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I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by Natascha(f): 4:41pm On May 13, 2016 |
Hi Guys! I need advice. Should I end this relationship? Should I remove my belongings? Or should I just come and collect my things? Or must I just forget and move on? Last year, I moved to another part of the country. It was for work. In the North, we were building Solar Projects. I was renting a place of my own. The project was concluded November 2015. But we have another Project scheduled for later this year. My rent expired. And I decided not to renew since Im coming back home till we hear of the new developments. A very good female friend offered that i store my belongings at her place. Shes married with one kid. My age. She have a very big house. With plenty of space. She even said i can crash there when i come back. So i left all my belongings and stuff there. I trusted this woman. She was supporting me in all my hardships. Becoz i knew i must return. So theres no need for me to travel with all my stuff and then return with it again She told me that someone stole my parfume. Mind u, its not just any parfume, I have Gucci, Tommy Girl, Dior, Guess etc. And i left it in my toiletry bag. She said someone stole my stuff but she will buy it back. I dont believe her. I think she is the one using my expensive parfume='( Now, this is the part that led me to assume that she is the one who took my parfumes Last week, i went on whatsapp. I checked her profile photo. Low and behold. She was wearing my clothes and my leather thigh high boots!!!! Yes, without my knowledge. Its the stuff I left at her place. She did not even ask me. Chai! See this girl oooh. I was mad! I was so furious! My head was on fire. Chai! I asked her what is happening here? Why are you wearing my things? U see, i know my clothes very well. My taste in clothing is very different. I recognised my boots and clothes instantly when i saw that photo. She was with another girl. Her whatsap status was : " thanks for the nice weekend my beloved cousin. Next time its all on me" I asked her why are you wearing my things. She said no, she was only taking photos and posing for the camera!. How stupid does she think i am? Thunder fire her yansh! That status and photo showed that they were having a night out. Just not posing. Damnnnn. The location of the photo is not even close to her home Now I want to know, Am I being petty and childish? Am I overreacting and being dramatic? I feel like to end this friendship. I feel that, all these while, maybe shes wearing my other things, maybe shes using my stuff.... I need advice :-( 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by Ezemann(m): 4:45pm On May 13, 2016 |
I'm coming pls ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by ArchEnemy(m): 4:45pm On May 13, 2016 |
What kind of advise exactly Tell her to stop using your stuff if you r not cool with it or berra still find a way to move your stuffs away. Hard? 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by zeetyzin(m): 4:47pm On May 13, 2016 |
parfume?
**yawns** 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by tripplephi: 4:48pm On May 13, 2016 |
Lols and you just had to ask on Nairaland...... Get a life sis. This is not worth anyone's time. Advice is what we ask when we already know what we wanna do. Do what is in your mind. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by JustHere2Observ(f): 4:51pm On May 13, 2016 |
Girls and drama. Just go and pack your stuffs and dash her the ones she has worn 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by mysticgal(f): 4:51pm On May 13, 2016 |
Tell her op 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by PapaZeus(m): 4:52pm On May 13, 2016 |
Na so women lyf b. Just bear am cus even if u talk tire she go stil do wetin she wan do. So d next tym u dey go der carry ur property follow body comot 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by vicstar(m): 5:04pm On May 13, 2016 |
• • • • • Just wait dey are cûumming to tell u what to do ![]() 2 Likes
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Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by talk2alabama: 5:05pm On May 13, 2016 |
No be women again ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by queenoflafia(f): 5:11pm On May 13, 2016 |
Na every matter na him we go put mouth ![]() |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by Emman8(m): 5:17pm On May 13, 2016 |
Parfume? That spelling no be here o ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by JeffreyJamez(m): 5:19pm On May 13, 2016 |
many people have lost their sense of decision making.....Nairalanders are now special advisers. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by ivyy(f): 5:34pm On May 13, 2016 |
She's an olojukokoro and friends like that are dangerous. Why can't she just ask? She's a thief, she's envious and she's not to be trusted ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by Nobody: 6:44pm On May 13, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez: Even a whole oracle said this ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by pretydiva(f): 6:44pm On May 13, 2016 |
Just go and pack ur things, else she will misuse everything b4 u cm back 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by CaroLyner(f): 7:37pm On May 13, 2016 |
go get your stuffs from her crib. its that simple 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by Nobody: 7:39pm On May 13, 2016 |
You're whatever you feel; useless, worthless, violated or childish. |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by JeffreyJamez(m): 7:58pm On May 13, 2016 |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by Nobody: 8:02pm On May 13, 2016 |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by andysnoopy(m): 8:06pm On May 13, 2016 |
Natascha: I wan been comment but I. Comment my reserve. . ![]() |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by Nobody: 8:21pm On May 13, 2016 |
skarlett:Hello Miss, hmmm! |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by JeffreyJamez(m): 8:26pm On May 13, 2016 |
skarlett: Just look at this one now, asking this kind of question when the answer is very very glaring. |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by Nobody: 8:34pm On May 13, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez: She wants us to go and collect her parfum for her ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by Nobody: 8:36pm On May 13, 2016 |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by JeffreyJamez(m): 8:53pm On May 13, 2016 |
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Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by Nobody: 9:02pm On May 13, 2016 |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:08pm On May 13, 2016 |
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Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by Nobody: 10:21pm On May 13, 2016 |
skarlett:I'm sorry for replying late, I have been occupied. How is your night going? |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by Nobody: 10:25pm On May 13, 2016 |
KINGinVALHALA3: Fine, yours? |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by Nobody: 10:36pm On May 13, 2016 |
skarlett:Nice, mine? awesome. I was delighted when I clicked on your profile after coming online and noticed that you re still online. If its not gonna cause any harm to you, I will appreciate if you grant me an audience privately. We both know there re lot of enemies eyes on Nairaland, lol don't worry skarkett, my discuss with you is formal and nothing more. |
Re: I Need Advice: I Feel Violated. Should I End Things Or Am I Being Childish? by Nobody: 10:41pm On May 13, 2016 |
KINGinVALHALA3: Ok, send me a pm |
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