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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by hopeforcharles(m): 4:27pm On May 13, 2016

ladyF:
If you are a married man and you do any of these things, then sorry, you are not mature enough for marriage.

What happened to your mouth? Have you lost your speech organs? Communication is key!!!

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

You girl are a very mouthed / wicked mouth shocked

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by NLban: 4:27pm On May 13, 2016

sunkky83:

It's depends on how u say it, if u correct wt love, she will gladly do wat u want. There is no woman dat doesn't listen or enjoys doing wat their partner doesn't want.it all depends on how u express ur feelings to her. It is ur duty to help her do wat u want.

Am sorry in advance, if you will feel offended by my comment. Why is it that women always lay emphasis on "how you say it" why on the other end, Women are the ones that talk any how. Go visit some homes and see how these women treat 'house helps' that do most of the domestic work. How many women here appreciate them just once a month. All they do is to see how they can maltreat such house helps.

The worse of it all is that, it is this same type of women who come on online to teach men how to talk to their wives.

Hmmmmm if you value good talk this much then why don't you practice it with people that relate with you on a much more closer level.

Why can't most women relate to people the same
Am not referring to you though. Hope you don't misunderstand my point.

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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by NaijaOptimist: 4:28pm On May 13, 2016

omooba969:
There are wives who never learn nor listen. To even say sorry when they are wrong(that's if they even admit without arguing) is another ball game entirely.

Anytime you correct them, they feel you are attacking them so they get on the offensive even if the matter is not serious.

These ones are the insensitive type, inconsiderate & non-proactive.

I think you just explained what the op meant.

Now proffer solution.

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by ArchEnemy(m): 4:29pm On May 13, 2016

Afritop:
YOU MUST HAVE HAD A WONDERFUL WIFE AT HOME

I pray to ve one

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 4:29pm On May 13, 2016

ladyF:
If you are a married man and you do any of these things, then sorry, you are not mature enough for marriage.

What happened to your mouth? Have you lost your speech organs? Communication is key!!!

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

Havent you heard of 'Non Verbal Communication'

Action speaks louder than words. grin

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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 4:29pm On May 13, 2016

MasterofNL:

What is the best way to show your wife that you are not happy with her?

I mean when you are so offended at her.

I am thinking:

1. Stop eating her food. Go out and buy your own food and refuse to eat whatever she cooks.

2. Turn your back to her on the bed and don't make love to her.

3. Don't reply her when she talks to you or asks any question; just ignore her.

What you guys think?

Take away the Bentley you bought for her anniversary gift and replace it with a BMW 3 series.

Done.

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Simple92(f): 4:35pm On May 13, 2016

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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by hukslaw(m): 4:36pm On May 13, 2016

Are you building people's home or you try to destroy them

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by AishaCole: 4:36pm On May 13, 2016

Communication is key.. Ignoring her and not eating her food won't solve a damn thing. Whoever follows these dumb rules is immature and shouldn't be married in the first place.

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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by wacoj(m): 4:45pm On May 13, 2016

MasterofNL:

I am sure you are not married because if you were you would understand better.

Let married ones speak please.

My brother I am in this same shoe right now so i understand what you are saying very well.
Sometimes, I really find it difficult to understand what women want.

I am not a fan to men that hit ladies and I've never hit my wife BUT she is pushing me toooooooooooooo much.
I am so in need of a way to show her how I'm angry i am too.

I have talked to her many times but it seems like I am singing a worship song in d club.

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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by wacoj(m): 4:55pm On May 13, 2016

misreal:
hahahaahahah.no woman will actually want you to do any of the above oh.do you know y?women like attention too much.d day you ignore your wife is d day you begin to kill her.except she doesnt love u....

My brother you are not very correct.
I once tried to use this approach to register my annoyance to my wife, immediately i rejected the food, she just gave me a HEAVY hiss, very long one and took the food back to the kitchen. When i remembered what hunger might do to me later, I went for the food myself after all na my money.

Woman no go kill me.

