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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by phintohlar(f): 2:26pm On May 13, 2016 |
MasterofNL:my guy am 100 % in support of wat u said oh cos most of we ladies no dey hear world,like me now if my guy wanna punish me let him just ignore my food,chai dat thing dey pain me like crazy even more dan S**x 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Speakdatruth: 2:26pm On May 13, 2016 |
just ignore her for a while, she will autoreset |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by janvier27(m): 2:26pm On May 13, 2016 |
It depends on her character. Some will go all out to make up with you if you miss only one meal. Some will carry on as if nothing is wrong even if you don't eat her food for a year. 5 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by cnsprince76: 2:26pm On May 13, 2016 |
It's either you are not married or you are still inexperienced. All the three points listed are childish and archaic. 8 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by olayinkaj2(m): 2:26pm On May 13, 2016 |
Evina:. You husband is a nice man. Treat him well..... 4 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Kingzy4pep(m): 2:27pm On May 13, 2016 |
Evina:I think I'm gonna adopt your husband's style when I'm married. 3 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by repogirl(f): 2:28pm On May 13, 2016 |
laprince:It will shock you that that's how it is in many marriages. There was a time in my marriage (early stages) that my husband and I were forming for each other. Giving each other the silent treatment. We just kept creating a vaccum in the marriage and his friends were taking advantage of it. It got to a head at some point and my mom had to intervene, knocking our childish heads back together. Now, it doesn't matter who offends the other, we find a way to make up (although he does mainly anyway, I'm still working on my stubborn spirit). He doesn't hide his mind. If he's not happy with something, he is plain about it. I might be upset for a few days but he doesn't send my 'silent treatment' and his goodness during that period wins me over. Vise versa. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by KAYNINI(m): 2:28pm On May 13, 2016 |
Evina: actually a huge lesson for me i need a degree in that department 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by focus7: 2:28pm On May 13, 2016 |
Why not just call her and tell her your grouse? Breaking the communication is an open invitation to the devil to take charge of your marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Bluffly: 2:29pm On May 13, 2016 |
Chicent: How many wives ask their husband for sex to talk of starving them with sex. They only ask once in a blue moon. 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by omobaekiti: 2:29pm On May 13, 2016 |
Omotayor123:the OP asked a question I assume he is not married...communication works when both parties are ready to resolve issues,real life cases a times don't work this way...ego comes to play and one party decides not to apologize when they're supposed to,the other partner might resort to such steps so as to show the seriousness of the matter...it works sometimes and in some cases it doesn't but the key here is to know your spouse and know what works with him/her...some people can be very head strong that you need more than talking to get them to offer simple sorry yet one can only try and form tough guy by employing tactics that you know can soften them a bit. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 2:29pm On May 13, 2016 |
phintohlar: Omo you bad o. You don fuc.k that guy tire sote he weak for bed.. Nice dp |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by ladyF(f): 2:29pm On May 13, 2016 |
nmreports:No. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by phintohlar(f): 2:33pm On May 13, 2016 |
Eagul:lmao abeg no kill me oh. Meanwhile take a very close look at the pic den u'll notice d person there is a lady and not man. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by hacmond(m): 2:33pm On May 13, 2016 |
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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by basingstoke: 2:35pm On May 13, 2016 |
ladyF:In all sincerity, This has nothing to do with being married or not. all cases are not the same. Do you know if the offence the woman committed is that she no longer talk to her husband ? a woman can offend her husband and you try to talk things over, and she tells you she is not interested. concerning the Oga that started this thread, it is only a woman that want peace that will notice you if you stop doing those things you talked about, there are some women if you stop eating her food, good she is happy, she washes all the pots and lock them up. If you back her in the bad, the following night she goes straight to the next room, and you will start backing yourself. My brother all cases are not same , you have to know what music your wife dances to 3 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 2:35pm On May 13, 2016 |
phintohlar: Eheen. Hope it's not what m thinking sha ![]() Btw you said not eating ur food would pain you than not having sex.. Are you sure abt that? Means you're a good cook |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by notoriousbabe: 2:35pm On May 13, 2016 |
MasterofNL:don't mind dat olosho |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by JustHere2Observ(f): 2:35pm On May 13, 2016 |
Ray360: And him acting all childish shows he loves me? Who love don epp? 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by xier: 2:36pm On May 13, 2016 |
