be a problem.

Besides the guy carry full tank, it will take 2 yrs for him to offload. lol
wat sacrifice pls,wat happened to wat d bible says.

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Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by mekaboy(m): 6:38pm On May 03, 2016
possibilita:
sex b4 marriage isn't right so I can proudly tell u she made d right deal coz if she had slept with the guy he wud hav dumped her be4 the end of that year.

So having sex before marriage automatically means dumping. All those who marry did not sleep with their spouses before abi?
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by mekaboy(m): 6:41pm On May 03, 2016
MhizVee:
wat sacrifice pls,wat happened to wat d bible says.

The same bible says women should submit to their husband as the head. If he says no children yet she should obey.
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by MhizVee(f): 6:47pm On May 03, 2016
mekaboy:


The same bible says women should submit to their husband as the head. If he says no children yet she should obey.
i nva said she shldnt submit to her hubby,wat baffled me the most was when d guy said it was a sacrifice for him nt to have had sex wt her when dy were dating
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by Sammie23: 6:52pm On May 03, 2016
Na 2 rape ha
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by mekaboy(m): 8:35pm On May 03, 2016
MhizVee:
i nva said she shldnt submit to her hubby,wat baffled me the most was when d guy said it was a sacrifice for him nt to have had sex wt her when dy were dating

You think it's easy for a guy who is sexual active to resist urge to have sex with a woman he is attracted to for 3 years?
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by slightlyMad(f): 8:41pm On May 03, 2016
hmmm
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by possibilita(m): 8:57pm On May 03, 2016
mekaboy:


So having sex before marriage automatically means dumping. All those who marry did not sleep with their spouses before abi?
not all b ut some
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by skywalker240(m): 11:47pm On May 03, 2016
i wont encourage abortion, but i think thats selfishness on the ladies part.
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by osile2012: 8:48am On May 04, 2016
211Observer:
Op, stop using red colour to write is not good for readers eyes len. In most cases it create headache. dont use red and white background or yellow and white background, use colour green or blue if u think colours illustrate ur peice better. colour blue nd green calm the brain while reading

[size=18pt]Ok, sorry. Whats your input ?[/size]
Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by MhizVee(f): 10:29am On May 04, 2016
mekaboy:


You think it's easy for a guy who is sexual active to resist urge to have sex with a woman he is attracted to for 3 years?
hmm,u think its quite easy for d gal ttoo, asides that self we musnt ignore wat d bible says

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Re: No SEX Before Marriage Goes Wrong. by osile2012: 9:23pm On May 10, 2016
[size=18pt]So the lady should obey the guy right ? .[/size]

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