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Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by kekakuz(m): 4:51pm On May 14, 2016 |
last night was amazing @ a bubbling club in Abuja with my boss. she is tall robust and in her late 20s. I meet her at a social event where we shared contact and she help me get a job in her office. she not only help me get a job but back dated my employment letter and I resumed promoted. all her kind gestures towards me made me develop a sense of indebtedness to her but have never been able to pay her back except that I make sure she never runs out of data on her phone. on Thursday she I received a pm from her asking me if I had plans for Friday night. truth be told I don't have anyplans so I told her no. she said she would pick me up later at night. I knew she needed a companion to one of her many events and don't want her friends to know she is a loner. so I saw it as an opportunity to give back to her about 4pm as we approach close of business on Friday , a general mail was sent that we would be coming for Saturday duties and default is equal to suspension. after the mail I felt we probably would not be going out anymore since there is work. she came by my office and drop her car key and told me to pick her and her friends up by 10pm. she picked a drop and left. at exactly 10:05 I reached her estate and picked her and 2 of her friends as we head to wuse 2. we went to have dinner and she slipped her ATM in my hand and whispered the code in my ears. I paid like a boss and we went straight to wine bar not far away. we ordered drinks and she held on to me as if we have been dating for years. she occasionally kiss me on the cheek. I was being careful not to drink too much because am driving and I don't drink much. so I mixed my jack Daniels with coke. thereafter we drove to a club nearby. their blood alcohol was already above the legal limit. the three of them danced like crazy I just stayed calm forming boss in the VIP section. whenever her two friends come close to me, she jumps in the middle like she was jealous. we danced till about two am when I decided its time to go. they were so drunk if not for the help of the security who helped me bring them inside the car, I drove back into the estate and her two friends came down but she was fast asleep. I carried her inside and lay her gently on the bed. she held me and whisper in my ears stay with me tonight. I knew she was drunk and not in her right mind. I tuck her in her bed spread and kissed her good night and dropped her car key beside her to enable her get to the office in the morning. I took a drop home and sleep off immediately. I woke up 7:30 and was running late. I quickly prepared for work but got to the office 30min late. everyone was on time except me. I logged into my mail and saw a query from my boss. at first I felt it was a kind of cover up eye service but she copies disciplinary and regional head in the mail that unroll 10am to reply why I came late and should not be suspended . I immediately sent her PMs but she replied none. so I replied the query saying I took my sick sister to a vigil for healing and I over slept after the vigil. she sent another mail instantly that she recommend that I be suspended for a week without pay with immediate effect. seriously I was confused because I can't believe it was the same person I spent whole lastnight with. I picked my bag and just went back home wondering if I was dreaming. 74 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by SafetyFirst(m): 4:56pm On May 14, 2016 |
Boy, you fuсked up big time. You should have stayed back and fuсked the life out of her. 546 Likes 43 Shares |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by saaedlee: 4:58pm On May 14, 2016 |
I will refer you to one of the threads I opened when i had a somewhat similar experience , https://www.nairaland.com/2339067/love-boss Of particular interest is a comment made by one ginawest. You should have stayed the night with her dude and "chop the kpomo". You know how women think? Guess you don't... She actually thinks you will go around telling other employees that she is cheap as she threw herself on you and you rejected her. 77 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by cruzita(f): 4:58pm On May 14, 2016 |
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Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by captianfreeman(m): 5:02pm On May 14, 2016 |
So? When has staying the night out with ones boss become a reasonable reason for coming to work late? That's the reason behind the harshness of some bosses , they believed when they mingle with there subordinate, they lose there respect. 152 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by BeeBeeOoh(m): 5:03pm On May 14, 2016 |
There's a great gap between business & pleasure. Sandastand!! 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by vicstar(m): 5:05pm On May 14, 2016 |
• • • • • More to come, make I Just chill ![]() 13 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by Kentura(m): 5:05pm On May 14, 2016 |
You had her all night, you didn't do her... Tomorrow morning, you think all would be ok? u dn enter yawa, u go pay penalty for not doing her 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by GeniusDavid(m): 5:07pm On May 14, 2016 |
Eh! Story for the gods 10 Likes |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by Kagarko(m): 5:08pm On May 14, 2016 |
Hausa adage ''Sabo da kaza bai hana yanka kazan '' It doesn't stop your boss from coming to work early. That shouldn't stop you either. 82 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by pweetychyka(f): 5:09pm On May 14, 2016 |
All I can is dat u av to be very careful......and don't forget to give us update on how she called u to hang out wit her thru out d suspension period! Modified OP, on the otherhand, start submitting ur CV to oda companies for greater opportunities! 87 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by UyiIredia(m): 5:09pm On May 14, 2016 |
Story story . . . 2 Likes |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by wunmi590(m): 5:12pm On May 14, 2016 |
The reason you were suspended was because you never stay over night, despite the fact that she wispered into your ear to stay with her. 7 Likes |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by donholy28(m): 5:14pm On May 14, 2016 |
Fake!!! but well composed!!,how can ur boss who had too much drinks at night and probably has a hangover wake up,get to office and compose a mail b4 u could wake up? 277 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by feran15(m): 5:19pm On May 14, 2016 |
if she was out at night and drinking with you, and she still woke up before you and got to work and still had time to write a query for you, then you should be able to come early. she is still your boss 38 Likes |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by kekakuz(m): 5:21pm On May 14, 2016 |
pweetychyka:hmmmm you must be a prophetess |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by Ahmed0336(m): 5:32pm On May 14, 2016 |
Kagarko:lols @ Sabuwa da kaza bai hana yanka. Gaskiya ne kam 3 Likes |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by ERCROSS(m): 5:33pm On May 14, 2016 |
In olamide's voice :: u r fucking with the devil...
