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Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by steppin: 10:57am On May 05, 2016
Very funny. The money is mine, why would I tell people what I earn?
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by Guyman02: 10:57am On May 05, 2016
My wife knows how much I earn but after a quarrel she told friends how much I earn and that I dont give her enough from it, so my friends went to the community where we grew up and spread the information, since then I get all kinds of invitations to child naming ceremonies, weddings, launching, birthdays everyone expecting to get a share of what they see as 'huge sum' that I earn.
Many also call me that their wife or child is in hospital, their son just got admission and needs money for registration etc and if I say I dont have money at that time, they think I am just being very wicked.
Its not a good idea except if you are sure the person you are confiding in will keep it solely to themselves.

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Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by nodullin(m): 10:57am On May 05, 2016
NO NO
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by Odunharry(m): 10:58am On May 05, 2016
It all depends though
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by SirAweezy(m): 10:58am On May 05, 2016
Never! Never!! I repeat! Never! Never!! Never!!! Try this at home!!!! It is suicidal.

Don't get overwhelmed with the your inflow and announcing it to families and friends.

It kills faster... be warned!

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Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by deyoungstar(m): 11:00am On May 05, 2016
nooo I can't try it
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by ozo13(m): 11:03am On May 05, 2016
ideology:
apart from your wife and Mum, no one else should know your salary details
popsy nko

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Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by Ramanto(m): 11:03am On May 05, 2016
not good
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by marksleek25: 11:05am On May 05, 2016
I tell only people I feel won't plan out my salary for me. I can tell my mom. I can tell my babe only if she asks.
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by akuracy(m): 11:06am On May 05, 2016
Nobody! I repeat, Nobody will know. Even if its possible for my employer that is paying me not to even know how much they are paying

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Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by kaka22(m): 11:07am On May 05, 2016
Well, it depends on the family and friends. I shared my salary information with a friend and that was because she shared her own first. Moreover, her salary almost doubles my own. I don't think I can do that with a friend who earn lesser than me.

I shared my salary information with my elder brother because he contributed to my academics.

Note: it is easy to share salary information with friends if all of you earn roughly equal salary so it won't lead to jealousy or inferiority complex. When I start earning my millions monthly, nobody will know cool

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Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by Nobody: 11:07am On May 05, 2016
Nothing Bad in disclosing your salary to family members n fiancee or spouse if they demand. However one has to be carefull disclosing such to friends so they wont start sharing ur money on ur behalf. grin
Even with family @ some point requires wisdom especially if u have dos who are information carriers cheesy.. Just saying

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Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by jesussaves22: 11:07am On May 05, 2016
Every tom and harry knew what is obtainable in the oil multinationals so in this case how will you pretend not to have money or earn more money than a banker?
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by deyoungstar(m): 11:07am On May 05, 2016
maybe I go tell my grand father
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by idu1(m): 11:11am On May 05, 2016
Few friends. FAMILY no no
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by Tobium1(m): 11:14am On May 05, 2016
I can't tell anybody de exact figure, a range will do
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by MiztaSanchez22(m): 11:22am On May 05, 2016
I wil tel my mum,siblingz nd few frndz,dad z late so wil tel my onli benafactor,bt in d main tym stil hopin nd waitin 4 dat job.
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by MiztaSanchez22(m): 11:23am On May 05, 2016
I wil tel my mum,siblingz nd few frndz,dad z late so wil tel my onli benifactor,bt in d main tym stil hopin nd waitin 4 dat job.
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by mission231(m): 11:23am On May 05, 2016
enairaprof:
Many atimes we unknowingly affect others response to us. When you tell a family member your salary, you may become the Father Christmas or have your money being planned by them. Sometimes, when we tell our friends they may get jealous or have a feeling of inferiority/superiority complex. So, I ask will you share your salary information with your family/friends? What are your reasons for your decisions?


for me is a NO NO NO,not again,I did that sometime ago and it has cause me a lot expecially expectation from friend,some will envy you,infact some wish you die or poison u simply because they think ure better than them.once again,never in my life will I make such silly mistake again.infact I won't let where I work talk more of my salary status,ot even my wife,my parent,anybody
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by dayojags10(m): 11:23am On May 05, 2016
Never. Ion do dose stuffs
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by ritzybaby(f): 11:23am On May 05, 2016
We SOLDIERS cannever tell a civilian how much we earn. grin
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by Nobody: 11:27am On May 05, 2016
No one should know about what you earn. Absolutely no one.
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by stubbornman(m): 11:27am On May 05, 2016
ideology:
apart from your wife and Mum, no one else should know your salary details
I won't even tell my mum
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by tse1v1(m): 11:28am On May 05, 2016
FOR ME I CAN TELL FRIENDS, I DONT GIVE A DAMM BECAUSE ITS MY HARD EARNED MONEY. YOU CANT COME AND TAKE IT FROM ME THOUGH..... FOR FAMILY NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.....FOR MUM YES AND SPOUSE...........THE WHOLE POINT IS THAT ITS MY MONEY............
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by stubbornman(m): 11:30am On May 05, 2016
MisterGrace:
With wify, maybe not so bad. But with friends, so so bad to share with friends. As a matter of fact, a so called friend of mine who happens to be my colleague in the office is trying everything to paint me bad or maybe have me sacked simply because of 30K difference in our monthly take home pay.

I have over 5 years experience before I joined the Organization and he's got only 7 months experience. Once he found out how much I was going get as monthly take home pay, he became so jealous that he stopped talking to me, he won't even wait on me for us to catch the bus together anymore.

He's all out to tarnish my image.

I don't know the satisfaction he will get if I loss the job.

But he will surely fail.
him don fail before him start ....God strong for your side!!

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Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by 1kinggy(m): 11:36am On May 05, 2016
Don't.
It is confidential.
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by dammytosh: 11:37am On May 05, 2016
ideology:
apart from your wife and Mum, no one else should know your salary details

Wetin concern your mum with the amount ?
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by amokeme(f): 11:40am On May 05, 2016
enairaprof:
Many atimes we unknowingly affect others response to us. When you tell a family member your salary, you may become the Father Christmas or have your money being planned by them. Sometimes, when we tell our friends they may get jealous or have a feeling of inferiority/superiority complex. So, I ask will you share your salary information with your family/friends? What are your reasons for your decisions?


no big deal, depends on the kind of people you have around you.
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by MisterGrace: 11:40am On May 05, 2016
stubbornman:

him don fail before him start ....God strong for your side!!

Amen... Thanks.
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by mystiqueDZ(f): 11:41am On May 05, 2016
When the salary is small you can afford to tell grin grin...that way no one asks....

When it's 6figure ....to your tent oh friends and family!!!!
Re: Sharing Your Salary Information With Friends And Family, Good Or Bad? by Nobody: 11:43am On May 05, 2016
as a woman I would rather know his own and beat down my own if asked,as for friends and family,no no no

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