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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by byvan03: 5:41pm On May 13, 2016 |
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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by laikas: 5:49pm On May 13, 2016 |
onosprince:oh my gudness,u are one hel of a crazy dude. common,i luv your style |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 5:49pm On May 13, 2016 |
Evina: I think I will do exactly as ur husband, but does he make love to you when he is angry? Or do u use sex to bribe him? |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by babapressy(m): 5:52pm On May 13, 2016 |
Lol. As 4me weda we (me & my wife) hav issues or not am use to turning my back on her wen we are sleeping. I grew up wt dis kind of behaviour. I cnt even sleep wit any1 on same bed b4, bt nw dat am married i dnt av a choice bt sum times i wil disappear to d ground and sleep bt if my wife wake up and catch me eeh, no b smal wahalaa oo. She go halaa con cary face 4me 4sum time, bt me go shaparly appologise b4 e go cos wahala way go involve village chiefs. 3 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by thedio(m): 6:00pm On May 13, 2016 |
Barigaboy:guy u r highly experienced 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by christiscomin: 6:01pm On May 13, 2016 |
MasterofNL:You are also not married, you cant really understand. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Ray360: 6:01pm On May 13, 2016 |
coolviv:lol, Are you married? |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by phenase(m): 6:03pm On May 13, 2016 |
I frantically settles it immediately. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by hardcorevin(m): 6:04pm On May 13, 2016 |
ladyF: bia Lady F,u tink say na every matter u fit put mouth,U are single naaa,let those married like the man said talk naaaaa 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Ray360: 6:05pm On May 13, 2016 |
JustHere2Observ:I am not married, But I have lived with a married couple in which the wife nags a lot. most times, The man just loses appetite whenever she nags over inconsequential issues that could be settled amicably. understand how a man's mind works. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Tolexander: 6:05pm On May 13, 2016 |
Missmossy:your prayer is answered! ![]() |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by MurphyInc(m): 6:05pm On May 13, 2016 |
You are correct my man but my own method is quite different. Some women/wives needed to be put in their places cos some of them are disrespectful to their husbands which very annoying even frustrating. My wife is a very high tempered kind of woman. any time she did something wrong and I try to correct her, she would call me MR I TOO KNOW.anytime i talked to her in a gentle manner but she'll rather flare up and talk back in a very harsh tone.so after many failed times of trying to communicating with her that yielded nothing I took a funny step. Guess what ?I packed some of my clothes and moved out of the house for 3 days leaving her with the kids.I dropped my ATM card on the table before I left that morning so their wunt be any financial complain.I moved to my father's house and from there I go to work daily. You can't imagine the kind of messages she Sent me on my phone cos I refused to pick her calls.I received sweet and very wonderful messages(she said she missed me and she's been sick since I left home) from the second day I left the house but I didn't allow that to move me a bit. The third day, I started receiving calls from her mother (her father is late), brothers, her sister's husband and friends.They pleaded on her behalf and I told them to talk to her that I'm not the problem, she is. I moved back in the third day and she was happy and cooked my favourite soup but I refused to eat it until she started crying. It really worked for me but it might not work for you. NB: Forgive me about my grammatical error not easy to type from phone. .............. Contact me for Computer Sales and Repair, Phones Sales and Repair, Networking, UPS and Inverters etc 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by coolviv: 6:07pm On May 13, 2016 |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Lexusgs430: 6:09pm On May 13, 2016 |
MasterofNL: What is wrong with telling her the issues you are not happy with or about? 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by hardcorevin(m): 6:09pm On May 13, 2016 |
MasterofNL: this man just dey attack any body...shuuuuuuu 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Ray360: 6:10pm On May 13, 2016 |
coolviv:Lol. That's nice to know. has there ever been a scenario where a quarrel ensued and he refuses to honour the dining table? how did you manage it? God bless your marriage, Mrs. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Missmossy(f): 6:12pm On May 13, 2016 |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by timmy7(m): 6:12pm On May 13, 2016 |
omooba969:...and these are the set of wives I think the op is trying to find out how to manage, only that he just went straight to the point giving impression about managing wives generally. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nancy2016: 6:13pm On May 13, 2016 |
MurphyInc: This is a terrible approach and some people will even call it emotional abuse. What you have achieved is a woman who will bow down to your desires. Did you ever ask her own opinion? Do you think the cause of your disagreement has been resolved? All you have just done is manipulated her into submission. It is due to these attitudes that we have a lot of oppressed and unhappy married women in Africa. 4 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by guardian47: 6:17pm On May 13, 2016 |
Marriage is a Universal school where you learn about different phase of union and companionship. If your wife wronged you and you didn't eat her food, she becomes worried if she does not know she has done wrong, but if she knew, she won't cook yet but stylishly come to ask you what you want to eat, this is her way of getting you to let out your anger and thereafter apologise (that's if she was raised to be submissive to her husband). By the way get to know your mother in law before proposing to that lady, also take note of that young lady's behaviour and response to argument before walking the aisle with her. So if she does this, let her know she has wronged you and am so a well trained young woman will apologies. Thereafter, let her prepare your meal and enjoy the food together. For more on relationship and marriage talks let's chat on bbm 565F406D |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by coolviv: 6:19pm On May 13, 2016 |
