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Please Advice Me. by moonsunset: 6:59pm On May 04, 2016 |
I met him at a seminar, we exchanged contacts and we started talking, we had our 1st date after the seminar ...afterwards we had another one, then the 3rd one at his place where he officially asked me out for a relationship and i agreed. The problem is that he's not the type that calls often,because I like communicating often to my partner. Another thing that trips me about him is how he tends to keep our relationship and dates information seriously. he writes them down and remembers them,the day we met,the day he asked me out and our dates. I promised never to complain or nag about anything to him. But now i'm sad because he doesn't really keep in touch.I'm the type that likes to talk to her man 10 times a day if possible, lol(I work but I still won't mind such). What should I do? I really like him cost he sounds serious, etc..our relationship is about 3 weeks and some days old. I call him too sometimes but I don't want to be the one that calls more. For instance, I called him this morning 11am and up till now he hasn't called me, it's 6:57pm now Advice me please... WHAT SHOULD I DO? |
Re: Please Advice Me. by Nobody: 7:05pm On May 04, 2016 |
Talk to him about it,Simple! 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice Me. by donbenedict(m): 7:07pm On May 04, 2016 |
U are too needy! Ur relationship will crumble with high speed if he notices u to be the clingy type... Gosh.. I detest clingy ladies |
Re: Please Advice Me. by esxty(f): 7:09pm On May 04, 2016 |
why not talk to him |
Re: Please Advice Me. by akudinaobi(m): 7:10pm On May 04, 2016 |
Like you sad 3weeks and some days Its so early to be in a rush You are a lady He is the one that sopouse to be calling you and not you calling often Hope sex is not involved everyday because that's doom for you Just take things easy and when you push herder on any man they are bound to retreat as if you are bugging them Try and be atractiva always |
Re: Please Advice Me. by olac21(m): 7:11pm On May 04, 2016 |
Tell him the best way you talk to him on other issues..albieit jokingly! |
Re: Please Advice Me. by iceberylin(m): 7:12pm On May 04, 2016 |
Calm down you're at the early stage ... With time you wont pick up.. |
Re: Please Advice Me. by moonsunset: 7:17pm On May 04, 2016 |
akudinaobi:i'll just stop calling for now..sex is not involved everyday because we don't see everyday.. Thanks |
Re: Please Advice Me. by moonsunset: 7:18pm On May 04, 2016 |
iceberylin:Pls can u explain your statement cos i don't understand.. Thanks |
Re: Please Advice Me. by Nobody: 7:19pm On May 04, 2016 |
donbenedict:Sir,in what way(s)is she clingy? |
Re: Please Advice Me. by Nobody: 7:21pm On May 04, 2016 |
akudinaobi:Sire,communication is key in any relationship,remember |
Re: Please Advice Me. by moonsunset: 7:21pm On May 04, 2016 |
donbenedict:Hmmm,why do u detest clingy ladies? Is it all guys that detest clingy ladies? Don't u like communicating with ur partner and also know how the person is faring and how her day is going |
Re: Please Advice Me. by donbenedict(m): 7:21pm On May 04, 2016 |
Oyin93:pls read what she wrote in between lines. She says she is the type dat likes to talk to her man ten times a day if possible.. dat to me is serious clinginess |
Re: Please Advice Me. by donbenedict(m): 7:24pm On May 04, 2016 |
moonsunset:how many times will I want to knw how ur day is faring? Do u think it makes a lot of sense I call u ten times or more in a day to ask u d same boring questions? If u like use ur hand to spoil ur relationship. O gbasara m.. |
Re: Please Advice Me. by iceberylin(m): 7:25pm On May 04, 2016 |
moonsunset: You both are 3weeks old.. With time there will be other Flaws that'll make you detest talking to him. |
Re: Please Advice Me. by moonsunset: 7:25pm On May 04, 2016 |
donbenedict:I just exaggerated with the 10 times..i was just trying to portray often.10 times is obviously too much...u want me to be specific? I'll say minimum of 3 times. |
Re: Please Advice Me. by Nobody: 7:26pm On May 04, 2016 |
donbenedict:That doesn't make her clingy |
Re: Please Advice Me. by moonsunset: 7:27pm On May 04, 2016 |
iceberylin:Meaning? I'm i really supposed to be looking out for flaws in my relationship or praying for flaws? This isn't the advice i asked for here. |
Re: Please Advice Me. by donbenedict(m): 7:28pm On May 04, 2016 |
[quote author=moonsunset post=45314724] I just exaggerated with the 10 times..i was just trying to portray often.10 times is obviously too much...u want me to be specific? I'll say minimum of 3 times.[/quote3 times is even just too much for me unless I hav smth important to discuss with you. Period.. |
Re: Please Advice Me. by donbenedict(m): 7:29pm On May 04, 2016 |
Oyin93:it does to me. |
Re: Please Advice Me. by moonsunset: 7:30pm On May 04, 2016 |
donbenedict:Hmmm...ok ooo |
Re: Please Advice Me. by Nobody: 7:30pm On May 04, 2016 |
Some guys are not just used to calls,do u guys chat on any social media often?That may be his reason for not calling often,he might feel it's of no use calling since u guys chat.In all,talk to him about it |
Re: Please Advice Me. by iceberylin(m): 7:32pm On May 04, 2016 |
moonsunset: I'm not wishing you flaws, love |
Re: Please Advice Me. by moonsunset: 7:33pm On May 04, 2016 |
Oyin93:just whatsapp and we don't really chat there, just sometimes. |
Re: Please Advice Me. by Nobody: 7:33pm On May 04, 2016 |
donbenedict:Ok,but dats you Sir. |
Re: Please Advice Me. by Justeenaleo(f): 7:34pm On May 04, 2016 |
Speak with him and find out why its so, the relationship is too early for him not to want to be calling all the time. If you don't talk now, it would be so. Although I know some men that would rather not call because "they don't want to so they won't get bored fast. |
Re: Please Advice Me. by Nobody: 7:36pm On May 04, 2016 |
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Re: Please Advice Me. by Nobody: 7:36pm On May 04, 2016 |
moonsunset:Op,don't stop calling him entirely just reduce d number of time u do call him.In d morning to inquire about his night n at night to inquire about his day n tell him good night. |
Re: Please Advice Me. by Nobody: 7:37pm On May 04, 2016 |
moonsunset:Just talk to him about it |
Re: Please Advice Me. by moonsunset: 7:42pm On May 04, 2016 |
Justeenaleo:ok, thanks |
Re: Please Advice Me. by Marlvin(m): 7:50pm On May 04, 2016 |
For the fact that he doesn't call as often as you want, really shouldn't be an issue. you're getting yourself worked up over nothing. and if you go on like this ,you will melt your icing. spice up your r/ship the best way you can. quit grumbling ! |
Re: Please Advice Me. by akudinaobi(m): 7:55pm On May 04, 2016 |
Yes I believe but it should be handle maturedly Too many calls might upset the opposite when he or she is in a middle opf important discusion Oyin93: |
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