fleeky:
there was no misunderstanding, he even dropped me at the bus stop,where I got a cab home..he likes to discuss about us and we flow well, he has been sounding serious..I dunno what to think..just surprised at the attitude this evening. Till now he hasn't replied my chat or called back,very strange. Hmmm

Well,I am very realistic and pragmatic. I know realistically such behavior is from the following reasons.

1. Something triggered it
2. It is his game plan
3. It is just you being a little anxious

It is why I say first try to discuss the matter with him and ask him if anything is wrong. Not in an accusing manner.

If he says all his well, then keep being his girlfriend and play your part in making the relationship happy. It takes the two of you to make it work. One person alone cannot be said to be in a RELATIONSHIP. So do your part.

It could also be that you like him so much you are a trifle paranoid about loosing his company. Hence you notice and are anxious over his countenance and disposition.

Just talk it out so you do not come across as insensitive or not discerning and then go back to being the cool girlfriend that you are.

AnakinSkywalker:


Well,I am very realistic and pragmatic. I know realistically such behavior is from the following reasons.

1. Something triggered it
2. It is his game plan
3. It is just you being a little anxious

It is why I say first try to discuss the matter with him and ask him if anything is wrong. Not in an accusing manner.

If he says all his well, then keep being his girlfriend and play your part in making the relationship happy. It takes the two of you to make it work. One person alone cannot be said to be in a RELATIONSHIP. So do your part.

It could also be that you like him so much you are a trifle paranoid about loosing his company. Hence you notice and are anxious over his countenance and disposition.

Just talk it out so you do not come across as insensitive or not discerning and then go back to being the cool girlfriend that you are.

Thanks a lot, I really appreciate.

fleeky:
there was no misunderstanding, he even dropped me at the bus stop,where I got a cab home..he likes to discuss about us and we flow well, he has been sounding serious..I dunno what to think..just surprised at the attitude this evening. Till now he hasn't replied my chat or called back,very strange. Hmmm

DID YOU AGREE TO SLEEP WITH HIM? IF YES THAT'S THE PROBLEM BUT IF NO THAT'S A BIGGER PROBLEM.

iceberylin:
Do you know people get busy

Please Tell her.....Please also tell her to stop acting CHILDISH......

halfricanadian:


Shebi is u dat wants to marry

U will not hurt me

Nd pls no cheating

I will bombard u with love every sec

Ur happiness will b my priority

Wow, and this is what i 've been praying God for...and, goodmorning hows your night??

firstking01:
Wow, and this is what i 've been praying God for...and, goodmorning hows your night??

Goodmorning it was great urs?

halfricanadian:

Goodmorning it was great urs?

Fine...care to share your dream??

firstking01:
Fine...care to share your dream??

Dont even kno wat i dreamt of
telme urs

halfricanadian:


Dont even kno wat i dreamt of
telme urs

Unlike me...i dnt usually forget my dreams, but i 've forgotten that of last night

firstking01:
Unlike me...i dnt usually forget my dreams, but i 've forgotten that of last night

mesef chai

We are already aving couples connection before d marriage

halfricanadian:


mesef chai

We are already aving couples connection before d marriage

Hehehehe,,,and that reminds me that you are my female altar ego....cnt forget when you told me this....that was what first attracted me to you.

firstking01:
Hehehehe,,,and that reminds me that you are my female altar ego....cnt forget when you told me this....that was what first attracted me to you.

Awwww im ur female version

fleeky:
I have been dating this guy for almost a month now,he has not said "I love u" to me. I visited today,got home and called him to notify that i'm home,he missed the call,but called later and we spoke alittle,i saad i'll chat him up later, afyer about 30mins i chatted him up,he hasnt responded,i called twice cos i'm wondering wats happening,he didnt pick, i dont want to suapect him,but my naughty mind is wondering if he could be chilling with another gal,lol..I dunno if it's right to suspect him,as i'm already becoming uncomfortable.
I'm confused, please advice me on what to do.

babe its just one month take it easily or you will push him away

halfricanadian:

Awwww im ur female version

Yup...so, hows the day gonna be like??

give it time baby, its just a month old. And most of us menfolks dont say i love u, we rather show it in our actions..but then i will advice u to give it a lil time and study ur beu and dont jus fall deeply inlove...and pls stop acting like the immature girl who is insecure.


Jus trynna help.

firstking01:
Yup...so, hows the day gonna be like??

Dunno o

skywalker240:
give it time baby, its just a month old. And most of us menfolks dont say i love u, we rather show it in our actions..but then i will advice u to give it a lil time and study ur beu and dont jus fall deeply inlove...and pls stop acting like the immature girl who is insecure.


Jus trynna help.

Ok...thanks

halfricanadian:

Dunno o

it's already past lunch, so, what did you take for lunch??

fleeky:
Ok...thanks

Ywc.......would do same for my kid sister.

firstking01:
it's already past lunch, so, what did you take for lunch??

Rice u?

firstking01:
it's already past lunch, so, what did you take for lunch??

Rice u?.

fleeky:
I have been dating this guy for almost a month now,he has not said "I love u" to me. I visited today,got home and called him to notify that i'm home,he missed the call,but called later and we spoke alittle,i saad i'll chat him up later, afyer about 30mins i chatted him up,he hasnt responded,i called twice cos i'm wondering wats happening,he didnt pick, i dont want to suapect him,but my naughty mind is wondering if he could be chilling with another gal,lol..I dunno if it's right to suspect him,as i'm already becoming uncomfortable.
I'm confused, please advice me on what to do.

you have low self esteem. Why not focus on how to be better. You don't build your life or happiness around anyone. Imagine, just a month and u already acting like this. it doesn't make sense. Please work on your confidence cos your attitude right now aint attractive. It is a turn off. Sorry if this upset you but I'm telling u the truth. Why must him tell u * I love u*? Or is like you can't live without hearing it abi? Stop looking for validation or gratification from your boyfriend before you can feel good about yourself. Work on yourself.

halfricanadian:

Rice u?.

Same o

firstking01:
Same o

Hmmmmm u now didnt call me to comman eat

halfricanadian:


Hmmmmm u now didnt call me to comman eat

Oh dear, i concluded you were in class

firstking01:
Oh dear, i concluded you were in class

Na i'm not in class o