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Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by halfricanadian(f): 1:59pm On May 09, 2016 |
Toks2008: Ok bt to me dey are all under violence Nd domestic means something in a defined environment 1 Like |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Strahovski1(m): 1:59pm On May 09, 2016 |
Toks2008: You are just a shameless and waste of of a man. Besides I need to see your mother and question her. It seems she slept with a mad man to birth you. 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by kinglekan: 2:00pm On May 09, 2016 |
Apart from 1 & 6 i totally disagree with your other points. Regardless of how a lady provokes a man he should be able to control his emotions and most especially his hands. If he can't handle the situation he should opt out of the marriage. ***modified*** Your title is also all shades of wrong. Except you can prove that a woman is responsible for physically abusing herself in a relationship then you shouldn't say such. 10 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Toks2008(m): 2:01pm On May 09, 2016 |
Festivalofholi: You get time dey explain to them...i enjoy it when they come on-line to show-case their mental mediocrity. 3 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Ishilove: 2:06pm On May 09, 2016 |
Toks2008:Actually I did. It is very offensive because no matter what, a man should not raise his hand on a woman because he is physically stronger than her. You started by saying a man who beats his wife is worse than a beast, then go on to enumerate how women bring violence upon themselves. That, Toks, is highly offensive. The six points you enumerated has voided your first paragraph. And your comment about people who don't agree with you being mentally mediocre says a lot about your blatant misogyny 26 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Toks2008(m): 2:10pm On May 09, 2016 |
Ishilove: If you know me very well,i have no issues with people disagreeing with my stand-view but what i loathe is people using vulgar words and that is not new on nairaland so go back and read the original comments of those i responded harshly to and you will see what i mean. Apparently you are not on same page and i don't think you were unintelligent or immature about it but some people will use very appalling comments. Nevertheless i respect your opinion and i have no influence on how you understand what i have up there but what i wrote is aimed at educating teh women folk about how to avoid domestic violence and it is clear enough. 12 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Ishilove: 2:13pm On May 09, 2016 |
Toks2008:Please read my modified comment |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by HaneefahRN(f): 2:15pm On May 09, 2016 |
I was expecting such a thread. Since Mr Toks justified the man that killed his wife cos she had supposedly cheated on him, of which there is no proof other than his loop holes filled story. I only agree with your first point, cos some women would stupidly marry a man that had been beating them right from their courtship days saying he'll change. The rest are BS, if you can't cope with her behaviour, divorce her. Useless men that will say, thank you sir, if soldier slaps them be forming Bruce Lee with a defenceless woman. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by tmanuelle(m): 2:19pm On May 09, 2016 |
Vinshu: And real women does nos. 2, 3, 4 & 5? 4 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Danfuster(m): 2:19pm On May 09, 2016 |
Vinshu: so also real women don't provoke men... It goes both ways. Ps: I'm no misogynist and I'm with the motion any man who hits a woman should be dealt with accordingly 3 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Toks2008(m): 2:19pm On May 09, 2016 |
HaneefahRN: This is serious @the embolden. Anyways,whatever rocks your boat. 1 Like |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by cr7lomo: 2:29pm On May 09, 2016 |
Strahovski1: Who told u that I will not hit u if u pass ur boundaries on insults...I go carry stick wipe it head comot ur neck and nothing will happen 3 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by cr7lomo: 2:32pm On May 09, 2016 |
kaziblake: Look at the stupid thing u wrote again...do u really hv a brain? 4 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Ishilove: 2:36pm On May 09, 2016 |
Toks2008: @bolded 6 facts that prove women are the main cause of domestic violence Your title says the opposite. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by murphyibiam15(m): 2:36pm On May 09, 2016 |
sabiguy:i reject her kind of women too.....she's capable of killing her husband sef....may God deliver us from these kind of ladies 4 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by cr7lomo: 2:43pm On May 09, 2016 |