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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by misreal(m): 4:58pm On May 13, 2016

wacoj:

My brother you are not very correct.
I once tried to use this approach to register my annoyance to my wife, immediately i rejected the food, she just gave me a HEAVY hiss, very long one and took the food back to the kitchen. When i remembered what hunger might do to me later, I went for the food myself after all na my money.

Woman no go kill me.

hhahaahahahaahah.ur wife is strong.lol..i salute your courage.

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Worksunlimited: 5:00pm On May 13, 2016

Realhommie:
Hopefully..

But honestly i hate it when couples have such issues, I know you cn't hv a perfect union but if couples strive towards perfection they'll catch excellence. Marriage is meant to be enjoyed and not endured, as such there's need for UNDERSTANDING, TRUST, COMMUNICATION, PATIENCE, FRIENDSHIP b4 even LOVE. Love will come naturally though it's not constant and of course not forgetting the GOD factor. I know say e no easy sha but God go help us.

Cn't wait to be married oooooo, i just dey imagine how e go be. I don dey happy ahead self eventhough i dn't know when for now.

It was so.. Until the west and its cohorts came along with their idealistic soap operas, telenovas, e.t.c

And since woman brain small pass worm own.. They swallow everything that comes their way..

Well.. When it comes to marriage.. I have come to reqlise say na to love your kids pass ur wife be the way forward...

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by fuckpoverty(m): 5:06pm On May 13, 2016

no 1 is wat me nd my frnds were arguyin yesterday...if meet d devil type of woman, she wud b happy cuz she wud nt even say a word 2 u....my guy na u go tire.....lets just pray nt 2 meet dat kind

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by thedio(m): 5:10pm On May 13, 2016

Those point u listed r just intro for a very sturbon wife av gone beyond that level to reset r brain

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by firstolalekan(m): 5:19pm On May 13, 2016

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ladyF:
If you are a married man and you do any of these things, then sorry, you are not mature enough for marriage.

What happened to your mouth? Have you lost your speech organs? Communication is key!!!

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

[/s]
Rubbish

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by latinoKingdom(m): 5:22pm On May 13, 2016

ladyF:

Lol. No sane lady ever wants to get married to a man who will go and eat out or not have se-x with her because of a misunderstanding. Conflict is inevitable in EVERY relationship.

You better fix your marriage with communication. Silence has never gotten anybody anywhere.

there are times in marriage when you have been complaining about something to her but she never changes what will you do? Keep talking? No you need to show her your pains

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by firstolalekan(m): 5:23pm On May 13, 2016

Evina:
When my husband is angry with me, he still eats food I cook, he still assists me with domestic ~~shores~~. Replies when I speak to him but doesn't necessarily initiate conversation.

When I see his acts of kindness towards me inspite of being angry with me, I feel so sorry and sad and angry at myself for ever offending such a wonderful man.

It is chores and not shores wink

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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by byvan03: 5:23pm On May 13, 2016

Ridiculous and you think this will bother every woman? You have no idea, seems you think cooking is hobby for women cheesy

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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by thedio(m): 5:24pm On May 13, 2016

[quote author=wacoj post=45589524]

My brother you are not very correct.
I once tried to use this approach to register my annoyance to my wife, immediately i rejected the food, she just gave me a HEAVY hiss, very long one and took the food back to the kitchen. When i remembered what hunger might do to me later, I went for the food myself after all na my money.

Woman no go kill me.[/quote
guy u lik food oh but beliv me that hiss was not frm d bottom of her heart it was a trick

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by MasterofNL: 5:25pm On May 13, 2016

wacoj:

My brother I am in this same shoe right now so i understand what you are saying very well.
Sometimes, I really find it difficult to understand what women want.

I am not a fan to men that hit ladies and I've never hit my wife BUT she is pushing me toooooooooooooo much.
I am so in need of a way to show her how I'm angry i am too.

I have talked to her many times but it seems like I am singing a worship song in d club.

Most of all these people writing here don't understand.

I have sworn NEVER to raise my hand on my wife.