watch out bro.. 2 Likes |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by pweetychyka(f): 5:54pm On May 14, 2016 |
kekakuz:Lol.... Trust me she gat plans! 3 Likes |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by MRBrownJ: 5:56pm On May 14, 2016 |
send her a msg explaining exactly what happened the night before (maybe she doesnt remember due to the heavy drinking), and why you came late. if she doesnt understand then take this as a great lesson 3 Likes |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by Nobody: 6:17pm On May 14, 2016 |
kekakuz:You may have been sacked. Why should you get dirty with your boss? Are you crazy? ![]() Start looking for another job and be utmost careful next time. 8 Likes |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by jmichlins(m): 6:18pm On May 14, 2016 |
That is why she is a boss. Never mix business and pleasure for any reason. She clubbed and got drunk yet was early to work but you slept like you own the office 20 Likes |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by Nobody: 6:43pm On May 14, 2016 |
U said my mind pweetychyka: |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by Nobody: 6:44pm On May 14, 2016 |
cool story ![]() |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by kekakuz(m): 6:53pm On May 14, 2016 |
DeeTus:no way. some people did not come so why would mine be worse |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by rman: 6:59pm On May 14, 2016 |
Fiction 2 Likes |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by pweetychyka(f): 7:04pm On May 14, 2016 |
Oma307:Thanks darling!!!!! |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by saintdennis(m): 8:11pm On May 14, 2016 |
@Op what you just experienced is a very MATURE handling of your fvck up... u got there 30mins late there HAD TO BE REPERCUSSIONS. It's called people management... if she just querries you then what example does she set for future defaulters? I honestly don't think it's personal, infact there's only one way to find out... if u guys do chat up normally then pm her with a funny smiley with stuff like how'd your day go? Eventually start telling her how u got suspended by ur boss (make it a 3rd person illustration) then tell her you plan on getting some work(office work) done. Even while @ home and ask her if u could make her dinner this coming week. Since you'd have more time on your hands this coming week. If the story u posted is true then my guy it's nothing personal business is business... it's childish to think u above the law cos the boss is tripping 4 u 80 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by Nobody: 8:23pm On May 14, 2016 |
kekakuz:Not much say right now. Be wise. And if you really want to succeed in life, please do not look at other people. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by nopretense: 8:34pm On May 14, 2016 |
kekakuz:I like the boss so well... He separates work from fun nd necessities from frivolities. Even if I'm dating a junior staff, I wil still serve her qerry if she fumbles. Work nd off-work deals shld b treated differentially 10 Likes |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by Nobody: 9:14pm On May 14, 2016 |
DeeTus:...yeah....you right. But, she really let her guards down. For goodness' sake, the guy could have had her if he weren't a gentleman ![]() ![]() ![]() Op might be lying though ![]() ![]() |
Re: Boss Serves Me A Query For Late Coming After We Both Spent The Night Out by Kondomatic(m): 10:05pm On May 14, 2016 |
donholy28:I GET YOUR POINT but i have this friend who can drink until he's unable to raise a cup to his mouth but he's always the first to wake up the next day. I guess the op is not used to keeping late nights. 20 Likes 1 Share |
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