Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

you should thank the almighty that men even approach you,there are girls out there,that dogs don't even smell.
thing is you have to continue your search with abundant efforts,the right man will come.you cannot change the fact that you are well to do,even if you try to hide it just to get a descent man,it may only take a while for him to discover and switch to gold digging mode.

why don't you try dating a poor boy for a change?

change the circles u move in. it may help

If only broke men approach you for marriage then get rich, marry a broke man and make him rich. Period! I don't want to hear one more complain from you, not when you are not Dangote's daughter or that of Mike Adenuga. Next plz

Scam 101...

Anyone that believes this cooked up story can believe anything...

Broke men indeed ..

Just b patient... d right one will come. I must commend ur stance on d gold digging guys. I dey shame on their behalf.

Because you are broke as well. If u were rich, u wouldn't be complainin meetin meetin broke guy..

If u continue with that rubbish attitude you will one day hustle broke boys not even broke men

Silly thread

when did it become a crime for women to do the spending in a relationship or marriage?

Abeg dnt bother us with ur fake story.. We have had enough of ur complains

Change your standards girl.

I can relate with this, I know that feeling. You could just be yourself and don't expect too high. There are still genuine men that would love you for you. Keep searching if you so much want marriage.

abeg who know waiting Madrid play

Lol the girl is the broke one here... Ur lamba na old skull lamba

It's because like charges repel while unlike charges attract..stick to one broke man and help his life to help yours

Errr... I don't think you are religious.. Maybe it's high time you start being one

Errr... I don't think you are religious.. Maybe it's high time you started being one

Honey the 1st question you should ask your self is are you really honesty to your self...2nd how old are you ...if you in ur 30s men will always be men they will tink you need them more coz of age is telling on u now dat all they gold digers always think....I love it when u said you are not looking for riches but a man who will love u for who u are dat is honesty...take ur time value all men and bet me d rite man will come some one who will love u for who u are...am a man due but I will tell u d truth

You seem genuinely worried, so I'll play nice. Most 'successful' ladies confuse confidence/self-assurance with pride. You may be unconsciously exuding a pompous vibe that men find off putting. I once asked a lady why she didn't pick my calls and she said she wasn't in the mood to talk, I asked why she didn't just say so and she said she couldn't be bothered. I stopped calling and she called one day to demand what the problem was, as she hadn't done anything wrong. Watch how you carry yourself and the way you talk to people. Also assess the kind of guys you are attracted to. Most hard-working guys don't have time to do fancy haircuts, wear tight blazers with those funny looking pencil trousers and suede loafers you girls love so much. If you like those kind of boys, probability is he's either a yahoo boy, a YBNL wey no sabi sing or a student. If you want to meet responsible men, then go were responsible men are, its that simple.

This is serious

Your problems are numerous, kindly work on almost all departments of your life,because poos attracts flies,nice scented objects attracts almost angels and finally Na as you de waka Na so your cloth de waka..what your father bequeathed to you is not the issue ,but what you make out of it.,bragging and showing off does no one any good.

Maybe you should disguise and stop advertising yourself

better still contact me ,am available .
you scared if you will attract the right guy for marriage or relationship cos of your wealth. same way me here is scared to get a good girl to marry cos i don't wanna regret any action i will take for a life time.let's talk more send me a mail elechijosh@gmail.com.
serious no play

Op! Op!! Op!!! Hw many tym's i kal u? u nid Adura, asin praya ceriously...

Meet my handsome boy. He doesn't need money just ribbena and u 2 will be lovers 4ever

mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

Am a Guy and we r on D same both!u can hit me up if ur not up to 30 and beautiful tnx!

https://www.nairaland.com/2912265/im-very-confused-state-right#42613462
https://www.nairaland.com/3085972/please-need-advice
Here's why NL ladies should not be taken seriously. OP went from being 23 and in her first long term relationship, to being a rich successful woman in her early 30s with bad luck in men, to needing a job and almost being scammed after applying for a job online.

DragonReborn:
https://www.nairaland.com/2912265/im-very-confused-state-right#42613462
https://www.nairaland.com/3085972/please-need-advice
Here's why NL ladies should not be taken seriously. OP went from being 23 and in her first long term relation, to being a rich successful woman in her early 30s with bad luck in men, to needing a job and almost being scammed after applying for a job online.

rotfl!! OMG, guy yhu wicked sha, c aw yhu xposed d op's lies. OP, nawa for yhu oh

OP can you tell the house your age .

DragonReborn:
https://www.nairaland.com/2912265/im-very-confused-state-right#42613462
https://www.nairaland.com/3085972/please-need-advice
Here's why NL ladies should not be taken seriously. OP went from being 23 and in her first long term relationship, to being a rich successful woman in her early 30s with bad luck in men, to needing a job and almost being scammed after applying for a job online.

You r realy observant, n what does the OP tend to achieve in this ?