I swear yours cannot stand beside mine. You know it and I know it.

You can't even reason, why on earth will you keep throwing that word like oponu. If the way you reason a good type like an ode is what being brought up properly mean, I am happy to say I wasn't brought up properly

Omo ale jatijati!

goingape:


well! your father may be among the prophets she slept with who knows


why you still can't use your brain to think properly?

do wonder if you are brought up properly!

MarieSucre:
matrix199
goingape

Did you even read what you wrote? How does it relate with the article? Instead of you to ask pertinent questions like why is it that these women are put in such a position by marriage? How can men ensure that they make the women feel confident and loved so they don't have to do all these?

Look at what you're saying.

hahahah.

can't just keep laughing!

how many century men have been trying to make WOMEN feel confident and loved! you people keep driving us crazy.


even if we asked this questions who among you people will answer when ya don't even know the answer to the question not talk less of the question.

I was once like you o

It is not going to work trust me. Go through their profiles, don't be surprised to know that when they describe a woman, they are actually describing their mothers.

Imaging these type of men calling themselves leaders etc, Tufiakwa. I forbid it.



Are you a Muslim?

MarieSucre:
matrix199
goingape

Did you even read what you wrote? How does it relate with the article? Instead of you to ask pertinent questions like why is it that these women are put in such a position by marriage? How can men ensure that they make the women feel confident and loved so they don't have to do all these?

Look at what you're saying.

dare2differ:


Your mum is one of the 99%, no wonder your IQ is so low.

I didn't want to respond to your first quote becos I realised you're a minor. But I think your second quote was quite too far. Am I to exchange words with you or what? I'll let this pass. But next time, don't disrespect people. If you can't quote like a well trained kid, then don't quote at all.

dare2differ:
I swear yours cannot stand beside mine. You know it and I know it.

You can't even reason, why on earth will you keep throwing that word like oponu. If the way you reason a good type like an ode is what being brought up properly mean, I am happy to say I wasn't brought up properly

Omo ale jatijati!

speak your RUBBISH language all I care!

keep that pride to ya pocket, don't come and brag online.

you throw INSULT without reasoning and think everything is done by insult! you are pathetic if you don't know it.

matrix199:



I didn't want to respond to your first quote becos I realised you're a minor. But I think your second quote was quite too far. Am I to exchange words with you or what? I'll let this pass. But next time, don't disrespect people. If you can't quote like a well trained kid, then don't quote at all.

what is this one saying?

Intelligence is usually maternal. You are not smart, you reason like an idiot. Obviously, you got it from somewhere.

matrix199:



I didn't want to respond to your first quote becos I realised you're a minor. But I think your second quote was quite too far. Am I to exchange words with you or what? I'll let this pass. But next time, don't disrespect people. If you can't quote like a well trained kid, then don't quote at all.

pls don't quote that WOMAN.

she always like bullying people up and down and be throwing INSULT.

who don't know her!

Look who is calling someone pathetic, I am not the one that keeps blaming my mother and other women for my misery

Stop using the word ‘reason', it is too big for you. Hian!

goingape:
speak your RUBBISH language all I care!

keep that pride to ya pocket, don't come and brag online.

you throw INSULT without reasoning and think everything is done by insult! you are pathetic if you don't know it.

goingape:
have you try it?

did it work well for you?

share your experience and let us know how you did it.

Once any woman comes to complain to me about it. I'll be sure yo let you know so that you can give your usual judgemental counselling. Thanks

MarieSucre:
matrix199
goingape

Did you even read what you wrote? How does it relate with the article? Instead of you to ask pertinent questions like why is it that these women are put in such a position by marriage? How can men ensure that they make the women feel confident and loved so they don't have to do all these?

Look at what you're saying.

Did you read my three quotes at all? I quoted.... "the implication of marrying an uneducated lady" as my first quote. My second quote was a clarification quote to the young man that quoted me. My third was ... Many ladies reason with their hearts, while few reason with their heads. Meaning, many ladies make wrong decisions, while few make the right ones.

I need the summarize copy. This is too lenghy

Islie:









http://www.punchng.com/crazy-things-women-save-marriages/

WTF is tiwa?

Akshow:
But you fit read tiwa savage interview from beginning to finish.

goingape:
hahahah.

can't just keep laughing!

how many century men have been trying to make WOMEN feel confident and loved! you people keep driving us crazy.


even if we asked this questions who among you people will answer when ya don't even know the answer to the question not talk less of the question.

