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Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by 1miccza: 7:32am On May 08, 2016 |
In as much as i am not a fan of curses and all forms of crazy s h i t, i wouldn't blame the lady in question here. If i was in her shoes,i would have done worse than that.... And for the guy,i always tell guys like me to be careful not to start what they can't finish.... I am very sure that this guy in question knew ab initio that it would eventually boil down to this so he should stop the holier than thou bull crap in his story.... |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by Nobody: 7:33am On May 08, 2016 |
Edusouls: Gentleman,we are here to express views and not to insult each other -if my view contrasts with your own,you don't need to throw tantrums.You read it and maintain your own perspective,or better you don't even read it.We have freedom of individual expressions but the freedom after the expression,I can't guarantee .So please,be mature enough not to abuse nairalanders because you don't share their opinions. I really don't know what the moderators are doing cause some people might decide to abandon the forum.Lets respect ourselves duely! |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by Nobody: 7:34am On May 08, 2016 |
Frei:Weyrey Your sisters will suffer the same fate,... 1 Like |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by akyus(m): 7:35am On May 08, 2016 |
This isn't good at all. But let's not be quick to draw conclusions when we have not heard what lead to his action. Imagine you caught your girlfriend pants down in her house with her ex. This girl wasn't even nervous at all, instead she had the nerves to accuse you of spying on her. You ended up doing the apology for failing to notify her that you were coming, after which, you seriously cautioned her against such act. In just two weeks, same poo happened. You called several times to give notice you were coming around but there was no response and later her younger brother who answed the call to told you that she went out. You still came anyway, lo and behold, you saw her coming out of the ex's room. She couldn't give you any proper explanation so you threatened to end the relationship. This is the time she brings up the issues of the abortions she had done for you and time spent in the relationship. Advice. |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by Wowzer(m): 7:36am On May 08, 2016 |
Ourchoice. That is your belief and I can see most people on here subscribe to that. As far as I'm concerned her curse is V.O.I.D. Except they did not agree to Fornicate and Abort. Whatever assistant they must have given the guy is charity except they were expecting something in return which is not in good faith. 4 Likes |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by obi123: 7:38am On May 08, 2016 |
You see it is important to stock take once in a while in relationship , so that you are sure that you both are still in the relationship so you know whether to continue investing or call it a day amicably . From time to time Ask point blank are you still happy in this relationship? This is a very big question because the response will inform the next decision instead of investing heavily both physically, mentally,emotionally only to find out 6yrs later that he /she stopped loving you ages ago and vice versa. A lot of relationships are lacking communication because it is only when you speak your mind that the other party knows what's up, speak your mind so that the other party doesn't assume things that are not there.its hard but damn speak your mind!!!!!! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by ourchoice(m): 7:43am On May 08, 2016 |
MADrator:All guys should read this! This is what they call a real man, stay blessed bro! I love to roll with sensible and rational guys like u, I am so impressed, well done 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by Fashx007: 7:44am On May 08, 2016 |
Buh she should ve seen this coming,till the age of (30) no engagement or proporsal of any sort she was just being ignorant,tho it seems bad buh cum to think of it aborting 4x without caution she is even lucky to be alive and with wat ve read so far the dude said she took it well wen he broke-up with her buh the rage sparked wen she got to know he is engaged that is there must ve been some redflags in the relationship she just fail to notice,I pray she finds solace tho,cause life goes on Sleekbaby: |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by supereagle(m): 7:44am On May 08, 2016 |
ADAMUdaCOWBOY:The curse will work because the guy has promoted what will make it work. Can you wish that happen to your daughter? |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by muller101(m): 7:45am On May 08, 2016 |
Specialbaby:ladies insist on raw sex most |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by TrumpDonald(m): 7:47am On May 08, 2016 |
ADAMUdaCOWBOY: Guy no talk ooo. E dey work full time whether u believe it or not. I knw a victim of such so s guy has every reason to b scared cos e dey work. No jokes |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by Nobody: 7:48am On May 08, 2016 |
curses my butt! it takes two to tango i believe, he didn't force her into abortion, he didn't force her into having sex, she opened her legs willingly, why was she even having sex without been married? (fornication) for all you sanctimonious folks hoping and claiming that the curse will work, its all Rubbish! curses only exits in the minds of nigerians. for those who asked if it was my sister? well...my sister i hope will not be dumb enough to abort 4 times, have sex out of marriage. if she does then what ever happens to her after she deserves. i say it again (curses what ever that means) exists only in nigerians archaic imaginations. lastly, women use men all the times infact every time and we/ they are expected to accept it and move on, now that it is the other way round. its becomes wrong. , she is lucky is wasn't some one like me i will celebrate after dumping her evil baby killing ass! |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by faithee21(f): 7:49am On May 08, 2016 |
