last night was amazing @ a bubbling club in Abuja with my boss. she is tall robust and in her late 20s. I meet her at a social event where we shared contact and she help me get a job in her office. she not only help me get a job but back dated my employment letter and I resumed promoted.
all her kind gestures towards me made me develop a sense of indebtedness to her but have never been able to pay her back except that I make sure she never runs out of data on her phone.
on Thursday she I received a pm from her asking me if I had plans for Friday night. truth be told I don't have anyplans so I told her no. she said she would pick me up later at night.
I knew she needed a companion to one of her many events and don't want her friends to know she is a loner. so I saw it as an opportunity to give back to her

about 4pm as we approach close of business on Friday , a general mail was sent that we would be coming for Saturday duties and default is equal to suspension.

after the mail I felt we probably would not be going out anymore since there is work. she came by my office and drop her car key and told me to pick her and her friends up by 10pm. she picked a drop and left.
at exactly 10:05 I reached her estate and picked her and 2 of her friends as we head to wuse 2.
we went to have dinner and she slipped her ATM in my hand and whispered the code in my ears.

I paid like a boss and we went straight to wine bar not far away. we ordered drinks and she held on to me as if we have been dating for years. she occasionally kiss me on the cheek. I was being careful not to drink too much because am driving and I don't drink much. so I mixed my jack Daniels with coke. thereafter we drove to a club nearby. their blood alcohol was already above the legal limit. the three of them danced like crazy I just stayed calm forming boss in the VIP section. whenever her two friends come close to me, she jumps in the middle like she was jealous. we danced till about two am when I decided its time to go. they were so drunk if not for the help of the security who helped me bring them inside the car, I drove back into the estate and her two friends came down but she was fast asleep. I carried her inside and lay her gently on the bed. she held me and whisper in my ears stay with me tonight. I knew she was drunk and not in her right mind. I tuck her in her bed
spread and kissed her good night and dropped her car key beside her to enable her get to the office in the morning.

I took a drop home and sleep off immediately. I woke up 7:30 and was running late. I quickly prepared for work but got to the office 30min late. everyone was on time except me. I logged into my mail and saw a query from my boss.
at first I felt it was a kind of cover up eye service but she copies disciplinary and regional head in the mail that unroll 10am to reply why I came late and should not be suspended .
I immediately sent her PMs but she replied none. so I replied the query saying I took my sick sister to a vigil for healing and I over slept after the vigil.
she sent another mail instantly that she recommend that I be suspended for a week without pay with immediate effect.

seriously I was confused because I can't believe it was the same person I spent whole lastnight with.
I picked my bag and just went back home wondering if I was dreaming.

Boy, you fuсked up big time.

You should have stayed back and fuсked the life out of her.

I will refer you to one of the threads I opened when i had a somewhat similar experience , https://www.nairaland.com/2339067/love-boss
Of particular interest is a comment made by one ginawest.
You should have stayed the night with her dude and "chop the kpomo".
You know how women think? Guess you don't... She actually thinks you will go around telling other employees that she is cheap as she threw herself on you and you rejected her.

wetin concern me?enjoy your suspension

So? When has staying the night out with ones boss become a reasonable reason for coming to work late?

That's the reason behind the harshness of some bosses , they believed when they mingle with there subordinate, they lose there respect.

There's a great gap between business & pleasure. Sandastand!!

You had her all night, you didn't do her... Tomorrow morning, you think all would be ok? u dn enter yawa, u go pay penalty for not doing her

Eh! Story for the gods

Hausa adage


''Sabo da kaza bai hana yanka kazan ''



It doesn't stop your boss from coming to work early. That shouldn't stop you either.

All I can is dat u av to be very careful......and don't forget to give us update on how she called u to hang out wit her thru out d suspension period!

Modified
OP, on the otherhand, start submitting ur CV to oda companies for greater opportunities!

Story story . . .

