UjSizzle:
This is not something we need to argue over.
Curses do not affect the innocent. If he is afraid of this, then his conscience already judges him.

Just my thoughts...if he's innocent, he's free even with the curses...cos he won't be affected.

On the other hand, if he's guilty of something, he's already cursed.

I don't know why I can't just stop being pitiful of the new young woman who thinks she has a fresh fiance.

First, it's either this story isnt true or the girl is a first class mumu. How in the world do u think that a man who doesn't want to have kids with u and keeps damaging ur womb will later marry u.

whatsoever a man soweth....He shall reap....If not now... maybe in d future

TonyeBarcanista:
This is a very serious issue. Though the guy didn't do well by jilting a girl that stood by him and loved him even in his lowest of lows, but I see no need for the curses.

The woman should put herself together and move on

As much as it is wise for the victimised woman to move on, the emotional trauma may be too much to bear...she may not be able to live a 'normal' life anymore.

As for the lady,
Most people won't take her serious, she may not be able to have a good relationship in the future where she'll be honest with her partner, the tendency for her to lie about her past is very high...which isn't good for any relationship.

Finding a spouse becomes harder, I personally won't like to marry someone like that...will you?

As for the man,
He gave a very dumb reason for jilting a lady who gave her all for him. The man probably won't talk with his newly found love about all what transpired in his last relationship...and if he can't do this, he is definitely guilty of something.

FlirtyKaren:
Guy Cries Out After Girlfriend Of 6 Years, 4 Abortions That He Dumped Cursed Him

This young man had the boldness to dump his girl friend of 6 years cos according to him, he fell out of love with her. After her parents made him rich, after she aborted 4 pregnancies for him. He even met another younger lady, 8 years younger than his girlfriend, and in 4 months proposed to her.

He is now crying out after his ex cursed him. Please read and share your thoughts. Do you think the girlfriend went too far with her curses?

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/05/guy-cries-out-after-girlfriend-of-6.html

d mugu of a guy needore dan dat.afta 6yrs n 4 abortions d guy hateless.


and for dat pastor God need to deal with him,y lead ur members to death

Man, you created this monster and it may consume you.

You have found yourself between the devil and deep sea.

It's too late to make amend with this lady, right now.

Consider changing your first name to Greed

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
I don't believe in curses. Dude, live your life joor, nothing will happen, never marry out of sympathy. This is the same kind of advice that the feminists on nairaland will give if a girl magas a guy for six years and leaves with a rich dude, so what is good for the goose...

Bro... if abortion is not involved is ok for him to leave and also if no gold digging was involved. That's Y I don't accept help towards developing myself so that no1 will hold me back and into where I don't want to be. He is not the only orphan on the planet, if he knowns he is not ready to accept her and marry her, why will he accept their help. Come on, let the guy get common sense, although sense is not common if not the mad man on the street for get one.

My advice for d dude is to forget the 4month chick and embrace his 6yrs babe if he want to leave the rest of his life in Peace. Because, if is in my place a woman use her Pucy to cause man, is as leaving as a dead man.

Why hmmmm somebody mess ni

Specialbaby:
you and I know that raw sex can't be equated with ruber sex,if a lady you are attached to hate condom,the best thing to do is explore alternatives birth control methods if you are not ready to be an emergency dad,btw,the last time i checked,guys are the ones who always insist on unprotected sex.

You lied here... I've met several girls that'd rather not have sex with a man if protection is involved. The fact is, they always have that line "so you feel like I have disease or something"? What annoys me most is that I usually end up doing it unprotected with them after wasting my expensive condom (N166 out of 3 pieces that sells for N500). Imagine if I have saved all that money, now I'd have used it to buy some skyrocketed food stuffs or probably have become a millionaire.

In as much as all the girls I've had unprotected sex with (apart from one of them) either advocated for it or were cool with it, I still don't allow my semèn get into their system. There is a reason why withdrawal method is classified as a birth control technique and it is usually effective to those who know how to use it.

Although in all I've said, I'm not trying to justify the guy's actions. He messed up big time and I wish curses do work so that he ends up feeling the pain he inflicted on the girl in multiple folds. Tho I believe that the girl shouldn't have spoken of it, cuz she should have allowed nature take it's full course.

My elder sister has been in her shoes before. Her's was for about 7-8yrs. The useless man forming Yankee and the best thing to happen to the world, was even married in the US but my sis didn't know. He took so much money from my mum on several occassions (my mum being a gullible woman wanted my sister's marriage with the fraud star to work by all means to the point that she started threatening my sister). All the money he fraudulently took from my mum, including the one he claimed he would use to help work a visa for me were in millions. By the way, my mum never told us that the fraudstar was taking money from her until the idiotic mofo disappointed my sister. He later wanted my sister to start having babies for him under my mum's roof and even though he was just only engaged to my sister. That was when my sister said she's had enough. The man was like well she can go if she likes, as for him, he can decide to impregnate any girl he sees in the streets of US.

