Cheating also doesn't stop a woman from loving her husband

buksaylor001:



Man is naturally polygamous but women trying polyandry makes them prostitutes-

Is it in the Bible? Like a written law?

hardcorevin:


for people who believe in Love cos i dont!!..Infact love does nt exist to be frank........if u as a man changes ur mindset,u will never be angry say ur boo cheated on u....no be she go loose,no be she we dey dug borehole??....i tell u,having sex with may men makes a girl older than her actual age....stick with one man,it helps!!!!!!

Borehole?? How is it that if a woman sleeps with 10 men she is a borehole. but if she sleeps with one man 10 times, she is OK? Are the other things you said backed by biology or it's just you pulling facts out of your ass? Is like you guys who say such trash have zero knowledge about the physiology of a woman except where the breast is and how to put it in the hole. Do You even know the shape of the vagina or how elastic the walls are. What manner of viscosity is secreted and at what intervals? Nothing! absolutely nothing! it's just the rubbish that have been fed to you by your older brothers and friends. Ignorant, ill -informed rubbish.

please not all men cheat thank you don't categorise us in the same place.

buksaylor001:


A man can comfortably sleep around but a woman can't without shame.A man can sit in one place and count them as they pass but a woman can't -
It's a man's world -David,Solomon and others in the bible!

The only reason why it is so for a man and it is not so for a woman is because of the societal stigma not any kind of scientifically backed facts. Have you forgotten that David's children from his many wives almost led to his downfall. What about Solomon, God was so angry with him about his marrying many wives from different nations that he dedicate whole verses to condemning Solomon's. actions. Is that the kind of example you want to give to back your argument?

I also know you're not a Christian, probably your family is fetish so I won't discuss any further on this.

CaroLyner:
who are the "all" ? speak for yourself madam.

She is teasing the commenter above her and turning his statement back to him so that he will see how it feels to say that without shame.

LegalBaby

Flashh:

What nonsense talk is this?

A girl who isn't a virgin doesn't deserve a husband.

A women who was disflowered out of wedlock needs to be chased out of a man's house in shame.

Let's pick it from that angle.

I don't support the original point but Why should she not deserve a husband?

Youngpo413:
cheating doesn't stop men from loving their wives, no matter how big and soft the other ladies ass is, A real man still places his wife first in his heart.

Have you ever heard this phrase "actions speak louder than words".

Its just like a son who goes to school and manages to get somewhat average enough grades to keep his mother happy but still joins a gang. Of course he "loves" his mother that's why he gets good grades but do you think his mother will be happy that he is part of the gang and overlook that negative aspect.

The truth is, if he really loved his mother he would not hurt her. When someone who loves you, they dont go out their way to do things that hurt you, and then try to justify it by one way or the other.

The best way to know if something will hurt is by using the golden rule. Do into other as you want to be done yourself.
What if my wife does this thing to me, will I be happy?

germainediva:
Same with women.......we all cheat but still love our partner......not really easy to have seex with one person all ur life.

aunt gboju OK.woman vase dy different .ole laya pupo Ko so un to buru

Ladies must surely comment on such msg. See na them plenty pass with negative reply . My guy I feel your msg. you are directly talking to me. I love my wife but tide other girls is inevitable

ADAMUSALEH:


Big lie... I cheated on my wedding night it was a quicky... it doesn't mean my marriage is heading for the Rock. I lov my wife and I still cheat. Cheating makes her a part of variety and so I do not get tired of her.

I'm sure you will be so happy and proud seeing your daughter's husband cheat on her and even brag.about it.
I'm sure you will be so happy hearing another man brag about having sex with your wife on your wedding day and beyond.


If you have no shame you don't have to display it further on the internet. And learn to do unto others what you want done to you.

When you come down with STI please don't take it home to that poor woman continue sharing it with your varieties. It is only a matter of time before you face the consequences of your actions.

hardbody:


I guess its simply because the women wont let you keep jumping. They always want to drag you down the aisle and have you for keeps. Does that answer your question? I honestly do not want to respond to this thread.

Ok, I never knew women propose to themselves on the man's behalf or invite his family on his behalf then use rope to drag him to the aisle.
It is wanting to eat their cake and have it, they want to gallivant around while having a maid at home to care for their needs. Some will spend money on concubines outside while their family suffers. But sadly when the consequences of their actions come, the wife suffers for it too. In this age of HIV/AIDs, hepatitis and other STIs, some women come down with cervical cancer later in life as a result of having a cheat as a husband.

When he is sick and frail, all his concubines would disappear leaving the woman he has grossly disrespected to go about caring for him.

dollyjoy:
A man who cheat on his wife doesn't deserve to live.

so u will kill him?

amtaken:
I hate cheating but I believe this should go for both genders.

I strongly believe so too. So long as I don't catch you and I don't get caught.

