I don't know if anybody has been in this kind of situation before! I need advise b4 i kolo

I know my kid brother is one of the most difficult humans to deal with because you really need to be an alien to be able to tolerate his annoying attitudes and behaviour My mama and papa self don tire My Fiancee unfortunately is not the type that can stomach irritating behaviour and this is really boiling over.

Its obvious that when we eventually get married, they both can't live under the same roof. I'm now caught up in the middle, because any action i take now seems as if am taking sides. I know my brother is a handful, but a baby is not thrown away alongside the bathing water. My Fiancee, i don't wanna lose as well, infact, i no fit even think am . Talking to my them has proven futile because its as if the more i talk, the more hardened my brother gets and my fiancee only wants him to change his attitude.

Any good advice will be much appreciated!

Come op u havnt even told us what both of dem did... are they always fighting together? What is the main issue?

the poster above me dey think wetin i dey think!

donbenedict:
Come op u havnt even told us what both of dem did... are they always fighting together? What is the main issue?

The main issue is that my brother does not like doing anything in the house viz-a-viz house chores etc. He prefers waking up, being served his food like a king and does whatever he likes afterwards. He doesn't also respect her because she never fails to point out his excesses and you know what that leads to, fight!

How do you mean under one roof Is your brother going to live with you guys after getting married
When you guys are not living in the same house,I see no reason why your brother should be a problem to any of u

Wat a boy

Emmytrill:


The main issue is that my brother does not like doing anything in the house viz-a-viz house chores etc. He prefers waking up, being served his food like a king and does whatever he likes afterwards. He doesn't also respect her because she never fails to point out his excesses and you know what that leads to, fight!

are u already married to her yet?

nikkypearl:
the poster above me dey think wetin i dey think!

lol just wait and see...

Abeg bring them to me oga military.........i will get den dere pills.................am@abacha barrack

CaroLyner:
why is your fiance living with you anyway?

She is not living with me, she visits.

queenoflafia:
How do you mean under one roof Is your brother going to live with you guys after getting married
When you guys are not living in the same house,I see no reason why your brother should be a problem to any of u

What about when he visits?

youngberry001:
Abeg bring them to me oga military.........i will get den dere pills.................am@abacha barrack

LOL, e never reach that level abeg

All is well

Relationship wahala

I believe your kid bro will automatically learn his place when you guys have your house. He's a visitor and as such knows what's expected of him.

Your brother need Chanji...

Emmytrill:


She is not living with me, she visits.

she needs to learn tactful,diplomatic behaviour.
you dont need to fight to get your point across.

what kind of annoying attitude does he display, that she can't ignore.Let's know what we are dealing with here .

Emmytrill:

LOL, e never reach that level abeg

aaah no be u said u need help ne

I used to be like your younger bro until I started to see life beyond my nose

Emmytrill:


LOL, e never reach that level abeg

come Mr man answer my question? Is she d madam of d house yet?

youngberry001:
aaah no be u said u need help ne

Your own na killer punch ni

donbenedict:
come Mr man answer my question? Is she d madam of d house yet?

LOL This your question self get as e be! Which one is if she is d madam of the house yet? Are u going to wait until she becomes the madam before you difuse issues that might pose a problem in the future. na wa o

LegalBaby:
you people arent married and she's already acting like boss.rubbish.

Madam Legal, u don really vex o Atleast u are a woman, so you should know better

Emmytrill:


LOL This your question self get as e be! Which one is if she is d madam of the house yet? Are u going to wait until she becomes the madam before you difuse issues that might pose a problem in the future. na wa o

oga sir, if she isn't wearin ur ring den she has no right to order ur younger bro around. U feel me... until she is ur wife, den she can order him around, and she'l be d one dats right, but as long as u neva marry am, she has to feed him well.. inugo.

Hmmmm cases like this, the best you can do is to talk to your fiance telling her to be tactful with the way she relates with him and most importantly, learn to ignore his childish attitude. Talking to someone with a childish character will only make things worse. Though once in a while, try to talk some senses into him. By the way, how old is he?

Emmytrill:


Madam Legal, u don really vex o Atleast u are a woman, so you should know better

look mr man, she is right! Infact I am ashamed dat a woman is causing u and ur blood brother to hav issues, she isn't even ur wife yet! Dat one is abomination.... until she becomes ur wife, she has no right to vex wat so eva, if she can't cook, clean, den she get out, there are millions of girls out there ready to answer mrs emmytrill

Emmytrill:


What about when he visits?

Is he spending a month on each visit

iAmCharis:
Hmmmm cases like this, the best you can do is to talk to your fiance telling her to be tactful with the way she relates with him and most importantly, learn to ignore his childish attitude. Talking to someone with a childish character will only make things worse. Though once in a while, try to talk some senses into him. By the way, how old is he?

God bless your wisdom! The dude is 20!

Are you marrying her into your family house or is your baby kid bro moving in with you both?