With an attitude like this, how can you ever know. Mr I Too Know. Stop saying "even if we asked the question". Ask the f**king question already and stop jumping into baseless conclusions given to you in a one noisy, dirty beer parlour by ogogoro drinkers.

How can you know whether we know the answer or not. Are you a woman? Are you in our head? How do you know what we know or how we will answer??

Instead of you to put your ear down and learn from women about women, you prefer to sit down and write misogynistic crap about us. I pity your situation.

Good lord! The things women do to save their marriage, sometimes makes me cringe.

MarieSucre:


Once any woman comes to complain to me about it. I'll be sure yo let you know so that you can give your usual judgemental counselling. Thanks

ok!

I will be waiting for you!

matrix199:



Did you read my three quotes at all? I quoted.... "the implication of marrying an uneducated lady" as my first quote. My second quote was a clarification quote to the young man that quoted me. My third was ... Many ladies reason with their hearts, while few reason with their heads. Meaning, many ladies make wrong decisions, while few make the right ones.

Interesting, so what would an educated woman have done?

MarieSucre:

Interesting, so what would an educated woman have done?

Let me throw the question back at you.


What would you do in such situation? I believe you're educated right?

MarieSucre:


With an attitude like this, how can you ever know. Mr I Too Know. Stop saying "even we asked the question". Ask the f**king question already and stop jumping into baseless conclusions given to you in a one noisy, dirty beer parlour by ogogoro drinkers.

How can you know whether we know the answer or not. Are you a woman? Are you in our head? How do you know what we know or how we will answer??

Instead of you to out your ear down and learn from women about women, you prefer to seat down and write misogynistic crap about us. I pity your situation.

see !

see how you jump into conclusion and conclude everything!

how do you even expect us to give that kind of a question when we already know the RUBBISH reply ya people will give!

your thinking is radical young woman!

kingkakaone:
sorry to say but a typical Nigerian is always impatient with everything no wonder things don't change in the country because they will fight against it out of impatience and these politicians knows this.
for the record I read it till the end not because of anything other thing but because it is a taboo to end any venture at d middle.
try to either read a story till d end or don't comment at all.
don't be offended sha is just an advice.

Abegi
.....give dt to yrself ist

matrix199:



Let me throw the question back at you.



What would you do in such situation? I believe you're educated right?

I have never been in that situation and have no intention of being in one. But you seemed quite knowledgeable while writing your comment. Pls I want to learn from you. Enlighten us.

goingape:
see !

see how you jump into conclusion and conclude everything!

how do you even expect us to give that kind of a question when we already know the RUBBISH reply ya people will give!

your thinking is radical young woman!

You're damn too arrogant. You don't know anything. And you don't care to learn.

Small sense is all you need my brother. Except you're a Benin winch, how are you going to know the reply we're going to give?

My brother go out and ask questions and stop wallowing in self-inflicted ignorance.

dare2differ:
I swear yours cannot stand beside mine. You know it and I know it.

You can't even reason, why on earth will you keep throwing that word like oponu. If the way you reason a good type like an ode is what being brought up properly mean, I am happy to say I wasn't brought up properly

Omo ale jatijati!

My dear, my background ensures that I an stuck between two worlds.

MarieSucre:


You're damn too arrogant. You don't know anything. And you don't care to learn.

Small sense is all you need my brother. Except you're a Benin winch, how are you going to know the reply we're going to give?

My brother go out and asks questions and stop wallowing in self-inflicted ignorance.

judgmental beings and yet keep making life's mistake over and over again!


anyway! stop putting too much emotion in ya writeup! you are proving what that guy above said about using emotion instead of brain!

goingape:
judgmental beings and yet keep making life's mistake over and over again!


anyway! stop putting too much emotion in ya writeup! you are proving what that guy above said about using emotion instead of brain!

Stop wasting time replying my comments. Go outside that your shell and start asking women questions so that you don't come out looking like an intelligent fool in front of your wife.

MarieSucre:


Stop wasting time replying my comments. Go outside that your shell and start asking women questions so that you don't come out looking like an intelligent fool in front of your wife.

you just said it yourself!

your comment is a waste of time!


don't worry I won't reply your wasteful comment since you still don't understand or rather in that shell you are!

last note! stop living in your past and learn to walk forward not backward

MarieSucre:


I have never been in that situation and have no intention of being in one. But you seemed quite knowledgeable while writing your comment. Pls I want to learn from you. Enlighten us.