My sister left him and is presently married (married last year at the age of 35 to a younger and more reasonable human being- 37 or 38 years of age- unlike the other foolish fraud star that is about 10 years older than her). As for the fraud star, news got to us that the idiotic imbecilè was arrested for raping a girl in his cab (he was a cab driver in the US before the rape case). What happened to him if not karma and I believe my sister didn't even need to swear for him before nature took its course.

Since I've seen such a thing happen to my sister, I've avoided such situations very well. I once dated this girl (back when I was so damn broke) that loved me so much and was willing to give up all her life savings for me. She loved me to the point that even after 2 years of breakup, she's still keeping in touch (don't know if the love was as a result of the marathon sex I gave her ). I knew that leading a girl on for several years and later dumping her could be very much painful so, throughout my relationship with her (for about 4 - 5 months) I didn't ask her for money and never took a dime from her (by the way, I don't take things, especially money, from women) even though she was managing her dad's business as at then and was seeing money. She was even the one that made me get so used to unprotected sex, to the point that I now can't have sex if protected. I broke up with her within just a few months into the relationship because I knew she was not just the woman for me and I couldn't play along just because of the sex I was getting from her.

She is not God abi? But u sef no try at all.

nrexzy:
Wouldn't say I feel either of both pain. But 6years is quite a lot of time for him to just get engage in 4months... I wish him luck shaaa

if u R axtian,u don't divorce on all grounds except if one partner commits adultery!

My advise to U,is to go and pacify d girl before u marry ur new girl.But u re more than wicked.Why deceive her with marriage in d first place?

Guy you are heartless

If you read the whole story, you're really a product of bad governance.

if he promised to marry her all through the 6 years, worse things will happen to him. not necessarily because of her curses but his false confession will haunt him. he might not have told us the extent of his deceit that is making him worried about the curses.

For six yrs, some guys get heart, too bad ,

EVILFOREST:

IF i am told to BREAK MORE HEARTS so as to admit LADIES into the CARDIOLOGY WARDS, i will do that without hesistating, because i enjoy seeing ladies suffer heart breaks.

I am conducting a 35 year old research, on the symptoms of heart disasters from heart-breaks.
So Please we need more heart Breaks especially in ladies.

I am Yet to see any LADY get admitted for HEART BREAK since i started this survey, Yet they go online crying of heart breaks. Does it mean they are lying... Or shedding croccodile tears...?

Biko where Is the hospital, I really need to be admitted there ASAP

Bring the parents in,your pastor, let it out, confess or better still propose to her...marry the two of them..

Na wa O

*joins ex girlfriend to curse* omoale! So you knw how to use and dump?

Nothing like curses! it won't work.the girl is just venting her anger and bitterness

If she is smart enough,she suppose to keep calm as if nothing happened then kill arrange for the guy to be abducted and tortured to death in cold blood...That's revenge!

cursing him is just pure noise making

How can you date a man for 2years and he doesn't propose and you don't have a back up plan? but you continue to spread your legs for 6years,abort 4 times? Ain't you the definition of a goat?

Op,pls enjoy your marriage.You are a typical Nigerian man!

no man will marry a lady after 1 abortion,talk of 4.you did nothing wrong.Congrats

Well said.

I feel so much for the lady.. It's quite sad.
That guy is heartless .
Very very heartless.
Can't believe I woke up to this. I'm going back to bed

vani86:


Your reply just indicated how shallow and naive you are.

How can you date a girl from when she was 24 to 30, got her prego 4 times and have her abort them all for you to dump her and engage a 22 abi 23 year old months later.


Dude that guy is evil, and very wrong. Imagine if she was your sister. Will you say the same thing.

From my observation. 95% of ladies don't like condom.

thy pretend to like it but thy don't at all.
its just life. move on with your life and make sure u involve ur pastor.

shaiba:
hmmm....
Quite sensitive situation.

To the lady
It is quite sad. After crying and the pity party, pull yourself together and move on. You have no choice but to forgive him, not because of him but for yourself cause when you don't forgive people who hurt you they tend to have power over you and it keeps you down. You cant hold on to a relationship that does not want you. Five years on, you will look back and wonder what in the world you saw in him in the first place and will thank him for leaving you. like I said, it hurts very bad, trust me it will take a while (cause of all what you and your family went through to support him, memories of the good and bad times you shared and such) but you have one life and it is not tied to this guy. Be glad you didn't lost your life, some who had worse situations never lived to curse the man. Let go and let God.