That is the act of an ideal man and an ideal woman in a marriage relationship. Please keep it up and for you man, if your wife is like Evina just as my own wife is, hold her tight no matter what wrong she does. Marriage is all about saying sorry even when you are not wrong. Evina: 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by omooba969(m): 2:36pm On May 13, 2016 |
ladyF: When you are ready to opt out of your marriage silence is the way to go cos they won't have an idea of what you are thinking or planning. ![]() |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by coolviv: 2:37pm On May 13, 2016 |
Ray360: Verily verily I say unto you, NA LIE OOOO....Not today's women. Dem go dey form say dem no happy but for their mind na more time to watch Telemundo. 3 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by laprince(m): 2:39pm On May 13, 2016 |
repogirl: now, that's the style. However, you need to hasten in your change. lol. I sincerely wish you love and peace in your marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Barigaboy(m): 2:39pm On May 13, 2016 |
It seems u r her getting d message wrong. Women r different from Women. Immediately u r annoyed with some women they try to take correction cos they don't want u to be annoyed. Some Women r so simple and obedient that when u say stop or I don't like dis, they will never let that act occur again n that's tru love. Men cherish this type of women n wanna be there for then cos tru love is scarce like fuel while some r supersonic stubborn. They wouldn't listen to u until they spoil things. They don't want correction except their husband want trouble. They have friends in all the street n still make friends, get involve in every gossip. Now tell me how to talk to this kind woman. I no u will say God will change her but before God change her. U no how many people head she go don break. Some men r not Woman beater from d scratch some women teach them. Imagine a woman slapped d husband in d public becos he didn't beat d Okada man for insulting her n anytime she causes trouble she calls d husband to come n fight. 4 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by goingape: 2:40pm On May 13, 2016 |
MasterofNL:don't know about you but for me I beat the shitt out of her! who have time for RUBBISH 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Sayelabola(m): 2:40pm On May 13, 2016 |
MasterofNL: Don't mind these Nairaland girlfriends of ours commenting in this thread,, they have forgotten that action speaks louder than voice. It's more painful to a woman if her man decided not to pay her attention, and as well neglecting her. The first lady to comment and her cohort knows this very well and are afraid of being in that state of abandonment and neglect. Op, ride on joor. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by visiondee(m): 2:41pm On May 13, 2016 |
@op, the home built on such will surely collapse, and there is tendency of you chasing her to other man’s arm. Sometimes your wife might act as a baby, that is when you need to show the father side of yours. Never stop to eat her food even saucy or full of salt, don't ever starve her with sex. Call her and speak with her in a loving way, tell her of what she did and you dont like, if she doesnt apologise, the only thing is for a very short period of time, reduce the verbal communication, ladies hate it, you will see your wife asking you what is wrong, that is when you should also talk to her again on what you don't like, and reason of being silent is because you don't want any escalation of the matter. Please never let outsider to know what is going on in your marriage, even keep your family in the dark on certain issue because its all about you and your wife. Make your home envy of others. What you give to your home especially your wife is what she will give back in manifold. Never make her feel insecure or not appreciated around you. Ladies food is appreciation and making them know that they made your world, showing affection all time. If you want to know what I'm talking about, ask my little heaven (Oluwadamilola... Loving her without wax) |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Oghumu1(m): 2:42pm On May 13, 2016 |
Hello Sir being married has nothing to do with this. Try and watch this film FIREPROOF it's a christain movie and teaches a lot about marriages. Tell her what the problem is, don't go out or else u might lose that which u don't value to someone else who will value it more than u do. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by lielbree: 2:42pm On May 13, 2016 |
My husband na master when it comes to 2 and 3 But he never rejects my food |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by ladyF(f): 2:42pm On May 13, 2016 |
basingstoke:I don't know if it's just me but not talking to someone you stay under the same roof with because you are upset is the height of childishness. I really cannot do it. What example is the OP going to be setting for his kids? It would be nice if he even says the "so great a sin" that his wife committed. He is just destroying his marriage with his own hands. If he doesn't have sex with her, someone else will. Imagine a woman saying she won't sleep with her husband on top say she dey vex? How smart!!! Wetin consign me sef. If he likes he should kukuma pack out of the house so the wife will know how "angry" he is. 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Henycymama(f): 2:42pm On May 13, 2016 |
so that will actually solve the issue by giving attitude?? lol, I bet some wives won't care...The best thing is communicate with each other and apologize to each other.. 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 2:42pm On May 13, 2016 |
If you do all those to my heartless wife,she won't even look at you two times.She flourishes in quarrels.That is even when she starts calling her boyfriends in front of you.Thinking of leaving her though-looking for a way to tell her! 1 Like |
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