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Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by searchng4love: 9:03pm On May 07, 2016
“God has given you one face, and you make yourself another.” — William Shakespeare(Hamlet)

Gwyneth Paltrow once said: “Beauty, to me, is about being comfortable in your own skin.” We are living in a world where being natural is no longer fashionable, what a monumental psychological loss! Don’t ever bleach away your natural colour so that people will like you; be yourself and the right people will love the real you.

The appalling trend of bleaching among Nigerian youths has become unprecedented and portends a great danger to their future, as most of them have actually bleached themselves irredeemably beyond ‘redemption’. The legendary Fela Anikulapo Kuti, in a sarcastic style that belongs only to him, totally condemned the deteriorating effect of skin bleaching among the Nigerian folks in his album (Yellow Fever, 1976).

He labelled skin bleaching as one of the artificial sicknesses that is ravaging Nigeria and Africa at large, making the ‘bleaching fever’ to be even more devastating, damaging and destructive than malaria fever, Jaundice fever, hay fever and so on. In his typical mix of Yoruba and Pidgin English, the Afro beat legend and his Africa 70 Crew lashed out against the demented way with which Nigerians bleach their skin with blatant impunity.

Ralph Waldo Emerson said: “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” We are living in a world where we are so accustomed to disguising ourselves to others that, in the end, we become disguised to ourselves. It is very rare nowadays to see people with unadulterated, natural and authentic beauty. I want to emphatically underline that obsessive bleaching pattern is more than just a skin issue; it is actually a reflection of a deeper problem.

I have at various fora campaigned that skin- bleaching problems are more than skin deep; in fact, it permeates deep into our values and mentalities. It is a cover-up for a deeper psychological problem of unhealthy and low self-esteem. The only thing some people have is facial value, they lack intrinsic worth; your self-worth and not your face-worth determines your net-worth. We must first deepen our relationship within ourselves before we get preoccupied with how we look ‘outside’. There is nothing more attractive than a healthy self-esteem, once you see your own beauty, so will everyone else. The best self-image is not facial; it is the one that is internally motivated.

The global skin lightening industry was calculated at a worth of $10 billion USD for 2015. The products cost anywhere between 50 cents and $150, affordable by everybody, with Nigerians being the greatest patrons. The bleaching statistics is highly alarming especially in Africa. According to the World Health Organisation, 77 per cent of Nigerian women use skin lightening products on a regular basis, as do 59 per cent in Togo, 35 per cent in South Africa, 27% in Senegal and 25% in Mali. These products are also used in Zimbabwe, Ivory Coast, Gambia and Tanzania.

These figures seem unusually high, but even if they’re overblown, the problem is more than just cosmetic, it is culturally destructive. It encroaches on our culture, values and heritage. We might really have gained independence from the ‘whites’ but we are really in dire need of mental emancipation and Bob Marley had in a prophetic way delivered this message succinctly long time ago in one of his songs, Redemption song, “Emancipate yourself from mental slavery, none but ourselves can free our mind. Have no fear for atomic energy, ‘Cause none of them can stop the time…… Won’t you help to sing, these songs of freedom? ‘Cause all I ever had, Redemption songs…..These songs of freedom.“

We are actually fighting to free ourselves from modern colonialism; it is actually a classic case of colonial mentality in the post-colonial world. Colonialism didn’t end that long ago. As Africans, we freed ourselves and won our independence, but psychologically we continued to view ourselves through the lens of ‘whiteness’. In other words, we were left with the shackles of colonial mentality. It is not the dark skin that is the problem; it is our dark, jaundiced and uncultured way of thinking. Skin-lightening/bleaching is a problem, but it’s only a sign of much deeper inter-related issues: self-hatred, a race-based identity crisis, and the internalisation of Western-created cultural ideas that are inimical to the mental health of black people.

This internalised form of racism is an invisible presence in our psyches, and some of us don’t even realise it is a factor in how we perceive others and ourselves. The plague of skin bleaching is a classical matter that borders on the issue of identity, self-worth and self-acceptance.

