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Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 1:02pm On Apr 27, 2016 |
Greetings to u all. There is this issue that came up last week with my friends(6 guys,3 girls ) as we were discussing the issue of JOINT ACCOUNT WITH YOUR PARTNER , if it is right or wrong, reasonable or childish, emotional or economical.. MR A: well in the scripture it is good to ve joint account. Me: (cuts in like a lawyer)where in the scripture specifically? MR A: when God created Adam and eve they were both naked and were one, so having a joint account is a good thing. Sis eko: i agreed. MR P: (nodded like an agama lizard). BOBO: (angry like someone pour his 50 litres fuel away).. So u mean i will take permission from my wife before i spend my money, ok what if something happen tomorrow and we divorced or she kill me because of my money?joint account my foot. (this speech seems to move LADY T, who owns 3 houses and a big shop of lace). MR O: well u see when u have joint account with your partner, it allow u to be focus, plan ahead and cut unnecessary spending. It makes u mature , u know when u start having kids.. The more the expenses... The argument went on back and forth, the other two were neither for or against ... So i ask , will u ve a joint account with your partner? And if u cant, why? And if u have a joint account with your partner, any regrets? This is blackfire. Cc: lalastical. Cruzitas. Mrcork. Omenka. Les. Kashybaby. Unapapadeycraze.ishilove. Afrodiite.carolyner.mizcolly. Hate2u. Nduchuku. *if i no call ya name no vex* |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by analice107: 10:43pm On May 12, 2016 |
Blackfire:Where are you Blackfire, |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by CaroLyner(f): 7:12pm On May 13, 2016 |
i have no idea cause am still a student. |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by halfricanadian(f): 7:18pm On May 13, 2016 |
Joint account hmmmmmm I can do it nd not pass my boundary or withdrawing limit |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Nobody: 7:24pm On May 13, 2016 |
the last time we talked about this, my parents actually operate two accounts , one common account they both have access to and thrift into and the other private. There HV been questions on the former from either side but never a 'war' . Its all about maturity and trust between the players I think... |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 9:32pm On May 13, 2016 |
CaroLyner: are u not suppose to plan ahead for the future... Remember u wont remain mummy pikin for long. |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 9:37pm On May 13, 2016 |
halfricanadian: for u to even accept this joint account, u must ve accept it is good, what do u think is good about it? can your partner be committed ... They way u think u will be about it? *sorry for the jamb questions * |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 9:39pm On May 13, 2016 |
pinceprinz: do u think u can advice your friend to have a joint account from your experience? Can u personally oblige to it? |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by halfricanadian(f): 9:48pm On May 13, 2016 |
Blackfire: No they arent jamb questions To me i can cope with it cos actually im nt a money freak so even if my partner js not committed i can b bothered money issue will actually b d least reason i will fight with my partner its d last on d list for me |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by ronald4lif(m): 9:59pm On May 13, 2016 |
Couple having a joint account ain't bad provided they still operate individual accounts. But for me to make the joint account the primary one ain't possible. Mbanu. |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 10:00pm On May 13, 2016 |
halfricanadian: i ve seen where money separated mother and child, i ve also seen where two brothers from the same mother were boxing themselves to death because of money... Am sure u must ve heard stories about - ish like this. |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by halfricanadian(f): 10:02pm On May 13, 2016 |
Blackfire: Im nt talking bou ny body else but me Those are d people dat allowed money enslave them I dont get caught up in money Im nt a money freak i can empty my account for some one in need Pls nd pls i speak for mysf nt dose people dat allow money to rule them Thats why i cant marry someone just cos dey are rich nd treats me like trash or like im nt human damn the money for real Nothing rules me except God |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Nobody: 10:19pm On May 13, 2016 |
Blackfire: Yes, I will advice my friend to do it if he knows he can trust her and she can trust him with decision makings BUT most women of these age won't show their true color up until you've sealed the contract tho, so its hard to judge who she really is until you're say2yrs+ wedded... So, don't bring up the issue up until you're well into d marriage oh |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 10:25pm On May 13, 2016 |
pinceprinz: more like using style to dodge bullet... no be small thing o |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 10:29pm On May 13, 2016 |
halfricanadian: I never said u are the same with anyone.. am just drawing comparisons. |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Nobody: 10:31pm On May 13, 2016 |
Blackfire: |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 10:39pm On May 13, 2016 |
calling my friends. @paribookaddict what do u think about this joint account?. @annunaki. though am angry with u. can u do joint account with your future wife?. @gimakon..from business perspective what do think?. @Annalice107 will u do joint account with black fire,if things work out? |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by CaroLyner(f): 6:20am On May 14, 2016 |
Blackfire:of course i am..but the answer to your question would work itself out-when i get to that level |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 10:37am On May 14, 2016 |
CaroLyner: but don't u think you need to 've a mind set of what u are suppose to be getting into? |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by CaroLyner(f): 12:29pm On May 14, 2016 |
Blackfire:i do have.just not bothered with that right now |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by coolviv: 12:40pm On May 14, 2016 |
Joined wahala abeg. If two of you disagree on what to spend money on.....whose decision will override the other? |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 7:09pm On May 14, 2016 |
ronald4lif: u agree to something that it is good.. but u can't do it... am confused |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 7:14pm On May 14, 2016 |
coolviv: maybe they will set-up a court for that.... okwu ba nego |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by ronald4lif(m): 8:08pm On May 14, 2016 |
Blackfire: I'm saying it's not a bad idea but only if they will still operate separate accounts and not lump all their individual savings in same account. |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by analice107: 8:40pm On May 14, 2016 |
Blackfire:What. Why you want joint account with me nah? Mr Black free me ooo. Am not in support of a joint account. My reasons being that, the men's family seems to have the believe the woman is in the marriage to wreck their son, especially if he has small money. pls keep your money. When there's a need we shall handle it together. |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 4:39pm On May 16, 2016 |
analice107: don't you think your family is yours, and its survival depend on vital decisions, i hope u know that when u are in need of cash, most of the times that's when u know blood relation can be wicked. For example my parents knows that i don't take decisions rashly, and am not moved my external pressure, i know whatever affects me is my choice. ...believe me not all family are the same... *in the other thread u said i should be easy on the because of me part, i don't understand* |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 4:48pm On May 16, 2016 |
ronald4lif: u my friend deserve 50 litres of fuel |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 9:41am On May 18, 2016 |
analice107: iron lady... Even me no say with u nobody fit mess with my family. One man, i mean one lady battalion. |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Anas09: 6:21pm On May 20, 2016 |
Blackfire:She's a man and a woman at the same time? |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Anas09: 6:22pm On May 20, 2016 |
You have not been replying my emails, could it mean you have not recieved any? |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 5:43pm On May 21, 2016 |
Anas09: i ve got the new email... Blackfireib@gmail.com. Send all the former e mail. I *** u |
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Anas09: 5:46pm On May 21, 2016 |
[quote author=Blackfire post=45839255] i ve got the new email... Blackfireib@gmail.com. Send all the former e mail. I *** u [/quote Send me a mail with it |
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