Gracious10:
Op, u never jam woman who no send.

@ no 1.. pls don't eat o, in fact don't eat at all.
The food is not even enough for me not to talk of someone who's too childish to reject food. Actually pls buy food outside, I will eat the one at home and also eat the one you bought. I am breastfeeding and always hungry so refusing food works for me.

@ 2. After 3 kids, I actually very whole heartedly hate intimacy. So pls my body will love such decision.

@3. I am always a quite person and love to read so ignoring me will be awesome as I have tons of books and movies to take care of.

U Neva jam people who have other priorities than mud water face. Make ur bed, lie on it.

onosprince:
Strangle her, while she is choking force ur dik in her mouth and make sure u cum inside her mouth... she will get the message, thank me after you return from jail.

Evina:
When my husband is angry with me, he still eats food I cook, he still assists me with domestic shores. Replies when I speak to him but doesn't necessarily initiate conversation.

When I see his acts of kindness towards me inspite of being angry with me, I feel so sorry and sad and angry at myself for ever offending such a wonderful man.

Barigaboy:
It seems u r her getting d message wrong. Women r different from Women. Immediately u r annoyed with some women they try to take correction cos they don't want u to be annoyed. Some Women r so simple and obedient that when u say stop or I don't like dis, they will never let that act occur again n that's tru love. Men cherish this type of women n wanna be there for then cos tru love is scarce like fuel while some r supersonic stubborn. They wouldn't listen to u until they spoil things. They don't want correction except their husband want trouble. They have friends in all the street n still make friends, get involve in every gossip. Now tell me how to talk to this kind woman. I no u will say God will change her but before God change her. U no how many people head she go don break. Some men r not Woman beater from d scratch some women teach them. Imagine a woman slapped d husband in d public becos he didn't beat d Okada man for insulting her n anytime she causes trouble she calls d husband to come n fight.

MasterofNL:

You're not married either so you can't really understand.

coolviv:


Verily verily I say unto you, NA LIE OOOO....Not today's women. Dem go dey form say dem no happy but for their mind na more time to watch Telemundo.

ladyF:
If you are a married man and you do any of these things, then sorry, you are not mature enough for marriage.

What happened to your mouth? Have you lost your speech organs? Communication is key!!!

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JustHere2Observ:


And him acting all childish shows he loves me? Who love don epp?

Missmossy:
What a thread, God please don't give me an immature man for a husband so I won't run mad



Smh @ the comments here,so so childish and uncalled for.

Ray360:

lol, Are you married?

MasterofNL:

What is the best way to show your wife that you are not happy with her?

I mean when you are so offended at her.

I am thinking:

1. Stop eating her food. Go out and buy your own food and refuse to eat whatever she cooks.

2. Turn your back to her on the bed and don't make love to her.

3. Don't reply her when she talks to you or asks any question; just ignore her.

What you guys think?

MasterofNL:


You're not married either so you can't really understand.

coolviv:


By the grace of God...Yes.

Tolexander:
Oluwayemisi, your prayer is answered!

omooba969:
There are wives who never learn nor listen. To even say sorry when they are wrong(that's if they even admit without arguing) is another ball game entirely.

Anytime you correct them, they feel you are attacking them so they get on the offensive even if the matter is not serious.

These ones are the insensitive type, inconsiderate & non-proactive.

MurphyInc:
You are correct my man but my own method is quite different.

Some women/wives need to be put in their places cos some of them are disrespectful to their husbands which very annoying even frustrating.

You can't imagine the kind of messages she sent me on my phone cos I refused to pick her calls.I received sweet and very wonderful messages(she said she missed me and she's been sick since I left home) from the second day I left the house but I didn't allow that to move me a bit.

The third day, I started receiving calls from her mother (her father is late), brothers, her sister's husband and friends.They pleaded on her behalf and I told them to talk to her that I'm not the problem, she is.

[b]I moved back in the third day and she was happy and cooked my favourite soup but I refused to eat it until she started crying.

Ray360:

Lol. That's nice to know. has there ever been a scenario where a quarrel ensued and he refuses to honour the dining table? how did you manage it? God bless your marriage, Mrs.

coolviv:


Its Mr and my head no too correct but my love for my spouse no be here. So I no dey allow vex pass 2 days...I settle sharp sharp whether I am right or wrong is quite irrelevant.

ladyF:

Lol. No sane lady ever wants to get married to a man who will go and eat out or not have se-x with her because of a misunderstanding. Conflict is inevitable in EVERY relationship.

You better fix your marriage with communication. Silence has never gotten anybody anywhere.

MasterofNL:


You have communicated and communicated yet she keeps doing the same thing.

What then can a man do when you don't want to become a wife beater

there different types of communication bro.

your last line already shows that your form of communication is barking orders.


women needs to be treated with respect and love.

if your wife is someone like me,trust me all the immature things your wrote there will not bulge me....am that stubborn

I advice you treat her nice,take her out,apologize even if you are not wrong,then make your point known

if you keep on barking orders at a woman in the name of communication,you will end up with a deviant or worst still a wife that fears you,trust me,your children don't want to see their mummy fearing their dad

Nancy2016:


This is a terrible approach and some people will even call it emotional abuse. What you have achieved is a woman who will bow down to your desires. Did you ever ask her own opinion? Do you think the cause of your disagreement has been resolved? All you have just done is manipulated her into submission. It is due to these attitudes that we have a lot of oppressed and unhappy married women in Africa.

ladyF:
If you are a married man and you do any of these things, then sorry, you are not mature enough for marriage.

What happened to your mouth? Have you lost your speech organs? Communication is key!!!

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