What do you want me to enlighten you on? A woman who wants to save her marriage should save it the right way. How does sleeping with a religious trickster, or a native doctor save her marriage?


The problem with Africa is over-spirituality. They believe the spirit realm controls the physical. If that's so, then countries like America, Switzerland, France, UK, have found more favor in the spirit realm than any country in Africa, in spite of our fanaticism in religion.


Well, it's in the nature of men who married for marriage sake, to cheat on their wives when the marriages lose savor. No religious succour, or diabolic means, can save or amend such marriages.


Single ladies should endeavor necessary tests or checks are put in place to at least ascertain integrity of the men they are into. if I was a lady, I may consider asking a friend to crush on my man to see if he'll admit he's committed to someone else and can't cheat on her, or admit he's committed and stil want to cheat, or deny he's not committed at all. That wld help me ascertain his integrity.

goingape:
you just said it yourself!

your comment is a waste of time!


don't worry I won't reply your wasteful comment since you still don't understand or rather in that shell you are!

last note! stop living in your past and learn to walk forward not backward

At least act like you passed the four walls of an educational institution. Your reply is the "waste of time " here bro. Stop living in the past where outdated knowledge of women circulate, knowledge that come from men who were already grandfather's when Windows XP came out.

Go out and receive sense!!!
Go out and ask actual, living breathing women their opinions.

Jah Bless

matrix199:



What do you want me to enlighten you on? A woman who wants to save her marriage should save it the right way. How does sleeping with a religious trickster, or a native doctor save her marriage?


The problem with Africa is over-spirituality. They believe the spirit realm controls the physical. If that's so, then countries like America, Switzerland, France, UK, have found more favor in the spirit realm than any country in Africa, in spite of our fanaticism in religion.


Well, it's in the nature of men who married for marriage sake, to cheat on their wives when the marriages lose savor. No religious succour, or diabolic means, can save or amend such marriages.


Single ladies should endeavor necessary tests or checks are put in place to at least ascertain integrity of the men they are into. if I was a lady, I may consider asking a friend to crush on my man to see if he'll admit he's committed to someone else and can't cheat on her, or admit he's committed and stil want to cheat, or deny he's not committed at all. That wld help me ascertain his integrity.

That is sound advice. But some on nairaland may say "What if he falls for your friend, it will be your fault for trying to tempt your man in the first place". I have seen such comments. What is a woman to do?

matrix199:



What do you want me to enlighten you on? A woman who wants to save her marriage should save it the right way. How does sleeping with a religious trickster, or a native doctor save her marriage?


The problem with Africa is over-spirituality. They believe the spirit realm controls the physical. If that's so, then countries like America, Switzerland, France, UK, have found more favor in the spirit realm than any country in Africa, in spite of our fanaticism in religion.


Well, it's in the nature of men who married for marriage sake, to cheat on their wives when the marriages lose savor. No religious succour, or diabolic means, can save or amend such marriages.


Single ladies should endeavor necessary tests or checks are put in place to at least ascertain integrity of the men they are into. if I was a lady, I may consider asking a friend to crush on my man to see if he'll admit he's committed to someone else and can't cheat on her, or admit he's committed and stil want to cheat, or deny he's not committed at all. That wld help me ascertain his integrity.

did you look YOURSELF before you write this stuff

you are hearing husband snatcher everywhere and yet still advising people to use this tactic!
if you are a lady you won't say this stuff but trying to hide the man from ya fellow female friends....

WOMEN ARE there own enemy! just sit one corner and let then breaks there heads.

MarieSucre:


That is a sound advice. But some fellas on nairaland may say "What if he falls for your friend, it will be your fault for trying to tempt your man in the first place". I have seen such comments. What is a woman to do?

If he falls for your friend, then you should heave a sigh of relief that you didn't get to end up with a billy for the rest of your life. It means he's not right for you.


And please, don't let the opinions of some NLers get to you.

I can totally relate with the last Woman. You make plans in your head but can never carry it out, lol.

Marriage even though with its challenges, can be wonderful if both parties are ready to work and stick it through,knowing it's together till death.