Greene66:
The baba that did this jazz is strong. You want to apologize?

BoiledHead:


I love her. I don't want her to go

whogoscam:


This just confirms that you are a broke and cheap nigga. The other day when one dude blasted you on your thread that your gf bought you glass of 12m everyone was saying all sorts.

So you are just gold digging her abi? That's why you don't want her to go . So she can buy you more gift. Better get a life man

BoiledHead:
I'm so sad right now. When I returned home today. I was so hungry and back on my way home I was expecting some food on my table as usual. But when I got home I didn't find anything.

I saw her watching a TV show. And I asked her why she didn't cook anything. Then she said she was tired. And I asked what she was doing because I saw her watching the TV. She said she wasn't doing anything but just didn't feel like cooking. Her responses got me angry and so I shouted at her and then she told me that I should cook myself. That she is not my wife neither I'm I paying her to cook. And that I should never raise my voice at her or she walks out the door and never come back.

This was moments ago. Please what can I do? I want to apologize to her but don't know what to say.

BoiledHead:


Save it. So it's a crime to love someone? No wonder you and your crew scream foreign girls because no Nigerian girl got to love you so you fantasise on what you can never have.

johnson232:

if this is true... i am sorry u are a weak fellow...

whogoscam:


Shut up. Because you can never have something does not mean others don't already have it. Stop consoling yourself. You are a broke gold digging playa.

BoiledHead:


What would I have done?

johnson232:

how old are u?
is she your first love?

if what u wrote above is true, am afraid u have already lost your respect as man....

SANDOSKI:

Catalyst4real:
It's a simple situation

She does all the exhausting chores without complaining, now she's just fed up, and she's damn sure you'll be miserable without her.

Do you appreciate all her efforts? it boils down to the very little things you ignore

Do you tell her thank you after every meal? or compliment the food even if it tastes like the menstrual blood of a 12 year old limping toad?

A woman will do incredible things for you if she's aware her presence is recognized, her hard work valued and her labour cherished

Go back to where you lost it

BoiledHead:


I love her. I don't want her to go

ButterFrost212:
well I can't help but say she's right, she has the right to be tired you know, if she cooks for you every other day why can't she take a brake this one day, why would you have to raise your voice at her... men never understand or appreciate. I'm just glad that women are beginning to stand up for themselves, after the shouting comes the slapping and perhaps the beating of her life..

BoiledHead:


What would I have done?

You haven't answered the question.

johnson232:

i need to knw your age and your experience with women, thats why i asked if she is your first...

johnson232:

sharrap if u have nothing reasonable thing to say...

this is how u take advantage of gentle, naive and innocent guys...

kiddoiLL:
hehehe OP i used to be like u...omoh now niggas don wise...she doesnt deserve you...how will you tell your boifrnd ur not his and since he aint paying u, u cant cook..then what d hell re we dating fr if marriage aint d goal gerarahia bitch u just wasting my time

ButterFrost212:
then don't shout at her again, much less for not cooking. don't you feel tired sometimes and don't feel like doing something? give her a break, next time tall it out maturely, she's not a kid, no need to yell.

BoiledHead:


No I don't lay hands on women

ButterFrost212:
ok that's great, just try to appreciate her more. and I read that you don't say thanks because you provide the funds for the cooking, that's a very wrong way of thinking, if you understood what it is to be in the kitchen for hours standing and sweating and all, you would know better than to have that mindset. it's not easy, pls say thank you sometimes atleast