hello @ all...kindly share your opinion about catching a cheating wife. Thanks.

BioTeck:
hello @ all...kindly share your opinion about catching a cheating wife. Thanks.

Is yours cheating on you

PoundedYam:
Is yours cheating on you

strong suspicion but not clear enough to nail her

BioTeck:


strong suspicion but not clear enough to nail her

Tho i don't have any idea but be careful

PoundedYam:
Tho i don't have any idea but be careful

Thanks. I'll be.

Pretend as if you aren't suspicious of her while u sleep with only one eyes closed. If she is cheating indeed u will find out soon enough, meanwhile, wear a coat while doing the baby dances with her o. It is well.

sisisioge:
Pretend as if you aren't suspicious of her while u sleep with only one eyes closed. If she is cheating indeed u will find out soon enough, meanwhile, wear a coat while doing the baby dances with her o. It is well.

baby dance? oh no!...i have stopped doing that...I can't stand it...not when I have very strong reasons to believe she has bn with another man.

BioTeck:


baby dance? oh no!...i have stopped doing that...I can't stand it...not when I have very strong reasons to believe she has bn with another man.

It is well o my bro, I pray your suspicion is baseless. Otherwise, it might really hurt o.

since you are so sure she is cheating, why wait? why not separate and eventually divorce? whats the point of playing a cat and mouse game?

have u tried to know what could lead her to cheating, i think is better u start from there

natasha:
since you are so sure she is cheating, why wait? why not separate and eventually divorce? whats the point of playing a cat and mouse game?

I have not said i'm so sure...i have strong suspicion...isn't that enough to try and find out?

achinaboy:
have u tried to know what could lead her to cheating, i think is better u start from there

You tell me what reasons should be enough to justify cheating in any form...she should just end the marriage if she felt sha has enough reason to consider other men.

You are not sure yet you stopped performing your marital obligations ie denied your wife of her conjugal rights? whether she asked or not?

Can you beat your chest in confidence and confirm you have never cheated in marriage?
can you confirm in confidence that your actions havent led your wife to act out against you?
can you confirm that if the tables were turned, and your wife chooses not cook for you, sleep with you, acknowledge you because she has suspicions of your fidelity even when not proven, you will be absolutely fine with her?

Your first responsibility as a man is to "Love your wife AS YOURSELF". thats what the bible says....so whatever you know you wont tolerate, what you cant do to yourself, then dont do to your wife.
even the law says he who seeks equity must come with clean hands

natasha:
You are not sure yet you stopped performing your marital obligations ie denied your wife of her conjugal rights? whether she asked or not?

Can you beat your chest in confidence and confirm you have never cheated in marriage?
can you confirm in confidence that your actions havent led your wife to act out against you?
can you confirm that if the tables were turned, and your wife chooses not cook for you, sleep with you, acknowledge you because she has suspicions of your fidelity even when not proven, you will be absolutely fine with her?

Your first responsibility as a man is to "Love your wife AS YOURSELF". thats what the bible says....so whatever you know you wont tolerate, what you cant do to yourself, then dont do to your wife.
even the law says he who seeks equity must come with clean hands

You know him?

natasha:
You are not sure yet you stopped performing your marital obligations ie denied your wife of her conjugal rights? whether she asked or not?

Can you beat your chest in confidence and confirm you have never cheated in marriage?
can you confirm in confidence that your actions havent led your wife to act out against you?
can you confirm that if the tables were turned, and your wife chooses not cook for you, sleep with you, acknowledge you because she has suspicions of your fidelity even when not proven, you will be absolutely fine with her?

Your first responsibility as a man is to "Love your wife AS YOURSELF". thats what the bible says....so whatever you know you wont tolerate, what you cant do to yourself, then dont do to your wife.
even the law says he who seeks equity must come with clean hands

Yes, I can beat my chest that i have never cheat and will never do so on her
There's no action of mine that should be enough justification to cheat on me...she has other choice...she could end the marriage
If the tables were turned, I won't be happy and so, I'll ask questions...why her sudden change in behavior.

I believe more in the first law of the Universe;The law of self preservation...I cannot love her more than myself. If she gave me enough reason to entertain suspicion, then the best attitude is to find out the truth and act accordingly which is exactly what i'm trying to do.

Use google maps!

it is you who believes she is cheating therefore the onus is on you to end the marriage rather than misbehave

natasha:
it is you who believes she is cheating therefore the onus is on you to end the marriage rather than
misbehave

Pls go tru the write-up again...I haven't said I'm certain. I'm trying to find out. You don't expect me to just end it without incontrovertible evidence...do you?

Why do I find this funny
Maybe I am imagining the way you look at her and in your mind you say cheater

Dyt:
Why do I find this funny
Maybe I am imagining the way you look at her and in your mind you say cheater

By the time I get to that stage, she would already be gone out of my house. I hope it won't get to that point that i'd look at her and call her a cheat in my mind.

BioTeck:
hello @ all...kindly share your opinion about catching a cheating wife. Thanks.

For you to catch a cheating wife you have to be horrendously stup!d.


Let's get down.---
Become nicer to her, buy her things, treat her right, fvck her suspicious cheating partner out of her mind, take her on a date where you may encounter the cheater, make her uncomfortable with your " kindheartedness".
Sooner or latter she will make a mistake when her guilt becomes too overwhelming for her to cope with like reaching out to her cheating partner to back off or coming clean to you on what may have been. You got to be setup!d and smart to denote what's going on.
Cheating women seems to be the smartest of the female folks. Most of them are never caught.




Denying her her conjugal right is wicked.

In my Own opinion. I think u shud take things calm. once u develop the mindset of her been a cheat u begin to suspect every thing she does and this may b too bad for a Home.

Pls heed not to advice of those telling u to divorce or call it quit.

I recommend u watch this Movie "War Room".. Thanks

BioTeck:


You tell me what reasons should be enough to justify cheating in any form...she should just end the marriage if she felt sha has enough reason to consider other men.

well no enough reason to justify that,but some men wants to task their wives beyond her means, and with personal experience when i was living in mushin lagos, one man used to be rich,but for some reason he became so poor that he can't afford transportation back to village with 5kids, they lived in 3bedroom, has not paid the rent for 2years, wife got no job, wife still beautiful,most times they drink garri they got on credit for the night, and the lady got no choice than to start laughing with some rich guys around, so who is to blame here

achinaboy:

well no enough reason to justify that,but some men wants to task their wives beyond her means, and with personal experience when i was living in mushin lagos, one man used to be rich,but for some reason he became so poor that he can't afford transportation back to village with 5kids, they lived in 3bedroom, has not paid the rent for 2years, wife got no job, wife still beautiful,most times they drink garri they got on credit for the night, and the lady got no choice than to start laughing with some rich guys around, so who is to blame here

Pls stop thinking like that...it appears you are a single man/woman...that's the only reason to justify her 'laughing with other men'...she could go selling pure water to feed her family if she doesn't want to leave the marriage. No reason is enough justification to cheat on your partner.