Martin Luther King, Jr., had a vision of a sane world where people will so much focus on the content of their character without jeopardising the colour of their skin. He once said, “I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the colour of their skin, but by the content of their character.” The black pride movement that was pioneered by great minds like Martin Luther King Jr., Rosa Parks, Nelson Mandela et al must not be allowed to dwindle in the face of infective globalization. We must definitely be global in expression but we must never globalize our skin. The Black Pride movement celebrating heritage, personal pride, authenticity and afro-centricism needs to be consciously and actively injected into expressions of pop culture by artists, musicians, filmmakers and writers. In the face of acute self-degradation, we must not allow our sense of self to be distorted through a white lens.

Skin bleaching comes in different forms, so are the side effects. Its attendant side effects can be short or long-term and most times are irreversible. Those with little resources use the soaps, creams and powders which are common in the market. Others prefer steroids that bleach the skin from the inside. These substances contain high level of hydroquinone (above 2%), mercury and acids that suppress the enzyme responsible for producing melanin. Melanin is the substance that gives the skin and hair its natural colour. It protects the skin from Ultra Violet rays. Melanin is produced to darken the skin when exposed to the sun for extended period of time to keep the body from burning.

Fortunately for blacks, the skin produces more melanin than light-skinned or white people making us less susceptible to skin burns and skin cancer resulting from UV rays exposure. The side effects of using these bleaching substances are life threatening. They include: thinning of the skin that results in poor health, skin infection and surgical failures; skin cancer, leukaemia, kidney problems, premature aging, mercury poisoning, pungent body odour, permanent skin discoloration and allergies. In some cases psychiatric and neurological problems are associated.

Many ladies, women and men have become victims of their own uncontrollable and obsessive addiction to toning and bleaching of their natural skin to the extent that they have lost touch with their natural selves. I am reaching out to the African and Nigerian youths to be more comfortable in their natural skin. Stop depending on your facial worth in order to get people’s acceptance, be secured from within, and put more effort into building your self-esteem and stop spending too much time on things that are ephemeral and transient. I am advising the Nigerian youths to be more comfortable in their own skin, real beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself.

Fredrick Douglas said, “I prefer to be true to myself even at the hazard of incurring the ridicule of others, rather than to be false, and incur my own abhorrence”. I dedicate this piece to all the African queens that have vehemently refused to join the mad and demented race of skin bleaching, we have been inspired with your flawless, natural and exquisite beauty!



http://guardian.ng/saturday-magazine/stop-bleaching-away-your-destiny/

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by MEGGATRON(m): 9:06pm On May 07, 2016
grin

Bleaching has come to stay won bi iya yan!

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by talk2alabama: 9:06pm On May 07, 2016
People who bleach hav got low self esteem.

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by MUVA(m): 9:10pm On May 07, 2016
**Takes a seat** cool

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by kaziblake(f): 9:13pm On May 07, 2016
Thank God i don't bleach smiley black and beautiful

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Rockyrascal(m): 9:14pm On May 07, 2016
Some girls hugging can stain you #saynotobleaching

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Nobody: 9:14pm On May 07, 2016
Bleaching is a no no to me...ppol shud learn how to appreciate their natural color..

Bleaching to the extreme won't give them assurance that they will retain the skin tone they wanted ..and beside, bleaching don't give them an even skin tone..most of them are having like a camouflage, dark spots everywhere .. undecided

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Nobody: 9:19pm On May 07, 2016
Bleaching? Awwwww, it disgust me.

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Nobody: 9:19pm On May 07, 2016
op is right on this one smiley smiley




Blacks, say no to bleaching undecided

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Nobody: 9:21pm On May 07, 2016
Rockyrascal:
Some girls hugging can stain you #saynotobleaching
ladies are not the only one that bleach.



its no gender thing dude undecided

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Nobody: 9:22pm On May 07, 2016
Summary.... undecided

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by iceberylin(m): 9:22pm On May 07, 2016
Calm down... Some of these aboki need to bleach grin

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by PureWays(m): 9:22pm On May 07, 2016
Bleaching is bad. It's a sign of irresponsibility coupled with inferiority complex, but you know what?




It has eaten deep into our community, everyone wanna look cool and flashy and of course bleaching can make that happen in some ways.
Some ladies can't stand where a better looking girl is, so to stay competitive, they bleach thinking it will add to their look, and to be honest it does.