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by firstolalekan(m): 5:27pm On May 13, 2016

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repogirl:
Dear OP,

Having been married for some years now, I can tell you that you might think you are upsetting her by acting like you stated up there but I can assure you that you will end up shooting yourself in the foot.

If you are upset with your wife, talk to her about it. It won't unman you.

Acting like a sulky kid will do you no favours.

[/s]
You're inexperienced...

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by firstolalekan(m): 5:29pm On May 13, 2016

JustHere2Observ:
Lmao. If you are not eating my food cos you are angry. Na hunger never catch you. And if you buy food outside, its gives me more free time.

If you don't have sex because you are angry, it because you are not Hot. Me sef need the break

If you don't talk to me, no wahala. Silence is golden.

I just pity you...
Na your type go kneel down beg husband for 3 days...
Keep forming Rubbish

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by byvan03: 5:29pm On May 13, 2016

wacoj:

My brother you are not very correct.
I once tried to use this approach to register my annoyance to my wife, immediately i rejected the food, she just gave me a HEAVY hiss, very long one and took the food back to the kitchen. When i remembered what hunger might do to me later, I went for the food myself after all na my money.

Woman no go kill me.

Please I need to buy her a bottle of smirnoff ice. she earned it. Nah who get time dey fry garri. I like this woman, why will a woman suffer to cook and still beg you to eat? cheesy

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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by cooluc(f): 5:32pm On May 13, 2016

Evina:
When my husband is angry with me, he still eats food I cook, he still assists me with domestic shores. Replies when I speak to him but doesn't necessarily initiate conversation.

When I see his acts of kindness towards me inspite of being angry with me, I feel so sorry and sad and angry at myself for ever offending such a wonderful man.

My dear that's just it...silence will create room for evil thoughts that will be acted upon later..communication is the key.

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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Dollyak(f): 5:33pm On May 13, 2016

MasterofNL:

What is the best way to show your wife that you are not happy with her?

I mean when you are so offended at her.

I am thinking:

1. Stop eating her food. Go out and buy your own food and refuse to eat whatever she cooks.

2. Turn your back to her on the bed and don't make love to her.

3. Don't reply her when she talks to you or asks any question; just ignore her.

What you guys think?

That's the not the appropriate way to treat your love one though. Like LadyF said, communication is more important than playing mind games.

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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Dollyak(f): 5:34pm On May 13, 2016

MasterofNL:

Most of all these people writing here don't understand.

I have sworn NEVER to raise my hand on my wife.

You need to communicate with her still. If she doesn't listen then come back to us for the next course of action tongue

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:35pm On May 13, 2016

firstolalekan:

I just pity you...
Na your type go kneel down beg husband for 3 days...
Keep forming Rubbish

Beg on top wetin? He be God? Please you men are not the end of the world, there are better things than men out there.

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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:38pm On May 13, 2016

firstolalekan:

It is chores and not shores

Lol English teacher.

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Missmossy(f): 5:38pm On May 13, 2016

What a thread, God please don't give me an immature man for a husband so I won't run mad grin

Smh @ the comments here,so so childish and uncalled for.

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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by camy007(f): 5:39pm On May 13, 2016

ladyF:

Lol. No sane lady ever wants to get married to a man who will go and eat out or not have se-x with her because of a misunderstanding. Conflict is inevitable in EVERY relationship.

You better fix your marriage with communication. Silence has never gotten anybody anywhere.

Dis is so true.... Communication is a key to solving misunderstanding

Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by justiz5(m): 5:41pm On May 13, 2016

MasterofNL:

What is the best way to show your wife that you are not happy with her?

I mean when you are so offended at her.

I am thinking:

1. Stop eating her food. Go out and buy your own food and refuse to eat whatever she cooks.

2. Turn your back to her on the bed and don't make love to her.

3. Don't reply her when she talks to you or asks any question; just ignore her.

What you guys think?

If am angry with you, I can't just eat your food period. I don't have to pretend about that.

If any body sees it as imaturity good still. Why can't your partner be matured enough to stop doing silly things all the time

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