cornoil:
OK ma, ur action respected my dear. Though I was only joking with you, no negative thought jst wanted to be of help.

optional1:




Tnx so much dear, so wat wil ur advice b? What should I do?






Gud morning sir,

cornoil:
Na person born soldier like us, give it a trial dear. You could find love anywhere. I also need ur number for the advice and also to be ur relationship counsellor.

ireneony:
I can't date a nigeria soldier... .
They are all flirt

3rdlegxxx:


Babe u sound like u've had a lot of experiences with them or u've heard a lot about them..... all flirt, babe that sounds serious

ireneony:
nope! I learn from people's experience

optional1:

I met a soldier man on Sunday, he actually helped me to get petrol because the queue at the station iwas very long and I have waited for 2hrs' the queue wasn't moving well so I walk up to d soldier who was controlling the queue and also making peace to reign. I begged him to help me out and indeed he did. But he didn't accept to help me without collecting my phone number.



Since on Sunday the soldier has been calling me and he stay on d phone for 10mins, yesterday the soldier pick up a courage and ask me to date him.






Please I need advice on what to do? What's the benefit of dating a soldier man?

Beside I don't what to date him but the way he sound if I say am not interested he will be hurt I don't want him to be hurt because he is a nice person.










Please don't mind my poor grammar.

Thank you!

optional1:

I met a soldier man on Sunday, he actually helped me to get petrol because the queue at the station iwas very long and I have waited for 2hrs' the queue wasn't moving well so I walk up to d soldier who was controlling the queue and also making peace to reign. I begged him to help me out and indeed he did. But he didn't accept to help me without collecting my phone number.



Since on Sunday the soldier has been calling me and he stay on d phone for 10mins, yesterday the soldier pick up a courage and ask me to date him.






Please I need advice on what to do? What's the benefit of dating a soldier man?

Beside I don't what to date him but the way he sound if I say am not interested he will be hurt I don't want him to be hurt because he is a nice person.










Please don't mind my poor grammar.

Thank you!

Phemostiga:
you are contesting 4 miss nairaland huh?tell me two reason y i should vote 4 u

optional1:


Lolz

Y u should vote 4 me;
Am beautiful jst as God made me no need to apply make-ups on my pretty face before u see my beauty.

Am a sincere nd honest pesin, God fearing nd intelligent wit God doing, a smart lil princess, am a footballer, a good cook.

I should say more.



Good morning.

Phemostiga:
9ice one

naijaboiy:
Must you pick his call every time he dials your number?

[b]Or does he know where you reside? [/b]

optional1:


Yes he does .

Phemostiga:
you are contesting 4 miss nairaland huh?tell me two reason y i should vote 4 u

optional1:


Lolz

Y u should vote 4 me;
Am beautiful jst as God made me no need to apply make-ups on my pretty face before u see my beauty.

Am a sincere nd honest pesin

God fearing nd intelligent wit God doing, a smart lil princess am a footballer, a good cook.

I should say more.



Good morning.

IamLEGEND1:
so all of a sudden you and refinery are being chased by soldiers?

What a wonderful coincidence that is.

MacJC:








True!



From ur posts/comments so far on ds thread, I agree u are sincere, but sincere 2 a fault!



Hmmmmm.... not 2 intelligent nr smart!
How else could u tell a stranger (whom u've not yet decided to date) ur residential address!
Giving him ur phone number is OK nd should have been the limit.
Well, I'll excuse u since u are still very young (20 as u said).

Just pray d dude is not a stalking psycho who doesn't take "no" 4 answer or else ur own don be!
Check ds to receive more sense:

https://www.nairaland.com/3077934/horror-rejected-suitor-butchers-mtn


https://www.nairaland.com/2989815/dismissed-soldier-kills-girlfriend-over




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Were u to be my sister, I'll say u have absolutely no biz going into a relationship as at now!
U should either be in school facing ur studies squarely or be engaged in n activity /training 2 develop ur skillz in order 2 be a self-reliant woman.
Men can promise (gullible) ladies like u heaven just to get in between ur legs!
Plz receive sense!

optional1 dear, I wish u well in ur future endeavors.

optional1:







Thanks Dear appreciate ur advice.



