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Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by lollmaolol(m): 11:02pm On May 07, 2016 |
It's not an option |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by Nobody: 11:03pm On May 07, 2016 |
I fail to see the big deal. I do like the idea 1 Like |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by Nobody: 11:03pm On May 07, 2016 |
Yes it is a good idea, First a man wouldn't want to see Panties and other women stuffs hanging all over his masters bedroom jacuzzi or what have you, as a Young Man in my mid 20's I have my own room, she has hers, but we both sleep in mine at night, and play around in hers sometimes during the day, but her stuffs are in hers. 7 Likes |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by nneka2020(f): 11:03pm On May 07, 2016 |
It not Gud for mi own opinion ooooo. Bt some married man n woman der need private place,so der can stay alone n call der side chick be able to chat and do anything der lyk[quote][/quote] |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by Lilimax(f): 11:05pm On May 07, 2016 |
YES! I do have my separate room |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by gonkraziiiiii: 11:05pm On May 07, 2016 |
OK so I have ma room n hubby has his but we sleep together everynight in his room...ma room is for ma clothes cos its plenty oooo ....dey r things to be discussed by 3am,moves to be made by 4am...d sweetest is d bed is not so big so if we quarrel body must touch each other o n Before u say jack,d quarrel is over but when u quarrel n u sleep in ur room,negative tots,pride n prolonged quarrel starts....my opinion ooo 11 Likes |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by dammytosh: 11:06pm On May 07, 2016 |
Perfectdanny: Whatever works for you. Why disturb her with your loud snore ? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by nonjebose(m): 11:06pm On May 07, 2016 |
Not good at all. A friend of mine is having this problem now. While they lived in a 2 bedroom apartment, he shared a room with the wife. Later they got a three bed room house, and the wife insisted on having her room. This has resulted in decrease in closeness and love between them. They are living like strangers now. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by totorimi: 11:07pm On May 07, 2016 |
The only reason I can think is when people are not happily married. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by searchng4love: 11:09pm On May 07, 2016 |
OXCUBA: she made it.....so......quietly....
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Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by Arckeen: 11:10pm On May 07, 2016 |
There is nothing wrong in it, no big deal ....I even like it that way ! |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by 5minsmadness: 11:11pm On May 07, 2016 |
gonkraziiiiii:Hmmmm. Nice. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by eddyslim(m): 11:11pm On May 07, 2016 |
It ain't right at all |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by nonjebose(m): 11:11pm On May 07, 2016 |
[quote author=gonkraziiiiii post=45414113]OK so I have ma room n hubby has his but we sleep together everynight in his room...ma room is for ma clothes cos its plenty oooo ....dey r things to be discussed by 3am,moves to be made by 4am...d sweetest is d bed is not so big so if we quarrel body must touch each other o n Before u say jack,d quarrel is over but when u quarrel n u sleep in ur room,negative tots,pride n prolonged quarrel starts....my opinion ooo[/quote Madam, you are very much on point, especially the area of prolonged quarrel and pride] 1 Like |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by kceewhyte(m): 11:12pm On May 07, 2016 |
Person like me na everyday I go dey chop |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by spicyhoney(f): 11:16pm On May 07, 2016 |
No, it is not good. Having same room will help you build stronger bond, it will also help you reconcile your differences quicker than when you use separate rooms. You can then keep a separate room as your closet because one room might not be able to do that for both of you if you are like me that have plenty stuff but there won't be a bed in the room that has your closet. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by santafe(m): 11:17pm On May 07, 2016 |
I dont see anything wrong with that. |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by asema646(m): 11:17pm On May 07, 2016 |
having a seperate room shldnt be a sin |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by Ewatomi26(f): 11:18pm On May 07, 2016 |
Its not a good idea at all for couples to sleep in different room... Couples who sleep in different rooms, tend to keep secret from one another... If they have a misunderstanding, it tends to last longer, than when they share the same room... When couples share the same room, they tend to discuss matters bothering them to each other... Couples that share same room have long lasting marriages... You get so used to your partner, that his/her absence on bed, would draw you more closer to him/her, even if your guys are not in good times... You guys would be able to pray together, even after a stressful day. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by Checked86: 11:22pm On May 07, 2016 |
Many couples do it, but after they have nothing to do with Pampers company(when they are through with reproduction) |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by Timbi: 11:23pm On May 07, 2016 |
If you got 2 wives or more, you need no such question. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by Okeycima: 11:27pm On May 07, 2016 |
Op make I go toilet I dey come with a reply |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:29pm On May 07, 2016 |
I see nothing wrong with it. I love space, peace of mind and my alone time. |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by agborodun: 11:29pm On May 07, 2016 |
It is one of the worst thing to happen to a marriage. Once such happens, disintegration is nearby. I am talking from experience. |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by Nobody: 11:31pm On May 07, 2016 |
'my alone time' shouldn't be compromised When he wants a glass of water late at night, he promptly makes provision for that without bugging me |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by darlenese(f): 11:32pm On May 07, 2016 |
Yes they can have seperate room to keep their stuff But they must share one bed, and the bed should be a small bed, if the bed is too big, its another problem o, hmmn , |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by Duru009(m): 11:34pm On May 07, 2016 |
From my little personal observation. most couples who sleep in separate rooms, dre marriage doesn't last at all. thy always argu a lot. its not gud oooooo |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by omonnakoda: 11:39pm On May 07, 2016 |
Are we talking one wife two or three? What really is the African tradition? Let us ask Emir Sanusi or Okonkwo in Things Fall Apart |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by Nobody: 11:40pm On May 07, 2016 |
One room, two closets, one bathroom, one house, two underground Music Studios. One Family 1 Like |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by habsydiamond(m): 11:41pm On May 07, 2016 |
Husband and wife living separately in a house should not happen if there is no disagreement between them but if there is, its possible for them to sleep separately till dey reconcile and come back again. When room separation happen thru fight the couple do think about trashing out the crisis in time in other to bound their relationship. |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by Nobody: 11:42pm On May 07, 2016 |
Segadem:Sir, i was thinking about this for a while now. I met my elder brother who's married. He said he'd prefer his personal room in his house. I asked his wife, she said she won't support it. It's like this. I have my room with my own tv, bed everything a room needs in my house. Is it right for me as a husband to have my own room in a house knowing fully well that me and my wife have become one flesh. Hope you get me now |
Re: Is It Good For A Husband And Wife To Have Separate Rooms At Home? by lillybk: 11:44pm On May 07, 2016 |
Wow!!! This year my marriage will be 14yrs. My hubby n I has always sleep and share separate rooms. Personally, I don't like it but he insisted on it so I gave in. Few months ago I told his father about it n he adviced that we should sleep on same bed. We started sleeping together few weeks ago cos my eldest daughter (13yrs) is beginning to code our movement when its time for the act. We barely have sound sleep cos we aren't use to it but its more advantageous to sleep together as a couple.It promotes peace, love, intimacy and quick resolution to disagreement. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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