Ishilove: I don't believe in the " a man shouldn't hit a woman no matter what" crap u posted...do u expect the man to keep on being abused and disrespected mentally, after spending so much on wedding and bride price ...infact , u de craze for head. Most women are becoming increasingly stupid by the day. If u can't control ur mouth, I also will not be able to control my hand... Will u insult a person with a gun?? If u know ur husband has the strength to beat u if u intentionally and continuously insult him, then its certain you are a witch and he will do to u what they do to witches 11 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by ogorwyne(f): 2:49pm On May 09, 2016 |
Strahovski1:So if the thread is useless, you have to be disgusting? 4 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by cr7lomo: 2:54pm On May 09, 2016 |
Everyday, we preach fight against domestic violence but it keeps on proliferating...it simply shows that we are taking the wrong step and getting the same result. Y dont we change pattern...women should stop provoking men by insulting them and bruising their ego ... If ur man offends u, talk to him gently and if he refuses to change , u liv him for good...because if u are violent with ur words, then he will in turn b violent with his hands ... We need to understand that a woman's strength is her mouth while the man is his hands . Men don't insult like women , they rather confront physically, so dont push him to do that... Insulting ur husband is also domestic violence if u don't know. The domestic violence we should come as one to fight are the ones that intimidates their wives or husbands for no credible reason... The bullies I mean 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Strahovski1(m): 3:05pm On May 09, 2016 |
cr7lomo: The beating you would receive. You would beg for death. Death won't come. 7 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by cr7lomo: 3:07pm On May 09, 2016 |
Strahovski1: Now we talking!!! 3 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by alhajisindodo(m): 3:30pm On May 09, 2016 |
Reading and understanding has also become a problem for y'all too ? the man isnt supporting physical abuse,these are simply preventive measures,you think physical abuse is the worst ? try emotional abuse,knew a man who wouldnt touch his wife physically but tore her apart with words.she is currently in an assylum in the UK. 5 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by DanceVille: 3:50pm On May 09, 2016 |
Nairalanders and their ways of insulting and derailing threads. Upcoming Thread. Watch out!!! |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Vinshu(f): 4:18pm On May 09, 2016 |
Danfuster: Your post script is nullified with your initial statement. So because women provoke men that is an excuse for domestic violence? What are you saying? |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by 400billionman: 4:23pm On May 09, 2016 |
Strahovski1: Mental patient . 1 Like |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Moblis: 4:30pm On May 09, 2016 |
You all don't seem to understand. What the OP wrote is for the protection of women. They should know. When a woman cheats and the husband finds out, understand that at that point, he is not with his senses and anything can happen. She shouldn't be anywhere around him. dead men tell no tales. my 2 kobo. Suigeneris93: 4 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Nobody: 4:41pm On May 09, 2016 |
My dear, the op's topic already says it all and now we're on it...so if your wife cheats on you it will be legit for you to raise your hands on her and probably kill her in the process abi Moblis: 1 Like |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Moblis: 4:57pm On May 09, 2016 |
It is wrong to hit a woman. If a man hits a woman in my presence, he'll have to deal with me too. I'm like that. But all men are not the same. some are simply mad! and if you know you're married to men like that, best take the OPs advice simple! do you understand now? Suigeneris93: |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by berrystunn(m): 4:59pm On May 09, 2016 |
Yes na |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by ifeanyi83(m): 4:59pm On May 09, 2016 |
Nothing justifies domestic violence. Please.... 5 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Nobody: 5:00pm On May 09, 2016 |
Simply put, only point 1 is valid. All men must be men and show maturity with women. Being a man goes beyond having a "P.enis". No woman born of another man or woman can ever make me lay a finger on any WOMAN unless out of self defense for my life or for the life of a loved one. Men should learn and grow beyond the childish acts of women. 6 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Nobody: 5:01pm On May 09, 2016 |
hahahahahahahaha this guy sef Strahovski1: |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Shakur86(m): 5:02pm On May 09, 2016 |
Above all, a responsible man don't raise his hand and hit a woman. 1 Like 1 Share |
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