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My Boss Tried To UnCloth Me, Should I Report Him To Personnel? by dearbunmi(f): 9:50am On May 12, 2016
Dear Bunmi,

My boss is 22 years older than I am and is married. Hes always laughing and flirting with the women in the office, including me. Then, towards the end of last year, his behaviour towards me changed. Whenever he hugged me, he would hold on for a moment too long. He also started sending me e-mails telling me personal things. I told myself he didnt mean anything by it, but at an official party last Christmas, he put his hand up my dress. The following week, he called me into his office and told me that he was unhappy with my work. He said that if I didnt improve, Id lose my job. My work has never been called into question before and Im very upset. Do I try to talk to my boss about what happened or should I just report him to personnel?

Miriam

by e-mail.


Dear Miriam,

Id be wary of reporting him. Once you do, theres no going back. Though he shouldnt be allowed to get away with this abuse of office and sexual harassment, you want to tackle this problem with a clear head. If you have to resort to reporting him, go to personnel armed with any evidence, such as e-mails. You may find it isnt the first such complaint theyve had. Why not try talking to him first and see if it gets you anywhere? If it doesnt, then report him.

Bunmi

ask@dearbunmi.com
http://dearbunmi.com/boss-tried-UnCloth-report-personnel/

Re: My Boss Tried To UnCloth Me, Should I Report Him To Personnel? by Nobody: 9:52am On May 12, 2016
Seriously
Report what with which evidence
Seduce him more nd get some evidence!!! Simple!



But wait, 22 nd married shocked shocked shocked. H.ateu2, wat ar u still doing cheesy. Naughtynaughty, wat ar u still doing too cheesy
Re: My Boss Tried To UnCloth Me, Should I Report Him To Personnel? by iceberylin(m): 9:52am On May 12, 2016
Bosses tho...


How can business grow if you can't command respect undecided
Re: My Boss Tried To UnCloth Me, Should I Report Him To Personnel? by obiorathesubtle: 9:52am On May 12, 2016
undecided quit the Job!
Re: My Boss Tried To UnCloth Me, Should I Report Him To Personnel? by ademoladeji(m): 9:58am On May 12, 2016
Goan report with your resignation letter...

Mumu, you hugged him, he put his hands in your cloth without restraining him... You be first class odoyo!

Re: My Boss Tried To UnCloth Me, Should I Report Him To Personnel? by nikkypearl(f): 9:59am On May 12, 2016
HateU2:
Seriously
Report what with which evidence
Seduce him more nd get some evidence!!! Simple!



But wait, 22 nd married shocked shocked shocked. H.ateu2, wat ar u still doing cheesy. Naughtynaughty, wat ar u still doing too cheesy
the boss is 22years older! And he is married!
Re: My Boss Tried To UnCloth Me, Should I Report Him To Personnel? by Sleekyshuga(f): 10:13am On May 12, 2016
iceberylin:
Bosses tho...


How can business grow if you can't command respect undecided
This holiday good for your body oo.. See as you dey everywhere undecided..

I hear say una go resume on the 23rd with exams kicking off on the same day cheesy grin.
Re: My Boss Tried To UnCloth Me, Should I Report Him To Personnel? by Nobody: 10:40am On May 12, 2016
HateU2:
Seriously
Report what with which evidence
Seduce him more nd get some evidence!!! Simple!



But wait, 22 nd married shocked shocked shocked. H.ateu2, wat ar u still doing cheesy. Naughtynaughty, wat ar u still doing too cheesy
lmaoooo hatey stop entering me dis mrng oooo

My mr perfect Neva come .. He is still hustling for us. lol . Hi price charming if yhr reading dis pls come on time oooo before I wil follow one alhaji cheesy
Re: My Boss Tried To UnCloth Me, Should I Report Him To Personnel? by Nobody: 10:53am On May 12, 2016
naughtynaughty:
lmaoooo hatey stop entering me dis mrng oooo

My mr perfect Neva come .. He is still hustling for us. lol . Hi price charming if yhr reading dis pls come on time oooo before I wil follow one alhaji cheesy
Ore mi cheesy. Tell him to come on time ooooo. I wan see my kids biko cheesy. Don't follow alhaji oooo. I won't support it at all angry
Re: My Boss Tried To UnCloth Me, Should I Report Him To Personnel? by Nobody: 12:55pm On May 12, 2016
But where is lalasticlala sef undecided

"Whenever he hugged me, he would hold on for a moment too long" It means that you are enjoying the kind of banana i have undecided

Re: My Boss Tried To UnCloth Me, Should I Report Him To Personnel? by Nobody: 1:05pm On May 12, 2016
Did you lead him on anyhow If yes, then lipsrsealed. If No, then report his ass.
Re: My Boss Tried To UnCloth Me, Should I Report Him To Personnel? by Rottentooth: 1:37pm On May 12, 2016
Why did you indulge him for that long?. I know you've enjoyed some perks; and now you are jittery he's going for the kill after your initial encouragement. You asked for it: No case.
Madam, face your work and draw the line between business and romance.
Re: My Boss Tried To UnCloth Me, Should I Report Him To Personnel? by skywalker240(m): 4:39pm On May 12, 2016
*sighs*.....

how am i gonna help this child......lord help me.
Boot him out to the personel,...but u must have a back up evidence.

Re: My Boss Tried To UnCloth Me, Should I Report Him To Personnel? by iceberylin(m): 10:19pm On May 12, 2016
Sleekyshuga:

This holiday good for your body oo.. See as you dey everywhere undecided..

I hear say una go resume on the 23rd with exams kicking off on the same day cheesy grin.

Anytime they decide to bring papers concern them, I already dh school.. It's not me that boredom will kill angry

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