This generation care less about the outcome of things in as much as it can give them what they want now.

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Rockyrascal(m): 9:23pm On May 07, 2016
tongue[quote l smell lies author=kaziblake post=45411181]Thank God i don't bleach smiley black and beautiful[/quote]
Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by jammani(m): 10:54pm On May 07, 2016
Bleaching is that thing that makes you look brighter than your futurre

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Nobody: 10:54pm On May 07, 2016
Please let them know. I can't fathom out why ladies won't just appreciate their God given complexion. They wanna be white by all means not minding if it's detrimental. LOW SELF ESTEEM. They bleach their bodies like palmoil just to look beautiful, it turns out well for some while others hmmmmmmm I rest my case. Learn to be yaself babes, don't do it because others are doing it, we ladies tend to live a life of competition, fake lifestyles and that's not fair we often end up doing disastrous things just to be superior than the other. Hmmmmm mind you the end result is what matters oh, those you are trying hard to impress now won't even bother to stand up for you when horrible times show up oh. Ain't into any kinda competition with anyone, the only person I got to compete with is me. PEACE.

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by brightballer(m): 10:54pm On May 07, 2016
.The ozone layer, as weak and unstable as it is, is getting depleted every now and then by various human activities. The ozone layer, known to be as the earth protector, prevents direct contact and impact of ultraviolet rays on human beings. It prevents skin cancer and other skin-related diseases.
Dat inner bleaching badt gan oo..inhibiting the secretion of melanin.

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Abbeyunique2(m): 10:55pm On May 07, 2016
The most disgusting thing is sight of the green vein

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by nneka2020(f): 10:56pm On May 07, 2016
Lol..... May God help mi con3
Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Lawcurrent(m): 10:57pm On May 07, 2016
tell them cry

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Lilimax(f): 10:57pm On May 07, 2016
Bleaching ? York! embarassed Most people in the quest of toning their complexion ends up bleaching their skin. It comes subtly... My advice: Stop toning your skin cos in doing so, you're gradually bleaching your skin which has so many adverse effects on the long run . Who says black skins are not beautiful? smiley

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Tonnierichy(m): 10:57pm On May 07, 2016
Make dem kontinu
Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Nobody: 10:58pm On May 07, 2016
a society where the whites have made us believe anything black is inferior,or bad. and anything white is good,or superior.

bleaching is a serious state of insecurity,and inferiority complex.

i can only bleach,if the white can produce a cream to make them turn black.

am black and proud.

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Lawcurrent(m): 10:59pm On May 07, 2016
iceberylin:
Calm down... Some of these aboki need to bleach grin
my brother must of Northerners really need to bleach
Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by adedam007(m): 10:59pm On May 07, 2016
Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Ibidun07(f): 11:00pm On May 07, 2016
talk2alabama:
People who bleach hav got low self esteem.



Gbam!
Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Niyinficient(m): 11:00pm On May 07, 2016
Lol! Bleachers' Union of Nigeria wil see dis as crap! grin

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by kvngbree01(f): 11:01pm On May 07, 2016
Its good to accept urself as u are. No need to bleach
Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by ireneony(f): 11:02pm On May 07, 2016
smiley black people always complaining.
White people tan alot and you don't hear white peeps putting down their kind.

Anyone can choose to live their life the way they want. Why do we black folks whine over everything, including unnecessary matter.

I know there are health implication for bleaching same with tanning.

We should use the time will use in craving for unnecessary things to improve on ourselve. Just see how this country is fuukked up right now. Naira is nothing to write home abt, economy is crumbling, bokoharam here and there, Fulani herdsmen wahala...pple can't feed their family no more. Bleaching should be our least problem right now. lets focus on more important things to make a better Nigeria, where there will be good health, standard of education, science and technology, good housing and drinking water. Etc..
It's time to start working towards solutions and results, not time to complain whine behind your computer screen.

I din talk my own#

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Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by horpilow(m): 11:03pm On May 07, 2016
They want to shine brighter than the sun
Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by lollmaolol(m): 11:03pm On May 07, 2016
What will u tell mum if she bleash?
Re: Stop Bleaching Away Your Destiny by Nobody: 11:04pm On May 07, 2016
But their Lapopo won't bleach afterwards

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