The reason you were suspended was because you never stay over night, despite the fact that she wispered into your ear to stay with her.

if she was out at night and drinking with you, and she still woke up before you and got to work and still had time to write a query for you, then you should be able to come early. she is still your boss

pweetychyka:
All I can is dat u av to be very careful......and don't forget to give us update on how she called u to hang out wit her thru out d suspension period!

hmmmm you must be a prophetess

Kagarko:
Hausa adage


''Sabo da kaza bai hana yanka kazan ''



It doesn't stop your boss from coming to work early. That shouldn't stop you either.

lols @ Sabuwa da kaza bai hana yanka. Gaskiya ne kam

kekakuz:
hmmmm you must be a prophetess

Lol.... Trust me she gat plans!

send her a msg explaining exactly what happened the night before (maybe she doesnt remember due to the heavy drinking), and why you came late. if she doesnt understand then take this as a great lesson

kekakuz:
last night was amazing @ a bubbling club in Abuja with my boss. she is tall robust and in her late 20s. I meet her at a social event where we shared contact and she help me get a job in her office. she not only help me get a job but back dated my employment letter and I resumed promoted.
all her kind gestures towards me made me develop a sense of indebtedness to her but have never been able to pay her back except that I make sure she never runs out of data on her phone.
on Thursday she I received a pm from her asking me if I had plans for Friday night. truth be told I don't have anyplans so I told her no. she said she would pick me up later at night.
I knew she needed a companion to one of her many events and don't want her friends to know she is a loner. so I saw it as an opportunity to give back to her

about 4pm as we approach close of business on Friday , a general mail was sent that we would be coming for Saturday duties and default is equal to suspension.

after the mail I felt we probably would not be going out anymore since there is work. she came by my office and drop her car key and told me to pick her and her friends up by 10pm. she picked a drop and left.
at exactly 10:05 I reached her estate and picked her and 2 of her friends as we head to wuse 2.
we went to have dinner and she slipped her ATM in my hand and whispered the code in my ears.

I paid like a boss and we went straight to wine bar not far away. we ordered drinks and she held on to me as if we have been dating for years. she occasionally kiss me on the cheek. I was being careful not to drink too much because am driving and I don't drink much. so I mixed my jack Daniels with coke. thereafter we drove to a club nearby. their blood alcohol was already above the legal limit. the three of them danced like crazy I just stayed calm forming boss in the VIP section. whenever her two friends come close to me, she jumps in the middle like she was jealous. we danced till about two am when I decided its time to go. they were so drunk if not for the help of the security who helped me bring them inside the car, I drove back into the estate and her two friends came down but she was fast asleep. I carried her inside and lay her gently on the bed. she held me and whisper in my ears stay with me tonight. I knew she was drunk and not in her right mind. I tuck her in her bed
spread and kissed her good night and dropped her car key beside her to enable her get to the office in the morning.

I took a drop home and sleep off immediately. I woke up 7:30 and was running late. I quickly prepared for work but got to the office 30min late. everyone was on time except me. I logged into my mail and saw a query from my boss.
at first I felt it was a kind of cover up eye service but she copies disciplinary and regional head in the mail that unroll 10am to reply why I came late and should not be suspended .
I immediately sent her PMs but she replied none. so I replied the query saying I took my sick sister to a vigil for healing and I over slept after the vigil.
she sent another mail instantly that she recommend that I be suspended for a week without pay with immediate effect.

seriously I was confused because I can't believe it was the same person I spent whole lastnight with.
I picked my bag and just went back home wondering if I was dreaming.

You may have been sacked. Why should you get dirty with your boss? Are you crazy?

Start looking for another job and be utmost careful next time.

That is why she is a boss. Never mix business and pleasure for any reason. She clubbed and got drunk yet was early to work but you slept like you own the office

U said my mind

pweetychyka:
All I can is dat u av to be very careful......and don't forget to give us update on how she called u to hang out wit her thru out d suspension period!

Modified
OP, on the otherhand, start submitting ur CV to oda companies for greater opportunities!

DeeTus:
You may have been sacked. Why should you get dirty with your boss? Are you crazy?

Start looking for another job and be utmost careful next time.

no way. some people did not come so why would mine be worse

Fiction

Oma307:
U said my mind

Thanks darling!!!!!

@Op what you just experienced is a very MATURE handling of your fvck up... u got there 30mins late there HAD TO BE REPERCUSSIONS.
It's called people management... if she just querries you then what example does she set for future defaulters?

