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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Evina(f): 2:57pm On May 13, 2016 |
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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Megaideas(f): 2:57pm On May 13, 2016 |
My brother, don't do any of the above. If you've tried communication and it didn't work, try a combination of communication and prayer, meanwhile, spoil her with love. She will naturally respond positively. We women are so simple, even the seemingly complex and difficult. Also find out what you do that she does't like and stop doing it. Don't forrget to thank me later. God bless you. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by robinicule(m): 2:58pm On May 13, 2016 |
Evina:you are sense itself! 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Sayelabola(m): 2:58pm On May 13, 2016 |
captianfreeman: It works best. I have tried it several times. Go and experiment it too if you are married. I mean no insult, please. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by bayinq25(m): 2:59pm On May 13, 2016 |
ladyF:Spot on.Nigerians believe every form of silence is maturity but that's a big lie.how many issues have silence resolved without communication?Real people speak their minds. 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Worksunlimited: 2:59pm On May 13, 2016 |
Realhommie: If it's that bad.. Op should make a pass at one of her surest friends.. Sometimes wat a woman like dat really needs is some potent competition to reset her brain to factory setting.. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Crownadex(m): 3:00pm On May 13, 2016 |
I agreed wit OP |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by MasterofNL: 3:02pm On May 13, 2016 |
Mynd44: I don't believe in that. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by sweetchi2411: 3:03pm On May 13, 2016 |
most men do these things but they are wrong. u expect a woman to know wat u feel all d time and u ignore her wen she is down. I have been married and from experience i will tell u dat not eating my food, witholding sex, etc will only push me farther from u. It might work for some women though, dont get me wrong, but telling me wat i did wrong works better for me. My friend's hubby does that and at d end of d day, it pushes them apart. She told me dat her hubby got mad at her cos she didnt prepare food on time for him to eat, he didnt even tell her he wanted food very early dat mornin cos normally he eats and she was busy preparing d kids for school dat mornin, as d kids were about leaving d house, she noticed his countenance and asked, instead of him to jst tell her, he ignored her. How did he expect her to know he was upset wit her and d reason. Its very simple to jst say wat u are feeling instead of putting ur wife through stress and guesses, if she refuses to apologise then u knw she isnt sorry. Marriage is not a bed of roses, but the man and the woman must work to make it beautiful. Some men demean thier wives, calls them all sorts of name- how can u call a wife u married, an idiot, my question is, 'is he not ashamed to have married an idiot'? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Primusinterpares(m): 3:03pm On May 13, 2016 |
MasterofNL:hey pals...in John Cena's voice- DON'T TRY THIS AT HOME. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Sayelabola(m): 3:04pm On May 13, 2016 |
Henycymama: I got you. If none would be quick to drive the men's point home, then each husband should know better what pains their wife the most. Everyone has a weak point.....capitalize on it. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by MasterofNL: 3:05pm On May 13, 2016 |
Evalily: You have communicated and communicated yet she keeps doing the same thing. What then can a man do when you don't want to become a wife beater ![]() |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Ekii(f): 3:06pm On May 13, 2016 |
Just imagine how a supposedly married man reasons. What happened to having a good dialogue? Must you condescend to that level as opposed to being the head of your home? Na you go tire last last 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Evina(f): 3:07pm On May 13, 2016 |
olayinkaj2: He is indeed. ![]() By God's Grace I will treat him good. Thanks. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Realhommie(m): 3:09pm On May 13, 2016 |
Worksunlimited:I can relate with the Op and i know for sure it's that bad though i'm not married.. Sometimes we should put ourselves in other people's shoes to try to understand what they're actually going through, i say this coz i'v been reading a lot of dumb comments up there. Someone is probably troubled by what's going through hence he's seeking for help/advice yet some people have the gods to insult, i wonder what's happened to our civility as humans first of. To ur comment ehn my guy, that one no go make sense at all Lol.. Dn't even think of it, it will do more harm than good. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Sayelabola(m): 3:09pm On May 13, 2016 |