HaneefahRN:


Ok, I never knew women propose to themselves on the man's behalf or invite his family on his behalf then use rope to drag him to the aisle.
It is wanting to eat their cake and have it, they want to gallivant around while having a maid at home to care for their needs. Some will spend money on concubines outside while their family suffers. But sadly when the consequences of their actions come, the wife suffers for it too. In this age of HIV/AIDs, hepatitis and other STIs, some women come down with cervical cancer later in life as a result of having a cheat as a husband.

When he is sick and frail, all his concubines would disappear leaving the woman he has grossly disrespected to go about caring for him.

This response has been taken out of context so I am afraid I won't respond further to it.

People can make excuse for their errors, cheating is bad..... Period.
If you love your spouse you cannot be cheating on him/her... True love is sanctity.

Not all men cheat my message to ladies when you are looking for a quality in a man you forget to Search for a man who is contented because a man who is contented can hardly cheat on you i see men that cheat as greedy mofos who don't know what they want or what they have they just want it all.. It's also good to find love because when you are inlove you can never get tired of your partner every lovemaking will seem like the first time.....

I said cheating is wrong and must be shunned. I didn't say hide and cheat. Bye.

hardbody:


I strongly believe so too. So long as I don't catch you and I don't get caught.

Even though what the OP wrote there is rubbish but there is some truth to it lets say biologically. A man does not have to love a woman to want to have sex with her but a woman must love a man before she has sex with him because women were wired that way. Most of the women who end up cheating 95% of time love their extra marital partner, that would pose a danger to Your marriage.

germainediva:
Same with women.......we all cheat but still love our partner......not really easy to have sex with one person all ur life.

Na wa o... This thread done reach dis morning? Una dey verse o

listen up fellas when it comes love, cheating it like a pollutant and it will definitely pollute the so called love no matter hw strong the bonds .Countless numbers of marriage have crashed due to infidelity.

MarieSucre:


The only reason why it is so for a man and it is not so for a woman is because of the societal stigma not any kind of scientifically backed facts. Have you forgotten that David's children from his many wives almost led to his downfall. What about Solomon, God was so angry with him about his marrying many wives from different nations that he dedicate whole verses to condemning Solomon's. actions. Is that the kind of example you want to give to back your argument?

I also know you're not a Christian, probably your family is fetish so I won't discuss any further on this.

Embrace of conventional common sense does not make you an atheist-

Most men don't like to face the truth.

For ever man that cheats there is a woman. How can you assume that men cheat more than women. Do men cheat with animals or other women?

Your so called side chick has other men cos she knows that you are a crossed cheque.

Do the math. If you are smart you will realize that cheating creates women with multiple partners.

The difference is. Women keep their relationships secret but men don't.

Well at some point i agree with ds dude... There was this guy then at my former resident who then was running on a no sex relationship even after being engaged... Now when d lady is nat around he does quick play... And when he was questioned he was"i cannot force her against her wish i respect her to much to do that" im on d high side i just have to help myself out....


Now most woman make cheating an option for their partner... May be d dude doesn't want to lose may be cause he can do or two things and he doesn't really find her exciting in bed... and besides most men like to like fresh blood atimes...

cruzita:
that's no prove





what about the woman of Samaria that slept with 5 men that weren't her husband ?she did it without shame .listen ,its a mans world in some part of Africa especially Nigeria but a free world in developed countries

Mind you, she didn't just sleep with 5 men. She married and left them one after another.
Secondly, if in Bible times polygamy was frowned at by God, a whole lot of his called would have married just one wives.
God even told David if he wanted another wife, he should have told him and he (God) would have given him. In fact God's favour attracts more women, don't crucify me yet, just read the Bible again.
I have been married for 8yrs and I haven't had sex with another woman for about 10yrs but I always have side chicks.
I still love my wife to the moon and back

bluestone2015:
Most men don't like to face the truth.

For ever man that cheats there is a woman. How can you assume that men cheat more than women. Do men cheat with animals or other women?

Your so called side chick has other men cos she knows that you are a crossed cheque.

Do the math. If you are smart you will realize that cheating creates women with multiple partners.

The difference is. Women keep their relationships secret but men don't.

You are good. Women are good at lying and careful cover ups but men hmm.... The sight of a woman demolishes every form of reasoning.

Praktikals:

It prolongs a mans life.

How old r u nww?

ezelos:
. See jamb question o! An answer you know already.

I dntt knw it...help me out

mamawin:
nothing, or a little, it only shortens their lifespan.

Ur head dey there

VanBommel:
it makes him look refreshed.

After looking refreshed nko? Wat happens nxt?

Seunnzy:

u look like ur from AAUA

Yes I am

God help this generation. What happens to faithfulness? Loyalty ND respect?
You can't say you love someone and then cheat on them. It's a lie.