Asaib:
Is it ur own assumption? My dear don't be so sure, i know of a friend who comes to tell me how he's now comparing his wife with his girlfriend, he now sees his girlfriend as a wife he never married, so it's not always play out as u say, it's 50-50 thing.

what yr friend failed to realize is that he had two to compare, if he had stayed with the wife alone, she would have remained d best in his eyes

I hope OP can apply the same stupi*d logic to himself when his wife/girlfriend cheats. Just know that if you are cheating on your partner. The chances the person knows is 90%. The chances they are also cheating is 80%. You dictate how respectable or respected you are by committing to a relationship.
When you feel you want to cheat, it may be time to let your partner go. Once you betray they relationship, the other person too will look outside so as not to lose out. If they bring diseases for you, you will be in regret at the end of the day. It pays to be loyal, and self control saves lives. If you can't commit to one person, you will never be able to. And you will keep giving excuses all your life. You better change your orientation and do to other's what you will like done to you.
Women cheat just as much as men. And women have way more cheating partners or suitors than men have. The moment you betray your relationship, you are in soup if the woman revenges. Just know you are sitting on a time bomb. As she can potentially cheat with over 10men.

KENNSAMMY:
i hate it when peepu begin to draw parallelsv
betw men and women.



Our creator refers to them women as weaker
vessels!!!


am i in anyway supportive of cheating atall


No!!!

Weaker could be relative. In some instances it may mean "better ".

I got broads in Kaduna
Twistin' dope, n drinkin' Fanta
Credit cards and the scammers
Hittin' off licks in yahoo yahoo

Cheating is wrong in all ramifications. Please u people should not encourage it.

I bet the man that infected his wife and new born baby with HIV/AIDs, was also going about justifying cheating, spending his money on concubines rather than his family, busy feeling like Boss.

The sad part was the woman and her baby died while he still lives. Women are suffering walahi.
I don't know how women are considered weaker, while being conditioned to endure physical, emotional, psychological pain all in the name of being married.

Avalon316:


Dont just say it. Try to cheat and see the consequences of women cheating in a man's world.

if there are no consequences when a man cheats, dont dare tell me bout consequences when a woman cheats.

my life, my business.
gone are those days when a man cheats and expects his wife to start fasting and praying for him to stop.....

yemsai:

And wat does having sex with many women do to a man?

nothing, or a little, it only shortens their lifespan.

germainediva:
How on earth do you expect a man not to cheat.....he's not a pastor.even pastor find it hard.......we all no cheating is bad just like lieing is bad etc but it's not easy either you believe it or not men can't stop cheating only responsible men take serious measures to keep it away from their partner

Not all men cheat!

Better erase such thought from your head , and pray God gives you a good and godfearing man.

Good men still exists.

KENNSAMMY:
i hate it when peepu begin to draw parallelsv
betw men and women.



Our creator refers to them women as weaker
vessels!!!


am i in anyway supportive of cheating atall


No!!!

So the stronger sex should be the one showing good examples. If you call yourself the head of your home then remember that the way you conduct yourself will influence your wife and childten
So keep cheating and your wives keep learning from you there are more and more married women cheating these days than ever and you lot will never catch your wives. They've become even better than the teachers (husbands)

HaneefahRN:
I have always wondered about these silly justifications. Then why marry then? Why not spend your life jumping from one pu.ssy to another, have the fullest of adventure and be hailed as Boss, while sparing another human being the hurt and emotional pain that comes with having a selfish partner with no respect for the marriage institution?

My thoughts exactly

cruzita:
where u there when God placed cheating in their DNA ?stop saying nonsense abeg .God created one man and one woman ,if he had wanted to make them polygamous in nature ,he would have created Adam ,eve and Evelyn




Even cheating doesn't stop the wife from loving her husband too,do you agree?

I was not also there wen God said is the responsibility of the man to labour for a woman. ...
u can't win both ways. ..
I married u from ur father's house like am buying a private jet...
I labour to keep u feed and comfortable. .
just a small souvenir for all my efforts. ..lol

dollyjoy:
A man who cheat on his wife doesn't deserve to live.

I was about to say sharrap there not cause I support a cheating guy but because your statement just comes out weird

But when I checked your profile

My mind changed ASAP

yemsai:

And wat does having sex with many women do to a man?

it makes him look refreshed.

Sempumping:






Babe chop knuckle

hahaha

i too like this topic

pepigeorge:


I was not also there wen God said is the responsibility of the man to labour for a woman. ...
u can't win both ways. ..
I married u from ur father's house like am buying a private jet...
I labour to keep u feed and comfortable. .
just a small souvenir for all my efforts. ..lol

Then don't get married! Is it compulsory ni. You'll be free to sleep around, bang as many women as you wish while sparing another person the pain and risks associated with having a philandering spouse. At least when you have STIs, you won't be infecting an innocent person.