Y I said am intelligent and smart?

If I wasnt intelligent nd smart I wont have had the courage nd boldbess to approach a soldier who was even beating some pple in my presence yet I walk up to him nd tell him I wont a fuel, if I av waited on dat queue I wont av seen fuel to buy cos after 10min we left them the filling station stop selling.

It take courage nd boldness to do such, how many ladies can approach a guy not to talk of a soldier.
I had to sacrifice my phone number to get dat fuel.

I told him were I live but didnt give him any address but I know he can use my dad's car nd trace me dats Y I told him were I stay.


He has stop calling me but he still chat up wit me. I told him I cant start a relationship wit him, he was fine wit my answer, he wanted me to pay him a visit but never force me to come.

Luckly for me they have transfer him to another area so there is no more worries.

Thank you for caring am doing well in schooling a final year student of a Federal College of Education.

If I wasnt intelligent nd smart I would av fallen to his trap.



Thank you.

optional1:

I met a soldier man on Sunday, he actually helped me to get petrol because the queue at the station iwas very long and I have waited for 2hrs' the queue wasn't moving well so I walk up to d soldier who was controlling the queue and also making peace to reign. I begged him to help me out and indeed he did. But he didn't accept to help me without collecting my phone number.



Since on Sunday the soldier has been calling me and he stay on d phone for 10mins, yesterday the soldier pick up a courage and ask me to date him.






Please I need advice on what to do? What's the benefit of dating a soldier man?

Beside I don't what to date him but the way he sound if I say am not interested he will be hurt I don't want him to be hurt because he is a nice person.










Please don't mind my poor grammar.

Thank you!

MacJC:

Ok. Cool. I'm happy to know these.
Cheers!
Best of luck.

gallantsoldiers:
DATING A SOLIDIER IS NEVER A BAD THING.


ITS A GOOD THING.


SOME SOLDIERS ARE EMOTIONALLY WEAK.


AND AT SUCH,


D TENDS TO ACT TOUGH PHYSICALLY TO COVER THEIR DEFICIENCY EMOTIONALLY.


THEY SOMETIMES NEED LOVE BUT ARE REJECTED ON DAILY BASIS,


JUST AS Y'ALL ARE TELLING HER TO 'REJECT, REJECT'.


AND AS SUCH,


THEY BECOME VIOLENT.


ITS COMMON.


BUT THEY ARE CARING.


MAJORITY OF THESE SOLDIERS ARE SINGLE.


FOLLOW YOUR HEART OPTIONAL1,


IF YOU LOVE HIM,


MAKE HIM YOUR MAN.


BUT,


IF YOU DON'T,


CALMLY TELL HIM,


AND IT SHOULD BE IN A PUBLIC PLACE.


DNT EVER GO TO HIS PLACE,


EXCEPT U GUYS ARE DATING ALREADY.


OUR WEAKNESS AT TIMES IS ALWAYS OUR EMOTIONS.


WE DON'T HAVE TOTAL CONTROL OVER IT.

andyanders:


He will surely rake your asssssssssssssss cus they are noting but a moving truck as they deposit sand anywhere they park.

Also, be ready to get STD as they will never use condom on you. They will abandon you for a new babe. Be careful and look for normal people to date.

fullstreets:
Gals n recruits.

marshalcarter:











Xcept he looks so young nd charmin BTW....pls if u date him...just gimme ya kwantakt nd tell him u're my brother...so dat i can go lookin for trouble. E don teey I find trouble sha

optional1:






So na to find trouble u dy find ba, no worry I dy ya back jst waka go any check point whether soldier or police or road safety find trouble them run come tell me, will call my sweetheart my boo to come nd fight 4 u in d remaining fight.



Is dat ok by u?

IamLEGEND1:
so all of a sudden you and refinery are being chased by soldiers?

What a wonderful coincidence that is.

optional1:


20

manmade:
How is the soldier man and his rank,? then do u really like him?