goingape: Nna we are talking the same thing. When you reject the food she cooks...na action. When she demanded for sex and you refused... na action. When she demands your attention, and you pay it to her...all na action nau. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Evina(f): 3:10pm On May 13, 2016 |
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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by babyfaceafrica: 3:10pm On May 13, 2016 |
The best comments here are mostly from men and two ladies....lots of females are just sentimental..no logic or understanding....OP....this 3 points should be the last things you do..just talk to her and if she continues to do higihaga ,you change am for her,lots of women won't change unless you show them....but please don't cheat!!!! |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by rottenegg: 3:12pm On May 13, 2016 |
Just go dog her best friend...simple. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 3:12pm On May 13, 2016 |
I guess u are the only once that understand the op, before others lambasting him, what if the wife ignore all the talk or speech as people are saying, what are the alternative measures a man can use misscall247: 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 3:13pm On May 13, 2016 |
MasterofNL:If u've not married retired olosho ![]() Practicing d 3 above should b enof 4 her. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Sayelabola(m): 3:14pm On May 13, 2016 |
onosprince: E be like say this my brother done take Monkey-tail this afternoon. ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by DeRay98(m): 3:16pm On May 13, 2016 |
omooba969: All the ladies comments so far are wistful thinking until their brothers marry the type you described here, then they will see the devil in some of their folks and such wives put some God-fear husbands through. 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Worksunlimited: 3:17pm On May 13, 2016 |
Realhommie: Lolz.. Abeg no blame dem! Mehn must find a way to cool the economic tension wey dey ground at the moment.. Bruv.. If u deploy just the ryt tactfulness u would achieve the intended result.. Not saying op should date theIt's friend.. Just saying op should use the friend to get to the wife.. E possible say op wife fit don look op like say she don see am finish... So wat op needs to do is to switch, make she know say she no sabe anything... Most times, when a woman can predict you to the letter.. Believe u me, the flare in the relationship would die off... Thats why u have many guys been friendzoned.. if u take some time to observe some families.. uhe go see say the husband go just start quarrel with im wife for no reason... U wey dey seperate plus the wife no go understand the cause... Buh the man know as e dey go.. The minute a woman becomes too comfortable, the man own don over cook.. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by ajitoyo: 3:19pm On May 13, 2016 |
I support you 100% if talking to her is not working,it will never work...just ignore her till she come back to her senses...period. 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by ladyF(f): 3:20pm On May 13, 2016 |
basingstoke:He should figure out what works for him then. But those 3 points up there, abeg e no work. How long will he even keep up with the eating out and silent treatment? 1 week? 1 month? 1 year? 10 years? When e don tire, the problem is still waiting to be fixed. That is my point. Silence has never gotten anybody anywhere |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Sayelabola(m): 3:21pm On May 13, 2016 |
MrAboki: Your method is similar to the one used on Balak by Balaam in the bible. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Realhommie(m): 3:26pm On May 13, 2016 |
Worksunlimited:Hahahahahahahaha, you are funny and got lmao. But honestly you make sense, i gave it a thought too and i agree with you perhaps the Op needs to switch coz obviously he's become very predictable and that's the reason the wife is acting up forming James Bond, well i trust some men sha and wetin them fit do.. He needs to man up, stamp his authority as the head, let her know he's in charge (not suggesting violence or even aggression by any means).. Switch, change of tactics, show a different you @Op that she ain't never seen b4. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Kayodemichael(m): 3:27pm On May 13, 2016 |
Discuss it in bed, early morning after prayer, late at night before sleepin, after a gift for her or from her, ........discuss discuss discuss. Choose the right time to start the discussion. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by bidexmat(m): 3:28pm On May 13, 2016 |
Evina:seems like a soap opra though......hmmmmmm must be nice...... ![]() Evina:feels like a soap opra though......hmmmmmm must be nice...... 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by moshoodn(m): 3:30pm On May 13, 2016 |
buoye1:Thanks Buoye, you spoke my mind.... Most of the women nowadays always want things their way, if you correct them, na wahala, if you dont, na wahala.... |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Worksunlimited: 3:31pm On May 13, 2016 |
Realhommie: Lolz.. Exactly.. If op fit follow this routine.. The babe would have no choice but to over sit up... |
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