I dnt even knw Wat to say here!d reason u were no longer attracted to her was because u started sleeping with someone else.aw do u even get to sleep at night?curses or no curses my dear let's not deceive ouselves Karma ll come 4 u trust me!4 six good years!!!u wasted her time I pity u n arrears. |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by Nobody: 7:51am On May 08, 2016 |
Abortion? 4 humans mudered!! And you two want me to be concerned about marriage or curses. Who will be concerned about 4 lost lifes!!! Four Nigerians!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by ourchoice(m): 7:53am On May 08, 2016 |
Wowzer:Don't play with covenant! And one sure way of making covenant is through words of mouth! Don't accept someone's support when u know they are giving u the support with the hope of getting something from u! I repeat: curses are real! Whatever we speak with our mouth with faith always come to pass. Martin Luther King Jnr spoke with faith that one day, a black man will rule United States...he said it out of frustration and anger, seeing how whites were maltreating blacks...white people then called him a dreamer! white people never believed it would come to pass, but it later came to pass! Someone told some powerful Hausa/Fulani/Yoruba in Nigeria's politics years back that in few decades to come, that someone from this oppressed region they are oppressing and trying hard to suffer (Biafrans; Igbo+Niger Delta) will rule them, they said never! Finally, the same Yoruba (OBJ) and Fulani (Yaradua) helped Goodluck (someone from old Biafra land) to become Nigeria's president! So my brother, words of mouth spoken out of anger, frustration, innocence, honesty and faith usually come to pass! Don't doubt it 2 Likes |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by EmtolalaaPRAISE(m): 7:55am On May 08, 2016 |
This guy is just being stupid... I am a guy and there's no reason why he shouldn't marry her... That pity talk is just a plain excuse, he should go back, ask for mercy and marry her... Lemme tell you, in relationships people get tired and that's when you re meant to spice it up... I can't have a good woman and then do this to her... It's a very wicked thing and that curse will work, it must work and I pray it works until you marry her and live right... Nonsense 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by franks123(m): 7:57am On May 08, 2016 |
heart break.....the girl was full of anger,hatred,vengeance,dumped,and frustrated....none has to blame her,,,if you were in her shoes you may have done more than what she did....you may even murder the guy....i dont blame the girl..the guy should be blamed.....................my sincere and rare advice to this guy now is to go closer to this lady,cuddle her,forget her age,forget the past and just remember what you saw in her before you got engaged to her.........you will and must definitely find a reason to love her again....afterwords she suffered for you and made you what you are today,tomorrow and forever............................................please think over this advice and upload it...you will never regret it |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by Nobody: 7:57am On May 08, 2016 |
TrumpDonald:Rubbish! the woman herself wasn't innocent she aborted 4 babies. which curses will work on her? infact she is the evil one. curses what ever that means, does not exist. if that victim of yours you know is not doing well or is having problems is either because he is lazy or otherwise it's definitely not because he was cursed, besides how did you know he was curses? did you witness the curse implimentation? guy you need to say what you are sure of or you may be cursed too 1 Like |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by lastpage: 8:00am On May 08, 2016 |
vani86: People like you still have the "Village Mentality" where every misfortune is attributed to one Witch from your Maternal compound! First, that guy is foolish and not worth the "two balls" inside his pant! FEAR is what is killing him, not any curse from his ex-girl friend! Why is it that when a lady breaks a relationship, for nay reason (she found a better man, she is no longer interested, the guy is not ready and she cant wait any longer, she has fallen out of love for him, her Mama said she should not marry a Muslim/Christian, e.t.c), It is OKAY and we dont hear all these foolish stories that are meant to garner silly sympathy, from equally stewpid people? The guy simply moves-on and looks for another lover. On the other hand, when a guy breaks a relationship for whatever reason (including all the ones l stated above), the lady starts to count "How many times she had shex with the guy", like she did not enjoy it as well? She starts to count how many times she cooked for him, like she did not eat out of the food or it was not the guys money that bought the groceries used? She does not count how many times she slept on the bed he bought, all the gifts (Phones, Flowers, shoes, bags, Clothings, cash, e.t.c) that she benefited from the guy! She wont remember how many times the guy was driving her around (like he was her taxi driver) while she was sitting at the passenger's eat and grinning from ear-to-ear? In this particular example, what if she had four abortions, how is that the guys fault or is it his fault that she cant use "prevention" and wont allow the guy use a condom? How is that a "bargaining chip" to force someone to marry you? If tomorrow now, he starts pummelling you like Mike Tyson, out of "bottled-up" frustrations, you will say 'men are wicked' .... while not admitting you are the cause! What if they were together for ten years? It is called TOGETHER, which mean "he was also with her" for the same number of years! What difference does it make then? What if your parents helped him when he was in need? Where they not