And in this age, both spouses contribute to the family's finances and you marrying her doesn't make her a slave you can treat anyhow you like.

If you hate responsibility so much, don't get married and mess around as you wish, like those gfs they carry about don't demand more than they would ever give their family.

dollyjoy:
A man who cheat on his wife doesn't deserve to live.

Hmmmmmmm.. .... .
U sure about that?
What will you about women, who cheats on their husband?

See my gal left me because she cheated on me . Will u pray for her to die? Hmmmmmm, answer me asap.

pepigeorge:


I was not also there wen God said is the responsibility of the man to labour for a woman. ...
u can't win both ways. ..
I married u from ur father's house like am buying a private jet...
I labour to keep u feed and comfortable. .
just a small souvenir for all my efforts. ..lol

Both parties pay bills so both sexs now labour. For many couples both of them contribute money to pay rent and get an apartment that they move moved to so no one moving into anyone's house. For many families now ni more bride price. So all those things no longer apply

D desperation for money by our women makes cheating easy for men.d new generation of girls v made sex very easy. Thanks to internet. 80 percentage of girls on dis NL v slept with married men so dey shud shut Bleep up.pretenders

baby124:
I hope OP can apply the same stupi*d logic to himself when his wife/girlfriend cheats. Just know that if you are cheating on your partner. The chances the person knows is 90%. The chances they are also cheating is 80%. You dictate how respectable or respected you are by committing to a relationship.
When you feel you want to cheat, it may be time to let your partner go. Once you betray they relationship, the other person too will look outside so as not to lose out. If they bring diseases for you, you will be in regret at the end of the day. It pays to be loyal, and self control saves lives. If you can't commit to one person, you will never be able to. And you will keep giving excuses all your life. You better change your orientation and do to other's what you will like done to you.
Women cheat just as much as men. And women have way more cheating partners or suitors than men have. The moment you betray your relationship, you are in soup if the woman revenges. Just know you are sitting on a time bomb. As she can potentially cheat with over 10men.

Haba.... If the woman finds out the husband is cheating. .let her divorce. .
if the man catch u...our society will not hear that ur analogy. ..

CaroLyner:
who are the "all" ? speak for yourself madam.

stop denying na, she's just being truthful here

Guy no b lie shaaaa

pepigeorge:


Haba.... If the woman finds out the husband is cheating. .let her divorce. .
if the man catch u...our society will not hear that ur analogy. ..

Story story. Many women who cheated on their husbands and we're caught have gone on to remarry. And even remarry better, richer men

germainediva:
Same with women.......we all cheat but still love our partner......not really easy to have seex with one person all ur life.

no d only tin dat can make a woman cheat is
1. whn a woman is not satisfied sexauly or (financial) dis is a greedy woman.
2. whn their is no genuine love 4 her husband.
3. spiritual problems.

but wait o dem say Man dey cheat no b woman dem dey bleep,who b dose women gan sebi dem go b person gf or wife........e be lyk say plenty women sef dey bleep outside o.......just saying my Eba water don boil.

bebe2:




the thing pain u

kpele

as e pain ur mama when i yansh am abi?

dollyjoy:
A man who cheat on his wife doesn't deserve to live.

and d woman who cheats on her husband?

HaneefahRN:
I have always wondered about these silly justifications. [b]Then why marry then? [/b]Why not spend your life jumping from one pu.ssy to another, have the fullest of adventure and be hailed as Boss, while sparing another human being the hurt and emotional pain that comes with having a selfish partner with no respect for the marriage institution?

i wonder o
shameless men nowadays

HaneefahRN:



Then don't get married! Is it compulsory ni. You'll be free to sleep around, bang as many women as you wish while sparing another person the pain and risks associated with having a philandering spouse. At least when you have STIs, you won't be infecting an innocent person.

And in this age, both spouses contribute to the family's finances and you marrying her doesn't make her a slave you can treat anyhow you like.

If you hate responsibility so much, don't get married and mess around as you wish, like those gfs they carry about don't demand more than they would ever give their family.

Most at times, wot goes around comes around. ..these married men cheat their wives with unmarried gals...these same unmarried gals gets married one day. .. someone else has to sleep with their husband's too

germainediva:
Same with women.......we all cheat but still love our partner......not really easy to have seex with one person all ur life.

Since you Re a cheerful giver, can we please cheat together? I love you baby.

Nigerian men and hypocrisy you will always talk about how homosexuality is wrong because God created Adam and Eve (agreed) . So in the same token we can say cheating is wrong because when God created Adam he created one woman for him

onstelly:

Hope you will understand when we cheat too, that's is not absent of love but adventure

It's just an adventure as you just said.