I honestly don't think it's personal, infact there's only one way to find out... if u guys do chat up normally then pm her with a funny smiley with stuff like how'd your day go?

Eventually start telling her how u got suspended by ur boss (make it a 3rd person illustration) then tell her you plan on getting some work(office work) done. Even while @ home and ask her if u could make her dinner this coming week.

Since you'd have more time on your hands this coming week.

If the story u posted is true then my guy it's nothing personal business is business... it's childish to think u above the law cos the boss is tripping 4 u

kekakuz:

no way. some people did not come so why would mine be worse

Not much say right now. Be wise. And if you really want to succeed in life, please do not look at other people.

kekakuz:
last night was amazing @ a bubbling club in Abuja with my boss. she is tall robust and in her late 20s. I meet her at a social event where we shared contact and she help me get a job in her office. she not only help me get a job but back dated my employment letter and I resumed promoted.
all her kind gestures towards me made me develop a sense of indebtedness to her but have never been able to pay her back except that I make sure she never runs out of data on her phone.
on Thursday she I received a pm from her asking me if I had plans for Friday night. truth be told I don't have anyplans so I told her no. she said she would pick me up later at night.
I knew she needed a companion to one of her many events and don't want her friends to know she is a loner. so I saw it as an opportunity to give back to her

about 4pm as we approach close of business on Friday , a general mail was sent that we would be coming for Saturday duties and default is equal to suspension.

after the mail I felt we probably would not be going out anymore since there is work. she came by my office and drop her car key and told me to pick her and her friends up by 10pm. she picked a drop and left.
at exactly 10:05 I reached her estate and picked her and 2 of her friends as we head to wuse 2.
we went to have dinner and she slipped her ATM in my hand and whispered the code in my ears.

I paid like a boss and we went straight to wine bar not far away. we ordered drinks and she held on to me as if we have been dating for years. she occasionally kiss me on the cheek. I was being careful not to drink too much because am driving and I don't drink much. so I mixed my jack Daniels with coke. thereafter we drove to a club nearby. their blood alcohol was already above the legal limit. the three of them danced like crazy I just stayed calm forming boss in the VIP section. whenever her two friends come close to me, she jumps in the middle like she was jealous. we danced till about two am when I decided its time to go. they were so drunk if not for the help of the security who helped me bring them inside the car, I drove back into the estate and her two friends came down but she was fast asleep. I carried her inside and lay her gently on the bed. she held me and whisper in my ears stay with me tonight. I knew she was drunk and not in her right mind. I tuck her in her bed
spread and kissed her good night and dropped her car key beside her to enable her get to the office in the morning.

I took a drop home and sleep off immediately. I woke up 7:30 and was running late. I quickly prepared for work but got to the office 30min late. everyone was on time except me. I logged into my mail and saw a query from my boss.
at first I felt it was a kind of cover up eye service but she copies disciplinary and regional head in the mail that unroll 10am to reply why I came late and should not be suspended .
I immediately sent her PMs but she replied none. so I replied the query saying I took my sick sister to a vigil for healing and I over slept after the vigil.
she sent another mail instantly that she recommend that I be suspended for a week without pay with immediate effect.

seriously I was confused because I can't believe it was the same person I spent whole lastnight with.
I picked my bag and just went back home wondering if I was dreaming.

I like the boss so well... He separates work from fun nd necessities from frivolities. Even if I'm dating a junior staff, I wil still serve her qerry if she fumbles. Work nd off-work deals shld b treated differentially

DeeTus:
You may have been sacked. Why should you get dirty with your boss? Are you crazy?

Start looking for another job and be utmost careful next time.

...yeah....you right. But, she really let her guards down. For goodness' sake, the guy could have had her if he weren't a gentleman . Please, don't socialise with that lady , she's bad news
Op might be lying though

donholy28:
Fake!!! but well composed!!,how can ur boss who had too much drinks at night and probably has a hangover wake up,get to office and compose a mail b4 u could wake up?

I GET YOUR POINT but i have this friend who can drink until he's unable to raise a cup to his mouth but he's always the first to wake up the next day. I guess the op is not used to keeping late nights.