just trying to protect the interest of their daughter? Honestly, it is these type of guys that give ladies (some) this type of silly entitlement. She is entitled to "Nadda"! Her curse means Nadda..... except if the guy himself is cursed from hi smother's womb! All he need do is type "back-to-sender" and forward the text back to her .... then block her number completely and move-on with his life/plans. If that is how "curse' works, all wicked people should have been dead by now! Do you know how many curse people like IBB, OBJ, FFK, Fayose, Buhari, Saraki, Jonathan, Olisah Mee-2, e.t.c ...... get in a single day? yet they are all still alive and stinkingly rich and living the life! Women must understand that when you are dating someone, it does not necessarily have to result in marriage or they must marry you by-fire, by-force! Same goes for men. Trying to blackmail them by quoting all those useless "do you remember" stories does not work and should not work except if the man is foolish and want to dig his own "early grave". I tell you, anyone that marries for "the wrong reasons", including PITY/SYMPATHY/FEAR .... is destined for a life of pain and suffering. if you feel so indebted to your girl-friend/Boy-friend, simply give them a "cash-gift" and tell them to pfhuck-off and stop bordering you. Marriage is a life-long decision that is too important to be taken based on "sentiments and foolish emotions". If you miss it, your life is ruined but if you get it right, its is like winning the lottery! Lastpage! BTW: If she is my sister, l will tell her exactly the same thing, maybe in a less combative manner, but the core-message will be the same. 2 Likes |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by ogmask: 8:00am On May 08, 2016 |
vani86: A neighbour dated his ex for 16 yrs but their marriage ddnt last 18months. A friend dated his ex for 10yrs but eventually ended up not marrying her. My point is this dating thing is a game. Marriage these days does not guarantee ones security. For me,what matters in the end is personal happiness. The lady should just move on and forget about spilt milk. We have seen marriages end in the most bizzaar ways. If the guy had gone ahead with the marriage out of pity, the marriage would have been a sour story. 1 Like |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by humilitypays(m): 8:02am On May 08, 2016 |
EmtolalaaPRAISE:My brother I am also praying the curses work faster on him! Nonsense guy! God knows if I meet a good lady like this, I am getting married to her for sure! But unfortunately, ladies only fall for useless guys like this! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by Nobody: 8:04am On May 08, 2016 |
faithee21:karma my butt! she wasted 6 years of her own time Aborting 4 babies, infact she is evil, why was she even having sex out of wedlock? fornication i believe, she was not forced to wait 6 years was she? i am guessing karma in your world works partially good riddance to an evil baby killing hoe 1 Like |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by lastpage: 8:05am On May 08, 2016 |
franks123: See WICKED ADVISE! If tomorrow, they start having problems, it is same "double-mouthed' advisers like you that will find another excuse to shift blame! You cant force yourself to love someone, if the love is not there! Love is not like some "switch".....its not the same thing as "shex" or infatuation. As for the guy, "You are a SLAVE to whatever you believe-in". Lastpage! |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by anigbajumo(m): 8:05am On May 08, 2016 |
goldonome: Some Ladies shaa,after she told u another guy don dig her hole for a year,she now realized it is time to come back for another relationship. Somehow funny. |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by Nobody: 8:11am On May 08, 2016 |
humilitypays:SMH are you this gullible? a lady who aborted 4 babies is a good lady in your mind eh? as you believe in curses then may you find a good baby killing lady like her, your wishes has been granted! 1 Like |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by sleekyonyx(f): 8:12am On May 08, 2016 |
nnamdiokere45:Karma never loses an adress my dear. I've seen these things work. The Bible says " As a bird by wandering, as the swallow by flying, so the causeless Curse shall not come" Prov 22:6... So u See, in other words, it's only if the Curse is deserving. Now tell me? with all that happened doesn't he deserve the curse? |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by Taku555(m): 8:13am On May 08, 2016 |
ireneony:what's mmmmmm? |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by jamil002: 8:14am On May 08, 2016 |
Hmmn,I blame the guy..6 years is a whole lot of time.Try and apologise to her and makes sure she forgives u.. |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by humilitypays(m): 8:17am On May 08, 2016 |
gypsey:Yes she is a good lady! Do u know how the guy pressured her to abort that he's not ready Were u there? And mind u, every good person u see have some bad part...wot matters is let your good be more than your bad, and to me her good deed to the guy is more than her bad according to the story. If the guy wanted her to keep the pregnancies, she would have, so pity the poor lady and don't support evil! That guy is evil!! |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by anigbajumo(m): 8:18am On May 08, 2016 |
missyadorable: U are 100% wrong, it is by choice not fiction as u fink. |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by otiigba1(m): 8:19am On May 08, 2016 |
emekamigo:it boggles the mind the sorts characters one comes across on this forum, ignorant and irrational they expect one to Agree with their opinion if one disagrees he is either an out cast or evil hence the warped replies. It's funny because they may have agreed with you on another topic. |
Re: Girl Curses Ex-Boyfriend After Abortions by Nobody: 8:20am On May 08, 2016 |
Na wa o. Dis one strong walahi! |
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