To the guy
You should have done something to appreciate the parents of your now ex-gf before moving ahead of yourself. Don't know how you intend to breach this, but you have to do all you can to make peace with them. They are more like your parents.
Congratulations on your new found love. I hope you don't grow weary of her after marriage.
I hope you followed your instinct rather than your heart. Please do all you can to be at peace with her parents first, then their daughter.
I pray your pastor guides you in the right path.

Think carefully before you take your next step.

My thoughts though...

Now this is the most sensible and mature writeup here..i adore sound reasoning and intelligence...especially in ladies.

Unless she forgives him, those curses will certainly affect him.

Women need to be wise, gosh!

This one pass me , let's wait for the elders

adeaks:
He dumped a thirty year old lady he had enjoyed in and out, back and front for 6 years...then he met a young, fresh 22 yr old girl and he proposed to her in four months yet he wants the lady to just take it calmly.

Bro..... these curses are not enough, she should add more curses, then wait until the day of your wedding and bring thugs to disrupt it.

Ogbeni... Ah.. kiloshele ..... You dey vex ooooo

Anyways....

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If at all this story is real and truly happened, then the guy is heartless, inconsiderate, stupid, worthless and deserves whatever her ex wished him. He didn't even consider the family of the girl that supported him, na wa o, people are really wicked o! Another justification that love (romantic love) is just a fallacy because it's always one-sided and partial, and it seems for a romantic love to exist, one partner must be the fool

For the sake of the girl's family financial support to you alone is enough reason to love that girl forever till you die!

I am sure this other girl he wants to marry now is a total liability and her family must be a leech depending solely on him for daily upkeep.

My only problem with the lady that got dumped is that ladies are usually foolish and always fall for stupid guys, that's just the simple truth...ladies hardly fall deeply in love like this with reasonable guys who have human sense and sympathy, they rather fall in love with useless, heartless idiots calling themselves guys. Sometimes I wonder if women are wired to love useless guys because when I see some guys ladies are deeply in love with, I just shake my head in disbelief.

And to people who always say: don't marry anyone for pity, you all are liars! Everybody marries for pity...when u are about to walk down the altar with a lady or a man, u will discover and start to meet prettier, hotter, better suitors and single ladies, but when u remember the commitment from your partner, when u remember what people would say, how your partner would feel, the shame that will befall your family and your partner's family, etc, u just have to carry on with the marriage or wedding. So that's also pity...there's always an atom of pity even though u may not know it.
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This useless guy thinks all married men love their wives till they die....no man loves his wife (the same way he loved her wen they first met) beyond 10yrs of marriage....after 5yrs of marriage, the love is usually transferred to the kids and what then holds the couple together and going stronger in love are the kids, the family bond, the years of commitment, the sacrifices and things gone through together.

But all these mumu youths of nowadays believe love is the only reason to marry someone. Love is not even a good reason to marry anyone, in fact, if u marry just for love, u will regret it because that thing u think is love will fade away after u marry the person for some years, so don't ever make the mistake of marrying anybody just because u feel u love him or her, if u do it, u must regret!

Marry someone who sacrificed something rare for you! Marry that your friend who respects and loves to help u succeed! Marry someone who saw greatness in u when u are nobody! Marry that person who believed in u when others saw u as nothing! Marry that person who gave up something meaningful in their life to see u succeed! Marry that person who makes u smile, that person that u can talk to without restriction or choosing words. Marry your friend, don't marry your lover! Your lover will soon become your enemy, but your friend will never let u down!‎

So to all those yeye boys and girls saying marry only who u love, believe me, u people will regret later after u marry that your so-called love of your life because after 5yrs of marriage, u will discover that u no longer love that your lover like before....she will be naked in front of u and u may not feel anything, but should that make u divorce her? Hell NO!!

You just have to learn to appreciate her remembering what she's been through for u and how far u guys have gone together.

The idiot should have gone ahead to marry the girl that stood by him when he was a foolish guy, and rather have a secret lover at worst case scenario than abandoning the girl at the middle of nowhere, he deserves more than the girl wished him.

Ladies will never learn sha, they usually know that the guy they are dating is an idiot, a wicked arsehole but will refuse to walk away earlier....and they will be forming: I AM TAKEN when good deserving guys asks them out....what goes around, comes around sha....maybe the lady did something to good guys too that brought this woe on her now, who knows?

Nature uses evil people to reward evil people at times but I really pity her

Now this guy's useless action will give some foolish ladies a reason to continue being gold-diggers who only run after already-made guys, make una kontinu o lol, una payback time is also coming just like this one we are reading now lol‎

I reserve my comment.