Ray360: Its Mr and my head no too correct but my love for my spouse no be here. So I no dey allow vex pass 2 days...I settle sharp sharp whether I am right or wrong is quite irrelevant. 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by abdabass: 6:25pm On May 13, 2016 |
Helo my bro., This may not work if you meet a sturborn wife. The solution that work in one family migth not be in another, study your spouse and know what will be better at managing your home. Above communication and God's guardian are key things in all relationship. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Ray360: 6:25pm On May 13, 2016 |
coolviv:Ohh.. sorry. lol. that's great. please, don't ever lay a finger on her o. let the love keep growing. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by guardian47: 6:26pm On May 13, 2016 |
[quote author=MurphyInc post=45591461]You are correct my man but my own method is quite different. Some women/wives needed to be put in their places cos some of them are disrespectful to their husbands which very annoying even frustrating. My wife is a very high tempered kind of woman. any time she did something wrong and I try to correct her, she would call me MR I TOO KNOW.anytime i talked to her in a gentle manner but she'll rather flare up and talk back in a very harsh tone.so after many failed times of trying to communicating with her that yielded nothing I took a funny step. Guess what ?I packed some of my clothes and moved out of the house for 3 days leaving her with the kids.I dropped my ATM card on the table before I left that morning so their wunt be any financial complain.I moved to my father's house and from there I go to work daily. You can't imagine the kind of messages she Sent me on my phone cos I refused to pick her calls.I received sweet and very wonderful messages(she said she missed me and she's been sick since I left home) from the second day I left the house but I didn't allow that to move me a bit. The third day, I started receiving calls from her mother (her father is late), brothers, her sister's husband and friends.They pleaded on her behalf and I told them to talk to her that I'm not the problem, she is. I moved back in the third day and she was happy and cooked my favourite soup but I refused to eat it until she started crying. It really worked for me but it might not work for you. My brother, this your method is some day going to make your wife develop thick skin and when that happens you are going to loose her love, Trust and probably her soft side finally. Fine other ways to correct the her but never leave her alone at home, you can be there and still make her miss you by not responding when she tries to converse with you but make sure this doesn't go on till the next morning, either she apologies or not, you be the man that you are and hit the nail on it head, settle it that night and give both of you a chanceto sleep peacefully. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by HAVEIT(m): 6:27pm On May 13, 2016 |
There is know how you will not step on each other's toes.In my case pls i advice dont try those first 2 points,like avoiding to eat her food and not also making love to her.They can hurt you marriage a lot can result to something else. What i do to my wife i just keep silence and dont answer her when she is talking.After a while she will now ask me if i am keeping malice with her, i will now answer her no and also tell her what she did to me that got me angry we will now settle and laugh over everything. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by banio: 6:41pm On May 13, 2016 |
Wedding ring is more deadly than boxing ring. Most people are saying conversation is the best. I support. But personally, I have been asking my wife a simple question since January this year, and I have not got an answer. Simple question " What did You do with the money I gave U to keep? " Her answer is business. "What kind of business?". No answer up till now 13th day of May. Marriage is complex |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by talk2alabama: 6:42pm On May 13, 2016 |
ladyF:ladyF the op said let married people speak ![]() |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by HAVEIT(m): 6:56pm On May 13, 2016 |
LadyF please understand marriage is not they way you are looking at it,it take understanding and maturity to have a good marriage.Pulsing communication does not mind you are not going to continue communication.Is only a pointer to there is an issues we need to resolve.No any other way is most suited then this. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by misspicy(f): 7:08pm On May 13, 2016 |
MasterofNL:there different types of communication bro. your last line already shows that your form of communication is barking orders. women needs to be treated with respect and love. if your wife is someone like me,trust me all the immature things your wrote there will not bulge me....am that stubborn ![]() I advice you treat her nice,take her out,apologize even if you are not wrong,then make your point known if you keep on barking orders at a woman in the name of communication,you will end up with a deviant or worst still a wife that fears you,trust me,your children don't want to see their mummy fearing their dad 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by HAVEIT(m): 7:10pm On May 13, 2016 |
If talking to her one on one does not make her change.Some woman will hardly tell you sorry.God help us. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by MurphyInc(m): 7:11pm On May 13, 2016 |
Nancy2016: Wow! you don't get it at all and I'm very sure you are still very single.let me tell u something, we've been married for 8 years and she been like that since we started having babies and you expect me to continue my life with her like that till she turn me to a sadist or till I got frustrated and hang myself ? Imagine a wife calling her husband all sought of names over an argument.a woman that will categorically tell me that she knows I can't beat her cos I know the repercussion. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 7:23pm On May 13, 2016 |
ladyF:She's back and better i guess ![]() |
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